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Oh my GOSH i freaking love LDRs!

Because they're almost always a show of drama, sis. Bring yo popcorn. Damn everytime I hear about LDRs it's always negatively. And for those that are gushed about in a positive way transparently conceal a shitshow.

LDRs are romanticized to hell and back, all those "oh my gosh their love is unbreakable and stands stronk despite all the challenges! That's so romantikkk and and and and" SHADDAP!!!... are the ultimate demonstration of blindness. You're being BLIND to what are the actual PROBLEMS that are AVOIDABLE.

You can't really know a man for who he really is via camera, he just has to be on his best behaviour on camera/phonecall. He holds it together for one hour then all the attention and love is poured, easy peasy. He can get another woman IRL to be the bangmaid (because DUH the cybersex isn't enough and he needs to gip his meatstick into some hot pussy! mEn HaVe NeEdS!!), or have multiple women to cater to his needs. The LD aspect makes this easy as fuck, he could say he was away to "wash the dishes" but he was texting some other woman. Don't be a clown.

The eternal girlfriend phenomena is like 59x easier to create while in a LDR. "Oh don't have the money, oh muh I can't move because I have no time/experience/job" then he pushes the "closing in date" further away. Rinse and repeat. Then you get enough of his non-participation and you MOVE TO HIM. Oh sis NO, you're UPROOTING yourself for his BENEFIT. ha NAH. YOU NEED A DEFINITE PLAN TO CLOSE THE DISTANCE AND NOT TO YOUR SACRIFICE! A TIME, a PLACE, a PLAN, and, oh god, the men will HATE this... COMMITMENT! oh the sweet horror!

Not PROMISES AND DREAMS AND FREWKANG UNICORNS! You're not PUSSY DELIVERY!

You don't put yourself on standby for a man OF UNGUARANTEED QUALITY. You waste away so many hours with a man that will keep his mask on. You can use that time to level up, to work on yourself, to do more productive stuff. There's SO much pressure to be more present. "We need to communicate more to keep our relationship" and you already spend 3 hours DAILY on that man!! Relationships should be STRESS-FREE. Don't kill your life for a man.

There's NO stress situations that reveal his true self. Everything is controlled. If he wants to hide something (a dealbreaker element, his physique etc) it's so damn easy on camera. Just push it off the screen, make the camera zone clean as fuck but behind the camera it can be a pigsty! You can't know. And when you move in, you're in for a NASTY surprise. You wanna be CERTAIN and SURE. No elements of uncertainty, no DOUBTS WHATSOEVER.

So what about sparing yourself the pain and torment of LDRs? Don't go into LDRs, that's it. IRL, LOCAL stuff is better.