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| 19 | MAKE MEN PAY.You're free to do that if you don't mind. I've reached step 6 only a few times out of many dates. I greatly dislike wasting my money personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 08:34 PM |
| 36 | "Why do FDS tell women to cut people off all the time, isn't that too cruel?"Can't do anything riiiight! We done bad if we cut, we done bad if we don't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 06:07 PM |
| 135 | "Why do FDS tell women to cut people off all the time, isn't that too cruel?"What what?? Cutting off people is CRUEL? If that was the case I would be classified as an A-class vilain. But guess what being a vilain gives me? I'm so peaceful in my mind. No much decisions to make, it's simple. block block and forget. No scrottie in my DMs trying to sneak his way into my pussy. No Pickmes that gonna argue with my queen decisions, or that will bring me down into pickmeness with them. Peace of mind is priceless. And I hope everyone in this world has a taste of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Dear newbie, nothing's happening? GET UP AND GET OUT.YES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 04:03 PM |
| 181 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudyExactly. Women actually keep care of themselves, they pay attention to their food intake, sleep, they have a whole skincare, they're always desirable at every age. Even my own 93 year old (amazing) grandma has suitors at her retirement home. I used to feel old at 21, I thought my life was ruined, but I feel young at 26, because I got hella confidence and I see myself for what I am. Fuck the scrotties that say we got a "expiration" date. Hell, I've seen guys just one year older than me, and they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 01:52 AM |
| 91 | ReflexionIt is a crude, primitive solution. Giving again and again sexually, emptying ourselves of our sexual energy in the hopes of refraining a man around is foolish, but I definitively understand why some women go that route. Men are insatiable for novelty, they want more and more and more, thus the "logical" response would be to give more and more as well. Give the lion all he wants, emptying the wallet because of the steak budget. We hit a limit and start burning out, by then those men grow disinter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 01:37 AM |
| 71 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?Exactly. They're reproducing the way they're fapping with your pussy basically. The thing with porn addiction is that it not only numbs the mind but also the dick, so they have to fap faster and with a higher grip and harder in order to orgasm, all three moves just not compatible with mutual orgasm sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 01:20 AM |
| 23 | Had a guy lose interest because I told him I do not like to partyLol not a YOU issue babe. You're totally fine not appreciating parties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 214 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?They tend to make a lot of sexual-toned jokes, or send porny stuff, thinking it is humor. Or they laugh/like/reblog/whatever porn memes. Check what accounts they follow, that'll give you some idea of what their tastes are like. Another thing is that they tend to be pushy sexually. Want the coom super quick, get it on, want the end result asap. They grope, they push the physical and psychological boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 09:02 PM |
| 7 | I feel like I need to have a funeralLiterally do it. I did this earlier this month to bury all my exes, I spilled all the tea, my friends have me some pointers about confusing situations, now I'm feeling better and I don't even have trauma flashbacks. Do it, babe. Bury that LVW and glowuppp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 08:57 PM |
| 24 | PSA: A high value man will not be into BDSM.Let's kinksgame hard. I agree with you. All those that cry reading this post, look up the cycle of abuse, that sounds familiar no? Care-after care cycle. It is toxic. Why would a guy hit the one he loves? Is violence really a demonstration of love? You wouldn't hit your cat or dog, yet you do for your intimate partner. Nonsensical cognitive dissonance istg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 34 | Weak men project so hard and get so in their feelings when women don’t want to settleKEVIN SAMUELS?? THE KEVIN SAMUELS? Ah his opinion is dismissed. Good luck fella 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:04 PM |
| 73 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsThose poly people are doing the "No True Scotsman" fallacy. They exclude the "bad ones" to create a "nice" picture of their community. At the core, polygamy is multiplying and exponentializing the typical couple dynamics, and bringing a whole new set of issues into "romantic" dynamics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 585 | Suspicious?I wouldn't even touch this stuff at all. Just delete and forget. Some men come to my DMs pretending to be ignorant and willing to be educated but they actually seek to win over you and make you feel like shit for "daring" to follow fds. They're not worth my time, they're not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 03:03 PM |
| 62 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesSadly matsurbating won't cut it, I am very high libido 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 03:28 AM |
| 88 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesSame thing here. Ever since I got into fitness the libido is in hyperdrive. Can be a blessing, can be a curse, depends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 02:48 AM |
| 11 | Confused about our relationship - DESPERATE for helpIf you come here to write out a whole 500+ words text about how he's shit, he ain't it. Dump his ass, this is like a communist parade of goddamn red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 272 | The Struggle Is Real...This tool has been created by an incel. Dont take what it says seriously: I've dated many guys over 6ft, not obese, with great $$$, the odds are much higher than that lol. I did a quick napkin calculation of the odds of meeting three men corresponding to the above criterias ans it was something in the order of 0.0001% which I definitely don't believe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 05:35 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)GET the HELL OUT now. NOW. I guarantee you, your life without him will be way way, 10-100x better. I swear on my pinky finger. He sounds so fucking insufferable and entitled and a functional manbaby. I'm cringing hard at him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 19 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileLate 20s man looking for bangmaid that will cook for me, you gotta accept everything my mom tells you, and be respectful to her at any time. I will take my mom's side everytime and I will be "overprotective" of you (but in fact I'm a jealous mess). I hope you find that endearing. My height (6ft4) is my sole asset. My dick is shinking because of my increasing belly, you gotta be fine with that because I won't workout anytime soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 51 | Love Is Blind Japan Casting F*ckeryI've only watched the very first episode, I've been shocked at the amazing group of ladies, and all the men looked like beaten up thumbs.... And the age variety shocked me too. The ladies were in their 20s and 30s, dressed to the nines, makeup, looking like literal goddesses... And the men simply didn't give the same level of effort despite them knowing they'll be on Netflix. There's AWFUL lots of misogyny in Japanese society, a friend of mine that currently lives there reported how the dates sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 241 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”"I am focusing on what matters most in my life." To the point, can't be debated, includes most important things, and simple. Another option I use is "why are you asking this? That's out of bounds" make the other person uncomfortable basically and reorient the discussion towards something that's more appropriate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 7 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »Right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 4 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »Hell NOPE, cheap men can fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Cooking together in a new relationship - wifey shit?I'm extremely wary about doing cooking together, I certainly wouldn't do that as a Girlfriend, but I would be fine with it as a Fiancee. Please read Why Men Love Bitches you'll see exactly why it isn't a good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 74 | This is why you vet and have to block scrotes. This man is 93 look at him getting put together and taking his wife out for a date. 93 years old... and today's young LVMs want to meetup for a walk lastThose lazy men want CONVENIENCE pussy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/21 01:41 PM |
| 75 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isHonestly I feel like demisexuality is a response to the hypersexual world we are in. When women are expected to drop their panties at the slightest woo'ing effort men are doing, and this becomes the norm... Then you have women saying "hey this ain't for me, what am I then? I don't relate to this!". They fe helpless because there's nothing for those women that refuse to concede to this hypersexuality expectation. Then they learn about this demisexuality thing, go "oh my god I AM THE ONE THATS NOT… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/21 01:40 PM |
| 9 | Female level up strategy-Breeny Lee (youtube) for mindset. -Lean In by Sandy Sandberg for FEMALE networking, she worked in tech so this may be very relevant -Forest app for productivity, timer for activities and you make a forest grow as you go on -Digital Minimalism, and Deep Work by Cal Newport, for decluttering social media and general electronic media use, productivity, inspiration from great ppl (this author is very leaning male inspirations, tho but his examples are amazing) -Evy Pompouras (presidential defense a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:46 PM |
| 53 | Emotional incest and pick me moms- stay out of itThat is the story of my shitty ex. He was a momma's boy, let her decide everything for him, down to employment and finances. He couldn't even do a decision by himself and "needed" her input. The MIL started being very friendly with me.which I thought was a green flag but the thing with MILs they're never ever gonna be your actual friend. Just acquaintances. You have to distance yourself and stay at acquaintance topics: she did use deeply intimate information about me to triangulate herself into … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:32 PM |
| 12 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenThat's honestly amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:08 PM |
| 68 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenBunch of whiny manbabies ironically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 53 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenIf they're expressing fear to vasectomy they're not fully confirmed CF and it would be a better idea to avoid those types. Most serious CF I've met are enthusiastic about vasectomy, are attempting to convince their doctor, or have it done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenExactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 10 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areOLD means Online dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:18 PM |
| 15 | Mental health and datingExtremely glad that you're seeking for your own happiness before seeking it in someone. I've seen Redpill guys say that BPD women are easy fun "plates" aka easy to manipulate into submission and sex. I feel so hard for the BPD gals, this shit ain't easy at ALL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Dating men with depression: proceed at your own riskThinking about that, you're right. He should be autonomous in his healthcare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Dating men with depression: proceed at your own riskEstablishing boundaries about mental health stuff, redirecting him to a therapist, never doing therapy work even just a little bit. Another option is to just next men that are too heavy on the mental health stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 10 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.Basically Madonna/whore complex in a nutshell. See in my post history my post about it if you want to read more about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.Really sad that he is everywhere, that sounds like an absolute nightmare | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.Ewwwwww.... How come he's at every family function :o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 13 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.THIS. The BDSM folks often push the message that femdom is female empowerment... The femdom is still extremely sexually objectified by the submissive. There's no escape from misogyny in BDSM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:16 PM |
| 6 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.Sadly some therapists are pushing BDSM as a form of "sexual empowerment". I've even heard from friends that their sex therapist suggested that they do pegging or more blowjobs to solve their dysfunctional sex lives. As if it was gonna help. Hang around here and you'll see more stories of ex-BDSMers :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 20 | Ladies, please stay safe! This was couple of days before the British incel Jake took lives from people.I honestly think it's because men centered their wholes lives around sex, so lack of it is a direct attack to their manhood and social status. Lame as fuck when you think about it, there's so much more to life than plain sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 31 | The wrong relationship will hold you back - Keep heading towards your goals 💖Is that an Lundy Barcroft book? I didn't know he did write several books, good to know! I wholeheartedly agree with going forward with your goals and dreams. And if you can't do anything to acheive them (money, time, etc), you can talk about them, and see how he does react to those goals/dreams. I did share that I wanted to live in my own house, own it under my name only, before even moving in together. Ya know what: he acted so fucking butthurt and said I was rejecting him 🤡 clearly a negative … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inUpdate us how it goes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid falling back into old pickmeisha habits?Agree! This is my Bible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:04 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Check-inWoahhhhh what such an overreaction over a small video LOL NV/LV men just hate hate hate hate sooooo much the boundaries, because it is actual accountability for them being shit (you did this, this is against my boundary, you don't have access to me anymore) and they're being confronted with themselves and their shitty actions. Let them fester in their own shittyness and glow up 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:20 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inI prefer to do very long walks (owning a dog really helps!!), And Pilates (sorta a mix between yoga and calisthenics, very low impact), a bit of calisthenics too! Yoga is really amazing, you can choose the subtype of yoga that's more oriented towards body awareness, flexibility, or muscle work. I would recommend signing up for classes (helps a lot with motivation and socialization with fellow women), else Yoga with Adrienne is an excellent channel for yoga content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 5 | The importance of sharing information with your support network, and other anti-abuse strategiesHe's angry at you that you're levelling up? Ridiculous!! Not your problem, he can fester in his own slime, and keep on glowing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 08:21 PM |
| 7 | What's FDS opinion on Anna Bey?Holy cow, I kinda felt she was a bad egg, but not THAT bad. Oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 89 | I will no longer be the only one who doesn't get an orgasm...EXACTLY. Everytime you tolerate subpar behaviour, you're reinforcing this undesirable behaviour. Metaphorically slap hard if there's mistakes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 16 | The importance of sharing information with your support network, and other anti-abuse strategiesThe patterns are the same, yes. My ex is still scourging the internet for anything that even might look/sound like me. He even sent me some random ass porn of a girl that looks like me as "proof" I've been cheating (one of his fave gaslight topics, he was so so so so strongly believing I was cheating on him somehow. I don't care if he finds this current account, he gonna face his own truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 05:05 PM |
| 2 | For episode 20 of the podcast, we will be doing an extra-special (and extra long) listener feedback episode! Comment below with your questions/feedback for a chance to be discussed on the podcast!I really appreciate the podcast and I'm currently at episode 3, I know I'm SO late compared to most ladies here! But I'd love to have a episode around addictions, sobriety, how to deal with men pushing drinks on you while you're sorber, is it worth it accepting former addicts as potential partners? Those questions frequently come back often here on the subreddit and are great topics that have a lot of nuance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-InMakes sure to block and delete his number! It gets so much easier when the temptation isn't there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-InPersonally I've hopped off the OLD train (see my post history if you wanna read about my reasons) because I've felt it was a time waster and that I had better stuff to tend to. For those that are still holding onto doing OLD, I personally think it shouldn't be your MAIN dating strategy. It should be a time filler and not a main dating strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InPersonnally I'd say why not do that and use that as date practice. Some men might refuse to date you, based on that but the truly interested men would seek to move along with you. I'd say no if it was 1-2 months before moving date, as you have more important stuff to focus on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:25 PM |
| 12 | Filter questionsMomma's boys THINK they're totally fine and always gonna deny the momma-boyism because that's THEIR normal. If you see signs of that, RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 244 | Lingerie is NOT a giftReturn those condoms so he can go suck himself in his singledom desperation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 12 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.LMFAO what a sad excuse of a man. Beer??? You kidding me??? Hope you flushed this irresponsible Scrottie asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 77 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.Lemme tell you, one of my exes had zero trouble dropping 600$ for a escort several times a year after our breakup, and he spent UNDER 600$ during our whole ass relationship. Where a man spends shows his values and priorities. Watch them and look what they have, wear, use, etc. It will give you a wealth of information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 18 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesRaging will give you ABSOLUTELY nothing and will only bring you bad vibes and bad mood for the day. Yes you got it from your dad but don't admit defeat. If something is esp enraging on the road, assume freely some reasons WHY they might behave like this. Maybe this slow person is bringing a bug cake at the back, or this other person just learned how to drive at age 30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 13 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesOMG my ex did the exact same, like when I had trauma responses to his reckless driving, he said MY reactions made him feel bad. WTF??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 18 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesMy own ex used to accelerate HARD and brake HARD, I've asked him to go softer but he never listened to me. He went 20-30kmh above the speed limit and accelerated like crazy. He drove at 40km in PARKINGS. He didn't listen to my needs, didn't even slow down. All his family is like that. And guess what? All of them have gotten into accidents. Their parents used their car even for the smallest displacements (1min walk? Hell no hop in the car). Her sister was glued to others bumpers, he did the same.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:52 PM |
| 7 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑He knew and he choose to push, good fucking riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 5 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑Oh my god 🤣🤣 some men really are expecting us to be ready and eager to text them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 17 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑Sounds like you need to work on your self-confidence. Ask the therapist for ways to build up your confidence, strategies, tips, worksheets, etc. Being the center of attention and liking to be impressed by a partner are fully compatible. Let your date woo you, spoil you, murmur you sweet words, impress you. Lay back and let him lead the dance, and you accompany him. Personnally I especially like to do affirmations about stuff I'm less secure about. Like, per example, if I have difficulty making m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:44 AM |
| 11 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑Check out the Handbook, there's already lots of tips for dates. What specifically you need help on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 45 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑Yes! Putting distance between yourself and him also is so much better for the mental health! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Why I am saying NO to OLD - a lil reflection and thoughtsSorry but that sounds like a waste of energy, I recommend to redirect that towards stuff that will benefit you directly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:51 PM |
| 20 | A take on the libfem stance on victim blamingI agree, and it's quite sad that Instagram models have to retort to catering to pornsick men to have a bigger following, those that don't tend to have a smaller following.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.I'm eyerolling so hard my eyes did a 360 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:56 PM |
| 65 | Pickmeishas Reinforce LVM Behavior, and Vice VersaYou have great points about how the entourage influences the date but I'd like to bring up a point about your relationship with your man... If you have to force your man to block women... 1- you overstepped outta GF territory and went into mom mode, BAD thing and it kinda sets a motherly tone which will lead to resentment and manbabyism. 2- he DID it, and he KNEW it and he DID it, it's HIS problem to fix and if he didn't till you pushed him to fix it, he never saw that as a problem. That's a red… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:24 AM |
| 4 | SHIT LIST 💩 a "get the fuck over him" strategy for breakups.Voilà voilà. The boxers part is 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | SHIT LIST 💩 a "get the fuck over him" strategy for breakups.People especially pickmes and such can come across this and use it against you, and it can backfire. I prefer to stay private and on the safe side concerning those kinda matters in order to protect my private life from those that think they have a say on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | SHIT LIST 💩 a "get the fuck over him" strategy for breakups.Holy, I'm really glad you didn't go that way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | SHIT LIST 💩 a "get the fuck over him" strategy for breakups.Exactly, I did the same thing before my last breakup! Forgot to add that part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 111 | Vetting for rapistsAlso I'd like to add that you should say no sometimes for milder stuff like kisses or cuddling. Say that you're not really in the mood for that, and then see how he reacts to your refusal. Is he pushy? Is he negociating ("so maybe just a lil peck? So maybe just a hug?") If yes, he's more likely to push your sexual boundaries later on. Even if he passes all those anti-rapist vet points and rapes you (under influence of emotion or alcohol/drugs, or even fully conscious because he was able to keep … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:04 PM |
| 4 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.Handbook worthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSI'll copy paste my answer to another commenter: Vetting is continuous, and you never vet on one criteria, you vet via SEVERAL ways. Your ex might've passed the cat respect criteria but he might not have passed the other criterias. A man that's great with cats can prove himself to be shitty in other ways too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Health benefits of leaving a LVM and NVM💕 I lost weight 💕 I got healthier hair, skin, nails, general health 💕 My eyes became livelier, I've compared pictures and the difference is crazy! 💕 He and his family caused my mental health to go to shit, and now it's so much better. 💕 I eat better, I don't force myself to eat meat anymore(meals with them was 50% meat, I normally just eat meat 1-2 times per week and not more.). I picked up intermittent fasting, mindful eating. They constantly criticized whatever I ate, and said my vegetarian di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 83 | Female Strength: How Women Have Been Lied To About Their Capabilities.Oh the amount of hate Brie Larson/Capitain Marvel got from scrotes just because she was the strongest superhero in the Marvel universe, it was FUNNY to see some scrotes rage out and meltdown over THAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSI should've used that as the title 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSAbsolutely horrifying and heartless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:15 PM |
| 78 | PSA: Men are learning about FDS but like most things they don't get it all. Stay on Scrote Watch!Also, we may have thousands of members but... Those thousands of members are also influencing the women around them, and so on. Keep it up, keep working hard and be HV women and it will have a snowball effect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 99 | Lies MRAs tell about domestic violenceThere is also this whole culture around male violence, like, you can see videos of men objectifying, talking about rape intentions, being controlling (this one is too banalized and pickmes say this is him being so attentive and whatever). It is culture. Also, fun fact, most women start being violent AS A REPONSE to men being violent towards them. Like the rape victim biting off the rapist, the domestic violence victim killing her abuser because she just didn't see any other way out, pickmes bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:04 PM |
| 15 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSPoor thing 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 46 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSVetting is continuous, and you never vet on one criteria, you vet via SEVERAL ways. Your ex might've passed the cat respect criteria but he might not have passed the other criterias. A man that's great with cats can prove himself to be shitty in other ways too. I'm sorry for your experience and I'm really glad that you got rid of him 💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:32 AM |
| 37 | Weird Red Flags?If a man prefers to message on Facebook messenger or WhatsAp or any kind of communication in which you can see if a person has read your message, he's more than likely a manipulative, controlling scrote. Holy fuck you might have a great point with this one, I insist that everyone I contact messages me via texting so it strikes me as ODD when someone REALLY wants to message me via some app that has read receipts. Another point of mine: When he uses "Hey babe it's just a joke" when you become upse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo BagI need tea, this is too much I feel like I haven't slept enough... what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 28 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?He's not being financially intelligent, his van is a depreciating asset whereas a house & land would normally increase in value. The van is gonna require repairs, it is gonna rust and so on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 21 | Parent in NY seeks to marry their child. Parent HAS to be a man. The lowest of the low."A New Yorker who wants to marry their own adult offspring is suing to overturn laws barring the incestuous practice, calling it a matter of 'individual autonomy.'" Just call what it is, incest. It's INCEST. 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 18 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Jesus Christ he HAS blatantly declared his evil plan. GOOD RIDDANCE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:26 AM |
| 38 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Men would never, that's the thing. And them sharing dick pics is just NOT the same weight socially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 19 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.What an asshole he is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 41 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Jesus fucking christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 2: AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS, OR A TALE OF SCROTENESSYou're welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soI'm thankful at the same time, I'm doing a fast right now 🤮😭🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:30 PM |
| 13 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soI really don't wanna see his kidneys and arteries, after reading all that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 93 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildPeople develop trauma anyways! Just that it is delayed and becomes a ticking bomb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 20 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM so🤢🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 55 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soThey're always the ones getting sick young LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:36 AM |
| 91 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soGod I am so disgusted. Nauseous. This is stomach pains in a pic to me. Those meals are so sad. Fun fact: Mama's boy LVM ex didn't even know how to cook a egg. Litterally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:22 AM |
| 15 | I said what I said. Stay mad.I just hate it so much that they use those kinda terms in normal contexts, within hearing of others. No shame whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:36 AM |
| 14 | I said what I said. Stay mad.It def has increased in popularity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 12 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 2: AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS, OR A TALE OF SCROTENESSYou're not the only one. I had creepy old men approach me in a "friendly" way, but in retrospect I realized they said sexual innuendos and such to 16year old me. Creepy fuckos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 14 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 2: AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS, OR A TALE OF SCROTENESSI was armchair diagnosed by some men when I debated or I argued for something. It hurts, it makes you doubt yourself, it's all gaslight + negging in one. It is absolutely amoral and disrespectful and also it is not their competency to diagnose you. There's also the fact that several if not tons of men think that anything a woman feels besides happiness and neutral mood is crazyness. We're not allowed to be angry, to be sad, to be silly. Fuck that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:56 AM |
| 19 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 2: AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS, OR A TALE OF SCROTENESSWe got your back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 36 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 2: AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS, OR A TALE OF SCROTENESSAgreed, and I appreciate hugely this comment, I didn't think of adding the definitions. I've heard of 25 year old men going after freshly turned 18yo women and honestly... This is creepy as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:43 AM |
| 39 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 2: AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS, OR A TALE OF SCROTENESSI think the difference between men dating their same-aged peers (they are very often shitty I know, the lot of them are pornsick and low value) and the men GOING for much younger ladies is that the FACT they're going for much younger is a RED FLAG by itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Top dating post on reddit is of course a man complaining that the biggest danger he faces when dating is...... Effortbohooo fucking HOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 5 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENUuuuuuh what the fuck!?!? This is horrible treatment wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:15 PM |
| 7 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENAmen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 75 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENNever too late to start right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:18 AM |
| 13 | FDS has officially reached 150k members!No no it doesn't exists yet... But... It would be so freaking cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:45 AM |
| 22 | FDS has officially reached 150k members!The FDs Delta Nu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 95 | FDS has officially reached 150k members!I started out here when FDS was at about 30k subscribers, and I'm just so fucking glad we are growing so steadily and strongly. Imagine a FDS society! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:55 AM |
| 21 | Dead bedrooms, and men.Amen. Just, amen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 170 | Dead bedrooms, and men.EXACTLY. Harassing your partner into submission is NOT seduction. She wants to get over it quick if she's starfishing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 21 | The Cool Girl trope and how men are making us their puppetsI've definitively noticed that older women tend to push younger women into that mold, to obey the men and question nothing. I've had a ex-colleague be indignated that (omg how dare I) question my boss's decision because it simply wouldn't lead to good results, and I honestly think she was indignated just because I questioned a male. And she was 50yo-ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 17 | The Cool Girl trope and how men are making us their puppetsExcellent analysis, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 45 | The Cool Girl trope and how men are making us their puppetsExactly. Men's comments and "compliments" basically mean nothing and you should always be doubtful of their true intention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 61 | The Cool Girl trope and how men are making us their puppetsDamned if you do, damned if you don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYes!! I'm really glad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThere's no r*pe mentions in both or violent stuff from my memory, I remember that they did talk about men's perception of women but it's definitively NOT a hard read compared to Why Does He Do That or The Gift Of Fear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.Sadly yes that's my observation too. The most repressed, uptight men are often the upmost depraved ones, needing intense release from the uprightness they routinely experience. Also, purity culture places ALL the blame and stress onto women, and men, if oops, they go the "sinful" route, can be easily pardoned and all is dandy. Women are bashed and bashed again and again for going the "wrong" way. Toxic culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inLol I spat out my tea reading this! Good idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI'm glad there are some pornfree male role models out there, especially Terry! You don't need porn to be masculine and complete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inCarry on the work and you'll see some progress! The recommended books like The Rules and Why Men Live Bitches are my fave to instil that FDS queen mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 8 | Divorcing LVM ex husbandYES I've seen that so often. Shame on them for not behaving the gentleman way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Divorcing LVM ex husbandI agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 14 | Divorcing LVM ex husbandI meant by that leaving her allllll the work. That's the asshole move he did but I'd def double check the stuff he completed, if he hypothetically filled them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 30 | Divorcing LVM ex husbandAgreed on getting a good divorce lawyer. Ask your friends around if they know anyone that's ruthless and will put his lazy ass on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:15 PM |
| 162 | Divorcing LVM ex husbandI'm just so goddamn shocked that he's acting like such a lazy petty slob and leaving you all the work, he didn't even have the decency to do the divorce paperwork himself. What a massive ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inPlease report them if you see any, I don't like them either, and reports make them more obvious to the mods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 38 | And people wonder why we don’t want male OB/GYNs 🤢Bruuuuuuuuuuuh This is disturbing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 36 | FDS should apply to ALL MEN IN YOUR LIFE, not just dating situations.If you want to keep her around but not want to hear about the shitty guys, put up a "no guy talk" boundary. Aka "I'm sorry babe, but I don't care that much about Guy X or Y and I'm here only for you". If she insists, cut short the conversation, or bluntly say "I don't care about Keven or Harry". That reputs the whole spotlight on her and you're considering her as a whole person, not someone that's defined by others ("Girlfriend of X, Daughter of Y"), which LVM do NOT do to women whatsoever. She … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 16 | Sharing trauma, HVness, and exploitation of vulnerabilitiesThe thing with using your own trauma as a litmus test makes you vulnerable WHILE you're testing this person, which is not quite ideal. Some abusive men can fake HVness but later on, use your trauma in very indirect way, or in a very discreet way, so you don't realize it at first. An alternative would be to use a fake traumatic event that doesn't affects you that much, to see if he uses that against you. The fact it is fakes makes your emotional reaction detached from the situation and makes the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Pickmeisha Rehab: Getting by on being “cute” to Cover Up Poor Work EthicPerhaps in that particular situation, taking responsibility of mistakes secretly, like thinking "okay I did a mistake, I'll correct it asap" would be a better solution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Pickmeisha Rehab: Getting by on being “cute” to Cover Up Poor Work EthicYou're recognizing the problem, that's the first upmost important step ever. Recognizing that you're not quite where you'd like to be hurts a ton, you're probably hitting yourself "why aren't I working harder, why I am acting like the clumsy cute girl". The thing with imposter syndrome is that 99% of people have it, most people fake it or camo their mistakes and fails with excuses or fake reasons why it is not quite as it should be. I strongly recommend to start being honest with yourself. Recog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 14 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”If ever women go the housewife direction, have a rock solid prenup, have passive income BEFORE the marriage, and have a stash sufficient for your possible escape. So many women I've seen go into marriage without any financial cushion to fuckoff if necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Forms Of Levelling UpThe thing with shortcels is that they blame it all on their height, or One Sole Characterisic or a single Thing like "uh walking uteruses are going for Chad to be pumped and dumped obvs they can't see how nice I am". But I've observed incel forums (for research purposes, to see what the fuck is up) and Jesus, it's so toxic. Their toxic side seeps through their posts. They even don't see the true value in levelling up. Levelling up is also for ourselves, to give ourselves a better life, a happier… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 98 | One of four.Holy fuck Nope. NOPE NOPE NOPE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:39 AM |
| 10 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?It has been an habit that was hard-baked by my mother too, and I still struggle sometimes, but not quite as much as before. Intermittent fasting and mindful eating helped me immensely to change my view of food, too. I don't see anymore food as it was, now it is something I use to fuel my body, something I use to live, instead of living for food. I replaced the food coping mechanism for negative feelings with the habit of talking about the stuff either in my journal, to family, or friends. Often … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 18 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?Honestly I've noticed the same, I rather seek high quality encounters over quantity. And it just feels so right. I also have higher standards and boundaries for sex, which makes me turned off pushy/disrespectful men. Win-win either case 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯Hell no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:42 AM |
| 136 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?more critical eye of everyday stuff. I ask myself "does it benefit me?" almost all the time. I ask myself if the action/thing I'll do/buy/make will bring back great benefits for me on short AND long term. I work harder at my studies and job, I tolerate much less bullshit spewed at me, I try to get the actual root cause instead of treating the symptoms. I give myself more compassion, I don't punish myself for my mistakes, instead I recognize the mistake, ask myself what should be corrected then a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:37 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inIf he compared me to someone else, I would feel like this is a red flag to me. I am unique, other are unique, we can't be compared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI'm usually not touching to anything military but his speech is excellent, I'm really striked by his presence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 54 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThey're so obessed with us 😂 they can cry out, we don't care about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:14 PM |
| 9 | I am so thankful I found this subIt's insane the amount of stuff out there is primarily catering to men isn't it? I did the same realization maybe 1.5 years ago and jesus my whole worldview has changed 100%. We're basically taught and molded from birth to be male-catering and let them walk all over us without any accountability, and if there was accountability, it was mockingly light. Takes a while to unlearn this and look out for ourselves first before anything. I'm really happy that you've joined us and I hope you'll find eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 44 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?I see a left swipe tendinitis incoming 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 155 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?You won't be downvoted here, babe, this fact is crystal clear. Post this in other subreddits and men will throw tantrums because it reminds them their (often self-inflicted, I don't have pity for them) personal issues and instead of admitting it they'll attack you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 94 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?You're NOT shallow for having physical standards. And I do agree, most OLD men are just ugly dead-eyed (psst psst, porn is doing that) cavemen that don't know what a nail clipper is. Don't vent out about this to men, they're gonna be QUICK to bash you down on this cuz they feel personally attacked directly/indirectly LOL but I know your pain. Personnally I have a few standards, like good fitness and health, healthy mentally, etc. This is the base, this is the bare minimum for me and anything und… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | So glad to see women actually standing up for themselves. No means no."her duty" Pretty sure the scrotes don't think giving oral is the man's duty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 37 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?I've noticed that a lot of people use mental illnesses in general as a excuse to be assholes. If the mental illness is truly THAT debilitating, it's not time to be in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Lol he gave you shit because you had a life? Wow NOPE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.I agree. Mentioning you're into games will attract a big majority of Gamers™, did that in the past, never again, huge waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 57 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.His bed manners are horrid omg. No matter what kind of high-earning career men have, they must respect you and care for you. GOOD RIDDANCE. You deserve to be No1. Hardware should never take priority over people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 19 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Was there, was the girlfriend that watched his (now ex)boyfriend game. It ain't romantic and I felt more like a spectator to a moment instead of sharing a moment together. I won't even do it anymore. It is Not Romantic At All and men say this is romantic so you enable their gaming addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:52 PM |
| 9 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.what the actual fuck He sounds like some crappy barrel bottom scum tier boyfriend omg. Don't beat yourself up, you did it, you learned stuff from this relationship AND you know what you WANT and NEED. Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 12 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Personnally? They deserve the SHAMING. Video game is NOT something intelligent people do as a main hobby. It's just a way to escape from reality, to feel good about themselves for their tiny teeny ridiculously tiny victory instead of, ya know, actually work on bettering themselves and not have to rely on escapism coping. Lol I know there are people who can control themselves and just enjoy their hobby but I know way more who don't. They think it's cute to have partners and children starved for m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 53 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.I thank you souch for doing this. The sooner those women realize they're last priority in a man's life, the better it is and the less damage there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 24 | Perhaps you'll need this sign.Absolutely. My exes and friend's exes creeped back in waves this quarantine. Squash them with the shiny block button. No pity for slithering exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:39 AM |
| 37 | Perhaps you'll need this sign.Source I think she's giving relationship advice in a TV show, in Arabic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:34 AM |
| 37 | Perhaps you'll need this sign.❌❌BLOCK❌❌ Honestly good riddance, babe, your mind is free for better stuff than dollar store trash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Sexism in MedicineWhat an asshole doctor! I'm sorry this has happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:37 PM |
| 137 | Why friends with benefits is rarely a good ideaIt also depletes you from having enough (physical, mental, sexual) energy to seek a actual partner. Beautifully said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Most men are vultures waiting for vulnurable women to abuseUsed to say my meds were vitamins ha.ha.ha. But happily I don'T take any anymore. This shit ain't easy I must admit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:29 PM |
| 11 | Most men are vultures waiting for vulnurable women to abuseI think more important than how you approach it with a man is that you always keep a solid support network outside of him. Wholeheartedly agreed. The first thing abusers do is strive to isolate the victim. You need to be extremely cautious about it, but just failing to mention it entirely would be a disaster. For one thing, some people flat out can't handle it, and it's not worth wasting your time over them. That's why I did say the less you say about it the better you're off. If it's something … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:18 PM |
| 51 | Most men are vultures waiting for vulnurable women to abuseIn my honest opinion, the less you talk about your mental health, the less potential weapons your man will have against you. I know this sucks ass, but I've heard of so many stories of women having their own mental health turned against them by men. And I am one of those women too. Anything deeply related to mental health should be discussed with mental health professionals, and true neutral parties like counselors. There's less of a risk they'll use what you shared against you, compared to a fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 18 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highProves they didn't evolve past high school, emotionnally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 16 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highAnd obviously Reddit turns a blind eye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 18 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate high🤏🤏🏻🤏🏼🤏🏽🤏🏾🤏🏿 🤏🏿🤏🏾🤏🏽🤏🏼🤏🏻🤏 🤏🤏🏻🤏🏼🤏🏽🤏🏾🤏🏿 🤏🏿🤏🏾🤏🏽🤏🏼🤏🏻🤏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:59 AM |
| -1 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.If you're in a exclusive committed relationship with a man, how would declaring your bisexuality matter in that exclusive, committed relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 26 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.🤧🤧🤧 it smells like dusty NVM in here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 75 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it."Can I watch?" Is like the upmost annoying sentence eughhh. Porn sick brains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 8 | Giving up birth control?Damn ok, I didn't know this about the Cooper IUD. I never got it, even if I asked for it for many years. Birth control sides effects aren't even well explained by the doctors ime, and from others experiences. One woman got breast cancer and she seriously thinks it was caused by her birth control she took for many many years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Giving up birth control?If you don't feel comfortable even under BC, just stop using them. Say no to the docs. They can't force you to take the meds. They caused part of my depression, surface acne, weight gain, intense period pains, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 32 | Kamala Harris Was Single Until She Was 50 Years Old - Psychology TodayOMG FOR REAL?? I'm happy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 32 | Giving up birth control?Just an addition: don't do plan B all the time. It's like a hormonal bomb and feels awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 42 | Giving up birth control?Check if you can get a Cooper IUD. They're non-hormonal and last for a long time. This, in addition to condoms will keep you safe. You should avoid getting abortions (I'm NOT a prolifer, I'm pro-choice fyi) because they're a real pain in the arse and if you're in USA, they might become harder to obtain as times goes on. I'm not sure of the medical impacts of abortion. Personnally Ive given up BC totally and I'm waiting for a tubal ligation (permanent birth control). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:28 AM |
| 27 | HVM Don't Lower their Standards or Need Someone to Change their Mind... He's Talking Casual? He Doesn't Know Yet if he Wants a Relationship? Easy Block and Delete ✅They cast the WIDEST cast out there, and they're lame and desperate for some specks of precious female attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:13 AM |
| 15 | Men I unmatched and/or swiped left reappear in my pile?That's a very real possibility! (And that's very desperate ngl) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Jason Mamoa is a true HVMOh, you would LOVE how he treats and looks at Lisa Bonet! Momoa is in my very short list of HV celebs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:16 PM |
| 45 | Finally blocked my ex everywhere. You'll never guess who called me two hours later.Bye bye bye bye bye bye He's proving himself to be a creepy internet stalker, reaching out via phone after being denied to see your profile and such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:16 PM |
| 30 | What my 6 years LVM boyfriend thinks about 50/50 before I moved in vs. when I moved in.See how he uses the "I" instead of the "Us" when he talks about the Europe trip (3rd screenshot). Egoist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:14 PM |
| 4 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡Oh my god. This exhibits his disgusting priorities perfectly 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 11:24 PM |
| 4 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡How horrid, and insensitive of him! He wanted some goddamned brownie points for.his EXPECTED behaviour 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:39 PM |
| 9 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡Damn I'm glad you realized it before it was too late! The lazily planned proposal is 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:46 AM |
| 13 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡Oh that's quite curious, I feel a little bit conflicted about that personnally, because that's quite the extreme solution to check out if he's cheating. I agree that's basically the only way to know with proof he's willing to cheat with me, but I think it's money wasted for hard proof... personnally I think that you don't have to justify with hard solid proof to breakup. You absolutely can breakup with someone just because you don't like the vibe around him. Hence, trust your intuition. I don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:43 AM |
| 6 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 6 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡I said that this is a strategy to apply in a long term relationship, when you know he didn't display redflags so far, and that it is a great way to see their true character, masks fall off under stress. This isn't the same as Redpill tests. I'll put MyYouserName's great summary here: "pay attention to how someone behaves under stress because how they respond in a stressful situation says a lot about the sort of person they are" I've noticed some couple don't even do trips or special activities, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:08 AM |
| 5 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡Please re-read my previous answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:47 PM |
| 12 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡I am reiterating this ISN'T the same thing as the shit tests redpillers do. Redpillers intentionally pose tricky questions and situations that put the woman in an awful situation. Stress can either be good stress or bad stress. Bad stress obviously should be avoided but good stress is new situations, you're looking forward to. But if bad stress happens, you can still observe him like said in original post. I'm not telling you to ACTUALLY provoke bad stress situations. I am saying to pay close at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:39 PM |
| 14 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡Sorry, my native language isn't English, I did mean that "it seems like something cruel to do at first, but it's just observation of his behaviour in extraordinary situations" I'll edit the original text to translate what I did mean better, my apologies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:14 PM |
| 35 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡It ain't the same as the shit tests redpillers do. I'm just saying go on a trip, do roadtrips, do staycations to like pull both of you from the normal routine. Those things are fun to do for both people, and you can see if your partner is HV facing new situations. It's damn hard to fake when you're out of your element. The three situations are normal couple situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 92 | Congratulations to the first female Vice President of the USA ❤️I hope to see a female USA president in my lifetime! Hurrah Kamala! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 36 | Instagram scam?Same message. Never date someone you met via Reddit 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:01 PM |
| 50 | 😇 The Madonna/Whore Complex in Men 😈Holy fuck, sis. He's clearly projecting his horrid views on a CHILD. Good riddance!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:19 AM |
| 34 | 😇 The Madonna/Whore Complex in Men 😈YES YES YES They sometimes don't even know they're lying because they're just explaining their skewed worldview. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 12:56 AM |
| 79 | 😇 The Madonna/Whore Complex in Men 😈Exactly. I think the "No like the other girls" thing may play a role into this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersIt would be fun but definitively dangerous with what DMs we get from angry men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 12 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Simple: take anybody willing to be poly and deal with their potential shitinness. In the name of poly "love" (but actually just hornyness)! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | (South Korea) They won't even let us job search in peace.Craigslist is CANCER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 7 | FDS Changed my life and my self esteem and I'm so glad that my BFF showed it to meHeeeeyyyyyy I'm glad you're here 💗 Going over obstacles isn't easy, but you did it, and you know you can do it. Carry on being amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 15 | What are some girlfriend benefits?This is my personal list, and this applies to me, but you can adapt to your particular situation: DATE BENEFITS: My presence Some attention Dates 1-2 times a week, not more. Not more than 3-4 hours per week per man If I really like the man, light kissing (no French kissing) Non-sexual hugs (I don't give them to anybody else even friends, and I have to like you) GF BENEFITS: Exclusivity. Aka I don't go dating other men, but I keep contact with my male friends. A bit more time together Sex (after … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 61 | To answer your question, "Does FDS hate men?"👏👏👏👏 I dislike shit behaviour, not men themselves. Else I wouldn't date them all together, and I wouldn't be here learning everything about dating strategies 😂 The shit behaviour hurts and impacts others (including myself). LV behaviour-dominant people in my life bring me (and others) down. We should bulid each other UP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 8 | New BF gave me this card after he impaled his ear and I was so worried. Opened it up find thank yous for ___ all over the card! ❤️Wait what, IMPALED? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 102 | Flew across the country for a guy, heard him matching with girls on Tinder in the middle of the night.Red flags: 1- Brags about his money, TACKY. 2- Didn't help you with anything food/transportation wise 3- You heard a tinder match noise, he did lie. 4- LDRs are crap. 5- He didn't come to you. 6- You got attached to him without commitment from him (The not dating anyone else part) BLOCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:50 PM |
| 5 | changes in yourself ?LVM can definitively influence your mental health. They instill doubt, confusion, depression etc into you by their LV ways. I lost many of my friends and family to my ex. Healing can take time, don't beat yourself for not healing instantly. What I suggest is to restart contact with your friends and family, become more involved with them. A HV support net is a weapon you can have facing a NVM/LVM. They can tell you when it's actually shit, and be there when things are over with your man. If a fri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 8 | A scrote has some of my stuff he isnt giving backIf they have little value, it's better to just let it be and leave the objects with him. Even if you (hypothetically) are able to get them back, the objects would remind you of this negative moment, which is probably something you wouldn't like much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 19 | How do you know what type of man you want?Everything my exes didn't have Within my physical preferences, like not too small, not too tall, not too big nor skinny. What I suggest is to look up what your HV idols have physically/character-wise, and seek those in your dates. If you're unsure about someone's behaviour/looks, it's a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:22 PM |
| 1 | GUIDE TO SEX FOR VIRGINS FROM A EX-VIRGIN 💞And I've heard of men, despite being cleaned (truly? We don't know) repeatedly give UTI to their partner... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 4 | GUIDE TO SEX FOR VIRGINS FROM A EX-VIRGIN 💞I suggest to call your doctor first about what to do if you have your first UTI and not try to treat it yourself. It's dangerous to let a UTI go untreated because it can spread up to the kidneys then cause a kidney infection (which can leave the kidneys with lessened functionality and scarring, and in more extreme cases, total loss of kidney function). Once it has spread more, you need antibiotics asap. Useless to try to get rid of it naturally. The symptoms of a spread UTI are back pain and bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Thanks to FDS, I have a HV boyfriend!CONGRATS! I'm glad you found someone thats different 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 10 | I know, block and delete, but I still enjoy these screenshots from women who are taking no nonsense. (Not Me)Def incel or redpiller. Damn, what a twist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 28 | I need advice.Two options, to choose depending how he is: 1- Snap back at this comment severely, no tolerance. 2- Don't bring it up, grey rock, make him believe all is good. THEN organize your exit plan. Women's shelter, a friend's house, etc. Men can bring down women's mental health, so seeking to gtfo outta his influence will help. No more insults. Between now and your exit, detach yourself from him, don't let him invade your time and space. Keep just enough the appearances so you're not in deep trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 20 | High Value way to let somebody down?Read the "It's not beneficial to have a crush" entry in the handbook. You're imagining dream scenarios with this man and it's impeding your objective judgement. Also, you're thinking HIM first BEFORE YOU. He acted in a stalker way towards you, and as a unbiased third-party, I am horrified at his behaviour. It ain't romantic, it's creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 15 | High Value way to let somebody down?If you reply to him, when he went around your blocking, it means he needs to do X tentatives so you reply. Don't reply, it will eventually die down and he'll get his message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 23 | High Value way to let somebody down?Jesus, I wouldn't even give him a tought then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 68 | Opinion: Feminism in the bedroom can leave women unfulfilledLiberal feminism is what s obviously harmful during sex. Bdsm, pickmeness, etc. But it's in men's favor 99.9% of times. Nudes are "empowering" (but you give up power to him HA), sucking dick is "sexy" (but he orgasms even more, and you have 0.00000001 sexual pleasure from this. it's WORK.). Radical feminism is beneficial. Requiring an orgasm before penetration to skew the orgasm imbalance in your favor is radical feminism, it's radically different from the usual. If we lived in a very patriarcha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 64 | High Value way to let somebody down?Block. He only reaches you once or twice per year, he's not THAT interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Can a man be both HV and an abuser?This man sucked, it is clear. And he still sucks by being a shit parent too. I'm glad that you've got mostly rid of his negative influence in your life, better single than being with a LV, no? Keep on being amazing because having three children is a hard but great feat, and your children have a great role model that stands up strong and that doesn't tolerates bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 9 | GUIDE TO SEX FOR VIRGINS FROM A EX-VIRGIN 💞It hurts because your going from one state to another completely different, and fast. Tissues arent supple, they're **shocked* by the sudden change. It's gonna hurt and it's gonna bleed if you do it that way. You would have pains if you did stretches as far as a ballerina would go if you're rusty as fuck, no? Stretching the hymen helps closing the difference between those two states. My first time was overall enjoyable, I did the first penetration in cowgirl then I had to pause for one minute to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Can a man be both HV and an abuser?Abusers automatically are LV. Check out the cycle of abuse, and the cycle of trauma bonding. Also abusers aren't black and white. They might bring some value but the abuse they give is obviously harmful to you. The harm might not be obvious at first, but it's a compound effect. I strongly recommend the book Why Does He Do That by Lundy Barcroft. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 11 | What’s your favourite FDS principle?A situation/action/person doesn't sparks joy to you? Thank them and get rid of those negative influences in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:55 AM |
| 8 | After having found FDS and a HVM I can finally see how many insecurities I have due to growing up in a non-feminist household and society.My father, especially, tried to constantly convince me that men are losers unless they sleep with a lot of women and are betas if they respect the wish of a woman. My values have been critiqued forever and undermined with "you'll grow out of it", so I closed myself off completely. WAIT WHATTTTT I'm seriously so glad you're out of this, and good job! It's not easy to do this self-reflection and standing up for yourself 👏👏👏big fat claps to ya!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:51 AM |
| 21 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?Because it's the new FaShiONabLe thing to do, I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 8 | GUIDE TO SEX FOR VIRGINS FROM A EX-VIRGIN 💞Sadly! Cum contains albumin (a protein that acts as a transport/conservation fluid for the sperm) like eggs. Albumin "cooks" at 41 degrees C (105.8F) and your average hot shower has a temperature of (coincidentally) 40-41°C (105F). So turn the temp down ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 14 | Changing a pick me mindsetHVW: You don't need men to be happy in your life. A man should be a extra bonus, and he should be like the bonus part in your life. You can go without him. So if y'all breakup, nothing is actually lost Men desire you, and that's something you don't need to act on. You choose to give them your attention or not. If they approach you and prove themselves worthy, you choose them. "This Brendan guy did X and Y for me, maybe I might choose him." Pickme: You don't think you can go without men in your l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 7 | Breaking up with my boyfriend on friday1- Return or resell the watch. 2- "After giving it a lot of thought, I don't think we're fit to stay together. I think we're not compatible anymore." Concerning the mutual friends, just declare to them the same day that you're not anymore with X because if incompatibility reasons. You don't need to give more reasons. Good friends should respect that. Bad friends will give you shit or berate you, and you just keep the good friends around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:31 AM |
| 24 | Busy and unavailable for a day and came back to this... (Unmatched him after rolling my eyes)bye bye BYE BYE BYE BYE BYEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 87 | “spiritual guys”are trash tooMild incest vibes bruh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Then it's def a good idea to explore SAD lamps, and I absolutely feel you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020It's a valid problem, I have the same problems and I've noticed that using a SAD lamp (lamp reproducing the sun's light) helps a lot with the winter down. Another solution is to basically cozy up: blankets, comfortable sweaters, hot food, good wool socks, etc. A more extreme solution is to use Vitamin D. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | GUIDE TO SEX FOR VIRGINS FROM A EX-VIRGIN 💞Oh my, how did I let that pass!? 🤣 It's corrected now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 39 | Correct me if I’m wrong....By stress situations! Loss of a loved one, sickness, accident, travelling (no need to do grandiose travels, it can be a long roadtrip or local trip) etc. Anything that's not ordinairy and induces stress in 99.9% of people. You check his reaction, how he acts under stress, how he acts towards you and others under stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Guide to sex for newbies from a ex-newbieIt's in the last pic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Guide to sex for newbies from a ex-newbieI agree. I wrote this in a quick moment, so I'll redo it soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:31 AM |
| 15 | If he wants you to have an OnlyFans or is okay with you having an OnlyFans = LV?LV. It's clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Shit I forgot about the holidays upcoming! What are you planning as celebrations since you're alone? Any movies, activities, etc? I'm curious because I'm in the same situation... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I honestly don't know many FDS resources in Mandarin... most FDSers here only speak English and are mostly aware of the English resources. Don't give up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1fuFcfMQLNXslSYv1ngXlh_BSuUYJOwwQ I think it's working from my side, could anyone confirm it's still working? Also I ask to all queens to download don't just save the link. It's sometimes updated and I correct mistakes and apply modifications asked by authors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 9 | Should I (23f) end a 2 month situationship with (24M) or attempt to DTR?AGREED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 26 | What do you tell guys if they ask if you’re still dating other people?"Im still seeing what's out there" (aka ' I'm not very much impressed by you, do better to impress me ') "What, you think you're the only one I'm dating? Hahaha no!" (Makes the man feel bad for showing jealousy behaviour) "Yes I am!" (then divert to another topic, makes it seem like it's no big deal, and it's def gonna hit him hard) ^ those are what I use generally, adapt to the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Should I have said something more? Idk...honestly I didn’t know what to say more. If you were in this situation, would you have asked something more to keep the convo? Or wait for him to say something longer? I might be too sensitive if I think he is putting a low effort?He's not responding quickly and isn't it bland a bit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:22 AM |
| 16 | What do you tell guys if they ask if you’re still dating other people?Read the handbook, it's covered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 11 | Welcome back FDS !We use Reddit FDS history for the verification and you need at least 2 weeks of history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 19 | Throwaway because my boyfriend has my main account. How do I ask to be taken to a nice place for sex?The fact he's freaking out because you're changing your mind is a red flag. Bring it up, or manifest your disappointement. If he's usually like that, it's perhaps a good idea to dump him. Do you feel like he forced your hand into agreeing to sex? If so it's a BIG red flag. If you feel fear at him flipping out, it's a bad sign too. The sending nudes is very dangerous. Check out the handbook for why. If ever you need to move somewhere more appropriate for your first time (or successive times), you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Why would men keep initiating contact with low effort? I don’t understandIsn't he acting all passive? His grammar bugs me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 41 | Welcome back FDS !Bruh it's totally wrong. I do verifications for the FDS discord and I've seen lots of amazing ladies of all ethnicities and everyone I've seen was beautiful her own special way. MEN ARE COPING THIS WAY. They're trying to stab us at our insecurities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:58 AM |
| 13 | I broke up with my bf of 6 years...but he doesn't knowEither a tiny text saying you're not interested anymore in pursuing the relationship, or you just plain let the relationship die off by being uninteresting. Or ghosting too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 67 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻BAHAHAHAHAHA BE MAD!!! Women rise stronger more than ever 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 4 | LDRSs ARE FANTASTIC! DEF RECOMMENDED! ❤💕❤Sorry sorry 😅🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:38 PM |
| 6 | I stumbled into the sub and I’m quite worried.How can prevent my self from being problematic?It's a passive hobby, it doesn't stimulates much the mind and just gives you small hits of dopamine. You can read, dedicate yourself to a non-intensive hobby etc that actually brings some satisfaction and pride. Once in a while it's fine, like eating chips once in a while is okay too. There's men that legit have a massive gaming problem, and they're very defensive of their gaming problem. They play 100s of hours easily, don't have a life, don't have time to dedicate to their needs and relationsh… | /r/askFDS | 31/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 13 | LDRSs ARE FANTASTIC! DEF RECOMMENDED! ❤💕❤I know right?? And sometimes those people add at the end it's a LDR. Like it's some minor detail to be ignored, nothing much "important" HA NO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 9 | LDRSs ARE FANTASTIC! DEF RECOMMENDED! ❤💕❤The tiny word "ex" makes me so freaking happy! Turd be flushed! 🚽🧻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:01 PM |
| 12 | LDRSs ARE FANTASTIC! DEF RECOMMENDED! ❤💕❤Yessssss queen!!! I'm glad you're not accepting bullshit anymore ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 8 | LDRSs ARE FANTASTIC! DEF RECOMMENDED! ❤💕❤Good riddance! I agree, I've seen lots of LDRs IRL and it's a bit worrying to see some dead eyes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who plans to beat his children?Bruh, aren't beating like.... Criminal and actually very harmful to the child? I would consider this a instant breakup flag. I see/hear this? I am making my luggage asap, gtfo and am calling CPS if he has children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 107 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?oH mAi GoSh I have BALLS and a DICK and I have TESTOSTERONE in my BLOOD therefore I AM LOGIC INCARNATE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:45 AM |
| 16 | Recent increase in male anger/frustrationI don't have much time with dialogues, I am already busy with my work&school, and I consider most of those guys lost. They might find their way back to normalcy, but I am not the one helping them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 34 | Recent increase in male anger/frustrationI've noticed that, some of my male friends did some RP stuff on me. One man was blocked, another was given the silent treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:40 PM |
| 12 | I stumbled into the sub and I’m quite worried.How can prevent my self from being problematic?Strive to be respectful of yourself and others. Avoid videogames as much as possible, supplement with more interactive activities with others. It's how you'll become socialized. And become more comfortable in all situations too. Seek out constantly new knowledge, there's some self-help books that are also for men in the FDS wiki. Slight Edge (book) is one of my faves. Be mindful of your diet and water intake (healthy body, healthy mind!). So many men my age I know (23-30) often look like shit be… | /r/askFDS | 24/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 11 | But they want to make sure she's not a gold-digger.My ex. In one comic. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Today is the day I am leveling upTrash BEGONE! Good job ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Please share your list of deal-breakers and must haves in terms of values, career, physical, etc.I'm 25yo, seeking in the 22-29 range. Personality Generous, wants to use his time for his and everyone's good. Volunteering. Good humor sense Seeks to always learn more. (Intellectual curiosity) Is humble, accepts if he was wrong then seeks to change his viewpoint/knowledge. No major mental problems Doesn't bases his identity on one single thing Diversified hobbies, doesn't just games and watch Netflix. Good argument solving techniques, respects the other. Can fend for himself, take care of his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 12 | Lol nope.Just sayin, cheap rings will break down faster, scratch like hell. I would only accept a Walmart ring as a placeholder ring for another better ring on its way. Don't believe me that rings will wear down? I bought two cheap silver rings (50$ each) for myself, and after two years, the ring's palm side is very thin and I'll have to get rid of them soon. Cheap metals will also discolor your skin in contact with the ring too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:03 PM |
| 12 | FDS opinion on r/PurplePillDebateIt's a useless waste of time tbh. | /r/askFDS | 31/07/20 01:28 AM |
| 35 | Something that I think more women should come to expect - having their own room when living with a partnerThat's what ancient ppl did, the "boudoirs" and the "smoking rooms". Back then they thought ppl needed some time apart, to communicate with the same sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsThis sounds quite interesting... I'm adding this to my ideas list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsI'm the one that made the handbook compilation, I didn't publish it since none of the texts are mine. I think there's some online services that propose to bind the document you send in, then deliver the binded version to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsI actually thought of looking into thread bookbinding because I wanted to make a tiny book for this, for my personal use! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsThank youuuuu 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 45 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsHope you'll like the handbook 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Thank you for the heads-up! I'll correct this tonight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Thank you!Hope that you enjoy FDS ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 27 | Why Gamers are LVMWith those guys... damned if you are a "girl gamer", damned if you aren't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:40 PM |
| 10 | Why Gamers are LVMThere's already some sort of crisis, have you noticed that some guys (and gals) have trouble being apart from their cellphone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:23 PM |
| 59 | Why Gamers are LVMThis should be in the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Sorry for the very late answer, maybe try to open it in your PC or tablet. The link is a Google drive folder, and in it the handbook is there to be downloaded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:01 PM |
| 54 | After realizing my life's purpose isn't to find a male partner, I'm somewhere in-between FDS and WGTOW.That's to me the key to FDS success. You don't reek of desperation and you can look at things more objectively. I'm glad that you got more comfortable. True queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | When the bar is so low, yet....I was assuming you were in the American culture, my bad. Also, personnally, I think this sub is also to reevaluate and view critically our choices :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:13 PM |
| -2 | When the bar is so low, yet....Ok, allright, enjoy your uncomfortable bed once you invite someone into it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:31 AM |
| 3 | When the bar is so low, yet....It isn't inviting for a couple. Imo it signals "I'm single and I'm be staying this be way for decades!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:22 AM |
| 67 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMReading all this triggered my annoyed nerve! PINPOINT, sis! Once in conversation, if a man is too agreeable or is too bland in text conversation, it's to get into your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:58 AM |
| 172 | Is it realistic to think that if “level up” we are all gonna find that HV unicorn we are all dreaming about?With FDS's growth, I think we promote a "how to HVM" too and with collective action, LVM's BS won't work anymore and they're gonna be either forced to level up or to degenerate. My theory tho. You're NOT guaranteed a HVM, you have to work for it too. But my advice is to be comfortable being single first, so that a HVM is just a net bonus instead of a necessity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:56 AM |
| 42 | When the bar is so low, yet....Twin beds aren't conceived for two people to sleep in. It's not really comfortable (trust me, I did sleep with my ex in a freaking twin bed for one year 🤡), and it just screams "virgin bachelor" to me. If you want to change position in a twin bed, you wake up the other every single time, and you don't have much space and possibilities. And it gets very hot in the summer (nowhere to move to cool off, you're stuck in one place). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Ladies if he refuses to follow basic instructions take out the whole man. I commented "dump him" and got harassed by several different people it's a joke, get the stick out of your butt, you're a karen, etc. Also recieved sexual advances🤡 This is man child and a lvm. It's not funny its pathetic.What is that way of looking at her? Idk if it's only me but I sense some disdain or something in his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 16 | A former pickmeisha in the wild! Found this comment on a trash tv show subreddit (that I love). Your WHOLE BEING was boiled down to... caretaker. That's not love. She recognized it. 👑👏👏👏 Glad that she got out of this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:56 AM |
| 5 | PMS, stress, and pickmeisha thoughts?Maybe dedicate yourself to a hobby that doesn't requires you to interact with someone like your ex, your family or other negative influences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Make his pockets hurt sis🤪💸👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Make his pockets hurt sis🤪💸I agree that it's pure cringe concentrate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Make his pockets hurt sis🤪💸Allright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Make his pockets hurt sis🤪💸They coulda have gone to better quality stores, and spending that money on better stuff that won't break after a few washes or stay fashionable for several seasons or years. This vid's sis ain't thinking long term. Forever 21 stuff is not that pretty to be honest, and H&M rarely has good durable stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Stay cool ladies 😎Ok I didn't think about exfoliation, thank you! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:57 PM |
| 7 | FDS has helped me level up so much! Thanks ladies 😘That's an amazing mindset ya have! Carry on and live a wonderful life, fellow Queen ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 10 | It’s the only way."I NEED to have a baby before it's too late!! I must reproduce before it's too late and I'm already with my man since 5 years (without marriage obviously!) And I don't have time to find a new man!" I've seen this very often, you don't want to raise a baby with a shit father. It's gonna influence the baby. If you want absolutely a child and that you want some peace of mind (which will help you find someone acceptable), egg freezing is an option, adoption too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Stay cool ladies 😎Quarantine mood 💯 I've never really used body lotion, it kinda makes my skin sticky greasy (whatever the brand, I've tried like three brands of lotion), does anyone have the same problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:49 AM |
| 39 | America’s First Female Cruise Captain Travels the World With Her Adorable Sphynx Cat!I've known several Sphynx cat owners and they all said they're cuddle beasts. Can confirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:46 AM |
| 3 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1fuFcfMQLNXslSYv1ngXlh_BSuUYJOwwQ?usp=sharing I've sent it to you via DM too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.I'll redo the link, don't worry ok. You could join in the discord and I'll give the file to you directly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Hello dear, Maybe download it on another device? The file can be big a big for some weak connections so it might take longer to load. You click the download option at the corner (some devices just open the pdf file but doesn't save it) then stay on the file while it's downloading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:34 PM |
| 10 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Wow ♥️ and thank you for the instructions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:07 AM |
| 20 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.It just got posted again by Average Rohit, check out the "new posts" section of the FDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 2 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.Lemme check Edit: it works, stay in Google drive till it got downloaded. Depending on your connection it might take a few minutes. If it isn't downloading to device, there's a three dot at the corner (on my cellphone) and there should be a download option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 13 | Quitting Reddit after 8 years and several accountsMassive banwave, banned several GC subreddits, PPF went private and FDS might have the banhammer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 51 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.See in my post history, I've compiled the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:39 AM |
| 43 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.See in my post history, I've compiled the handbook into a pdf file | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 13 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.It's something to think about! But feel free to directly share the Google drive link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:40 AM |
| 13 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Quite a curious error, I'll look into this soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 10 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Not that I'm aware of, but FDS is very active on Twitter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 14 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.I'll do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 19 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.I've compiled the handbook directly. Please download it in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 68 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.I've compiled the handbook directly. Please download it in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 54 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.Direct link to the google drive. There's also a book list if ever the handbook lacks resources for what you need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 10 | R/GenderCritical is gone ...?HANDBOOK PDF LINK Download while FDS is still up. Knowledge is power, community is power, you can't afford to lose both. I sincerely hope FDS stays the fuck up but we must be prepared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Open letter to a scrotes posting dumb questions about porn in female only spaces - just unscrote yourself. Accomplish something on your own for once!"meh too much effort to read my research, Imma rub my stick to irrealistic porn, be mad feeeemale" Do we have to hold your hand through every lil step like the manchildren yall are? NO. Y'all are able to read pornhub titles, y'all are able to read a few researches! Some men are legit lazyasses 😂🙄😂🙄😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Thank you for adding instructions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 3 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤I've retired the ebook version since there were LOTS of wrinkly mistakes (due to the conversion process) but in most eReaders and ebook apps, they support PDF too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 3 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤You're welcome, and I hope you like the read! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤I hope your daughter will like it ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤😎👉👉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 9 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Glad you're liking it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 8 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤♥️☺️♥️☺️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 36 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Be the change you want to see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 10 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤☺️ you're welcome!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:49 AM |
| 7 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤You're welcome darling ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:49 AM |
| 9 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Hope you like the read! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:26 AM |
| 12 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤I'm very grateful for those that helped me!! And thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 18 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Thank you so much, and the feedback is appreciated! For the next version I'll redo this first section. I do agree that it's a heavy reading, but it settles the tone for the whole handbook :) (Edit, I'll do a 1.1 version tomorrow, nothing fundamental changed) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:05 AM |
| 19 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤You're welcome ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:52 AM |
| 2 | HVM shitThen why did he disappear? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:19 AM |
| 18 | What non-FDS literature, research, strategies, wisdom, etc. did you find helpful in leveling up and applying FDS principles?It's not included in the FDS book list, but Slight Edge was one of my most helpful books about habits. It taught me about the power of cumulative stuff in your life. Money, resentment, unhappiness, habits, etc. The Konmari book is in the book list, but it's a book used for material decluttering, but I've used it to declutter men (Or people in general) that weren't quite right for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:59 PM |
| 25 | Feminist Waves happen when women collectively realize that their individual issues are actually pervasive cultural problems. Men try to prevent this by blaming women for men’s behavior and pretending like it’s solely a personal problem."but it's AneCdoTaL" bruh, when there's so many ppl, you can't deny the pattern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 36 | Little victoriesI read Why Men Love Bitches, after seeing it in the recommended book list, and I've asserted myself much MUCH more with my family. I don't let bullshit pass, and I do feel more assured in my stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:44 AM |
| 17 | Hey Queens! Please check out the official FDS Social Media Accounts!Follow under anonymous alts, or just bookmark those pages :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 10 | I think I’m being played? Any advice would be helpfulIf the answer isn't a YES it's a no. Spare yourself the turmoil and ditch this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 15 | Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out."sperm donor" might be an alternative ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Boy bye 😂That was the thing that made me look away.... Why is he trying to control her natural reaction? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:21 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020If you're worried about reverting to your old habits, I suggest that you devote that time to other hobbies. Get busy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Some people are real charmers, and the charmees often have low esteem. You can't do much right now besides showing that you're there for your friend, you can't force her to dump him (hello, resentment and hiding!), But once she dumps him, show that you support her. Congrats for your progress and very importantly... carry on!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020When you're younger (think <23-35 yo) it can take a lil longer, but beyond 25yo, I think more than 1 year (post being in a relationship) starts to get worrying. Men know they want to marry you or not early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020Did he make any comments about your lack of experience? Does he has weird behaviour about the age gap? Did he make paternalistic/infantilizing moves? If not, I guess it is less risky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:29 AM |
| 64 | Demand respectWait what, HE'S BATHING HIS HAIR IN MAYO? I can see how this can quickly become a greasy mess fast. And being eager to move your SO away from her family is an potential (or actual) abuse sign. What would the reasons to do this, logically??!? Lordy, this sounds awful. (Disclaimer: never saw 90DF) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:03 AM |
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