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When a man no longer views his sexual expression as predatory, he risks shaking up the status quo in his marriage. The one that inhibits him by threatening "if you mess up you'll never get some again." And I think that shakes a lot of wives to their core.
/r/RPChristians29/07/26 05:46 PM
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I cast penilious shrinkus.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/26 08:13 PM
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You have to make a hedge somewhere and take responsibility for that decision. How do you arrive at conclusions when you are forced to make a decision you arent fully informed about? How do you determine who to trust?
/r/RPChristians12/07/26 01:44 PM
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This is just having boundaries spelled out for manosphere spergs. People are too wrapped up in teaching their exs a lesson or attempting to prove themselves to mommy and daddy. Or showing some ex friend why they can do fine without them. It's precursor shit to personality disorders, thinking "I need to narratively orchestrate the psychoemotional downfall of others."
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/26 07:06 PM
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My concept of frame is not dictated by outside approval from the red pill community. I'm not saying that its determined by the guys in OYS. Im saying you adopted a concept of frame and never updated and integrated it into your own life. The fact so many guys are saying the same thing is not because were all missing something, its because we all see that same thing in the way you explain how your manifest your frame. The fact you have to add so many addendums to principals of frame only further i…
/r/askMRP29/05/26 01:08 AM
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You have basically all of this shit wrong man. 1)There is no proper response to a comfort test. Sometimes women do shitty things and should feel shitty instead of us affirming them and assuring them of our love. Sometimes you might just not care. Comfort tests are information, not mandatory response vectors. You accepting the sad puppydog routine after she was a bitch means you are a fucking fool. 2)Apologizing is not cedeing your frame if youve decided to apologize or because youve decided it w…
/r/askMRP28/05/26 07:00 PM
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Last month, in the heat of the moment she said she regretted marrying me. I then managed to get her to calm down and work towards the real reason (which I'd known all along): that she felt overworked and unsupported, and resentment built over small things. Women are not truth creatures, they are feelings creatures. So in the moments where she is frustrated, upset and otherwise resentful towards you, she does regret marrying you. And in the moments where she is scared of separation and the social…
/r/askMRP28/05/26 05:35 PM
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I feel like I’m doing my part and more—financially, physically, emotionally, domestically—while she provides minimal sexual effort and keeps major decisions about her mental health secret until she’s caught. This is the crux of your entire post. Everything you do is in exchange for pussy and it's not something she ever agreed to. It's also why you're trying to make your horniness a medical problem. "But muh sex insomnia." because it further condemns her. If you want to hate her so bad, just do i…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/26 08:49 PM
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But I've generally thought I have been doing alright. Make decent money. Respected in church and community as a leader. Good as a father and husband. Your first slip up is assuming any of these things make women aroused. My own wife, the only person I'm supposed to have sex with, doesn't want to have sex with me. She does, just not for the reason you want her to want to. She wants to have sex in the same way someone who doesnt like cooking food wants to feed their kids. How do I make her desire …
/r/askMRP21/05/26 10:06 PM
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• Flesh out their experience. • Identify which emotions they experience as a result. • Affirm they make sense to experience. Now if you want the way more manipulative version you have to pay premium for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/26 02:47 PM
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Have you tried anal with your boss? Or hitting on other workplaces while your coworkers watch?
/r/askMRP01/05/26 01:42 PM
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Negging has a few interpretations. The "insults to drop their ego so they want your validation" strategy is a thought idea that has esseentially never played out visibly. The "joking without breaking frame and sometimes dogging on people" does work well. Its essentially fitness testing from the other side. The closer to the line you get the better interaction you have with people, but the more accuracy you need. This demonstrates social acuity which is a very high-desireability quality.
/r/RPChristians04/04/26 05:15 PM
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Fuck i was so right.
/r/askMRP21/03/26 05:31 AM
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Didnt read your entire post. Literally going to throw a drunk ass guess based on your title and see how right i am. Will review afterward. Stop hoping some author will do the work for you - youre whore wont suddenly see the light because she read some bullshit athol kay book. Indoctrination comes from respect downstream. Say less than necessary. Dont abdicate when she is wrong just bc her feelz are off. Stop hoping some writer is going to unstitch her pussy closed. Fill her head with what you wa…
/r/askMRP21/03/26 05:30 AM
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But it might be worth exploring. Stop waiting for permission. If you want to do them do them. most people talk about connection. Yes this is s feels thing. An iota of self awareness and a hint of symbolic capacity will get you the same effect without ruining your capacity to communicate those experiences. You mean doing stuff and seeing how you feel? No. This isn't about how you feel. This is about evaluating what is good, bad, right, wrong, useful, not useful from your own mental point of origi…
/r/askMRP18/02/26 04:18 PM
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"What if you valued another system more than the system you currently value?" If my mother had wheels, she'd be a bike. All hippie shit does is give you more feelings about shit you didnt have feelings about before. Interconnectedness, last thursdayism, solopsist bullshit. You build a psychilogical schema brick by brick, not by hoping hallucinogenics will show you a building that's already there. Otherwise, how do you no you wont have a value system shift by eating your own shit? Who knows, mayb…
/r/askMRP18/02/26 05:53 AM
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There are no cheat codes retard. If you need a fungus to know what you want, you're no better than the ants that get cordyceps and just think "up."
/r/askMRP18/02/26 02:26 AM
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Thank you <3 If you took a minute to realize a few things: 1) You never asked a specific question - whole post is either jerking yourself off or describing how unreasonable your reasonable girlfriend is. 2) All your post does is ask other men to do triage on every aspect of your fucked up life meanwhile you sidestep all of your problems by pussifying yourself so people don't punch down. 3) All of your responses are overly cerebral because you dont want to actually muck the shitstalls in your hea…
/r/askMRP11/02/26 08:42 PM
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she had an abortion *because* she is christian Makes sense. Sometimes I eat meat because I'm vegan.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 03:41 PM
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Covert contract. If op does all this to get pussy she'll just give it to the guy who doesn't need to change his entire life to get pussy.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 03:40 PM
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Be OP Hallo frum euroland Mommygirlfriend wont succen mi dikken unless I rolls with the oder men I know she is not cheating because she sayd so I am hot she is hot and I make a lot of usd. why is her pusay not wet boss? It's because youre european. And because youre braindead and dont know how to address attraction. And because you justify your outcomes by referencing psychobabble. But mostly because youre european.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 03:38 PM
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The "women only want to fuck when they feel safe" bit is annoying as fuck. They want to fuck when they are horny, and 99% of them have roughly the same path to getting there. It's like you're hoping the rest of us will be party to your confidence jerk off sesh, might be fun but I grip hard. Sure, she might have some psychosexual attachment to the idea of stability in response to her bad mood. Frame setting is sexy, but if you start gloating about it, it flips it back into a boy who is playing a …
/r/askMRP06/02/26 01:43 PM
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Are you implying Jews or something?
/r/RPChristians03/02/26 07:04 PM
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Nice. Who is them and when do I collect my youtube blood money.
/r/RPChristians03/02/26 05:41 PM
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The answer is to be cool, love people and have boundaries. Women love men with full cups and who decide how the world is formed - which is absolutely a call back to genesis.
/r/RPChristians02/02/26 04:40 PM
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Tate has good pickup stuff but the tates are morally bankrupt. Fuentes has a lot of issues. All i know about the 3rd guy is hes obsessed with end times stuff and that just aint it.
/r/RPChristians02/02/26 04:38 PM
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There isnt a lot of decent relationship oriented content that is both grounded in Christ and is weathered against realism and practice that hasnt been carrion fed. Creators are either antisocial in the literal sense; deconstructionist towards male/female relationships, or they are soft complimentary and don't acknowledge a natural power imbalance that exists in healthy relationships. At least not that I've found, and I've looked for a while. Petersons old stuff is okay, but it's essentially like…
/r/RPChristians02/02/26 12:53 PM
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No.
/r/RPChristians02/02/26 12:39 PM
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Its clear based on your responses you want your situation to be fucked. Which is stupid, but that makes sense because you are stupid. Record calls, get a text message downloader, always have the camera on during interactions, never shittalk her to son, spend valiable time with your kids, never allow implications to stand - always ask her specifically what she means. Always write out full confirmation messages "just to make sure I understand you, you said xyz about abc time and date." You're doom…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/25 01:19 AM
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Lazy
/r/RPChristians29/11/25 12:18 AM
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You're walking into a situation you are both woefully too immature to deal with. Both spiritually and emotionally. • Her having premarital sex was not a sin against you - the idea you can offer her forgiveness or grace for that shows you have a mismatched understanding of yourself, your roles, and what relationships within the context of biblical marriage look like. • Being made a new creation does not mean what you think it means. You've somehow been tricked into thinking that we are not allowe…
/r/RPChristians23/11/25 09:46 AM
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Overly complicated answer for something that is far more simple. Women love men who are good vibes and can make them feel good vibes. All the extra stuff is just 40yo cope.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/25 02:23 AM
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You're a grown ass man being insecure about someone half your age. When you've screwed the pooch bad enough for a 22yo to be as overt as she is it means youve cooked yourself. What's pathetic is i can tell youre the type to find out your situation is fucked and you would still dump her. Grow the fuck up dude.
/r/askMRP26/09/25 08:42 PM
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Some of this may be cultural, so where are you from?
/r/askMRP26/09/25 07:51 PM
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The smarmyness from guys who randomly pop into this community is insane. You made zero effort to make easily understandable concepts unstandable - your word choice is the gatekeeper to the ideas, not the intellectual rigor of the ideas themselves, and that's evident just from your summary of the book. I don't need to waste $2.99 to figure out you smugly think you're better than everyone in corporate church.
/r/RPChristians20/09/25 03:20 PM
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Nerds contantly trying to figure out how to rename the same rant someone else gave a few months ago. I'm guilty of it too but dang, this one is enjoying it too much. Instead of buying his book, write on a piece of paper the phrase "some guy has a better understanding of how lame everything is than you." And you'd come away with roughly the same value. OP, you want to combat perfomative morality, you don't do it by being performatively intellectual, you do it by practicing a substantive morale. Y…
/r/RPChristians20/09/25 02:41 AM
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Allowing your wife's discomfort/boredom to prevent you from doing things that are important. She's isn't right simply because she's upset.
/r/RPChristians08/09/25 06:36 PM
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Huh
/r/RPChristians03/09/25 03:48 PM
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Its a choice whether or not to bounce, so not knowing means you are simply pushed around by life. The wisdom? Get over yourself. A job is not that important.
/r/RPChristians31/08/25 06:30 PM
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I’m attempting to figure out whether or not deception/omission/abuse? Eithee you've done no research and coming to a men's space in hopes that bigger brains than you have contorted scripture in a way that justifies your behavior so you don't feel bad at your decision. Or you have done the research and it's even worse. I’m simply stating Nobody is ever "simply stating". You're building a case against your wife to make sure nobody tut-tuts your decision. If you're going to sin, at least don't try …
/r/RPChristians28/08/25 03:16 PM
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Wdym
/r/RPChristians27/08/25 01:08 AM
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Unknowingly married someone with BPD (and was pressured into doing so) Then you are blind, or rushed into this because your dick does most of your thinking. BPD is not concealable for longer than 6 months. I need wisdom. Mid-30s. 6’5, 240, bench 225x8. Multi 7fig net worth. Bible daily. Took the RP after getting engaged (6 months into dating). Move evidence that physical fitness has lost the plot. You're in shape physically but emotionally a blob. Also the 7 fig? This is very likely roleplay. Th…
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 09:54 PM
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R10 banned
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 12:52 AM
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Real. Is it confirmed that shes talking to another guy?
/r/RPChristians12/08/25 04:09 PM
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Nothing. What you do is you get the ship turned right. Stop drinking, get in relative shape, play with your kids, stop being a pussy towards your wife - doesnt mean be an autistic dick. It means dont avoid saying things because she'll be hurt. Tell her you don't want a divorce, and if she fights for one, give her one amicably.
/r/RPChristians12/08/25 01:57 PM
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She also silent treatmented him because she has no respect for him anymore. Undignified. If he has to steal for sale on the black market or deal drugs to have an income so the wife does not nag at him about money, then so be it. You guys can't be helped. This is why the ladder gets pulled up. Imagine bending your values simply to avoid being nagged - it's so cringe how terrified of conflict you guys are. 90% of the problems the red pill solves for are because men are mortified of hurting their w…
/r/RPChristians12/08/25 01:54 PM
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Lets recap because you did your level best to obfuscate this. Alcoholic for 11 years Just broke your first year of sobriety Haven't held a job in 6 months Pushed your SAHM wife back into the workforce despite protest Covert contract regarding the studio for goodboy points You also silent treatmented your wife because you were a piss baby about her not giving you said goodboy points. Nobody here can help you until you start being far more honest.
/r/RPChristians10/08/25 06:21 AM
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Tell me you've put pussy on a pedestal without telling me you've put pussy on a pedestal. Everything you are can be reduced to a power grab for leverage to maintain the attention of a woman.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 03:55 PM
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If you're really trying to open up: Try slowly increasing the gauge size of your plug. Ask her to peg you slower or use lube. Also, you're doomed my guy.
/r/askMRP23/06/25 03:58 AM
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Dear Wife, How fucking dumb can you be??? I clearly stated that anything over $500.00 needs my express approval because saying no hurts my feelings and makes me feel like you'll leave me for a guy who will just spend money on you. But instead of reading my mind, you took me at my word and did the thing I asked you to do. So now I look like a huge dickhead. And we both know my ego can't handle that. Thanks a lot bitch, now I'm going to have to piss and moan to my internet friends on MRP. Sincerel…
/r/askMRP04/06/25 08:26 PM
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• Read the sidebar • Write a weekly OYS • Practice shutting the fuck up • Get rid of the assumption that any of your previous beliefs are meritorious enough to not be reevalutaed. If you want a real challenge, for the next 2 weeks, every time someone insults you(outside of work), tell them they are right. Not because they are right, but because you need to learn to stop DEERing.
/r/askMRP03/06/25 08:26 PM
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Traveling is the hobby of white girls who like to screw brown dudes or stinky French men. You have no meaningful relationships so you think getting hammered on the coast line will make you feel better. It won't, neither will the easy pussy. There may be something to the legacy of having kids but it seems like you just do stuff because people have told you it's good or bad to do a thing. I took her virginity and that was a big deal for her family. Pakis man, what the fuck does this even mean? Who…
/r/askMRP30/05/25 05:47 AM
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You arent even sure what you want you dingus. "I want a trad girl." "I want to be a passport bro." "I've spent x amount of money on women." Pick. Do you want to fuck sluts, get married, leverage wealth for access to enthusiasm. What is it? My culture has been doing this for thousands of years. HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA Pakistan also practices open defecation. Habit doesn't justify itself.
/r/askMRP25/05/25 03:06 PM
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You aren't spinning two plates. Your umbilical cord is holding one, and your wallet is holding one, neither of them are spinning. You're an Indian guy getting sold one woman by her family to your family and texting a Pinay girl who wants a greencard or for a guy who is easily controlled by a scrap of sexual attention in exchange for USD security. Nobody here can answer your question because nobody here would ever been dumb enough to stick their foot in the psycho-cultural bear trap american-indi…
/r/askMRP24/05/25 06:11 PM
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truly themselves I dont see a true self existing. Just the self you choose or the self that's chosen for you. True self is the most christian-ey mental model ive seen you have. I like it. Re: the term stuff yeah, I don't generally do roleplay not my biz. I get off physically not really from eroticism so 🤷‍♂️ just not wired that way.
/r/askMRP02/05/25 01:29 PM
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You can't smell porn. Both men and women fantasize about things that would turn them off in reality because the video camera in their head doesn't work when overlaying onto reality. Especially in the moments when your dick isn't hard. DD/sd is this for most guys, guys like Horns who are an exception essentially live their romantic relationships through their dicks, and that is not how most people want to experience their LTRs. The average guy fantasizes about dominance because he likes the idea …
/r/askMRP01/05/25 11:04 PM
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Figure out why you are making all this money. Sounds like you are using status symbols to justify your security in your marriage. An unfaithful woman will cheat because the guy is attractive and funny at the right moment - no matter how many dinners you throw at her. What is your map? Why are you on earth? Are you here to live hedonistically? Have as much sexy sex possible? Do you want to leave an imprint on the world through good deeds? Bad deeds? Do you want to have a legacy? Do you want it to…
/r/askMRP30/04/25 03:16 PM
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Whats the long term thinking you're trying to address? Seems like you have a lot of "should"s implicit in your thinking.
/r/askMRP28/04/25 05:58 PM
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Yeah but the blowjob would probably be better with the insecure version. Also: moralizing.
/r/askMRP25/04/25 02:02 PM
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Cant even be a pussy correctly. Even in moments when you are using predatory weakness you still have to somehow fuck it up. You are a secondary character in The Show™️
/r/askMRP24/04/25 03:39 PM
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Blue pill beta strategy in action. Let me give a glimpse into the mind of OP. "If I were at dinner with this guy and his wife, I would tell him he's not communicating and that he's treating her poorly. She'd be so shocked by my honesty, she'd surely become my maiden. She'd probably be so moved by my single action I'd have sex on tap the rest of my life. Perchance." Predatory OP. Once you take women off the pedestal you realize they are just as fucked up and evil as men. This leads to the inabili…
/r/askMRP24/04/25 03:30 PM
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Just blame her for it. Too many guys here are scared to psychologically traumatize the mother of their children and its like "yeah, sure, she might drown your kids" grow up. Cry harder slow nutters. Faster I bust faster I get back to watching anime.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 03:19 PM
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I'm not misunderstanding it. The question is just bad from the jump.
/r/RPChristians19/04/25 11:31 PM
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Does Christian masculinity require born again Christian men to remain abstinent until marriage? There is no christian masculinity, just masculinity. There are components that are incongruent to faith, but whats youre trying to do is a symptom of insecurity. Dont waste your intellectual energy trying to figure out how you are secretly more masculine than the buff rich womanizing chad next to you secretly because you can't get laid and that feelz bad.
/r/RPChristians19/04/25 01:06 AM
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Why are you guys so obsessed with your wives? How is this the "thick of things"? Rather than just being more interesting in your personal lives and rejecting suspect behavior, you find ways to punish your wives then get surprised when an enthusiastic, gregarious, and confident guy comes along and actually fucks your wife.
/r/askMRP10/04/25 02:25 AM
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Why are you guys so obsessed with your wives? How is this the "thick of things"? Rather than just being more interesting in your personal lives and rejecting suspect behavior, you find ways to punish your wives then get surprised when an enthusiastic, gregarious, and confident guy comes along and actually fucks your wife.
/r/askMRP10/04/25 02:25 AM
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Huh, that is interesting? What does that mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/25 09:02 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/25 07:12 PM
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What? e: lol
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/25 02:41 PM
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Ask any of the guys who've made it out how many times they had to read the stories, meditate on boiled down truths, and be hit over the head with their own bullshit to finally get it. Even the old posts were just regurgitations of the shit before them, and them before that. That's one of the core tenets of a lot of this red pill bullshit, at one point we knew - and then for whatever reason, society started to give us the slip, and many chose to stay in the dark. When I read Horn's post on Initia…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/25 08:55 PM
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Is this AI?
/r/RPChristians17/02/25 05:56 AM
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<3
/r/RPChristians10/02/25 07:47 PM
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Just be butthurt. 🤷‍♂️ Admit to being hurt, then learn to shut the fuck up about it because unless you're going to do something about it, ruminating only robs life from you. When my wife gave birth to my daughter it was a shitshow. There was a moment during the emergency c-section I thought I was about to lose them both. Baby was whisked away to NICU, wifes vitals plummeted and was losing blood. I have never been more prepared to kill a doctor than when that happened. We found out later there we…
/r/askMRP24/01/25 05:23 AM
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be me total alpha chad girlfriend acts like a total bitch on the phone I tell her my boundary is I dont spend time with people who are shitty towards me she acts like a total bitch for the next hour and I have to listen I tell her my boundary is I dont spend time with people who are shitty towards me she acts like a total bitch for the next hour and I have to listen I tell her my boundary is I dont spend time with people who are shitty towards me she acts like a total bitch for the next hour and…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 10:24 PM
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God, I can't imagine what it's like to be in relationships with some of you pussies. By now I should have the Mysogynist™️ gold star labeled on my account but I keep reading this shit and it makes me appreciate how much your girlfriends and wives are bullying and bullshitting each of you. Conversations are literally the first thing you do OP, and you're treating it like you're bringing down the hammer at the climax of the movie. Even before a lot of this red pill bullshit, if youre not even brin…
/r/askMRP08/01/25 05:39 PM
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What's your point?
/r/askMRP26/12/24 04:32 PM
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Everything you do is preformative and as a way to control her. You've lost the plot.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 06:53 AM
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Immense
/r/RPChristians19/12/24 03:42 AM
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I appreciate the ownership so I'll soften up a little. It's going to suck breaking up with her. There isnt very much you can do to make it less sucky so just stick to your guns, give yourself 45 minutes to sit her down, lay it out, and let her cry. If she tries to double down simply leave. It's brutal, but heartbreak is. If she asks why, let her know its a difference in values, if she wants you to expand on it you can say that your values in faith arent aligned and that combined with just a diff…
/r/RPChristians16/12/24 11:35 PM
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One thing I'll tell os that I'm not using God as an excuse . Whether you intend to or not makes no difference, the way you communicate is excusing the behavior irrespective of your feelings.
/r/RPChristians16/12/24 09:06 PM
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For starters, when you are asking for advice, hedging and trying to soften peoples criticism of you is weak. Stop doing that. Here for example: (yh I know, I compromised). Months down the line she started coming to church and . . . going to church less and reading and praying less. Its like you are leaning on the double meaning of the word compromised to offload the failure or to control other people criticizing you. After months of Heartache and spiritual decline and uneasiness, . . .pleasing t…
/r/RPChristians16/12/24 08:31 PM
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Unless you are now simply extracting resources while emotionally divorced from her youre just being a cuck.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 02:41 AM
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If a girl gives head for meth, she likes meth. If a girl gives head for weed, she likes giving head.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 02:40 AM
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Say yes. Wtf are you asking me? "Hey, I smeared shit all over my face and tits then when I tried to have sex it seemed like you rejected me." I did, and I am. Her behavior is just the emotional equivalent of shit.
/r/askMRP13/12/24 09:10 PM
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🙌
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 01:03 AM
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Your options: 1) Stand your ground and risk having her leave. Pros: If she stays, you now have the ability to reconstruct the tone and mood of the household. Cons: You wil be perceived as the bad guy. 2) Capitulate and Comply. Pros: You get to put off another fight until the next time. Cons: Your life is dominated by a bitchy woman. (And not in the cool latex way.) Or something more your speed: Bitch and moan while simultaneously doing exactly what she says so that not only do you not get the be…
/r/askMRP15/11/24 09:55 PM
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"I got ILYBINLY from my girlfriend of 6 weeks, now I'm sulking at home and my wife is being a total bitch."
/r/askMRP09/11/24 03:27 PM
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I'm fingers crossing your wifes boyfriend is here. So I'll throw my vote. You should give her 75% and then stipened out your paycheck for the next 20 years to them.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 03:12 PM
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We need a standing list of all the usernames and posts.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 03:09 PM
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Train it to help you pick up women.
/r/askMRP26/10/24 02:23 PM
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Honestly, I'm fine with it. Some people just dig around to be angry
/r/RPChristians24/10/24 12:09 AM
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I have people saying shes trash and going to cheat, and then I have people like you on the opposite end of the spectrum. To be clear, we are all on the spectrum. Keep in mind, most people in RP spaces are going to be bordering on incels. So YMMV.
/r/RPChristians24/10/24 12:04 AM
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What does she mean when she says she prefers a man to be mean to her? Imagine someone who wouldn't stop complimenting you for everything you do. You burn dinner? They actually prefer it burnt. You forgot to wipe? They enjoy the smell of crap. Etc. At some point this will annoy you. You want someone who has preferences and standards. When women describe the "want them to be mean" what they actually mean is "I dont want a guy who compliments me as a long form version of paying for sex and validati…
/r/RPChristians23/10/24 11:11 PM
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"I regard any enthusiastic, engaging or positive interaction between my girlfriend and any other men as flirtatious which subsequently means she is crossing a boundary." you, paraphrased Sorry dog, you're cooked. You will either turn the woman you are with into a horrible wretch, or they will dump you for being insecure. Go find a depressed, unhappy, and agoraphobic girl to date. Might be more your speed. Just make sure she is still showering. I don't know why so many of the guys here chase afte…
/r/RPChristians23/10/24 11:06 PM
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Without reading anything: yes. But let's see. “would chad tolerate this” or “would she act like this to chad" You're expecting the second without the effort of applying the first. act like everything is cool now all of a sudden. Scared of ruining the mood. This is all your fault. You train people to treat you the way you are being treated. and if i should just let things go or if these are acts of disrespect that need to be taken seriously. The answer is both. Here's your nugget of wisdom: Addre…
/r/askMRP21/10/24 12:57 AM
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You're digging around posts that are months old. Get a life.
/r/RPChristians20/10/24 01:50 PM
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Finally some good fucking meat.
/r/askMRP11/10/24 01:52 PM
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I’ve tried not to deer, so I just said those are my boundaries Having boundaries does not mean you tell someone "these are my boundaries." Boundaries are interpersonal relationship expectations and standards. If someone accidentally crosses them, it's fair to give a (few?) warnings and explainations especially if the person is looking to understand you. But when the standard is obvious and the breach is belligerent you don't waste breathe explaining a restructuring of the relationship. You simpl…
/r/askMRP08/10/24 02:17 AM
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Also, starting an argument with "i dont want to break up with you" is like starting a negotiation with "i dont want to lose this deal". The fact you perceive this as a negotiation is already a big L.
/r/askMRP07/10/24 09:40 PM
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Direct conversations do not have the desired effect, so I am trying to develop an approach that's a bit more subtle. That's because you're not saying the quiet part out loud. "Moving forward, if you do xyz thing I'm going to correct you - even if it's in front of others because this behavior has hit my limit. I'm not interested in breaking up with you but if you either don't adjust, or find these terms unacceptable that is my indicator our relationship is over." Quit being a pussy.
/r/askMRP07/10/24 07:29 AM
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Yes. However there are a number of sociological and interpersonal failures most of the guys here make. 1) They can't differentiate between another person's opinion of them, and their own opinion of themselves. 2) They can't handle the negative emotion associated with someone having a bad opinion of them, so they twist themselves into knots trying to justify (DEER) in order to appease others. 3) They've been mentally fucked into believing that lacking trust for their partner is somehow a moral fa…
/r/askMRP24/09/24 04:19 PM
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You need to understand how to Close Out. • "Listen. I'm not interested in having this conversation anymore. If you keep asking I'm done interacting with you tonight." • "I'm not being funny, I had other stuff to do - if you need to talk to me, please feel free to call. But i have no expectation for myself to call you at every free minute I have." Doing this will convert shit tests into comfort tests, at which point you can actually change an underlying relational mechanism between you two. But u…
/r/askMRP24/09/24 12:30 AM
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I am the most upvoted writer of the Red Pill period. Who let bro cook?
/r/RPChristians19/09/24 01:19 AM
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No fret. The fact this is the first time I've ever seen someone receive an token in askmrp is a weepy soft gripped omen for the future of the sub - and not because of poor moderation. Men are becoming so disoriented and socially atomized they can't tell that the "atta boys" are patronizing. "Oh geez OP, that really sucks . It sounds like she is starting to look for another opportunity." This type of shit reeks of "OP, you couldn't have predicted any of this. Your behavior didn't contribute to th…
/r/askMRP19/09/24 01:10 AM
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Imagine hand holding guys who have chosen to fall off.
/r/askMRP18/09/24 05:27 PM
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Any insights? Buying all new athleisure wear that shows her body off, hair done, make up, tanning. Lol. I wonder if your kids will call him by his first name, or by "Dad".
/r/askMRP18/09/24 04:55 PM
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Locking this post. Imagine telling a girl your favorite verse is about Paul's church structuring. Don't worry about staying away from feminist women, I'm sure all women try to stay away from you. You weren't banned from the dating app for quoting the Bible, you were banned for being a creep. I'm sure you would also somehow be upset that a kindergarten kicked you out for refusing to not talk about Ezekial 23:20. "But but but it's in the bible."
/r/RPChristians12/09/24 09:19 PM
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Yes, have you even been reading the sub? Most of the guys here are gay.
/r/askMRP04/09/24 11:00 PM
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Why are the two being conflated here? Because your boundary is a bad boundary/you dont know how to even construct a boundary. You behave as if the purpose of enforcing is so that people change their behavior. “you called me a shit storyteller in front of her, now she’s going to think I suck!” This isn't how were interpreting it. Because we understand: "you chose to criticize me in front of her, that is a boundary” This isnt an arbitrary boundary. It's because of underlying beliefs you hold, comb…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 08:14 PM
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No. You are a step above most guys who are simply browbeat into a pink goo submission. You stood up to the big meanie. But you came across as fragile. And that is why you're still getting so much shit. You smell like someone who could be called a bad word once, and you would fight bc "muh respekt". Imagine the pov of the others there. Your wife made a joke, you told her "we need to talk upstairs" then after you both came down she probably seemed chastised and you both ruined the mood for everyon…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 06:45 PM
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She is your mental point of origin.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 06:33 PM
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You held frame. But your frame is uninviting. You have a right as a man to create an environment that is perfectly suited towards you, and you have a right to defend it from people trying to disrupt it. But just because you build it doesn't mean they will come. If you're too rigid you'll create a kingdom of 1. It's clear that you're trying to punish the behavior to change the opinion, which doesn't work.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 06:29 PM
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I decided to flee. Why are you such a huge pussy. Plus, I didn't bring practically any clothing for me, so I had to buy. Oh, you're an over emotional man baby who makes plans on the fly without consideration for the outcomes. Panic overwhelmed me and I committed a typical mistake: start calling people here and there, including family, to tell them my situation and listen to their advice. Ew. More weak behavior. "It seems you want me to divorce you. If it is so, I accept your divorce." Pathetic. …
/r/askMRP25/08/24 09:25 PM
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She threatened that I would have to take the baby to the class (ridiculous) Not ridiculous. Treat this situation as if you were divorced. If you wanted to take those classes and were a single father what would you do? Either find a sitter, or bring the kid, or don't take the class. Your wife is displaying she doesn't have any interest in helping you for this, don't piss and moan about it. She's calling me strong names, cussing, asking if I am gay . . . Well, I mean you did ask for permission to …
/r/askMRP10/08/24 05:02 PM
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Any insights or advice would be greatly appreciated. You joined a sub dedicated to understanding and interpreting relationships through a specific lens, yet failed entirely at using any of the theory or terminology to understand or interpret your relationship. It's because you are dumb. Lift, read, post in oys.
/r/askMRP07/08/24 01:44 PM
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Here are a list of useful truths or half-truths your therapist won't tell you. Women don't like when men show emotion. They like when men show controlled and attractive emotion. Emotional intimacy is code for "I want to feel like you really get me." Not "I want us to really know eachother." Women will do just about anything to offload responsibility onto someone else and therapeutic language is coded in a way to encourage this. Couples therapy can only work in very narrow situations. Most men ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/24 12:55 PM
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DEERing is only within the context of someone asking you questions to undermine your authority or when someone is asking questions in a clearly bad faith way. Don't punish people, especially your wife, for being interested in your life. "Hey, how was your weekend?" "Why the fuck should I tell you?"
/r/askMRP01/08/24 11:20 PM
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I didn't do anything about it because I didn't want to upset her. Damn. One of the most important phrases for a man here to mutter. Don't ever let it happen again. A buddy of mine has a cousin who went through a crazy divorce - met with both of them at the tail end of said divorce and the cousin was already talking about this new girl who was willing to do anal and was "everything he was looking for". Man didn't realize he was toilet-shaped, and until he unfucked himself mentally every woman he …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 11:11 PM
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Not bait. You are putting the cart way before the horse and the fact you don't understand that means you haven't done any of the work. It's the equivalent of not wanting to make more money because you don't want to pay more in taxes. Cope to justify why you didn't approach.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 04:46 PM
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it was probably wise since the park is close to where my gf and I live together and I’ll invariably see this girl again when I’m with my gf. What a weird bit of content. What's the implication? • That you're going to hit it off so well that you'll fuck and she'll have no choice but to tell your gf? • That you won't be able to help yourself but to tell your gf you approached her? • That if you approach her and it goes poorly and she sees you with your gf she will be forced to run up on you and sp…
/r/askMRP01/08/24 01:50 PM
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This sounds like AI. You get to pick how you're treated. If you don't want to get hit then choose to stop getting hit. It's simple math. awww what a bitch, does it hurt? Get her in here. She sounds based AF. Gets moody, takes it out on you, then love bombs you back to status quo. Truly a pillar of Mental Point of Origin.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 08:55 AM
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You drawing the line The Soyman's Guide to destroying your life and marriage. • Establish impotent rules without enforcement • Allow your wife to browbeat you with plausible deniability. • Failure to accept negative social framing • Presume she is dumb, instead of holding her accountable You're cooked.
/r/askMRP27/07/24 11:49 PM
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Oh, you mean the ShitSplitter4000?
/r/askMRP19/07/24 04:24 PM
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You need to teach her how. Women are insecure and will do the absolute minimum expression if they are unsure about the outcome. If I have to walk you through it, I get to sleep with her.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 03:42 PM
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alpha-male-with-submissive-wife mentality Love Hate to break it to you, but you never were. You were a 20-something who got drunk and didn't invest in outcomes because you didn't care. It's much harder to risk when you actually have a vested interest in things going a certain way. The pussy was always there deep inside your fleshy folds, you just didn't know to yet apply it to this specific bitch. You haven't fixed anything and probably need to boil in the sewage for a lot longer before you can …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 02:07 PM
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Men wishing to punish OnlyFans girls do so out of a "sour grapes" mental origin. They can't have them IRL, they can pay for them but paying makes their sexuality feel cheap and predatory, so they push the negative feelings off on the models. OF models are the sacrificial goats of sexual exaggeration. 1,000,000 shameful PMOs for every model. What I find funny is the Neothot-Tradwaifu Social Media Influencer usually finds a way to push the traditional garb still ever closer to pornification. The f…
/r/RPChristians12/07/24 06:39 PM
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Being "aware" is a dumbass term.
/r/askMRP25/06/24 07:20 PM
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The "definition of done" in the many readings suggested to us is nebulous. When do you stop maintenance on a vehicle? Never. You are fighting against the natural order of breakdown. Also you aren't owning your shit to trick the cosmos into convincing your wife into blowing you. You're owning your shit because the alternative is pathetic. I ask because I have a tendency to fight to the bitter end. This clears it up. You dont understand anything.
/r/askMRP24/06/24 01:49 PM
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I actually want you to still marry her and blow your life up. Please dont dump her.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 05:10 PM
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Screw what everyone else says, I say go for it. I am 27. She is 28. She's older than you, that means she'll be more mature and can help you. But i feel that I don't want to get married. You dont want to get married right now no time like the present! I love her but I an not IN love with her. Nothing a little time can't solve. Lots of guy friends. This means you'll probably get a whole host of buddies after you're married and wont have to text her all the time cause she'll have other people to te…
/r/askMRP20/06/24 05:08 PM
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I think there is a valuable distinction between bedroom activities and lifestyle. Some guys here might say that it needs to be seamless - which would mean you'd be fucked as a de facto matter of sexual principal, but I'm not convinced. There are lots of different women into lots of different things. The problem you'll face is that your wife/gf will very likely struggle at one point to delineate between "my bf is a submissive little twerp that better beg his mommy for cummies" and "can I truly tr…
/r/askMRP16/06/24 03:49 AM
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Chatbot confirmed. Weird. Just gives more credence to the dead internet thing - at some point advertising bots will just be advertising to other bots. Go download a car.
/r/RPChristians15/06/24 10:09 PM
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Ew are you a chatbot or something? Your response sounds weird af. If you actually want help dm me and we can chat over discord.
/r/RPChristians15/06/24 10:00 PM
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Hold the reigns there cowboys. PUA, pratting and game isn't supposed to be used for a girl. It's supposed to be used for girls. You are exactly the demographic that shouldn't be using this stuff if you already have a target - your frame wont be able to support the long term weight of a coopted sexual strategy. It would be better for you to be straight up and authentic because at least there wont be a huge jump between how "chad" you start, to how "beta" you actually are. It's one thing to practi…
/r/RPChristians15/06/24 09:25 PM
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Eat the meat, spit out the bones. Most PUA content is amoral - meaning it is up to you how you want to utilize it. A major problem you'll face if you use PUA strategies is most pua stuff is based off of single-iteration, low repeatability interactions with women. Meaning: if you use these skills, you must also have the underlying mental framework to maintain the attraction the playbook allowed you to co-opt. Most men, especially pussified christian men, lack this.
/r/RPChristians15/06/24 06:31 PM
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Not a spectrum. You dont understand the fundamental concepts and think yourself capable of omnicience - which is why you're so misguided. My parents are married for 40 years, I've never ever seeing my dad encouraging anything of that sort, or don't giving a fuck if she's looking outside for validation. And? Maybe your dad tinkers with his cock cage while sitting in the cuck chair as your mom screws a [pick your race] guy. Just because they've been married for 40 years doesn't mean they aren't mi…
/r/askMRP06/06/24 04:23 AM
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Got a great girl Great girls are great fucks. Stop coping. Allow your wife to fall below expectations numb nuts. Very transactional and not feeling any dominance over them whatsoever. You want permission to dominate, but dominance is given, it's taken. STFU (needs a bit of work - finding it tempting to seek validation "I'm going in my gym for a bit") Wife still needs to know the plans, but she doesn't need to know why you've chosen those specific plans or why those plans have changed.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 08:31 PM
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Head down. Read and lift. Stfu. Post in OYS
/r/askMRP30/05/24 05:58 PM
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If her cooperation is actually becoming a difficulty to your life, stop accepting it. If she cooks fatty food while youre on a cut, refuse it. If she says she'll be home at x time, and is 90+ minutes late, don't be upset that her food is cold. Prepare your own food if you can't rely on her. Behave as a bachelor. I think she has this idea that her job is more tiring and more important than mine. She has an ego. We both make the same amount of money (6 figures). My SMV is definitely higher than he…
/r/askMRP28/05/24 08:42 PM
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Im not even talking about to your wife - I'm talking about above. He didnt ask for examples, yet you had to keep adding. Its the need to have the last word, or that you think: "Maybe if I just explained this one more little thing they'll finally understand how right and attractive I am and how dumb she is"
/r/askMRP28/05/24 06:40 PM
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Damn do, you just cant fucking help yourself but to keep talking. Issa sickness.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 06:35 PM
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I've had muscle strains longer than two weeks. Dont start celebrating. Acknowledge the positive and keep your head down - that also means shutting the fuck up about your menial success. Because it could just be that your girlfriend has just been screwing some guy for the last fortnight so her bean has been properly flicked, it may have nothing to do with you. Sex was pretty infrequent as mentioned it was once a month and the last 3 days we have had sex 4 times with me initiating all times. 🤦‍♂️🤦…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/24 03:23 AM
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Isn't the bluff part of getting me to “fall in line”? Stop asking questions you already know the answers to. How would you use the jealousy/sadness as an opportunity to address the problem? You are not using it. Just be straight up with her. "Look, this marriage isn't going the way I want. You've brought up divorce x number of times and at this point I'm fine with it." "But u/tkarrde38 I want to be married to you blah blah blah." "Well this is how our marriage is going to change." [Proceed to la…
/r/askMRP11/05/24 01:07 AM
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Some men ruin their wives and lose the energy to fix them. Keep that in mind. Don't hold animosity towards her, she didn't fuck up the marriage - you did. It may just be that you no longer care to repair it. I say ok. Meanwhile she goes into jealousy fits, asking where I am going, crying, saying this is so hard, it's clear I have moved on, etc.. You called her bluff, this may open up the opportunity for you to address the problem, but you don't have to.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 10:56 PM
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Scared of conflict. Fear of loss of relationship. Dread by the risk of sexual isolation. Avoidant of negative public perception. There you go I just saved you $1200 in therapy.
/r/askMRP08/05/24 05:17 PM
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She mentions that I could have texted her that things were running late, which I admit I could have mentioned it at half time. Why? Why spend extra energy on someone that is giving you so little. I feel like I’m being her bitch here explaining why being 10min late to get home. You shouldn't feel like it. You are her bitch. “Not until you want to be honest about what’s going on at soccer and why you can never manage to come home on time”. Sounds like you're off the hook.
/r/askMRP08/05/24 03:12 PM
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The first one identified is that when Mom is in our house with me and my wife, First of you weird homeschooled kid, don't call her "Mom", call her "My mom". I remember how I've always kept my mom's interests as a top priority and made Dad leave the house. If you want to fuck your mom, just say it. So I lose my frame and jump to defend my mom. You can't lose what you don't have. I just want to add a little bit more context to my situation. I come from a country with eastern values, This is why Am…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/24 01:34 PM
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Vision: Implementing the commands of Christ laid out in the four gospels . . . in my community and church JSYK This is how people without missions describe their missions. Ministry: Doing well where I serve. Talked with the youth pastor about what I’m teaching and he seemed fine with my lessons for the kids. Goal: Continue to create studies for leading the kids. Keep eyes open if additional service opportunities come open. Ahh, I see now why - you're a clerical youth pastor.
/r/RPChristians02/05/24 02:54 PM
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Some guys here like to mix the drama of day to day life with their bedroom activities. You all have mental illness. You can't fuck your way through familial problems. My main question is how do I conduct myself with the next steps: do I be an asshole tyrant or do I play up some stoic unaffected amusement? Reverse psychology and agree with her when she says we should split? And clearly this is includes you. She all but confessed to fucking your brother, and to him reciprocating her advances, yet …
/r/askMRP01/05/24 01:11 PM
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One of my best openers was convincing a girl to feed a seagull a french fry. Cold approaching is socially awkward, so it was smart that you precontextualized the reason for talking to her - This was all really fun It's fun to have those special male-female interactions. Keep it up. I am not sure about the indirect approach, it feels like the chicks know what’s happening anyway. Sure. But let me tell you a story from my 4 day bender last weekend. I was walking through a walmart and a TMobile guy …
/r/askMRP26/04/24 05:43 PM
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how to reconcile having a strict lifestyle and being an introvert, with having a social life? Anyone cares to share what they did? What the fuck question is this? Either be an introvert and suffer the consequences good and bad. Or go out and suffer the consequences good or bad. Braindead.
/r/askMRP26/04/24 12:05 PM
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I'm grappling with anxiety about the prospect of my future wife being involved with such men or having a past I'll struggle to accept and I will end up having to deal with her trauma while feeling insecure. Then don't date women who have been with these guys. How many girls are you currently seeing? How many of them have pasts like this? The prevailing narrative from these red pill communities, that "all girls are like this," is fostering a negative view of women and increasing my worries. be OP…
/r/RPChristians20/04/24 08:51 PM
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and I just laughed and said "yeah right", didn't take her seriously. She then repeated herself "I'm serious. Its annoying.". Either she is a prude, or youre a sex pest. Impossible for us to know without seeing how she is responding to you, and how that correlates to the frequency you sexualize conversation. Thinking back I still think that no matter what I'd say she'll just broken record me with "no, I'm serious.", but I understand that maybe my game is just lacking. If she is a prude, then you …
/r/askMRP20/04/24 08:41 PM
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She's a good girl, tradwife material. Cringe. Thoughts? A small life raft is better than a sinking ship. Don't jerk yourself off too hard, it could be simply that she fucked up enough that you are finally a good option. That said, fun to read. I remember girls I pined for in HS - now they are fat and sell essential oils. Turns out overestimating the dividends from depreciating looks is a devastating strategy.
/r/askMRP19/04/24 02:51 PM
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From reading your post and response, her opinion is the source of your beliefs. Something is good because she says it's good. You're behaving poorly because she says you are - it couldn't possibly be that you knew she was telling you to stop and disregarded her, it has to be that you are such a dumb fucking idiot that you didn't understand her. inb4 that's not true because I believe blah blah blah Point is, you are behaving as if it's true, and she resents you for it. This applies to sex. You ar…
/r/askMRP16/04/24 03:50 PM
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Frequency, or ecstatic, orgasmic wife. Ego is tied to her climax. She doesn't like I'm standing firmer against her tantrums one bit. Not even necessary to say. "how often do you pick up on my hints and do what I would want you to do." Playing into her shitty game. feeling like I was beat down into submission to some degree by not pointing out how self-centered and unproductive she was being. What? You want to teach her a lesson? You want to prove you're so much smarter than her? Your morals are …
/r/askMRP16/04/24 04:56 AM
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"A Pimp is just a whore that flipped the game on whores." - Pimp, Iceberg Slim Women will absolutely pay men for their time and attention. Just be interesting enough to require all of her income and her willingness to work for the household. Meanwhile their wives are stressed, working long hours, and often unavailable. None of us would fit the 'alpha' label at all. Our wives seem to be more assertive. Sweet Lord above, you retards have dilluted and confused the label Alpha in the dumbest fucking…
/r/askMRP13/04/24 08:50 PM
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NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Just keep telling women that I only ever had sex with men.
/r/askMRP10/04/24 08:56 PM
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I don’t want to come up as beta and needy. You already do. Things have been very overwhelming for her with school and her job. Cope. She's just being a bitch and can justify it by saying this. I was in the mood last night and was hoping to get head (she wasn’t in the mood as she was tired but things were headed in that direction) but things quickly changed when I said something about her burping loud a lot. Maybe dont make a move on her then punish the rejection by implying she grosses you out. …
/r/askMRP10/04/24 08:37 PM
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Said something during a argument and i withdraw my attention from her. Why even argue? I’m really annoyed that she could think I would beg her to stay with me. Why? Sounds stupid. Tbh I don’t really care that much about her but it’s annoying that she would even think i would beg her to be with me. That’s an insult. Fragile ego. Wrap it up boys, this dudes brain is cooked.
/r/askMRP31/03/24 10:47 PM
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Got money right, own place since 2 months, own business, got shape right, dress right, never get sloppy, got absolutely 0 social lifethough, only go gym and talk online to ppl in my niche, at laptop 14 hours/day , Anyway Discipline only matters if the fun is equivalent. Women will marry a billionaire and cheat on him with the fun guy from her aerobics class. I say this because I can tell you put that info there because "she has no reason to complain" but she does. You suck. As evidenced here: 0 …
/r/askMRP17/03/24 11:44 PM
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Do I ignore it and move on? I say ignore it and move on. I hate all the discrimination right now. The lifestyle of cuckoldry is a kink just like everything else that goes on in the bedroom and you shouldnt be shamed just because you like watching other guys have their way with your wife! Do I continue gathering info? What more info do you need? Just listen to your feelings. but a direction would be appreciated. Honestly, post your general location. I'm sure there are a lot of guys here who are s…
/r/askMRP14/03/24 04:55 PM
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Vague posting about control and justifications. You're shooting yourself in the dick in not actually preparing for divorce. Then in 3 years when she does somehow women will be the enemy because "she blindsided me". and "Muh Mens Rights". Nah dog. This on you. You can't trick people into loving you. You can't trick the universe into forcing them to play nice either.
/r/askMRP11/03/24 09:27 PM
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Is it proceeding towards divorce, or are you staying in marital stasis?
/r/askMRP11/03/24 08:37 PM
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I need to manage my relationship my my bio family. I will remove them from my interactions with bio family. DEERing is specifically when you are justifying your decisions because you dont want the person to think poorly of you. That doesn't mean you won't defend things, it doesn't mean you won't explain things, it doesn't mean you won't excuse things and it doesn't mean you won't rationalize things. If you are trying to be sneaky about setting up a boundary, then be prepared for her to feel some…
/r/askMRP08/03/24 11:00 PM
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3 day ban. Mental Masturbation.
/r/RPChristians01/03/24 05:38 PM
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That is your fault then. Communicate better.
/r/RPChristians29/02/24 03:51 PM
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then I'm kinda getting LARP vibes. You intellectually jerk off, then turn around and critique the people telling you to stop masturbating in public. You're the problem. Expecting people to pat you on the back and give you wrist twisting techniques is the same failure youre posing towards your pretend wife. And lets be direct; you don't have a wife or LTR, so this is purely theoretical exercise to you. Stop doing that and start doing the work. I'm impressed. I'm REALLY impressed. My ego is ch-ch-…
/r/askMRP27/02/24 07:14 PM
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What I fail to understand is what DO you tell your wife? At some point you no longer intellectualize your behavior. You simply are. You don't ego defend "because rollo tomassi said it makes me look like a beta to my wife. You don't ego defend because you are not a person who ego defends. Ultimately, if you want to discuss red pill stuff, go ahead. We say not to because most guys lack the frame to be okay with the consequences. So clearly there's gonna be ideas in her head I'll need to counter ac…
/r/RPChristians27/02/24 06:09 PM
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You used money and partying to leverage for a woman. Now you've stopped partying, and your stable income has stopped. And you're wondering why your relationship is unstable. 🤣
/r/askMRP22/02/24 06:14 PM
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When she shit tests me I will immediately take it personally as a slight and either DEER or try to call her out for being hurtful/rude and try to establish what I thought was a boundary, What do you think a boundary is?
/r/askMRP22/02/24 06:10 PM
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Things like: Who gets pets in the case of divorce. How assets shared amongst extended families are split (Ie. A vacation house shared between siblings.) How assets are split if a child is being brought into the marriage. (Ie step children) Who pays the lawyering fees in cases of infidelity. Easy examples. But moving beyond this, youre weird rigidity is obnoxious. I would 100% check that behavior because it makes you come out like an 18 year old who has never been around a divorce before.
/r/RPChristians22/02/24 02:31 PM
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You can do conditional prenups.
/r/RPChristians22/02/24 02:04 PM
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seems that you're proposing to marry only a woman that is so much lower status than you that she accepts prenup that is unilaterally disadvantageous to her Where did I even closely imply that? It's like you don't know what a prenuptial is.
/r/RPChristians21/02/24 01:53 PM
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You are way overestimating your ability to know the motivations of a woman long term. If she decides to cheat, is lead to cheat by another man, or if she simply loses the faith and decides to walk away you cannot control that. The idea that prenuptials are planning for divorce so short sighted and could easily be flipped. "Not signing one is planning for divorce because you're scared of having consequences if it does fail."
/r/RPChristians20/02/24 03:10 PM
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Well considering this is a sub dedicated to Christians integrating the red pill into their marriages, its easy to presume we disagree. Is that a surprise? Rather than giving us the laziest and easily defeated position you should try to steelman their point. Otherwise this just turns into a jerk off party.
/r/RPChristians19/02/24 11:14 PM
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Prenups give the teeth back to divorce - it actually makes divorce a worse decision and encourages people in their weakness to not falter. Stop morally grandstanding.
/r/RPChristians19/02/24 09:25 PM
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Why do you get worried about it?
/r/RPChristians19/02/24 09:17 PM
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How about you give your thoughts and opinions on it first
/r/RPChristians19/02/24 09:15 PM
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Youre the guy whose wife is meeting a 21 year old and somehow you still have the gall to criticize how people talk to you? If you aren't going to provide value, it will be extracted from you in the form of ripping on you.
/r/askMRP19/02/24 05:09 PM
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Its happening because you're still at ground zero. All the "improvements" you're making are a comsic covert contract. Everything you do is being laid at the altar of pussy, and you're reaping the results of it. There is more to life than female attention.
/r/askMRP15/02/24 08:32 PM
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I sure am glad Christ listened to the disciples and chose to stay off the cross. It feels very good to know we are all doomed to hellfire because Jesus knew to not upset the Church. 👍
/r/askRPC07/02/24 10:16 PM
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At the same time, I have to witness certain fellow Muslims and others, who engage in all sorts of relationships without any after thought and are happily living their lives. Comparison is the thief of joy. Do what is right in your own eyes, so that when you face God you are not fooled into attempting to blame others for your failures. Also, for what it's worth, you should become a Christian. I'm here seeking your guidance, shared experiences, and any advice you can offer. At the end of the day r…
/r/RPChristians06/02/24 05:23 AM
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Before anything else please practice typing and writing in a way that it readable. That means paragraphs. Doesn't need to be perfect, but right now we are being punished just trying to understand you. I can tell whenever someone has a confused mind because they post walls of text like this. That being said, I feel that part of my mission on Earth is to do my part to expand the Kingdom of Heaven here on Earth You shouldn't "feel" that. It's planely written in scripture that this is your mission. …
/r/askRPC05/02/24 02:25 PM
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Financially, Im well within the top 1 percent of humanity. Im in elite shape. No major health problems. 29 years old. You've reduced yourself to your wifes trophy husband and are now dissatisfied with the arrangement. Muscles are good for a reason. Money is good for a reason. You're just accumulating for the sake of accumulating. Someday the workouts get harder, and the growth is now in a slow decline, and the money can only buy you so much. I've meet millionaires when I worked in assisted livin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 05:33 PM
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If you died and found out using condoms was a mistake, how would you feel? How would you react? I would probably just shrug and own the failure. Heaven knows I'll have a lot of others. If God wanted us bogged down with rules, he should have written a more comprehensive manual, and spoken planely about expectations. But he didn't and I believe that is for a reason. Also cringe catholics trying to play the "technically game" with God.
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 05:07 PM
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Based. Just become a whoremonger. 🤷‍♂️ promoting female promiscuity. Some of you guys have a sociopathic desire to "teach women a lesson". It's pathological. You're so concerned with how women - who aren't even your responsibility might I add, live. Its turned like 50% of you into scorned incel-types. Then when you do get a girl who is, you continue to complain about other women, poisoning your own well. The purpose of this sub isn't to force sluts into becoming your perfect tradwaifu. Its about…
/r/RPChristians02/02/24 03:05 PM
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Muted for 7 days. Too much spam.
/r/RPChristians01/02/24 06:49 PM
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I'm happy he's speaking the namesake of Christ, but just because someone wears the same colored sports jersey as you doesn't mean they are on your team. Groups like the Whatever Podcast reduce the Christian position to something for thots to fruitlessly argue against, while only inadvertantly funneling that very same consumer base to subscribe to those women's onlyfans. At best, those videos are scripted to be uncooperative and dramatic - at worst it means total negligence on part of the Christi…
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 06:00 AM
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More cringe religion shills. There was a market for selling the red pill to muslims, so now they are trying to sell it to Christians despite not knowing how to integrate the beliefs in a way that is coherent and intellectually honest.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 05:27 AM
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Word. Off to go find 200 concubines.
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 02:27 PM
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When you start a church and have a youth group with 19 year old girls with their boobs out, lmk I wanna go.
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 05:53 AM
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Not off the top of my head. Sorry. Playingwithfire on yt might be decent but I havent seen a ton of his stuff.
/r/askMRP25/01/24 02:52 AM
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where several women share one chad This isnt real. Youve spent too much time watching fresh and fit. Inceldom has risen to the millions because incels stay in their cumdungeons and piss and moan on 4chan rather then going out and interacting with normal people - you are an example of this. The fact that only 10% can get laid on non-Christian dating apps speaks to this. Why are dating apps the metric? They literally remove the in-person interaction. This is your autism coming out. Stop basing lif…
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 09:15 PM
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If you're on discord, dm me and we can chat. I feel like I’ve been treated unfairly and wronged by women en masse. Women don't owe you sex - being nice does not entitle you to anything especially their bodies. You've been taught a disgusting game of quid pro quo, which when mixed with sufficient narcissism (because you're under the impression women should value what you value) causes you to believe the game is stacked against you. You were wrong. You were playing the wrong game. You were seeing …
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:47 PM
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Finally some good fresh meat. I had this sick feeling every time I looked at something and had to tell her or I would despise myself. Why? Self-flagellation earns you no points. Why does failure turn you into a blubbering mess? I knew it hurt her but she could read me impeccably, so she would find out regardless and it was better for me to tell her. A lot of you guys didn't go through the edgy "I'm not going to smile while I'm on a roller coaster" phase and it shows. To add to the grief of havin…
/r/RPChristians13/01/24 04:34 PM
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empty platitudes At this point in time? Yes.
/r/RPChristians11/01/24 07:12 PM
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“it means doing everything for him and his glory” or “taking up your cross every day and denying yourself” Empty platitudes like this are why men are leaving the church and seeking out alternative teachers. Living for Christ translated from Churchinese is supposed to mean: creating community and disciples. • Become a person other people want to emulate - 1 Cor. 11:1 "Be Imitators as I am of Christ" • Pursue meaningful relationships (friendships) that you give of yourself for. John 15:13 "Greater…
/r/RPChristians11/01/24 12:29 PM
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I am having issues letting go of what I think I deserve. You don't deserve anything. My ego is huge Why? You make average money, you're physically substandard, bitter, entitled, and you think she owes you sex. She got back, tried to act loving to me but I couldn’t bring myself to reconcile You also fail to reset. If she is unforgivable then divorce her. This is just one example of how our fights seem to be going lately. She tries to give a bid for attention faster than you and you respond by shi…
/r/askMRP09/01/24 08:52 PM
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Be appropriately transparent about your expectations. I am not saying you have to abide by social convention - simply that you defy it at your own peril, and acting surprised that another normal person is put off by your deviation makes them the weirdo is a braindead autistic response. You want your value to exceed your weirdness. Accept you are weird, and dont be shamed for it. But dont expect people to put up with it unless you bring greater than what you take away.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 08:26 AM
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I have found, this is a strong emphasis against communication/talking, and instead a push towards leading and guiding. Rewrite this because IDK what you're saying. Going to make the assumption you mean to say MRP pushes men to lead rather than to communicate. But thats just literally untrue. You alway communicate - you just don't do it like a bitch. STFU is to help you stop responding to conflict and fitness tests poorly. It doesn't mean to literally clam up like your vocal chords are frozen. DE…
/r/askMRP06/01/24 08:12 AM
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Are you are A LARPer? Yep. I'm a larper. You don't OYS On here. I actually figured out how to do this stuff IRL. You do not seem to have a relationship LTR 8 years. You shit on pretty much everyone here. Everyone here deserves it. And accept that you are not who you claim to be... I have met more people from the mrp sphere IRL than probably anyone else on the sub. I am 100% the same online as I am offline. You should pay attention to exactly what I'm saying every time. I crap on people for the e…
/r/askMRP06/01/24 08:05 AM
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communication is wrong What?
/r/askMRP05/01/24 10:36 PM
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Do I owe her this much? Do I owe her anything? Who in your mind determines you owe someone something? Too many guys here are scorned by bitchy exes (of their own creation) and will tell you to treat your ex indifferently because they are resentful towards their own. Dont let them convince you to create a bad coparenting environment to satisfy their egos and frustration towards women. Simultaneously, dont be beholden to your ex because she was retarded for 13 years. Basically, have frame.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 09:07 PM
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You're fighting a social convention, and being a dipshit about it. Guys ask and pay, thats the standard - if you want to do something different you gotta talk about it. Like anal. You don't just ram the thing in there.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 09:31 AM
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I'm debating whether to focus on self-improvement Not sure why you would forgo this for the other things. Adopt a nonchalant attitude, If you're cool with being cucked then sure. Indifference only works if your attention is worth something. or discuss it with her. Unsure about the best approach. You neither have the acumen, nor the articulateness to get any value from this approach.
/r/askMRP20/12/23 04:27 PM
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A. is why do you think I feel the need to want to work things out Because you have emotions for her. Because to break up is to change, and change is scary. Because emotions aren't rational and usually focus on satisfying short term interpersonal turmoil. B. and is it even possible. Yes, but probably not without risking her blowing some other guy in the future. C. She had told me she had done it because she hadn’t been feeling close to me and felt rejected/unwanted. Based. She cheated, says it's …
/r/RPChristians19/12/23 05:49 PM
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At the very core of people pleasers is a child scared of conflict. Frame is 80% how you handle when people are upset with you, and when you are upset with people. A) Get into a martial art; kickboxing, muay thai, bjj, wrestling. And LIFT. B) Practice disagreeing; meaning address a problem and don't immediately capitulate or appease the other person. C) Practice identifying how and why people say the stuff they say. A number of guys I coach are braindead when it comes to the subtext of a conversa…
/r/askMRP16/12/23 04:58 PM
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There is a lack of appreciation towards me. I honestly DGAF, Cope. Obviously you do.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 01:40 PM
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Doing things and being fun are two different things. Enthusiasm drives fun, some of the lamest people I know do BJJ and ride motorcycles.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 01:39 PM
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Lol very funny
/r/askMRP05/12/23 01:25 AM
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Did you just go through my profile and copy and paste bits of what I've already said lol?
/r/askMRP03/12/23 06:07 AM
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Stay plan is the go plan. Get a maid/cleaner and possibly a nanny. Talk to a lawyer and a financial advisor - she is using you to float her lifestyle and when you lose youre usefulness she will get rid of you. Your fear of losing your business will probably drive you closer towards losing your business. To quote Rudyard Kipling's poem "If" "Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it …
/r/askMRP02/12/23 01:58 PM
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This is where I am confused how I am not leading the marriage You are actively going through divorce, you're not supposed to be trying to lead her now you dolt. You were never leading her, at best you were a circus clown with a planner that failed to make her laugh or cum. Problem is no matter what I do how I do for her it’s not enough. Who cares what she wants. You put your entire life on the sacrficial altar of your wifes pussy. Now you are getting your just desserts
/r/askMRP30/11/23 12:29 AM
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I have so much negativity for past couple of weeks that I want to pack my stuff and go vanish. You spent the last however many years failing to lead your marriage, and now in the final moments your desire is to act decisively. Play the smart game - this is the 7th inning stretch, all you have to do is play your cards right here and you never have to deal with her again. Record every single conversation you have with your stbx. You aren't attractive enough for her to not fuck you over - if you we…
/r/askMRP29/11/23 08:47 PM
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Lol
/r/askMRP26/11/23 08:17 PM
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If thats the case just choose not to think about it. If you're having intrusive thoughts, then acknowledge them and make them pass. Making her pay for something that you already chose to overlook is like indian giving. It will make you look weak and unattractive.
/r/RPChristians25/11/23 07:36 PM
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Posting stats is a requirement that mods have been lax with demanding. Weird cringe reply. Read more of the community info before posting.
/r/RPChristians25/11/23 04:39 PM
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Mostly looking for advice about how to overcome the nagging feelings I get about my wife’s sexual past. Whats the anxiety about? I see these exampmes of sexual history frustration pretty commonly. • Is it that she had sex with the other guys more passionately, or was more enthusiastic? • Are you scared they had bigger weiners? Or were better at sex? • Or is it disgusting to you that another guy might have treated her poorly and she gave more to him than she gives to you - despite you giving her …
/r/RPChristians25/11/23 04:37 PM
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What do you think fogging means? How did you apply it? then escalated into "i want an apology" How did you respond?
/r/askMRP24/11/23 01:54 AM
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This is very much a college freshman relationship problem. God has laid out for me, and currently that path is in Wilmington. How do you even determine that? If your mission is surfing, rock climbing, and making money then trying to reframe all of this as missional necessity to stay is foolish. Your mission sucks at worst and is ill defined at best which is why she is interpreting you poorly. This post comes off like you using spiritual language to justify being selfish. If you want to be selfis…
/r/RPChristians21/11/23 10:29 PM
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I want to expand Gods kingdom. I'm going to be nice because you're a Christian. I absolutely feared my wife but nothing else. You feared your wife because you are desperate for sex and validation - if you two divorced it would be another woman but the same problem. So playing the "in all ways except physical I am a good believer" role. You need to start getting comfortable with being the bad guy. Everytime you hear someone (especially your wife) describe you as an asshole or a jerk despite you d…
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:47 PM
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I was an original Chad. I am so enraged by what I have allowed myself to become. I hate that lifting has become the beta mainstream because now you can't tell the difference between guys who lift to be strong and generally attractive, and guys who lift because they are desperate for female validation. You were never chad, you might have looked like him but your giant covert contract got in the way of you actually becoming something. I don’t want to get the surgery on my rotator cuff Already sett…
/r/askMRP14/11/23 05:04 PM
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Weird reply but okay. Post pics of ur post op gyno then lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/23 09:40 PM
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What's the regimen for a recessed chin? Like fixing it? 1) Accepting your lot and learning it matters less than you think. 2) Mewing I guess? 🤷‍♂️ I don't know how much that really works but tiktok seems to think so. 3) Implants. 4) Realize it ultimately didn't matter because the average guy is so unattractive that having a fucked chin doesn't matter if you have good internal and external game.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/23 03:40 PM
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Chucks account is dead? Damn, thats actually wild. I have no clue on how to find his post. Edit: jk i did and instead of n. Account should be good.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/23 03:26 PM
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Sex rank is pretty easy to evaluate, but I'll help you out: Your sex rank is bronze dragon Her sex rank is two-stripe tiger.
/r/askMRP06/11/23 07:26 PM
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Lol. What, you want a pat on the back or to play cum cookie with me or something? Communicating so it's not painful for people to understand you isn't going to earn you gold medals - it's the least you can do.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:40 PM
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God forbid a man used the shift button ffs.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:36 PM
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Maybe I am a looser for getting married or wanting an emotional connection with my wife. No. Weird behavior. Is getting married not the ultimate form of pussy worship? No. All I am saying is there is more than going on than just a quest for wet spots on a mattress. First off, learn how to write because reading this eyesore indicates to me you have mental problems. The way you write is the way you think. Flipping from agreeing to defending yourself is pathetic. Second, the passive aggressiveness …
/r/askMRP19/10/23 06:24 PM
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Is Sex the End Game? What? No. The fact you're asking the question still means sex is your god - it's just taken until now to see the cracks of worshiping pussy. Maybe it is the ultimate form of external validation. It isn't. You've just been a loser your whole life, terrified of women so acceptance by one is overvalued to you. We don’t just want our wives to put out we want to fuck their brains out and be the best they have ever had Constant comparison game - you are in the frame of the ghosts …
/r/askMRP19/10/23 04:41 PM
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Answer a few questions: Are you currently spinning plates? Why do you want to spin plates? Can you avoid having sex with these girls? How will you handle girls asking if they are "the only one"?
/r/RPChristians14/10/23 08:03 PM
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What a weird and bad faith interpretation of what he's saying.
/r/RPChristians14/10/23 07:49 PM
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And to answer your question, I'm not sure what I want. Then until further notice, everything you're getting is a representation of what you want. If she continues cucking you with your best friend, that means you like it. Broader shoulders is what I need. The load will never lighten and I don't want it to. I'm not as great as I thought these days. Oh please stop with the histrionics. Theres no romanticized version of your life where you emerge a changed man after a drunken post and a few reddit …
/r/askMRP10/10/23 03:46 PM
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Here is the TLDR for everyone; my wife ... was talking to another guy. I looked through her phone ... and it is basically her initiating the conversations and accepting the attention and totally loving it. The only thing that really bothered me is that she was messaging him around me and our kids and all that. They don't chat much and all the conversations can be argued with plausible deniability. the only thing I have to look out for is my daughter. She told me it's my fault. tell me to fuck of…
/r/askMRP09/10/23 09:54 PM
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Once weightlifting got into the mainstream manosphere physical fitness stopped being an indicator for guys who will put up with less bad behavior. Now your average pussy has cum gutters and still can't get action. Muscles get you in the door eggheads, so does game. Problem is, once the smoke and mirrors and excitement wear off youre still so scared of a girl rejecting you that you try to catch the falling knife that is her attraction. When was the last time you rejected a girl? When was the last…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 03:29 AM
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Let me guess, you probably just sit there while she does all the work. Typical whore pillow princess.🙄
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 04:24 PM
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Just seeking some general advice here for the coming months. Your wife acted like a normal woman and you're getting butthurt. She said that nothing happened There is a reason she's letting the cat out of the bag. at the same time that my wife also revealed that she hooked up at a club before we were exclusive (she previously claimed that she had not). In other words, she kept multiple things from me for years and recently dropped them on me. She apologized You werent exclusive. Why should you ca…
/r/askMRP28/09/23 12:03 AM
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It seems incredibly reckless to me to break a marriage up because your now spouse hooked up with someone when you werenìt even a couple. Why is it reckless? No reason to stay in a marriage you don't want to be in unless you hold some type of overarching belief like religion. OP, do whatever you want. If you want to blow your marriage up because she left dishes in the sink, go for it. Don't let moral grandstanding idiots tell you what to do. Now you have been married and you have committed to mak…
/r/askMRP27/09/23 11:56 PM
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I'm going to cut your post down to it's essential parts. my wife said "Why don’t you cum inside me this time?" been married to my wife for 10 years. I discovered she was having an affair . . . 1 year ago.(/p) I’m feeling a bit lost. end. Also: your timelines don't make sense so stop fantasizing about this weird stuff. How can you be married for 10 years, she cheats year 9 and you've spent the three years since focusing on yourself. Either you're an idiot or a time traveler. I'm guessing idiot. F…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/23 12:09 AM
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What if you want your wife to lead big parts of your life? Then do it and just accept the consequences. But how do I lead without fucking up all the day to day shit that she manages? What does lead even mean to you? That you do all of the work? Does that imply that a servant is actually the leader for a king? I also fall into choreplay to try and be more active in day to day stuff at home and when I try to talk through the calendar she gets annoyed that I’m second guessing her shit. Choreplay is…
/r/askMRP15/09/23 11:54 PM
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I thought that I was sharing my frame. Sharing your frame is not something you have an obligation to give to others. You don't need to articulate the why and how of your behavior. You only do so if the person is desireable and cooperative. I've just spent the last 2 years deering every fucking conversation with the mrs thinking I'm holding my frame. This means you've stopped checking in with the audience. Explaining things isn't bad, it's when you are explaining and justifying your behaviors bec…
/r/askMRP09/09/23 01:30 PM
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Bring her infront of the Church elders (or other believers) if she doesn't stop, treat her like an unbeliever and give her a peaceable divorce.
/r/askRPC05/09/23 07:14 PM
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Hahahahahah you too buddy.
/r/askMRP04/09/23 06:12 AM
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The question is how do you guys feel about your partners having guy friends. Who cares? Mate guarding is effeminate. Guys who are super concerned about this stuff use rules like "no friends" because they lack the frame to actually demand good behavior. I(34M) have been seeing my(33F) GF/plate for a little over 4 months. She has potential to be what I perceive as a good wife/mom, eventually. 35 is geriatric pregnancy. Youd have to be married quick af otherwise she'll be at risk. Not a non negotia…
/r/askMRP03/09/23 11:29 PM
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Hmmm LDR - check 1 hour is only an ldr if you are under 18yo.
/r/askMRP03/09/23 11:14 PM
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Asking for more sex (You cant negotiate attration). Sex does not necessitate attraction, but I can speciate wanting to have enthusiastic sex. "Negotiating attraction" is an idea to stop men from attempting to debate their LTRs into being attracted to them. It is a fruitless endeavor, but you can certainly still initiate. Hence: Trying to logically justify my decisions (talking with women is pointless; just state what you want and STFU, and make her STFU or just leave the room) from having a six …
/r/askMRP23/08/23 06:28 PM
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Oh, In, Mi, Wi
/r/RPChristians20/08/23 11:05 PM
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I mean, I could if I knew you IRL 🤷‍♂️
/r/RPChristians17/08/23 12:58 PM
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Facts
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 10:50 PM
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🤓🤓🤓 "If you look at the statistics you'll clearly see that..." No wonder you don't have any luck. 🤣
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 10:44 PM
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Promising career, good finances, hit the gym hard Are you engaging or entertaining to be around? Or are you trying to play a betabux strategy and just use your finances to control her? and, yet, I’m expected to marry a fat single mom with tattoos Nobody worth their salt actually expects you to do that. if women want me to work even harder, I want some proof that I will see a return on my investment of time and money Sounds like your time is only valuable to you. Be miserable on your own, nobody …
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 10:36 PM
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out there for them This is where you're going wrong. Woman was created for man as a helpmate, but that doesn't mean that there is a woman created for every man. I've met and spoken 1:1 with plenty of guys from RPC and other Christian subs/discords and this is what I can tell you: The guys who complain the most are the ones who try the least. Also, women reject men at Church (specifically singles ministires) because the church is filled with the most boring limp wristed losers. Stop sucking in ge…
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 08:22 PM
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What do you mean? Do for what?
/r/RPChristians15/08/23 06:10 PM
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In all likelihood, yes.
/r/RPChristians14/08/23 06:07 PM
6

Just because they aren't having sex doesn't mean they are more religious. It's sour grapes for a lot of incel virgins - they have no access to sex, so they post-hoc justify it by saying they aren't having sex because of their belief in God. In reality it's because they couldn't have sex even if they admitted to wanting it.
/r/RPChristians14/08/23 02:20 PM
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Romantic relationships are a natural choice, not a supernatural one. To imply God brought her into your life to be with is to put the burden of responsibility on him for the maintenance and failure should the relationship not be successful - despite that failure being fully within the scope of your free will to fail. People who say "God told me to do this or that" do it because they like the drama of an omnipotent being playing dollhouse with their life. It's one thing to look back retrospective…
/r/RPChristians01/08/23 08:30 PM
0

You are weird.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 01:51 PM
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Found evidence of disloyalty. Confronted her. I can confidently say I was wrong. Found evidence - now confidently wrong. Then it wasn't evidence or you are an idiot. Before this she was always showing acts of loyalty. Sex was daily and great. She would buy me gifts and go out of her way to do shit for me. Sex isn't an act of loyalty. Neither are gifts. Sounds like she actually was cheating and is punishing you so hard you'll be too scared to ever look into it again. I applaud her, tell her to ma…
/r/askMRP25/07/23 11:34 PM
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💀💀💀 The more you make this a thing, the more it will be a thing.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 04:03 PM
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You are lame AND overreacting. Caught between desperately wanting her to respect you, and not being able to take the heat when she doesn't. I will drop her right now though if this is truly a sign of disrespect and I’m not deemed to be an overreacting idiot. First time a guy gets a shit test and immediately wants to drop the girl. Every woman does this all the time, there is no amount of "respect" that will stop her from doing it. She was giving you a vibe check and you failed it. Lol.
/r/askMRP24/07/23 03:55 PM
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How do you guys deal with a woman who is cheating and wont admit it. When will it get through your heads - this isn't court, you aren't appealing to a judge, you ARE the judge. You do not need to make yourself suffer someone else for any reason. Im ready to burn it down if she continues to go down this path. Worse yet, why would any woman deal with the type of man who's gut is telling them something bad is happening, then allows someone with a few "nuh-uhs" to smokescreen their way out? burn it …
/r/askMRP21/07/23 04:53 PM
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I plan on trying to take that rain check today. Even though it doesn't make a sense in action, the microcommunicators that proceed from believing she "owes you sex" is going to make you come across negatively. Even though she's your wife, she doesn't owe you sex. I told her I will most likely be skipping Jiu Jitsu tonight to chill home and rest as I hit heavy lifts today. You're avoiding saying what you really want - are you scared of rejection? Are you hoping you can trick her into thinking you…
/r/askMRP19/07/23 07:45 PM
2

What in the autism is this?
/r/askMRP18/07/23 07:19 PM
5

Literally what I was thinking.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 01:23 AM
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OP actually gave an answer to this. AA works out fine. "Did she have big tits?" "Was she hot?" The problem that a lot of guys face is they start disagreements immeduately following the moment their LTR has contextualized it negatively. You do not need to agree on the premise that you're a bad guy for doing something - even if they think you are. Following this, you have no need to punish yourself with being around people who make a habit of disingenuously interpreting whatever you do. Example: (…
/r/askMRP12/07/23 06:56 PM
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is almost impossible not to address it directly. It is factually true that it is no where near "impossible" to not engage with her - so turns out you are just as emotional as her, your flavor is just reactively emotional. "B-b-but it doesn't make sense!" So? What are some other ways to navigate these situations to avoid losing frame or at least not falling into hers. Give a concrete example. Good chance she is just strictly right about: chore play, financial decisions, social situations, politic…
/r/askMRP12/07/23 02:37 PM
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Autistic Interpretation of Covert Contracts: Any unspoken social contract between me and my ltr is bad and makes me look weak. It is bad to have expectations that I don't communicate even though I am also being frustrated about them. Despite this, I further invest into said paradigm that the expectation should be satisfied and that my gf/wife is being an ontologically evil bitch by leveraging the discomfort the necessary conflict would give me to make me not bring it up. I will instead make ever…
/r/askMRP11/07/23 09:23 PM
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Here are a few thought experiments. What would happen if you ignored your wifes initiations for attention unless she was actively trying to engage with you. What would happen if your wife asked you "do you think xyz woman is attractive" and you said yes without qualifying it or implying your wife is more attractive? What would happen if you stopped accepting disinterested behavior from your wife? (Not that you try and force her to be interested, simply that you go and do something else when her …
/r/askMRP10/07/23 03:28 AM
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Bad feeling my gf cheated at a concert Relationships aren't the court of law - you don't need to satisfy guilt beyond reasonable doubt to dump her. You can dump her for any reason (or no reason) at any time. Either choose to believe her, or don't. Either way hold onto the truth loosely because your understanding can always get higher resolution. Act according to the facts you have and choose whether you want to be someone who assumes the world constantly works against you, or constantly works in…
/r/askMRP09/07/23 03:05 PM
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I’m gonna need you to elaborate. need That's your problem lol
/r/askMRP09/07/23 02:46 PM
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Is it the Sex (or lack thereof)? Possibly, but it's more likely she is addicted to the aesthetic he gave her. Women love drama and viewing themselves in a certain way. Their man is largely the thing that provides the context for her to feel that specific way. Oftentimes the only way for women to get super aroused, you have to tap into that aesthetic - you are entirely failing here. By white knighting and being a weak beta bitch you are giving her the platform to create the feelings herself. It's…
/r/askMRP07/07/23 12:35 PM
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I have saved pictures of my wife striking me in case she did. Too many of you idiots play divorce-chicken with women, then get so wrapped up into thinking you're actually smarter or more conniving than them. Once the divorce starts, you are de facto evil; meaning anything a woman does is justifiable in their own eyes. In their eyes either you are pathetic or a bastard and both have been at your stbx's life and livelihood. You cannot appeal to their morals because cursing you is righteous to them…
/r/askMRP03/07/23 01:41 PM
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I have lost frame. What do you think frame is exactly? The act of being such a nice perfect pussy that you two don't disagree I hardly ever see my kids due to the long hours required for my role and I haven’t been to the gym in weeks. Get a different job pay pig. If you are neglecting your self imposed responsibilities because you work too many hours, then simply work less. "But we need to money." No, you need the money to live a lifestyle that is screwing up your sphere of influence. Over the l…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 03:30 PM
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If my wife respected frame and my leadership If you had a frame or leadership Ftfy
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 03:22 PM
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If you're looking to be constantly edged or horny then sex is way more important to you than most guys here and therefore none of our advice applies. Live and love how you want but becoming insecure about a relationship because your not made to be horny 24/7 sounds weird and lame af.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 09:45 AM
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I’m struggling to figure out what I should do. Jump back into the unknown and look for a girl I’m crazy about, or just settle with the logical choice? Nobody can answer this for you. What do you want? What are you willing to give or accept to get it? I don’t want kids. Don’t want girls who want kids. And don’t want girls with kids. And don’t want fat chicks either. Don't date or have sex with them then. and tried to break things off but I didn’t let her. Wtf does this even mean? Did you beg? Cry…
/r/askMRP29/06/23 09:11 PM
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they are very pro sharing with your partner No sense in talking to your wife about this stuff, at best she takes it personally and uses it to justify "not feeling safe enough to have sex with you." I was/am the captain, I make very good money and have been independent since graduating from college. I took care of EVERYthing, bills, cars, and general logistics of life. I planned trips, weekends, fun nights out, concerts, dancing This is not captain first mate, this is taxpayer/princess. She was i…
/r/askMRP27/06/23 12:09 AM
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I'm starting to believe Horns is making fake accounts to prove a point at how autistic you guys are. This can't be real.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 04:24 PM
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The fact you needed to argue with another redditor in this thread to justify yourself illustrates some character flaws you severely need to adjust. The need to be understood is borderline mental illness. Most of this post is about her and her actions - we don't need extra context about her because people are more alike than different. We've seen you before, just with a different brand of autism and a different username. You likely aren't your own point of origin. Everything you do is evaluated t…
/r/askMRP25/06/23 07:51 PM
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Are you adopting this girl, trying to fuck a preteen, or leveraging dick to get into clergy - it's not exactly made clear in this post.
/r/askMRP23/06/23 12:18 PM
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I will admit that I have beta backslid in some areas (I work from home, don’t go out much. . . Your preceps of alpha and beta are getting in your way. It was too predictable. You treat affection towards your wife as a tool for sex. Not saying it's wrong - but your outcomes are indicating you simply arent valuable enough to be this lame and get the sex you want. So now i’m implementing dread game, trying to be more of a leader, and withdrawing attention and presence. Looking out for shit tests to…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 12:14 PM
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Now I’d never tell her to cut them off. Using platitudes to describe relationships. Check. so we have to stay somewhat close with them so we can keep tabs on her little bro and make sure he’s doing ok. Being morally obligated by things outside of you that also that disrupt your household. Check. Yet we continue to be forced Lack of individuation or self management. Check. Almost never has there been a time we were with her family and she didn’t come away from it upset and feeling like shit due t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/23 01:51 PM
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Obvious answers: • Bloodwork • Have sex with her anyway otherwise she'll find someone else. • Don't do it if you don't want to, just accept the consequrnces.
/r/askMRP18/06/23 06:32 PM
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Imagine thinking the only method a man has to handle conflict is through violence. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤮
/r/askMRP16/06/23 01:21 PM
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It isnt a new energy, youre BPD and this is just a manic episode lol. The title of the person you're in a relationship with bears way too much weight. Meaning, you think your girlfriend should act or be or do certain things irrelevant to the individual holding that role. You have problems with the title and when the individual doesn't satisfy your expectations of the concept of the person it makes you act crazy. Seems like previously you've tried to force that person into the role. Problem is: y…
/r/askMRP16/06/23 01:12 PM
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Over the last few months my fiancé confessed to me that she’s never felt any sexual desire. Why immediately assume shes telling the truth. Could just be getting cold feet and trying to set up the environment so you'll kill the puppy. Is she on birth control? I'm a big believer in not stepping into contracts (social or otherwise) where you can already see the writing on the wall. No reason to jump into a marriage where the biggest component for conservative guys (of which I assume you are because…
/r/askMRP12/06/23 07:41 PM
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I was a groomsman recently, and my friend getting married was a virgin as was the bride. At the bachelor party, there was a section of time set aside where we talked about sex and advice - I was floored at the advice the other groomsman gave him. Things that only served to raise expectations for the honeymoon through the roof and to shine the bright light of attention on a girl who self reports sexual shame. It's all in your head she needs to enjoy it immensely and thus your focus is on her. Bad…
/r/askMRP12/06/23 07:34 PM
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Why are you looking for people to justify having an LTR to you? If you don't want one, dont have one. If we're saying they're going to shit test you and continue to bitch and complain then whats the point? This is a losers mindset tbh. Shit tests aren't nearly as bad as the men here complain they are. If you can't find any value in the company of a woman, don't dig for it.
/r/askMRP11/06/23 10:55 PM
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Who taught you to format? We went to friends gathering and her getting shit drunk and I was holding frame but it was to much so at some point I told her firmly that this was not ok, her behaviour was immature and she told me that I always punish her. This is the autism understanding of frame. Too many guys here think holding frame means to not react to your woman when she is acting out - wrong. That would literally mean you give her carte blanche to behave any way she wants with impunity. You ar…
/r/askMRP08/06/23 02:36 AM
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I should act with an abundance mentality and brush off failed initiations without being butthurt, and reset the next day. But I'm trying to understand my flawed mental model and It's because you don't actually have abundance, you merely act as though you do. Find people who want to spend time with you and only spend your time around people who appreciate your company. If she doesn't, oh well thats fine. You aren't punishing steak by choosing to eat chicken. Become desireable through prosocial be…
/r/askMRP31/05/23 07:29 PM
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Melodramatic. The people who want to connect, connect. If the machine needs to run only for the sake of the machine then it has exceeded its purpose. Pirsig would tell you that.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 02:54 AM
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Very little encouragement. Encouragement in a space like this would build a culture of "atta boy" seeking behavior. Men come in with their bowls empty and leave with their bowls empty, it's a place to learn to hunt, not a place to be fed while you watch presentations on how to hunt. Risk-taking and healthy discussion would disappear. This is the problem. So few men who come here are capable of healthy discussion. They reek of entitlement and the habit of shirking responsibility. The habitually b…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 02:19 AM
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Depends, do you need it for your girlfriend?
/r/askMRP31/05/23 02:06 AM
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Why would you even post this here? What advice were you expecting? Do yall think I have a chance keeping her or is it over? How TF would any of us know? Low quality.
/r/askMRP29/05/23 04:48 AM
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hurting her sphincter just for sake of your lust. Could be for her lust. Can't uniformly act like anal sex is only desired from perpetuating men.
/r/RPChristians28/05/23 02:30 AM
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You have outsourced your autonomy to your wife and now face the consequences of it. She is your mental point of origin and it shows. Today, I’m a worthless lazy husband that treats her like shit because I don’t engage in enough chore play and worship her every move. Whether you mean to or not, you are defining the world by her opinions of truth. Is fire cold if she says it is? Basically the straw that broke the camels back. This advice would only apply if you weren't hurdling towards divorce: Si…
/r/askMRP26/05/23 09:49 PM
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Why do you need evidence?
/r/askMRP26/05/23 09:35 PM
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Stfu
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/23 01:18 PM
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Id ask if she has sent him nudes
/r/askMRP26/05/23 01:06 PM
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Started to work more on myself then and the last 2 weeks it got a lot better. Started to really get a grip on shit tests etc. Two weeks is entirely way too short for you to start expecting people to trust that it's a meaningful amount of time. I do accept this and that’s why I said I’m going to stop it. Nobody here cares if you drink yourself into an oblivion. If you died, nobody here would know. I'm not saying this to be mean spirited, I'm saying it because there is no need to say you're going …
/r/askMRP24/05/23 03:42 AM
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Number 4 is tempting.
/r/askMRP23/05/23 04:30 PM
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Triggered. Nobody said to act like you don't have emotions. You saw one tiktok by a 13 year old that talked about stoicism and used pictures of greco-roman statues and you thought "Oh. I get it now, I'm supposed to appear physically fit and unchanging like these statues." Stupid. And wtf is all of this: then I give the example of Tony Stark AKA Iron Man. Tony Stark MAKES UP for his neuroticism by being uber alpha How disney autistic do you have to be to use a fictional character and apply it to …
/r/askMRP23/05/23 04:26 PM
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Are you able to articulate what is your purpose for living? I can, yes, but the answer would be unsatisfactory for you. Realistically, the reason you feel frustrated is because you lack meaningful relationships that are mutually satisfactory. What do you pursue? What are your goals? What do you want? Why? What are you willing to trade for those things? Most men have a maximizing pleasure mindset, but it eventually burns out. Sure fucking is fun - but the reason MRP is distinct from TRP is our ap…
/r/askMRP16/05/23 07:45 PM
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Here is how I know You've completely misread this entire post. Is inaccurate. You would not be asking online strangers how to convert a friendship to a relationship if you sincerely felt: If she doesn't feel the same way, oh well I move on. Because you would simply ask, like you did before. Instead, you are hoping for cheatcodes to avoid the rejection.
/r/RPChristians16/05/23 02:34 AM
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It's really not all that evil when you can congruently flex your value You think he has that? Oh, my still beating heart! You do have feelings you old dog!
/r/askMRP16/05/23 02:14 AM
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At this point, I am falling for her. Ruh roh raggy, ronitis. If you are unwilling to risk losing the friendship in pursuit of the relationship you will be denied both and punished for being a creep. Your pastor or whatever basically taught you to be a vulture, predatorily treating friendships as a tool to subvert rejection and to garner enough goodwill to pressure her into a date. The hope is she feels just negatively enough about her prospects that she takes you up on it. Worse yet, church has …
/r/RPChristians16/05/23 02:12 AM
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What happened: anger or desire for novelty killed your drive to protect your wife from discomfort. This happened authentically so your wife picked up on it and tried to mate guard. As she wowed you sexually, your attention drew back to her, she began to feel more comfortable and assured of your complacency and slowly rewithdrew enthusiastic sex. What you are going to try doing: You will start artificially behaving in the same way in an attempt to get the enthusiastic sex you what. Why it will go…
/r/askMRP16/05/23 01:58 AM
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I can't in good conscience recommend the emotional manipulation required to trigger that. Why not pussy? Jokes aside, women will be sweet and nice 98% of the time while rejecting their husbands desires for novelty for years then be shocked when it all comes crashing down when the man loses his will to comply with her need for predictability and sexual ease. Women do a poor job of managing marriages in a way that is long term satisfying for both parties - so if you need to step on her neck a litt…
/r/askMRP16/05/23 01:43 AM
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The devil will do everything in his power to make you have sex outside of marriage, and do everything in his power to stop you from enjoying your spouse within marriage. also a chuck quote, paraphrased
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 01:47 PM
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If you had: , normally I would’ve tried to find a compromise (Keep the peace), offered to go myself (Care taking and mixed messages). You would have been the type of family I actually keep my wife away from.
/r/askMRP11/05/23 12:17 PM
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I’m currently a dead alpha male No. You aren't. Give up the lame self soothing. The only thing that floats is the desiccated scraps left after you do. I had a question about initiating sex and if/ how/ when we do it Whenever you want. If she gives you bad sex, caveman her. If she rejects you, don't act butthurt, if you don't want to: don't. Simple as that. Problem is, sex is still validation for you.
/r/askMRP11/05/23 01:04 AM
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You have done the absolute bare minimum effort in reading so I will hand hold you through this. Covert Contracts: You need to develop expectations that you don't articulate to her, and punish her when she fails to meet them. The more ambiguous and vague you are the better because you want her trying to mind read you. Stand Firm in your Masculinity: Remind her you are a high value man and that any girl would be lucky to have you. Don't let people trick you, being open and vulnerable in your emoti…
/r/askMRP06/05/23 05:17 PM
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Turns out I typed that drunk. 🤷‍♂️ some people doomscroll facebook. I look for guys in failed marriages and kick them when theyre down. Im just built different.
/r/askMRP30/04/23 12:17 AM
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when first together just my accent (I’m Irish, she’s Canadian) was enough to get her wet. Turns out things like accents lose their luater when you love together. You overestimated your ability to rely on it. Any advice? Your wife is a woman who is going to mandate you be actually consistent and congruent all the time - anything less is counted against you with little grace. New girls are easy, especially if they are young. You can talk a big game and produce nothing, but that only works for as l…
/r/askMRP28/04/23 05:14 AM
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I've been doing RP about a month now. I'm already different by action in every way. I've had food in my fridge longer. A month after a lifetime is entirely insufficient.
/r/askMRP24/04/23 03:53 AM
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If you dont want to be with her anymore, then don't. Simple as that. Some guys come here after they've broken their own toys and pressure themselves into feeling obligated to fix the mess they've made of their wife. It doesn't matter. Leave, stay, have kids, don't. None of it matters - and not in a lame nihilistic way. In a "your choices don't make a difference to me." way. My wife is smart. Her logic often contends with mine and I find it hard to find any fault in it, to the point hat my effort…
/r/askMRP20/04/23 10:29 PM
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4 months ago lol
/r/RPChristians12/03/23 07:02 PM
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But I still care. You're still supposed to care a little. It is the most autistic interpretation to try to become a paragon of indifference to the people and relationships in your life. The thrust of this model is to give guys the opportunity to practice building up resilience to feelings of negative emotion. Validation Because you are poorly interpreting the above concept I'll assume you're doing it here too. Somewhere along the way, the manosphere began to push the idea that you should be stoi…
/r/askMRP02/03/23 05:39 PM
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not my problem. You're the one with unanswered questions and dissatisfaction. If you are someone who approaches life not caring If you're understood you will fail at many endeavors you face.
/r/RPChristians27/02/23 03:38 PM
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is the optimal life as a man and patriarch achieved through becoming the embodiment of Holy Trinity? A lot of guys use esoteric ideas and terms like this to make themselves feel better momentarily. It tickles the ears to hear it, and through it's ambiguity seems to make sense. Issue is, when they hold these ungrounded ideas in their head as the ultimate drivers of purpose they lose the ability to practically pursue their mission because what does "Become the embodiment of the Holy Trinity" actua…
/r/RPChristians24/02/23 10:31 PM
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Comfort tests can be largely boiled down to "I am inadequate." Shit tests can be largely boiled down to "You are inadequate." Is that true that only nuking her nagging would be effective? Amused mastery, A and A, as well as fogging can be only applied to fitness and comfort tests? You don't want to use conflict techniques when she is feelzing inadequate. She isn't looking for you to justify you to herself, she is looking for you to justify her to you. Being cocky-funny will only multiply her fru…
/r/askMRP10/02/23 04:36 PM
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Watch how women pick their men and behave towards them, not what they say. If a woman says her favorite food at a buffet is the steak but every time she goes she gets chicken and passes on the steak then she clearly likes chicken more. You're trying to rationalize why a woman would prefer a man with low/no n-count. However my experience (and many others) is that the reality is a majority of the most faith focused women are with men who were sexually active prior to getting together. Just because…
/r/askRPC05/02/23 10:02 AM
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What are the consequences for crossing your boundaries? Why should she care?
/r/askMRP26/01/23 07:02 PM
1

If you wanted to tell me you had a crush on me you should have just DMd me rather than stalking months old posts.
/r/askMRP25/01/23 05:49 PM
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solve it because she's too emotional, and that she just needs some comfort If yoy are trying to diagnose what type of "test" it is, determine if she is emotional because her feelings are hurt, or if she is getting herself worked up because she is histrionic and uses drama to get attention. Really important to her, also I seem to be unable to apologize. You need to decide whether or not you deem your actions inappropriate. If you don't, then don't apologize, obviously. Women are taught their emot…
/r/askMRP22/01/23 12:39 AM
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Whoever finds a wife... That isn't the right quote. I know plently of wives that have wrought nothing but terror on their husbands. Both sharpen each other Youre applying verses that apply specifically to men to a woman. You're gonna have a bad time.
/r/RPChristians20/01/23 01:35 PM
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Yet you struggle to STFU. Your wife doesn't want to hear this mental masturbation, neither do we.
/r/askMRP16/01/23 07:10 PM
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As long as he thinks about us while he's screwing his girlfriend I'm fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 03:36 PM
1

You have to make a point to be thinking about it frequently enough that the conflict and your attention to effective conflict strategies occur at the same time.
/r/askRPC14/01/23 10:17 PM
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Introversion and extroversion are just words pushed onto people to justify not building relationships. You probably are just under socialized and don't have effective canned responses so novel conversation take up too much effort. Get over it and go talk to people. Besides introversion =/= shy. I am probably one of the most naturally introverted people I know - locking myself in solitude for 2+ hours a day. Yet I still am more outgoing then most people because I make the effort.
/r/askMRP14/01/23 02:03 PM
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Not saying that is a valid excuse tho. It isn't even an excuse, low consistency simply reflects poorly on you as a person. 🤷‍♂️
/r/askRPC13/01/23 03:21 PM
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The way your post and comments read, especially what you said about dread makes me believe you are just looking for some manipulation tool to control her behavior - because there aren't any . (Well, okay there are but you arent smart, cool, or stable enough to use them.) I keep saying it because you guys can't get this shit figured out. Become socially and interpersonally desireable. (Frame, mental models, develop social tools like game, become gregarious.) Become attractive with a large and als…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 03:06 PM
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Odds are your tone is either constantly bitchy, you're monotone, or you totally lack any type of enthusiasm. All of which make you an absolute horror to spend any personal time with. Stoicism is great when you are dealing with conflict and the oak is great during a storm - but when things are going well nobody wants to be around a guy who sucks the fun out of everything because he chooses to be unemotive. Learn to play different social roles, the amount of times I've seen guys stand on the sidel…
/r/askMRP09/01/23 11:07 PM
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It looks like having a very short confrontation of bad behavior, then going back to being positive/enjoyable to be around. In the beginning it might feel like you're acting crazy/bipolar or something. But the reality is, you are giving concise expectations for behavior and critique when people don't adhere. Most guys treat their wife acting poorly like a some grand cosmic conspiracy out to ruin their life. When in reality people acting poorly/emotional/shitty should be expected as it is a fundam…
/r/askMRP09/01/23 10:56 PM
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I know you’re supposed to “always be gaming your wife”, but is there a limit when she’s not responding? 1. •Are you someone other people desire to be around? •Is your time, attention and energy valuable to others? •Do you fiercly protect the "vibe" you're offering to the people around you from outsiders? •Does your wife want to spend time around you? If you answered "yes" to all of these, move on to part 2. Otherwise your problem is here. 2. •Do you actually like your wife? •Do you want to impro…
/r/askMRP05/01/23 10:20 PM
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You're allowed to express interest to a girl with a boyfriend. She's allowed to leave him for you. This isn't unusual or immoral. As long as you're also willing to fight about it lol. Agreed to the rest of it, but if you make a habit out of throwing game at other guy's girls it may easily come back to bite you.
/r/RPChristians03/01/23 02:48 PM
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Such as cold approaches or using pick up techniques? Not limited to it but certainly. I have a certain degree of sympathy for a lot of women in Church - they join a singles ministry but there are a lot of problems with singles ministries. Churches don't vet the men in these groups, they assume on good faith that "because he's going to a Church group he must be a good guy." Only for him to turn out to be a creep that wants the girl to simultaneously be a whore for him and will take the blame for …
/r/RPChristians02/01/23 03:27 PM
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All I can think of to do is that I have been trying to find a more youthful church group and I’ve recently got back into BJJ. I mean socializing around normal women, not bjj women. Haha
/r/RPChristians02/01/23 02:50 PM
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I asked if she was even still interested and why she had been basically ignoring me. Big oof here. Match her energy, if she is barely investing then so do you. Asking why they are ignoring you isn't the play. Unfortunately, we can't go backwards - even as a Christian you have to play the dating game. Trying to swim against the stream to court a girl won't work unless you're in an incredibly small mormon community (probably not still) and that means having above average social skills and a degree…
/r/RPChristians02/01/23 05:46 AM
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The unsaved are denied in front of God until the moment they are saved. Not sure why people get so hung up on needing it to be unconditional.
/r/RPChristians28/12/22 12:41 AM
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Yeah but if you don't profess him you arent opted in 🤷‍♂️ Edit: also, do you think I'm arguing that Christ's sacrifice on the cross wasn't love? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/RPChristians28/12/22 12:33 AM
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unconditional love for humanity There are a lot of conditions for his love tho lol.
/r/RPChristians27/12/22 10:02 PM
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How can I make my sister a more eligible marital candidate? Inb4 obvious "you can't". As her brother, depending on where you are - you're pretty limited into how much control/influence you can have over her, especially if she is modernized. Women are rejecting authority structures only to be pimped out by a corporation who will give her a few years of stability only to turn her out on the street when she's no longer valiable. so how can I apply redpilled techniques to this situation since she is…
/r/RPChristians27/12/22 10:00 PM
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I just feel like the way society is nowadays is forcing me to this way of life What does this even mean? Nobody is forcing you to do anything. Well recently I found a girl 25 years, different from the others AWALT no exceptions. No unicorns. and we clicked in a very special way, she just feels right, and we are starting in what I feel it's a long term healthy relationship (rare shit nowadays). Oneitis. "Healthy relationship" is a misnomer term. Relationships don't get spontaneously sick - you ju…
/r/askMRP27/12/22 06:52 PM
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Fogging is the first time you've solved a problem without giving her the catharsis of the "drama and resolution" show. and my only option to exit was to hang the call in her face while she's crying. I finished by saying I care a lot, but don't want a situation like this ever again. GET OVER IT allowing the fear of your ltr crying to be a serious reason to avoid conflict is a great way to give her to reigns of the relationship. If she can use tears to control you, she will. It's easy. Look, a lot…
/r/askMRP23/12/22 06:34 AM
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What I am doing now: lifting, leading my kids and beginning to lead my wife again (she is skeptical, as she should be), reading, reflecting on where I have been and where I am going, STFU whenever possible. I will start participating in the OYS posts as well. First off, I simply don't believe this, and don't waste your time energy or attention trying to convince me. The shitty thing is, to my non-close world, I am always energy-giving/charismatic, but I absolutely lost giving that consistently a…
/r/askMRP19/12/22 08:15 PM
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Sex with women is beta, which is why I only have sex with men.
/r/askMRP19/12/22 08:00 PM
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I don't know why you autists think being exclusively antagonistic to a woman will somehow be sustainable for an LTR Even manipulative men understand the bare minimum of love-bombing to drive up drama. All this shit is boiled down so simply. Have a plan and a goal. Pursue that plan or goal. Have a good vibe while you pursue it. People will come when you have a good vibe and you pick and choose who gets to stay or who has to leave. But you're treating the people that youve chosen to stay as if the…
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:56 PM
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You're trying to split hairs in a weird attempt to justify having sex outside of marriage. Makes me think of a child who was told to vacuum the livingroom (which has a connected carpeted hallway) and vacuums JUST the livingroom avoiding the hallway as a loophole, only to turn around and say "but but but you SAID. . ." When their parent asks the kid why they didn't do their work. Is it sinful for a man and woman engage in non-hedonistic sex All sex is hedonistic. Have you ever nutted before? "But…
/r/RPChristians17/12/22 12:07 AM
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Does anyone have any idea what I can expect? Yes. You are going to make "i feel x when you do y." statements. If she is stupid, she wont be smart enough to justify her behavior in a way the therapist takes her side. When you leave the session her resentment for you will grow because she'll be too dumb to articulate her frustration with you. If she is smart, she will ask questions about your negative feelings until you accidentally slip up enough to give her a softball statement. She'll respond i…
/r/askMRP16/12/22 07:23 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 11:51 PM
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I used to own my shit and make actionable change, but with time ive reverted to blaming things and circumstances instead of doing what needs to be done and stfu about it. Are you trying to get me to commiserate with you? You haven't purchased me enough drinks IRL for me to take the time to do that. It's weird, like you're complaining that you complain about yourself. For anyone else reading this, remember: nobody likes a loser.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 08:09 PM
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By STFU. Tells me to self actualize my flaws & not reflect them on me. This means literally nothing. Every girl whose spent 15 minutes on tumblr thinks they can psychoanalyze their boyfriend into submission - and unfortunately for you she is doing just that. Whats funnier is your only response is to get angry and to blow the situation up because you have the emotional bandwidth of a 7 year old. So maybe she's right. 🤷‍♂️ It eventually turns into one. Exactly. Why do you even stick around when sh…
/r/askMRP12/12/22 11:02 AM
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The last instance she exploded and its been constant fights since then. Why are you contributing to them? Why even entertain a fight? You might be attractive but that only gets people in the door, when they realize the interior smells like shit they'll dip - that's why LTRs (mrp) require a higher level of internal congruency than ONS's (trp/pickup) because you can mask your weird behaviors short term. She offered to blow me instead but I acted like a retard by making a face/being butt hurt. Play…
/r/askMRP12/12/22 08:06 AM
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we use DEER (minus the "excuse") with our bosses, our co-workers, our underlings, right? DEERing is a valuable tool when you are trying to teach or sell something to someone. It is not good, however, when someone is making an indictment of your character and is not in a position of contextual authority over you. For example: If your employee is asking you to explain how a specific program or machine works. You should explain it to him. If a customer is trying to figure out which product of yours…
/r/askMRP07/12/22 07:56 AM
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So to me it seems like lying and cheating is happening. Sounds likely. Bummer. Sucks but now you just have to choose what direction do you head in and how much of this you're willing to put up with. Her mood has changed and no arguing anymore. I know of a woman who actively cheated on her husband and would tell the guy she's cheating with "I feel like I'm a better wife at home because I know I get to come here and blow off steam." Odds are you've only started to turn the ship around the last few…
/r/askMRP07/12/22 07:37 AM
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Good point. OP you should stop sinning and lean on God. 🤣
/r/RPChristians01/12/22 12:43 PM
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Guy is obviously going to do it anyway. Chuck has already given him the prototypical christian advice, may as well advocate for a fellow believer that is being lead into sin by her partner. 🤷‍♂️
/r/RPChristians01/12/22 03:26 AM
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I've struggled with this decision for almost an entire year now. On her behalf, dump her and have sex with secular girls, at the very least then you aren't leading other followers into sin. Would I be a fool to pass up this chance to get 90% of what I want at 40? "Pass up" pass up on what? Marriage? Not all it's cracked up to be. It's nice don't get me wrong, but not any better or worse than being single outside of the perk of sinless sex. I'm not that excited to spend time with her. Minimal lau…
/r/RPChristians01/12/22 02:07 AM
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My body literally feels like it’s going to explode if I don’t get this off my chest. How can I fix this??? Have you ever tried letting your body explode? You'll be shocked to find out . . . it doesn't. I’m the one who should be pissed. But I STFU until it builds and I explode. You're interpreting STFU in the dumbest way possible. "Durrr reddit says literally stop talking. I guess I'll clam up and stop talking entirely." The only way out of butthurt is through it. Denying it just makes you look e…
/r/askMRP28/11/22 04:10 AM
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What part of the betaization process makes me so prone to giving in to such requests? It's because you're obsessed with the "asthetic" of being seen as alpha rather than doing what you're supposed to be doing - or acting in a way that is consistent with your tested beliefs. Guys struggle with STFU because we face a lot of things that attempt to characterize us. • The desire to not feel like the asshole. • The desire to pacify your wife/ltr's feelings. • The desire to be seen as a desireable man.…
/r/askMRP26/11/22 03:16 PM
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Start doing stuff. You will always have excuses to not do things that are good, nothing will stop that except the decision to overcome them.
/r/RPChristians22/11/22 12:58 AM
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The question you're asking is "How do I make sure my fiance will never do something inappropriate again." And there isn't an answer. There is no cosmic spell you can cast that will give you a definitive answer forever. What you can do is improve your desirability to the point she is unlikely to leave, and that even if she does you have other options anyway so the loss isn't as intimidating. But ultimately this is just a covert contract you have with the spectral god of "fairness" or "suppose to"…
/r/askMRP08/11/22 01:53 AM
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Nah she'll just get sneakier. What bad advice.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 01:49 AM
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This is not an encouragement issue. Youre not failing as a piano player because you're a savant who simply doesn't play or practice - you are a novice player that volunteered to play at a large gala and are actively flubbing the event. What does marital leadership mean? What does being a leader as a father mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/22 02:31 PM
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What? Did you even try to respond to my message?
/r/RPChristians05/11/22 02:26 PM
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When it comes to asking reddit for peripheral legal advice (a habit I strongly recommend) I always think "what could I do to make this situation worse for everyone around me". You know, establish your frame so they know not to mess with you again. Dread your ex by getting a girlfriend with kids, and dread your kids by focusing on your new gfs children more. If the man refuses to move out of the house Sounds like you GAF too much. Practice DNGAF and let her take your house. Nothing says "I don't …
/r/askMRP05/11/22 06:43 AM
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Rather than just posting scripture, do you have a thought or opinion on this verse? Are you married? If not, why do you even care?
/r/RPChristians05/11/22 06:35 AM
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Did you searchbar infidelity?
/r/RPChristians21/10/22 06:24 PM
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This comment thread is cringe.
/r/RPChristians21/10/22 06:23 PM
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Let's cut through all of the extra stuff: I am worried about the possibility that sex won't be possible on our wedding night/honeymoon, and even after that. If she is experiencing it now, there is a high probability it will happen later. If sex cannot happen between you two, is that a deal breaker? It would be for me now. Just because a situation is sad for someone else, doesn't mean you are morally, or scripturally, obligated to tie yourself together with this person forever. There is a good ch…
/r/RPChristians04/10/22 02:22 PM
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And that 1 Timothy 3:2 should be our standard for marriage. Are you trying to force him into being an overseer? What if he doesn't want to be one? How old are both of you?
/r/askRPC20/09/22 02:05 PM
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Using way too many analogies. Is a bailing expert a man you call to screw your wife so she is less tempermental with you? Unrelated question: I don't want to be asked about fight club if it can be helped. How do you guys read this stuff without your wife noticing? Sneak it in the bathroom? At night under the covers? Just read it? How often is she sneaking onto your phone? Tell her to stop or keep your phone with you if she wont. Or put a code on it.
/r/askMRP20/09/22 02:02 PM
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I'm going to edit your post so it's readable to everyone else. My husband just told me he does not find me attractive like he used to anymore. I've always had mental health issues due to severe childhood abuse, but my mental health got far worse after I got married due to marital issues and other interpersonal issues I encountered. I am not saying if you have mental health issues you are allowed to be lazy and stop doing things you are responsible for, but it eventually got incredibly challengin…
/r/askRPC11/09/22 02:39 PM
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Well sure, but I don’t think what I said is stupid. Actually, you mention that I google search men scale 1-10 so you prove that what I said is a thing, and pretty relevant on its own. This isn't a "ha gotcha" because I'm not saying you question in and of it itself is stupid - the language moderation and tone controlling is what is stupid.
/r/RPChristians12/08/22 07:34 PM
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I am aware this is a potentially controversial topic, but if we discuss this in a polite and respectful way there shouldn’t be any problems. First off, don't try to control other people's approaches to what you're saying. If what you say is stupid, anyone has a right to tell you. how are physical appeal leagues in men (1-10) defined? Physical appeal leagues? Like how do you know if you are a 5 vs a 6? A 10 would be for example, a tall guy, with a perfect beard, a 6-pack, perfect hair, a wide and…
/r/RPChristians12/08/22 05:38 PM
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You shouldn't have. Everyone else gets to laugh but that joke was made at your expense because you're failing as a man. Laughing at it just further exemplifies why your wife doesn't take you or your sexual needs seriously - you're a joke.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:42 PM
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So much wrong with this post. A BIT ABOUT ME: I’m not at the HVM level I want to be yet. Only 5 weeks into MAP. I’m a long time lurker, know more than a total beginner Yet you avoided posting stats like an idiot. I have Beta behaviours pretty much on lock, fine tuning and improving. Alpha behaviours: started taking on more, increasing at steady pace. You've reduced this stuff down to behaviors because you have a covert contract with your wife. Like if you can do the right stuff she will pay you …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/22 07:23 PM
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So there’s no difference between dads and not-dads? Fatherhood has no impact? No. I know several parents who hold the near to the exact same beliefs on child rearing as non parents. It might give you more grace for parents but certainly doesn't give you any more credibility unless your outcomes are markedly different.
/r/askMRP29/07/22 10:59 PM
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More muscle-memory TBH. Quit trying to justify it. This is how derivative you idiots get. "It wasn't me. It was my brain" It's still you. If you're going to comment on it just say "yeah, my b, that was a lame thing to say." Instead of coming up with these limp wristed reasons why you might be wrong but YOU technically arent. But the dad thing is more an attempt to understand perspective No. It isn't. You showed your ass when you commented "helpful . . ." You've already approached your interactio…
/r/askMRP29/07/22 10:39 PM
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Stupid reply. Nobody is obligated to give you valuable responses and petty remarks like this only further illustrate how entitled you believe you are to other people's consideration. Plus the "are you a dad too"? Comment, it's plain as day what you're trying to do. You're hoping he doesn't have kids so you can wear a special badge of "you couldn't possibly understand what fatherhood is like."
/r/askMRP29/07/22 08:44 PM
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Rather than giving a 30 minute video asking for FREE feedback on it, type out headings and a TL;DR (or watch) of it. Don't be a value leech. Also anyone using knights or kings to define relationships at this point is pandering to a small portion of "supreme gentlemen" guys. Issue is, women don't respond well to guys like that.
/r/RPChristians23/07/22 04:46 PM
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Nah, just like in BJJ you gotta take your easy wins and take your breaks. MRP fetishizes the grind and will gatekeep satisfactory results - if a man needs to be his own point of origin, trying to appease usernames to convince yourself of your own success ain't the move.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 12:12 PM
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Haha sorry if the wordiness was over your head bud, that's just how my brain works, no need to criticize :) The more words you need to explain yourself, the less control you have over language. Brevity is an indicator of intelligence. Long windedness is a sign of someone who likes the smell of their own farts. Also: what a limp wristed passive aggressive statement.
/r/RPChristians24/06/22 05:49 PM
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I'd used to lift weight a lot when i was younger, but its not been possible the last several years due to injury, I had bone spurs growing on both elbows which were shredding the tricep tendons and making it ache if i did any liftting. Already prefacing why you can't lift. I've read about half the books on the sidebar, i had a barrier in my way to some of the others, my wifes kindle account is linked to mine so we can share each others books, Bad excuses for why you can't do what you need to do.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 02:22 AM
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Thats reddit.
/r/RPChristians21/06/22 01:28 PM
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I've made great strides creating a frame in my relationship, and that frame works well in other situations like work and out socially, but that frame doesn't feel like it fits here. Your understanding of frame is weird. But I feel like I'm not getting out of this conversation until I provide real, concrete reasons why I won't marry / adopt. You could just say "I've made up my mind. Accept it, or I'd appreciate it if you left my house." I know my answer is "because there are red and yellow flags …
/r/askMRP16/06/22 04:17 PM
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As you're probably gathering, my first wife was NOT marriage-focused, did NOT respect me, and severely lacked humility. All of my sins were a Really Big Deal (TM) and all of her sin was merely "reactionary" or so insignificant compared to my sin that it wasn't even worth factoring into any troubles we might be having. She had some unreasonable standards that made me feel like a constant failure who could never be good enough for her. If you're thinking, "this sounds like narcissism / abuse" then…
/r/RPChristians15/06/22 05:21 AM
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Thanks g
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 04:07 PM
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it makes sense to not marry if you don't find the unicorn. Unicorns don't exist. You've played yourself.
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 03:08 PM
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JustPearly is becoming more popular on youtube. That's pretty interesting. Has anyone else heard of this or maybe observed this at church? Yep. What about it? Value as a believer and value as a potential mate are two separate issues. What do you think of this? Have you personally seen this play out in church? I have. As far as them converting: the more the merrier. A guy getting worked up over whether they are using faith as a cope is an indicator to me that he's got some latent anger towards wo…
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 10:54 AM
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male mentorship and guidance for other young men. If his strategy was effective the church at large wouldn't be hemorrhaging young men the way it is. RP has a lot of good ideas, but not everything is about sex. Good illustration of someone trying to win "F points". Obviously it's not all about sex, the whole point of me saying he doesn't get laid is to say he is an impotent man. Sex and what a man needs to be in order to get sex readily is an excellent analogy for a number of other experiences i…
/r/RPChristians10/06/22 06:12 PM
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We are all doomed to be imperfect Doesn't matter. 1 Cor. 11:1 Gives us the model for how we are to grow the spirituality of other people. We are only imitations but imitations are sufficient with the guiding hand of the holy spirit. Even if we were, perfection doesn't necessarily inspire patterning behavior. Irrelevant to the arguement, also untrue. We are all wired differently. We are more alike than different. There is a natural inclination for a son to rebel against his father to a certain de…
/r/RPChristians10/06/22 12:40 PM
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Just wondering whats the contingency plan right now? Contingency plans are figured out before option A fails. Take all threats as legitimate and behave accordingly. Talk to a lawyer and get information. Ultimately you pick what you do with that information.
/r/askMRP07/06/22 06:08 PM
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a girl she gets feelings and me sleeping around becomes a problem for her. And why is this a problem?
/r/askMRP06/06/22 08:01 PM
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bachelorette party. Thoughts on approaching groups of girls 4+? I've done it a number of times and without fail there is a bridge troll who actively goes out of her way to make outsiders leave. I've tried cozying up to them, focusing on them, ignoring them, being abraisive towards them, siccing a wingman on them, being the wingman who goes for them while my friend goes after the group . . . Nothing. u/BarracudaRP and my friends, I had some serious inner game weaknesses IMO going out with friends…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/22 12:40 PM
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u/RockNRollChuck Username and post check
/r/RPChristians02/06/22 01:36 PM
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I just have to ask: did you stop being Christian? Solid self agrandizing statement. Why are you using the general secular population as your dating pool? Most aren't but there is severe overlap between worldly modern women and the women in Church and it is not usually perfectly intuitive for newbie guys to distinguish between the two. Why aren't you guys meeting girls at church? This illustrates clearly where your position is coming from. This is a tired arguement, many here have and are still p…
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 03:34 AM
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Someone has been reading Yung and taking psychedelics recently. Once a man accepts he is simultaneously fully reaponsible for his own actions, and also not entirely the progenitor of his own actions he can start to draw the outline of the map of his mind.
/r/askMRP29/05/22 04:12 AM
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What are your thoughts on going to foreign country to find a bride? Depends. How much money are you making a year? What are your lifts? Etc. A lot of times these women aren't more submissive because of their culture, but because you make a lot of money and are using it as a way to get their children into the states. If this becomes a trend, watch what happens when you have kids - lot of Christian guys don't have the frame to deal with it.
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 08:45 PM
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My cousin, a devout Pentecostal Christian, went on a mission trip to the Philippines u/swimmingindaisies You were right.
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 08:42 PM
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I'm not really scared of her being upset with me You sure act like you are.
/r/askMRP26/05/22 05:21 PM
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You sound shell shcoked just because your wife is upset. Are you scared of her being upset with you? And was my response valid? What do you mean by valid? Obviously it was a response, albeit not an effective one. She shouts from upstairs where she's getting ready, while I'm downstairs sorting the kids "Don't give them breakfast". "Are they dressed yet?" "Have you brushed their teeth?". "Are their bags packed?" etc etc. Sounds like you were a lazy and drunk captain. She doesn't trust you to make …
/r/askMRP26/05/22 12:33 PM
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Seems like a lot of work to say you just want to sin. Do what you want and face the positive or negative consequences of your actions.
/r/RPChristians25/05/22 08:21 PM
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but she came back and messaged like she didn't leave me high and dry when I was in a bad place after the breakup • Expecting a woman to be a man. I get hypergamy is a thing which is why I took the route of "become the best" • Self improvement for the sake of someone else. I don't get why she acts like nothing happened? • Trying to logic through emotional decisions. And why did she not even try talk to me and blindside me? • Overinflated valuation of self. I ignored her and have more self respect…
/r/askMRP25/05/22 06:34 PM
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Teach people how to pool their potential partners intelligently. Allow unmarried women to face the consequences of singleness as a warning to the younger generation. Call out men who are failing to lead out of ego - label them as an unsuitable mate until they significantly change. Call out women who are failing to submit out of ego - label them as an unsuitable mate until they significantly change. Blame fathers for not interjecting when their daughters choose partners poorly. Advocate for prenu…
/r/RPChristians25/05/22 06:29 PM
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Issa joke.
/r/RPChristians17/05/22 03:44 AM
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Lol imagine if it was literally a seperate instance of this happening.
/r/RPChristians16/05/22 11:55 PM
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Man was created for relationships, not for work. What are you doing that contributes to your purpose of creation?
/r/RPChristians16/05/22 05:28 PM
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Some basic math For cohesiveness' sake I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say 20 years ago you were 18. You're now 38, dealing with a 24 yo woman who "has a mentally ill alter." Meaning she isn't sick but her alternative personalities are. Just say you like drama, don't need all these extra words. As would I, 20 years ago. This is a weird roundabout way to suggest men be more like you, or that you've intellectually ascended that thought process. Not taking sexual past into consideration …
/r/RPChristians16/05/22 05:22 PM
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Pasts tend to repeat. Having a significant sexual past doesn't mean she is worth less as a human in the eyes of the Lord. But it does certainly mean she is a worse candidate for long term relationships than someone who has a low n-count. The "who they are now" is bad rhetoric, don't use it anymore.
/r/RPChristians16/05/22 12:23 PM
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I thought it was unfair that her ex got to experience this and that I didn't Do you want to? Is she offering? Why is it unfair if you are choosing to wait? Seems like you are using "waiting till marriage" to justify not being sexually intimate with her rather than a legitimate conviction. I'm unsure if I want to continue the relationship Don't tell people, especially women, when you are making decisions but have come to a conclusion yet. This is a very weak thing to do. At this point, I pretty m…
/r/RPChristians16/05/22 12:19 PM
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Defend thy honor, and m'ladys honor young knight. The devilish barfiends have nothin on thy virtuous chivalry. Is this what you're looking for? There's a big difference between being forced, and a guy holding/ caressing her and her not stopping him because she feels socially uncomfortable. Issue is, most women won't articulate the difference. Did she give him her number?
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 01:00 PM
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Do you want to have sex? If not a family, what will you be dumping that enormous amount of rescources into?
/r/RPChristians14/05/22 01:00 AM
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Talk to her and be friendly until she is 18 - you are going to get a huge amount of backlash for trying to go for a girl who is lawfully considered underage, enough that it is unwise to pursue a relationship with her.
/r/RPChristians11/05/22 02:51 PM
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If you aren't sleeping with them all, or they aren't all trying to be with you then you don't have a harem - you're just friendzoned by 5 different girls. That aside, this basically is the same rhetoric that got so many women upset at the late Kevin Samuels. He would be talking about the Sexual Marketplace and would say something like "your value drops after 35". What they hear is "your fundamental and intrinsic value as a human drops after 35." Which isn't the point he was trying to make. Are t…
/r/RPChristians11/05/22 12:17 PM
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So if oneities is not real Oneitis is real. then why should marriage be considered a very special thing? What a bizarre rhetoric. Why is sex restricted through marriage then if there are many partners that can be my soulmate? Short answer is scripture limits us to one partner. You have a number of bad mental models that are evident in this post. Read the sidebar before posting again.
/r/RPChristians08/05/22 05:51 AM
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It's been 2 month of change during a 5 month journey after 10 years of inadequate relationship. There are going to be lots of bizarre changes.
/r/RPChristians04/05/22 12:48 AM
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How long have you been married? Age (roughly speaking)? When she is responding with high attraction, is the sex satisfying or is it still starfish sex? Maybe this needs to be a post because I see a number of other guys fumbling with this concept: in the beginning, especially if you were a seriously BP'd guy before, any attention diverted from your wife draws her desire. However as time goes on, you will find that things like exercise or doing your work/being on a grind will be insufficient to cr…
/r/RPChristians03/05/22 11:23 PM
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Disclosure fails where discovery succeeds. If you're going to tell her you flirted with some woman, what's to stop you from just saying you went to a bar where ten supermodels who crap gold couldn't keep their hands off you? I’ve read it’s good to create competition for your wife by flirting with waitresses and such when out together, but would this situation hold any weight? If you are not a socially abundant man, flirting with your waitress infront of your wife will come across as significantl…
/r/askMRP02/05/22 02:45 PM
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What?
/r/RPChristians25/04/22 01:22 PM
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If you want to stay married, stay married for as long as it's possible. But don't blame God, your cheating wife, or anyone else for the consequences of which there will be many - you are choosing to stay. Why track her phone? So you can get off on being disappointed? She's clearly illustrated she had no interest in you. I want to tell her to take the steps herself as I am not the one who wants to divorce. This is stupid. If you are willing to seperate but want to put the work on her you are just…
/r/RPChristians25/04/22 12:50 PM
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1) my value system is unironically WWJD Incredibly neublous and why you are struggling to apply scripture appropriately. What would he do in this situation? 2)What do you mean by tantric sex? Well dang, definitely been using that term wrong. Answer this question instead: after these significant arguments, do you and your wife have very emotional and exciting sex? 3)without me being a piece of 💩 You want one without the other, so you'll have the other without your want. She already thinks you're …
/r/RPChristians21/04/22 02:18 PM
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Divorce itself isn't the answer, the willingness to divorce is. If you fear it, it will be the tool used against you. I stopped drinking started working out again and tried to have some semblance of a value system. What type of "value system" do you have now? What are the core tenets of who you are? We bonded started screwing super quickly FTFY Once she was in a mood so I was going to go to a friends house and she tried to physically block my car from leaving. Real question, do you find that aft…
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 08:01 PM
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Are you willing to divorce her?
/r/RPChristians20/04/22 06:39 PM
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I broke this Summer and had a panic attack. I allowed life to weigh me down and tried to do too much. Lost job and well being. Now, it's like an uphill battle with wife. She lost respect for me. I showed her an overwhelming amount of weakness and now she notices my faults and calls them out regularly. You deserve it. You let your marriage and household fall into disrepair. If you want the role of the leader, then you invite criticism when you fail - that's the trade off. My attempts to lead are …
/r/askMRP19/04/22 02:30 PM
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what?
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 11:28 PM
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Is she bluffing on the divorce? Nobody can possibly know this but her, and the way you're asking this questions sounds like you just want to be lazy and not deal with it, hoping it'll blow over. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. Do you like the drama of threats of divorce? If so, change nothing. If you don't like them, get yourself set up so that when she threatens it again pull out a divorce document and have her sign it. Either you'll be done with her, or done with the drama…
/r/askMRP14/04/22 07:54 PM
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I would say that you may not have a sufficient understanding of love then.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 07:31 PM
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Why did you assume that?
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 06:27 PM
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You've been here for what, 5 days? Why do you assume that the ether of the internet is safe? "Because it's Christian"
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 06:21 PM
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Covert contract with reddit that you'll get validation for posting this megalith of a post with no line breaks. Keep a journal, these exercises are meant to be done with a trusted person or on your own, not randoms from the internet. Have more discretion than this. stfu and move along.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 06:14 PM
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Faithful - do they actually integrate what you teach them? Available - simply are they available? Do they make themselves available to YOU. Saved - Are they a believer? Teachable - Can they be taught or do they resist your teaching?
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 11:59 AM
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How do you eat a horse? One bite at a time. Rather than trying to take on the whole problem, it is better to approach the individuals who are F.A.S.T to you and work on moving them closer to Christ through the imitation of you. How do you gently (and without ego / arrogance) bring people back to how the bible says to live. Particulary when if you don't read the bible, you don't realise just how important it is. The answer is simple: tell them what they are doing doesn't line up with specific scr…
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 07:44 AM
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This is a valueless comment to add amd a platitude that will frustrate those who are seriously in need of help.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 07:26 AM
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Copied from the last time you posted this: This sounds like burgeoning mental illness. What behaviors changed? You can simply change your behaviors back - that's a matter of decision not because some drug made you like chocolate and puppies. skin, body odor, musical preference What is an emasculated odor or musical preference? You like Doja Cat? Musicals? Latin Music? Is your skin breaking out in pimples that form the sentence "I am a big fan of sex and the city." *My body odor use to smell like…
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 01:28 AM
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Live near her family or mines? I vote live near the mines. The smells of sweaty men and coal burning. The sound of industry and capitalism. Nothing quite like it. Also: if I have to make decision for your relationship, I get to sleep with your GF, so DM me her address and insta.
/r/askMRP10/04/22 11:55 AM
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Are you just posting this because you really like to point out how you're unique/different than the average peon? Or is there something magical that should be happening Are you being facetious? Do you actually believe in magic? You should because after you Bench 225lbs a genie flies out your dick and rubs your butthole. Develop frame and Mental Point of Origin.
/r/askMRP06/04/22 06:10 PM
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A pimp is just a hoe that flipped the game on hoes. -Iceburg Slim.
/r/askMRP29/03/22 02:23 AM
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Hey Brother! Hope you're doing well! 😁😁😁 Dread level 1 Sure is difficult, especially with a new wife. Have you thought about bouncing around between the other Dread Levels randomly to see where your comfortable? Might help! trying to improve myself but the actions given here are way out of my comfort zone, hence struggling to maintain them. Totally understandable. I was speaking with a few endorsed guys recently, I was pretty shocked at how much they were concerned over people's ability to utili…
/r/askMRP27/03/22 05:01 PM
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How do I become attractive intellectually, socially, and emotionally? Intellectually: By being an asset to people around you mentally and physically. Socially: By doing things that keep people engaged in socializing w/ you. Emotionally: By behaving in a consistent (and consistently desireable) manner that people can both predict and appreciate.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 11:37 PM
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5'9 and 205lbs You are likely unattractive physically, intellectually, socially, and emotionally. No wonder she doesn't have enthusiasm for sleeping with you. Maybe give her a gold star for being such a good champ.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 05:32 AM
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TL:DR think Become conscious of your value Being more socially valuable doesn't improve your frame. Coming to the point that you value your time, attention, focus, effort etc. more than you value other's does. Babies have impeccible frame. this immediately lowed her value Obviously I'm nit picking but it doesn't lower her value, it lowers how much you value her. Also: since this thriving is an attribute I highly value Sounds like you should give dating men a try then. You are evaluating men and …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 12:15 AM
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3.) Yes Sounds like you struggle with masculinity anyway, which combined with OCD and that your peers are also experimenting with sexual identity makes it seem unlikely that you have a biological proclivity for it. I believe there are people who legitimately have dysphoria and that transitioning helps them be more successful interpersonally, socially etc. But there is also a lot of data to suggest that people in their teens form their identities with their cohorts. You're welcome to message me o…
/r/RPChristians20/03/22 03:08 PM
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Every week, I suffer from dysphoric thoughts, and they are constantly trying to convince me that I am a woman and that I need to transition in order to be happy. The stats do not seem to support this, but let's ask a few other questions first. 1) How old are you? 2) Do you have diagnosed autism? 3) Are friends in your friend group also trans or LGBTQIA+? 4) How would you describe your main relationships? (Parents, Schooling, Peers etc.)
/r/RPChristians20/03/22 02:24 PM
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Oh. Well that's seems pretty good. No issues there.
/r/RPChristians19/03/22 02:23 PM
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Of divorce and suicide, suicide is worse. You can always repent of your divorce. Get on the discord and DM me. You got some bugs in your head that need to be fixed and the only person who can do it is you.
/r/RPChristians18/03/22 06:30 AM
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I can't take her out on a date and give her the romance she wants when she is throwing tantrums like a spoiled brat. Why not? More importantly why would you want to? This gives me a way clearer picture - you don't have a mental point of origin, just coopting ideas from the internet. Should I feel guilty for that? No. I straight up flirt with my waitresses in front of my wife man, who care if you are guilty. It's fun.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 06:28 PM
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You are an idiot then. If you are already passively falling into CNC you are one bad feeling away from getting metoo'd.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 06:15 PM
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think I will just step into the kitchen and leave politely if things start going to shit. If things start to go poorly, it is already too late and you have opened yourself up to undue liability.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 06:06 PM
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to admit guilt or something If you are guilty of something, why are you resistant to admitting it? Can you explain more about frame/boundaries and giving not being opposites Give me an example of how they are.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 05:53 PM
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Is this kind of counseling helpful or just going to do more damage Nobody can answer that for sure. Maybe you'll learn something valueable. Maybe not. Therapists notoriously believe that men venting their problems to women is a good thing, which rarely can be but generally is not. I get that there are issues with frame, nice guy, boundaries, etc. But, what is the balance between enforcing boundaries/frame and giving something to the relationship? Frame/Boundaries and Giving are not on opposite s…
/r/askMRP17/03/22 04:30 PM
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who only cares about his own opinion of himself A king who doesn't mind the opinion of the masses may find himself seperated from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 04:08 PM
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Any anecdotal (or otherwise) advice from you guys about how you went about solving this issue if you have had to face this or were to face this? Sentiment here is going to be something like "don't try to change her etc. waste of your time." So let's hypothetically say you were just interested in it from an objective perspective. Like breaking in a particularly difficult horse. "grey area" stuff. She almost makes me do it. It seems a bit fucked up sometimes. CNC is a thing for a reason. There is …
/r/askMRP17/03/22 03:57 PM
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FFS Relationships aren't judiciary court systems, you don't need insurmountable evidence to justify a breakup with her. Just dump her and quit wasting your time constantly trying to break into her phone or by stalking her whereabouts. It's like you idiots crave some type of validation from vindicated anger. Addicted to drama porn and then wonder why you're constantly miserable. Just stop making a mess of your life, tie up the loose end and let her go. Find someone who doesn't make you insecure, …
/r/askMRP15/03/22 07:08 PM
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Haha, yeah turns out complimenting your friends on their big beautiful dicks is now gay. Who would have guessed 🤷‍♂️.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/22 11:53 PM
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walked on eggshells and lied to avoid conflict, avoid responsibility, and supplicate to every request. Why?
/r/askMRP08/03/22 05:26 PM
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Bet you have a lot of boyfriends now though. Seems like you failed forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 04:19 AM
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A man is as big as the smallest thing he loses his temper over. Weak frame, you are also worried that something as small as losing a parking spot will make you look weak - odds are you wife would have been more attracted to that guy. Not because he got the parking spot, but because you handled it like a punk. If you look at the world through the single lens of zero-sum you will always be the loser. Which you currently are.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 09:41 PM
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Give us some examples.
/r/RPChristians07/03/22 02:20 PM
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I challenge you to find a dude who is sexually succesful in 2022 I can't tell if you are agreeing with my sentiment or not, but "no texting" is still very much a shared sentiment here. I think I'm the only person who has posted about text game in the last two years. No. It isn't. Going Rambo is applying the tools haphazardly. Seems like a needless splitting of hairs. Going Rambo is using the tools (or strategies) before your frame can handle it. If you nuke your nuclear family before you've come…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/22 02:12 PM
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I have been playing around with the idea of using T, but my hairline has convinced me not to. If I'm blessed with my grandfathers hair I wont go grey until like 68, he never lost hair. Too bad I might also have his turkey neck. 😅😅😅
/r/RPChristians05/03/22 01:58 PM
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Instructions unclear. Perforated my colon.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/22 05:15 PM
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Dread is only helpful to understand and diagnose why your relationship may be acting out of the norm. It is not a good strategy to force them into submission. I leveled up and applied dread, only to be met with increased scrutiny, paranoia and anger. That is a covert contract you didn't level up because you believed you needed to level up, but to try and control someone else. You don't value yourself - even when dread goes overt, you are setting yourself up to be played by someone smarter or mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/22 07:51 PM
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I’ll also add that I’m not trying to make myself attractive to anyone in this sub Attractiveness is not just about someone wanting to screw you - it is also about people wanting to listen to you, to consider your thoughts, or to accept your decisions when one is necessary. Responding with "ha, gotcha" is bad form. No. I want consistency. If profanity is unacceptable, then why isn’t baseless name-calling? For those of you who lurk my account, this is what I meant by the trappings of "should be"is…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 10:40 PM
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You aren't making the point you think you're making.
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 06:08 PM
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One guy in his OYS talked about wanting to improve his fashion, but he was still overweight. Horrible idea. Let's break this down: Are you talking about yourself? Get rid of your Macy's Polos RC. That red one from YT kills me.
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 04:26 PM
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I have become more mature than i have been. I read my bible probably 4-5 times a week. I pray constantly and I consider Jesus to be my Best friend. Praying and reading scripture is not the mark of spiritual maturity - spiritual reproduction is. My mission in life is please God. How I am going about that mission is by becoming the best version of myself. So you are reading scripture but have missed what Christ has required of us. Reread Matthew 28. Now to your post. me in turn will react to her a…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 04:23 PM
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That comment was not removed. You want silenced opposition. That is not the way. Deleting adversity is the path to creating a "safe space" - which is detestable. but you also preach that having kids is not a biblical commandment or obligation? RC has answered this many many times. I would dig through his posts to find the answer. Hint: it is always his answer. and I don’t intend for anyone to take any of this personally. If you are doing to stand on truth you risk offending people. Stop trying t…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 04:06 PM
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Every man is the blame for the state of his own marriage. Either he picked wrong and is at fault for a lack of wisdom, forsight, and poor decision making. Then follows it up with an insufficiency regarding his lack of ability to manage women. This includes involving yourself with a malignant woman. Or he is failing as a leader and is at the simple fault for that. Men frequently fall into the trap of "should be" or "supposed to" - this thought is a frame breaking, autonomy outsourcing blight. The…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 03:55 PM
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If someone can say what you are trying to, but more succintly or with fewer words, by honor of the samurai you will need to commit seppuku. As u/RStonePT said, the search to protect her feelings (which is really just you worsening it for her to protect your own feelings) is a fools errand. Tell her without fluff but without unnecessarily digging at her.
/r/askMRP27/02/22 03:13 PM
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Here's the thing that you gotta keep in mind. A lot of us group up on the discord and have for a long time. There have been several times people, myself included, have tried to soft approach. With that, u/RocknRollChuck is the only one I've personally seen bear fruit with this approach. And with an abundace of respect due with that. A number of endorsed and "earned-it" guys from MRP, if they choose to convert usually hit him up first. Outside of him however, I have only seen the hard press strat…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 03:48 AM
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Be the change you hope to see, if you think gentle engagement is necessary, then be that gentle engagement. Otherwise you are just complaining that the people doing the heavy lifting aren't doing it the way you aren't but want to. It's hypocritical. The exact people who I’m talking about will come into the comments, and tell me that I’m a product of “soft church leadership.” Just because you can acknowledge how and why someone is going to critique you, doesn't mean you are right or have "one up"…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 03:35 AM
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Mayor Game Tricks: 1) Always Be Wingmanning 2) Throw tempered game at ugly, fat and old women. Train them to approach you. 3) Don't budget at the party. If you have to fight the waitress over a $5 mystery fee you should have rejected the invitation. Don't look at the cost, you should have already budgeted for it. 4) Enthusiasm goes a long way. 5) Initiate plans 6) If you suck at telling stories, don't. Get someone to teach you how. 7) For parties over 5 aim to be the second most energetic person…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/22 12:21 AM
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Lol, posts to RMC for sexual validation and wonders if he needs to drop his standards to find a girlfriend. Maybe there are plenty of viable girls who just won't drop their standards low enough for him.🤷‍♂️
/r/askRPC23/02/22 06:32 PM
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Get a psychiatrist to prescribe you mood stabilizers, then get a CBT specialist to fix your weird behavior.
/r/askRPC23/02/22 06:08 PM
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A lot of guys come to TRP because they want sex, turns out sex was the friends they made along the way.
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 04:12 PM
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young men 27 does not compute Stop infantilizing yourself. I don't know how to approach them with this topic of my celibacy, I had an ex contact me this week, that ended because of irreconcilable differences does not compute Is this a troll? If you cannot propose to a woman within 8 months don't date. Finding women is easy, you just have to not suck and be a 5/10 in looks. I think you might have jellybeans in your head.
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 04:02 PM
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You intentionally trying to bait me? Haha Hey I also said Latin music! Either that or you're just a girl because you have a crush on Lin Manuel. 😎
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 06:31 AM
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Right, which is exactly why impotent dating is worthless. Admittedly, women are at a greater risk marrying the wrong person, so frontloading some concern for them with celibacy for 6 - 8 months isn't bad. But a large problem is that most guys want to date for 4+ years.
/r/RPChristians23/02/22 12:40 AM
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Dating is stupid unless you are actually capable of a legitimate transition from dating to serious commitment in marriage. Guys should not be trying seriously date women until they have enough income to supply a family. Date nonseriously, sure. That is a good way to develop skills and taste and you don't really need to ask "permission" from fathers for that. OP, you should quote some specifics from this artcile that you want us to weigh in on.
/r/RPChristians22/02/22 10:35 PM
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Sorry. I'll be more specific. 290lbs Obviously you're fat AF, that is why specifics are important. I guess I can do a couple of plates on each side That is the difference of 90 - 180lbs 2 years now Two years is short enough you could give us a quarterly breakdown. However this is also lower then what we used to do. Less than 1/week could be 2/month or 2/year. Diagnosis: Weak mind with inability to deal with concretes or absolutes. Wants to hide in ambiguity because you don't want to deal with yo…
/r/askMRP22/02/22 09:51 PM
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This sounds like burgeoning mental illness. What behaviors changed? You can simply change your behaviors back - that's a matter of decision not because some drug made you like chocolate and puppies. skin, body odor, musical preference What is an emasculated odor or musical preference? You like Doja Cat? Musicals? Latin Music? Is your skin breaking out in pimples that form the sentence "I am a big fan of sex and the city." My body odor use to smell like sewage. Now I don't even smell that bad lik…
/r/RPChristians22/02/22 04:21 PM
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Says u/AlphaWolfLion60420.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 02:25 PM
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Its like you redditards think that shit tests or comfort tests will ever stop. They don't. No amount of lifting, game, dread, stfu, A&A, AM, or fogging, will stop a woman from testing you. The only difference will only ever be your frame and how you pass (or fail in your case) them. Context Context isn't needed, your title is sufficiently weak. I will rewrite you post with the actual necessary context. she said "You should be chasing me", I literally bought her $70 worth of flowers yesterday and…
/r/askMRP16/02/22 03:24 PM
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no longer about that No longer about what have you done?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 06:37 PM
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This is some mental masturbation hotep shit. Reach the point in which you stop caring about the effects of your actions on the girls you’re with. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you don't mean a full on pendulum swing to not caring what they do - DNGAF is a good tool to get billys out of self defeating behavior but there is development needed afterward. Going Rambo is someone trying to LARP DNGAF when they don't have this second quality among many others, frame included…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 06:36 PM
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Why do you think you are entitled to respect? Sounds like you suck and have a temper. Any old thing gets you riled up. Honestly if I were your wife I'd wake up every morning, spit in your coffee, take a crap in your shoes, call your family members and tell them you're hitting me, and poison your son to you.
/r/askMRP15/02/22 02:21 PM
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this is my fault I want to know what I need to change. Okay. Here you go. At this point I would never ask her out anyway. Why? There is little to no value in having casual female friendships as a guy. Stop taking advice from guys who self diagnose as feminine. Just because they relate to you, doesn't mean their advice is good. We ended up bantering for three hours. My understanding is that you wanted to escalate with this girl beyond sitting across a booth table, stop trying to pay the toll with…
/r/askRPC15/02/22 02:16 PM
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Everyone thinks that in order to make sound judgement you need to have full context of the person. Turns out your don't though. Oz is right, you did become the GBF
/r/askRPC15/02/22 02:06 PM
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Why does the current church seem to be inept when it comes to teaching men how to be men? Because single women and the wives of neutered men predominately control the pocketbook. Churches are financial organizations and we are shocked out of idiocy that an organization would pander to it's benefactory constituants. Where is the holy spirit guiding our leaders? Out of corporate Church. Not in a "fleeing" sense, more in a "Pastors are taking too much pleasure in beating this dead horse and it is n…
/r/askRPC05/02/22 04:36 AM
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The purpose of pulling time and attention is to ensure your personal environment, mentally and physically, is enjoyable and peaceful. If she wants back in, don't torture her by playing hot and cold with readmittance unless you simply want to torture her. But that is more for yourself then for her at that point. I felt she needed to see that I’m pissed off. Why did she need to see it? This is a covert contract. If she sees that I'm mad, then she'll try to fix it because she'll be scared I may div…
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:55 AM
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What? No, go somewhere else.
/r/RPChristians27/01/22 10:16 PM
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I still find my wife pressuring me into a corner looking for responses when I STFU. When you say STFU do you mean you literally clam up silent treatment? There was no discussion with me. Why does she have to discuss anything with you? What have you done to deserve the respect of your time? Respecting other people's time does not make them respect yours. Where every move my wife does pisses me off. I’m noticing the covert contract here but it’s still annoying. Doesn't really even sound like you'r…
/r/askMRP24/01/22 07:35 PM
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If marriage is illegal It isn't, so why even trouble or concern yourself with trying to manage outcomes to a situation that isn't happening.
/r/RPChristians23/01/22 10:22 PM
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Learnt.
/r/askMRP23/01/22 02:31 PM
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Why wait to be married? What is financial stability going to change?
/r/RPChristians22/01/22 04:01 PM
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I've encouraged her to do studies with me, praise with me, or watch Godly based things Funny that you think this is leading. I always end-up watching something stupid when I would rather be diving in my word. Why are you compromising what you feel compelled to do? Additionally, I do not want get into a theology argument. But we just have some huge differences in things that both of us will never change on. I do not approve of CCM music, she has told me she doesn't "agree" with Apostle Paul's wri…
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 08:41 PM
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She has gone from being religious in name to praying 5 times a day and has hard time reciting complicated verses so for a prayer that takes a person 5 minutes, she ends up spending 45 minutes on each x5 so whatever little time she's home after work, she spends praying. Probably praying for a better husband. Why does it matter what or how she is doing? so we don't have anything in common. So? Why do you expect her to be your best friend? "If you don't start praying", "if you don't stop mentally t…
/r/askMRP17/01/22 08:32 PM
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RPChristians 'RP' is predominately male. Women are only tagging along because they are finally waking up to the fact that the pews are full of single mothers rather than hot guys so they look online. would probably throw visitors off/make us appear chauvinistic. No sense in changing just to appease people approaching us in bad faith.
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 05:38 AM
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Good point. I am ready for that. I just don't get how people have so much trouble with health and fitness. To me it's math and it's simple. People act like it's some mysterious formula or something. I know I've already given her the explanation of how it works and how to execute it in detail. This is the most autistic interpretation of fitness - literally. Not that it's wrong but you are literally looking at fitness as "fix the machine by doing x y and z." A lot of women (and men) look at fitnes…
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:00 AM
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stay plan same as go plan, Really? What does it mean to you? "you need to drop this weight”. Do you expect her to have a solution to this problem? Has she asked for help? or should I be overt and tell her to lose the weight? If you do, be ready with strategies for her to achieve it. Lipo, exercise, dietician, etc.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 08:34 PM
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but I have been using it in that manner, and to great success, That just means your previous strategy was so bad that the autistic application of STFU was better - which says a lot. Read more of the sidebar, the content necessary to answer this is in there.
/r/askMRP02/01/22 05:36 AM
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but you have to understand First off, delete this phrase from your vocabulary. As the Captain of the home, I decided to put my foot down, telling her that we were going back to eating meat You can't force people to do stuff without physically making them do it. And because we live in the 21st century, attempting to do this literally will land you in the slammer. Meaning: you can't "put your foot down" you can only voice your expectations and allow people to experience the fallout of failing to k…
/r/RPChristians02/01/22 05:32 AM
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Can you be overt like OP did? Yes. There are counter examples on a regular basis, issue is most guys here have never allowed their yes to be yes or their no to be no. They allow themselves to be obligated out of fear to captiulate and undermine their own stance - as if they are not sufficient judges of their own actions. That the only opinion on their behavior that matters is their wives/LTR because sex is their ultimate goal and if they are failing to get sex that implies their behavior as insu…
/r/askMRP02/01/22 05:18 AM
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You seem to think women are a puzzle that once they are solved they stay solved. They are people, with necessary upkeep, in need of attention, and validation with irrational fears. Sex isn't the only thing necessary for the upkeep of a woman. she flat out holds frame and treats me like I just murdered her dog So be the bad guy, who cares what she says about you? If you don't like her enough to deal with her, then next her. If you're only with her out of an external pressure, you have oneitis or …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 03:11 PM
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That's pretty cool dude 😎
/r/askMRP28/12/21 09:04 PM
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words are cheap You are a dingus if you believe that she doesn't mean it when she says she'll just cheat on you. Especially if it is said with vitriol. man threatening my marriage through a screen is nothing more than a beta orbiter Nice ego protection. Curious as to what it makes you if a beta orbiter is preferable to sex and intimacy with you.
/r/askMRP28/12/21 08:57 PM
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Do I feel bad just a bit cuz she was playing it off like she’s a loyal and dutiful wife but I am just angry at her hypocrisy and lack of acknowledgment of her own short comings. Expecting this is a good way to be chronically dissatisfied with your life. It will never come, and when it does you wont want, need, or accept it anyway. (I think I should have been playful rather than defensive) What outcome do you want? Is getting some semblance of self respect back because youre still with a woman wh…
/r/askMRP27/12/21 08:19 PM
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I’ve made changes but she’s hurting and can’t keep crying herself to sleep every night She's telling you exactly the problem here; she recognizes that your changes are all for the purpose of keeping her. This is a covert contract. She doesn't trust you to actually improve, and honestly she is justified in her disbelief. You need to seperate self improvement from the possibility of saving your marriage because they are two different things. This post is pretty much just a hail marry for advice fr…
/r/askMRP27/12/21 02:59 PM
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is permanent birth control a sin? No. 1 Cor. 10:23 "“All things are lawful,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful,” but not all things build up." That said, if it goes against your conscience, then yes; it is sin. Not because of the behavior itself, but out of the deliberate disobedience you are choosing against what you believe is right. I would seriously wonder why you are though if you are a younger guy.
/r/RPChristians27/12/21 01:12 AM
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Are you coming on to me?
/r/RPChristians24/12/21 08:57 PM
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I've never seen someone try to play both sides of the "I care so I'm going to be specific" and "I don't even care enough to pay attention" as you have with these two responses. I didn’t stutter. Stutter about what? Were you threatening me? Or are you really that interested in me jerking off to Joel Osteen? I don't know what you mean by this. I was barely paying attention. Dang dude, you care so little about stuff. Really cool. Wow.
/r/RPChristians24/12/21 06:34 PM
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what?
/r/RPChristians24/12/21 06:23 PM
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Wow, the idiots really came out of the woodwork to reply to this one. yes, if this is one of the first threads you've replied to on RPC, I'm talking about you. If you are lurking and the only time you log on is to reply to a covid question, methinks you should leave, you value leech. As for OP,; jump on DC.We got another guy dealing with the same thing. Anyone who deems it necessary or right to walk the path you're walking is going to have to use a lot of lateral thinking to overcome the obstacl…
/r/RPChristians24/12/21 01:00 PM
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We've been going through a DB so I felt this was the perfect time to be more overt. It certainly was more overt, but was simultaneously equally unattractive. Let's be generous and say it was a smart idea to say if you give me a bj I'll rub your back. When she replied disingenuously with I don't like being forced into sexual acts. I just want my back rubbed Is when you should have STFU - she knows she's being intellectually unfair but doesn't care. Any follow-up you give legitimizes her bad behav…
/r/askMRP24/12/21 12:53 PM
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Is this schitzoposting?
/r/RPChristians23/12/21 04:35 AM
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"My house is so dirty, only a pig would live in it!" "But you live in it, so you must be a pig." "No, it's my wife's fault." "Oh, so it's your wife's house and you're just living in it? So you're a leech? I'd say leeches are worse than pigs." "No! It's my house but she is suppose to clean it!" "Oh, so you let your own house fall into shambles and disrepair then want to blame your wife for not acting like your mother?" "No, she supposed to because she's a woman and should respect me." "Does she?"…
/r/askMRP18/12/21 02:55 PM
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Baby girl comes along and I basically fall off the RP wagon. You were never "on the wagon". So, again working hard for no appreciation. Covert contract. I finally felt free to do something for myself. Not your own Mental Point of Origin. I got all kinds of push-back on the guitar stuff. Couldn't STFU. I told her I really needed music in my life. DEERing. She tried get me to burn the paperbacks, but I got them back safely to my office. Lack of autonomy. We seem to be fighting more than ever. DEER…
/r/askMRP18/12/21 02:48 PM
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forgive Forgive for what? You need to get over it, if you had problems with it you shouldn't have married her. She can talk about her past with no shame. It is an indiscretion to talk about it. Tell her to stop. Slut is a horrible word, but she was that before we got married and I'm having a hard time seeing her as different from that. Again, you made your bed. Quit complaining about it or making it her problem.
/r/RPChristians16/12/21 11:24 AM
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For a guy named u/siroysalot you sure have literally never posted an OYS.
/r/askMRP15/12/21 02:39 PM
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Increase the level of dread and continue what I'm doing untill she caves? Dancing monkey and major covert contract. "If I do xyz I'll get my wife back." Your wife is dead, this is a new woman - she has said as much. You get to choose now if you want to date this new woman. Do you? How to save a low sex marriage You can't. But, I can't help but feel that something is going on that I don't know about. Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. Except for faith, whst reason could you possibly have for staying ma…
/r/askMRP14/12/21 07:52 PM
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These two weeks I took back my life, my mission, my agenda, and - in fact - my family's agenda as well. I have worn a single pair of socks longer. Nobody believes you're anywhere different than where you were - and you should be in that group as well. and haven't lifted in two weeks. Wait, so you had your life together without any exercise? I have zero interest in sex with her, and I've withdrawn from her physically. Why? I feel again a lot of anger. Why? I'm posting just in case people see some…
/r/askMRP13/12/21 07:56 PM
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How to handle this shit/comfort test? What do you mean? You pass them. We're you under the impression you're supposed to fail them? Hope this helps!
/r/askMRP09/12/21 07:49 PM
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He has a very unusual way of approaching things.and is old fashioned These are incompatible ideologies. If he was old fashioned he wouldn't be setting you up to be a career woman. I work in the commercial modeling industry, done a little acting, and do social media influencing. Ah, this makes more sense. He wants to socially pimp you out at best, worst he is just using your naivete to get into your pants. What are your long term goals? Marriage and family goals? Career goals? (keeping in mind mo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 07:11 PM
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but rather discussing financial issues with my father, recommending psychotherapy to my brother (despite denial), my sister's need to improve her driving skills before killing someone, since the people around me already respect me enough to know their lanes. Sounds like you need to learn to stay in yours. If you aren't willing to physically or legally strong arm them into submission, and they don't care to hear your points, there is nothing you can do to pursue your outcome. Theres a lot you can…
/r/askMRP06/12/21 06:25 AM
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Long story short Still wrote a long story. TL;DR You suck and think this "one little trick" is going to be what it takes to get her to want you. You make good money. Neat. Are you leveraging that against her? Or is she just entitled to your hard work for putting up with your fat, boring, and frameless marriage? This isn't a rhetorical question. If you suck as bad as you sound in your post, it may be very well worth the compensation.
/r/askMRP04/12/21 07:08 AM
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You literally deleted your question idiot. Here is my question for the community regarding mania and TRP knowledge Nothing. That's it. No question. Nobody cares that you have mania. Your frame sucks because your ego is out of control. For some that is because they are emotionally weak - that includes you. Unfortunately you seem to have also been touched in the head by the crazy. So you have emotional and physiological issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/21 07:03 AM
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You sure post about dicks a lot.
/r/RPChristians04/12/21 06:52 AM
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Further convinced that being a good woman to your man is unstated social clout for them. Not to be pedantic about this, but using marriage as a vehicle to drive up your social standing has long since been a known decision. You even see this in the old testament. Proverbs 31: 20, 23 "She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy." and "Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land." This is literally talking about a woman bolstering her husban…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 06:06 PM
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high value Assuming you are talking about high value to the dating marketplace. Women who are feminine, beautiful/attractive without hypersexuality, cooperative, gentle, skilled in homemaking, dressing themselves, elevating their husband's name in social standings etc. are all going to be qualities that drive men to her. An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 05:52 PM
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Tell him, but dont complain. Two different things.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:47 PM
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no he never done this before 2 months is insufficient to say he has observable patterns of behavior. How old is this guy? Reminding him that he caused you both to miss out on something fun is how you start nagging. Either it was fun and he already knows he is missing out, or it didn't sound fun to him and he doesn't care - either way bringing it up will not give you desireable change - he may apologize, but needing apologies is . . . not good. Either he won't do it again, or he will. Your job is…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:20 PM
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Got it. That makes a lot more sense. I'll reneg on my previous comment. Does he have a history of this behavior?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:09 PM
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Answer a few yes or no's for me because that didn't help. Yes or No Are you currently engaged; meaning has he already proposed to you? Are you planning your engagement party? Do you live in the US or a country where the guy is expected to plan the engagement?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:02 PM
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So to clarify, you are planning the day you're getting engaged?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 05:55 PM
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Unironically saying you need therapy. Not getting a response within a 24 hour period when he is busy is not grounds for this type of emotional reaction. He knows that I’d be upset about it and I wanted to talk to him to tell him about my plans on our engagement day but I want to give him space. How far in advance is this? I am willing to be wrong if it's within the next, say, 10 days. But if it is more than a month out, I 100% stand by my initial statement.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 05:45 PM
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Like I said, if hugging someone is so great a sacrifice that you feel stripped, even mildly, of your femininity then there are much larger issues at play. Where does scripture talk about masculinity in terms of application? Femininity? I use to (a decade ago) predatorize women like you - get their head full of nonsense about hugs and affection and male/female dynamics I could get innocent Christian girls to defy their morals sexually. Easily. Y'all get so emotional about this stuff it's simple t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 03:56 PM
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but can I handle it? Probably not. Sounds like you're a sweet little Christian girl with nobody around to ground you in reality - which is long term bad news for you. That said, an internet stranger should probably not be the one to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 03:41 PM
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This issue sounds much deeper than just hugs.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 06:38 AM
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What should I do? I just would like to know if he lost interest We went out for about 3 months, it’s been 3 weeks since he’s been back and he is not seeing me after us not seeing each other for 5 months. He passively said that he wants to see me but nothing happened The answer is abundantly clear here and it sounds like your may just be looking for some random on the internet to tell you to text him a special sequence of letters and numbers to reset him. Maybe he isnt into you. Maybe someone in …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 11:33 PM
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Haven't heard of him, give a short description of his stances and I'm sure a few of us will weigh in while we wear off our tryptophan induced naptimes.
/r/askRPC25/11/21 08:32 PM
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Clarify that before asking for help. You have to be the one who does the work, otherwise I'm the one who gets to raise your kids and sleep with your wife.
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 05:24 PM
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I'm going to cut down your post to just what matters. we met my 4th grade daughter's teacher at school orientation about a week ago she revealed to me that she had been having dreams about the teacher. After some conversation she reveals she's been lusting after him pretty much since we met him, fantasizing about him, etc. she refuses to show me the messages, I have no one I can talk to about this because they all know my wife and would feel betrayed if I asked for advice or help on this. Everyt…
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 05:11 PM
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Laughs in r/normalnudes.
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 05:04 PM
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"I would never have done this to her." You couldn't have. You are morbidly obese with a limp wristed nice guy attitude - and I'm not even saying this with animosity. Virtue Signalling is really disingenuous to approach your ex wife with. She is the weaker sex, and you didn't give her the tools to be successful. Imagine having to have to have sex with you. At that point I'd cheat. I found the ego boys. It was hidden but a true outdoorsman always finds his prey. I'm only saying this because the on…
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 04:10 PM
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6'0" (183 cm) and 274.4 lbs (124.46 kg). Can you blame her for cheating? Let go of the resentment. She behaved as expected. My diet is undisciplined, inconsistent, and unplanned. I look at porn a few times a week. I do not drink alcohol, do drugs, or smoke cigarettes. No girlfriend. No fashion sense. I am a nurse, so I wear scrubs. I spend my time working, sleeping, or taking care of my young sons. So what is the plan? What are you going to do to fix it? I took a huge hit with the divorce and sp…
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 03:30 PM
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the money His money. You aren't married. I hate feeling like I don’t know how much money I'm allowed to spend . . . I hate feeling like I don’t know how much of HIS money I'm allowed to spend If he wants to waste his own money - let him. I don’t know of a polite way to force him to just do it already. Force. Very interesting word you chose to use. Maybe you need to accept the destination the train is going and pick whether or not you want to board it, and go to it's destination rather than tryin…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/21 03:16 PM
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The road to wisdom is paved through cynicism. anymore when she is no longer young and beautiful. SMV does drop with age to the open dating market. When it comes to long term relationships, if a women is desireable as a wife she will gain value to her husband specifically. Like his 25 gear old Van Halen shirt that is ripped to pieces but he doesn't throw away. "But I don't want to be considered ripped to pieces." Get over the feelings of it. With time comes wear, it just is how it is. On the mark…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/21 01:52 PM
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Thinking in terms of "I deserve this or that" is not a good strategy. Nobody owes you anything, that is a moralizing position. If he’s not willing to help but he’s willing to pay, I suggest having a babysitter come a couple times a week to give you a break. Possibly, but if more than likely she has already expressed (either overtly, at the very least covertly) that she feels maxed out. What if he says "not in the budget"?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 09:20 PM
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How much you should expect depends on the outcomes you're looking for. How much did he say he was going to help with? How much does he say he will help with? Any advice on navigating new parenthood as a RPW? Define your goal, observe your current situation, and understand the risk associated with trying to change.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 09:13 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 02:50 AM
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I am probably one of the very few people you will ever interact with on reddit that has actively chosen to not hide behind his keyboard. Moving you to the side, this is a great example of why the modern church is struggling so immensely. Run by askholes who want to pick and choose the advice they take. They know the answer but want someone to say something else so when they do the wrong thing they aren't culpable for their own decisions. They are outsourcing their ego failures because they are w…
/r/RPChristians18/11/21 08:33 PM
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The Fox and The Grapes, Aesop's Fables Sour Grapes "Used to refer to an attitude in which someone adopts a negative attitude to something because they cannot have it themselves." Whatever people can't have, they pathologize themselves into hating as a means to avoid their own dissatisfaction. The more you convince yourself of the decision, the more ego invested you are. Ego investment is a very hard blinder to see through.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 07:35 PM
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Lol if you can't handle a fitness test from an internet stranger you're doomed.
/r/RPChristians18/11/21 05:41 PM
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I don’t want people to tell me what I want to here First off, trying to control people's responses to you is lame AF. You might lift big, but being a whiny baby encourages people to not help you. My Christian friends don’t really get the struggle, and my non-Christian friends think I am crazy for not hooking up with them. Obviously. Most Christian guys are either simpering fat losers thus cannot attract a woman, or they can and they're lying to protect an image. Why are you taking non-Christian …
/r/RPChristians18/11/21 02:05 PM
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it's fine if everybody else roasts me because my ego is protected by God's divine armor. Hahahhahahhahahhaa I doubt that. "Guys, God will make sure I don't feel bad for doing something socially awkward like upload videos of me trying to convince one of my female friends to send sexually explicit audio files so I can use them to make my wife laugh." Your voice mostly sounds fine. it will add to my reddit credentials as being a legit Christian also. Why do you need to convince redditors that you a…
/r/askRPC17/11/21 09:15 PM
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Good luck 👍
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 08:48 PM
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His goals are now entirely about money At this point in time, your goals and his goals don't align. What now? he considers it selfish of me. Does it matter what he considers selfish?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 08:20 PM
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Have his goals changed? What does he say? Is that congruent to his behavior? If they have, are you okay with not meeting your goals?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 08:06 PM
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You are allowed to stand your ground regarding needing help. "I am inadequate." Ranging from, “you wouldn’t follow anyway so why does it matter?” To “you already know the answer to this”. But it’s never really said… Then be the fool, the idiot. My boss used to do this stuff to me all the time; "Praex, you need to do xyz thing." "I don't understand how. Can you show me?" "Are you an idiot?" "yes." And maybe it turns out you were the idiot and you learn something. Or maybe it turns out he is, and …
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 04:15 PM
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"I want my husband to lead, but I want him to lead me the way I want to be lead." Similar to saying that the workhorse pulling the cart is leading because it is in front (despite the bit in it's mouth being pulled each which way.) We would set out a very strict budget and agree to it ... Well huge deal for my husband. I finally realized that I was 1)crushing my husband’s spirit and 2) spending us away from all our goals. So you only began to "follow" once you understood his methodology, not beca…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 04:01 PM
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I’ve not been dumped since I was 14 Just because you recognize when a woman is asking you to kill the puppy so she doesn't have to, doesn't mean you are as relationally valuable as you think. So I’ve often wondered whether I’d be better off going for a less conventionally attractive woman who idolises me than a woman who’s given constant opportunities to branch swing. Even ugly women will get an abundance of opportunities. This is a question asked out of fear and a lack of abundance. There is al…
/r/askMRP16/11/21 12:25 AM
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Third times a charm, right?
/r/askMRP13/11/21 05:35 PM
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Wish you luck!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 08:17 PM
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I don’t see a therapist as I cannot afford it, but I have friends who I get support from along with my mom. I hope this is accepted with the grace I'm trying to say it with but if you cannot afford a therapist then your life is probably still too hectic to be starting a relationship. Also, be careful not to conflate therapists to your friends and family. That's like a 4th grade football team being compared to the NFL usually.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 07:19 PM
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Oh dang. That's pretty rare so my B. Don't negotiate with terrorists and if he puts that out into the public (at least in the states) it's illegal and I believe possibly a felony. Edit: especially if he was coercing you into sex with it, that's pretty messed up. You may benefit from chatting with a therapist first.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 06:46 PM
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and have a functional spine, I know I always have a choice. Boundaries are great, but they always come at a cost to enforce them - that's why so few people have them. I don’t agree with him forcing me into things under the threat of blackmail, To clarify, when you say blackmail what do you mean? In context of the rest of the post, it sounds to me like you may think him saying "if we don't have sex, I'm going to breakup with you." is blackmail - which it isn't. Instead of actual blackmail "If you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 06:30 PM
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Think of Church like Christian HQ. You have assignments, and events there but the purpose of a spiritually mature Church should be that of teaching then sending out. If your Church isn't that way, that's fine. But as a man you have an obligation to kick yourself out of the proverbial nest.
/r/RPChristians11/11/21 10:45 PM
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If going to Church is your entire life, you may be setting yourself up for a bad time. A lot of Churches try to convince their young adults to circle the wagons, letting people in but fretting when any of the members go out - and they are usually right, because the congregation is spiritually adolescent (with no intent of maturing). If you want to lead the youth, you have to teach them how to act in the world, not just in the microcosm of youth group bible studies, meetings, and coffee dates. It…
/r/RPChristians11/11/21 08:22 PM
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I've already made the decision to end it, FYI, because I value my happiness above another person's comfort Probably a good move. My larger point above is that you need to fundamentally recognize that you are doing this out of justifiable selfishness - whether or not your choose to be truthful to him is irrelevant, but that other people are also dealing with the same internal challenges. I would also say, "go with your gut" is not a good long term plan. It's like saying you're satisfied with a bl…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 10:22 PM
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Should I be bothered by this? Answer these three questions: 1) What does she mean by being soft? 2) Is being soft bad? 3) Is she right? If you answer 2 & 3 with yes, then yes you should be bothered.
/r/askRPC10/11/21 09:26 PM
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So keep that in mind. If you catch your SO capitulating to you all the time (ie. Prioritizing your wants inappropriately) then it may not be a habit to further cultivate. Everyone wants a price charming when they deny their desire for the street denizen or the tyrannical ruler. But once they have their prince, out of self hate, or maybe a lack of self control they destroy the relationship and ruin the both the man and their own opportunity for happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 06:53 PM
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How will you respond if he becomes your lackey? Can you handle the dissatisfaction many if not most women feel when their boyfriend/husband appears to exist soley as their servant?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 06:41 PM
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Do I do him a favor and just end it? For a staunch libretarian, this is very government assistance of you. Why would you make a major decision for you life for the sake of someone else? Treat yourself like someone you want to advocate for - why would you ask someone else to be in a committed relationship for the comfort and happiness of their partner. Unless for some reason you've come to the conclusion that your life is only valuable as an extension of this guys happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 06:39 PM
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How do you find a healthy balance between denial and deserved indulgence? How do you respond when he says "No"?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 06:35 PM
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How to support my best friend's blue-pill relationship? He hasnt said I love you to her, and when she speaks of wanting marriage, homeownership etc he will says things like "cool babe" or "you do you babe". He sounds pretty based to me. Why is it blue pilled? Or are you saying she is through dillusion?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 06:27 PM
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I know it won’t because it never happened before, even with someone else. Give yourself the evil benefit of the doubt. How are you going to make sure to as much as possible prevent yourself from falling into the same trappings you did this time. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 06:55 AM
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I honestly don’t know why I followed through..peer pressure, my mistake. Nail on the head. Most people are not comfortable risking social rejection and as such tempt the fates regarding their personal relationships. I feel Bad now because he drove all the way (2 hours) to pick me up just for me to dismiss him. Didn’t even get paid good Money shouldn't justify doing something that goes against your moral code. If you make a mistep, you conscious will tell you - and it will happen. The point is to…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 06:38 AM
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So currently your outgoing is around $2400.00/mo. What is your monthly income?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 01:57 AM
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•Get that mylar reaction on point. Dry off whatever you are putting into the oiled pan. Salt will help dry off vegetables and meats. A small amount of sugar will help caramelize whatever you're baking or frying. •Spice whatever you're eating more than you'd expect. Get really comfortable with the 4 spices (salt pepper onion garlic). •Cut fatty foods with an acid (Vinegar, lemon/lime, citrus, wine etc.) The book "The Food Lab" is a great book for cooking and understanding how taste works.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 06:27 PM
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She is extremely physically beautiful and has been in a relationship with the most successful, valuable and amazing guy that I know for years and they will most likely get married. I had an extremely traumatic period in college where my former roommate pretty much ruined my life by destroying my reputation, How did she manage this? One of the most persistent problems people face during massive reputation attack is the inability to manage the negative emotion that come with ego attacks.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 05:09 PM
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To all RP "men " here: where is yours "looks are not anything" now? You're making the bitchiest, the most evil women your treasured partners They aren't treasured the way you think. That's a disney-fication of relationships and marriages. Average women turning into feminists because they can't lock down exclusivity from the top 10% of men is no one's problem but the sour womans. Dumb, weak creatures unable to see anything behind looks. Methinks you may be not be making an arguement in fairness -…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 05:05 PM
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What are your current costs roughly speaking? What are the expenses you have that are absolute essentials? (Housing, Car, Phone etc.)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 04:59 PM
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6/10 < 9/10 6/10 is still a great option
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 08:28 PM
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and you are telling her to go for men she is not attracted to. I'm telling her to swipe on guys she is less attracted to, no unattracted to. Guys on tinder that get swiped on regularly are not there to find a partner, they already have those options IRL. Alone it goes against the idea that you cannot negotiate attraction Why? Even the mens side knows not to date a 10/10 if she is bunny boiling frothing at the mouth rabid insane.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 08:18 PM
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Alpha female would imply that we behave socially in a manner that requires women to compete for men. However, women generally don't. Instead they are competed for BY men. Beyond this, if you think that masculine behaviors are the best at achieving your desired result (which is probably a HVM) you'd be wrong. Though if you are using it to accrue a plethora of weaker, submissive or compliant men it may be a good strategy. But YMMV to a large degree. I see these same women talk about how men only c…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 02:36 PM
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It’s very confusing. It isn't confusing, it is logically incoherent and indicates a deeper issue going on for him. Unless he is trying to PsyOp you with this, which is a totally viable strategy. (Something I did very early on in HS to girls I liked.) But that is pretty lame behavior if he is doing it as an adult.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 01:47 AM
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Depends on the week but to my fill. What are you looking for by asking this question? Is he saying it's weird or that he is dissatisfied with the frequency? Is it normal i never want to? Define normal. If I were to plug you and your behavior into a normal relationship it would be likely ruinous to the relationship in nearly every scenario. So by that metric, if we are defining normal as "healthy" then no. That is not a healthy approach to sex for a fulfilling and mutually satisfying relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 01:42 AM
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I feel like if I say something like “I’m not having sex until we’re official” or something like that, it will scare him off. Trying to find the perfect magic words, or manufacturing the right time to say bad things to control other peoples reactions is manipulative. Not that I inherently believe that's a bad thing, but most people are so bad at manipulating and recipients usually respond poorly to overt manipulation I wouldn't recommend it. Be clear about what you want. "I am interested in havin…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/21 06:06 PM
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I could articulate this better but I'm struggling with which path to take. I have a happy family life with a great wife and kids but that doesn't stop me wanting to cheat rather than leave so that the kids stay in a 2 parent household. If you wamt something but are sufficiently scared of the consequences then shut up about it. Be your own man. If I make decisions for your household, I get to screw your wife and raise your kids.
/r/askMRP02/11/21 12:36 PM
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What are you looking for in someones answer? Justification of your opinion? If the train is going to a destination you don't want to go to: get off.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 06:34 PM
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There is a whole slew of possible reasons. Risk assesment. Despite what people may say there is an deep belief for a lot of men that sexually promiscuous women are risky partners. Ego fetishism. I've met some men who merge the two realities of the madonna and the whore. They like to be the thing that protects. It's like roleplaying. Sexual insecurity. If you are a man who either has had minimal experience or recognizes their own inadequacies in bed, they may avoid the chance or being with someon…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 05:44 PM
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But are you suggesting when I get shut down to simply withdraw my presence? ... it pisses me off when she gives me a hard no, Im suggesting you stop getting pissed off about it. she knows exactly why I am withdrawing, Go back to TRP where you are hoping to find cheat codes and magic words if this is your excuse. If the problem.is that she knows you're actually a loser without nothing more important to do after he's rejected other than sulk and piss and moan, then become not a loser. operating fr…
/r/askMRP30/10/21 04:48 PM
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what are my blind spots and what I am clearly missing The fact that identifying your problems means nothing at best and may at worst mean you're willfully an idiot. She realized you were basically manipulating her, and that she was getting off on some imitation of a rather than a real man. You'd be pissed too if your wife turned off the lights before bed every night, gave you the best head you've ever received, only to find out a month later you were getting sucked off by some calf looking for a…
/r/askMRP28/10/21 05:32 AM
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neither of us have any idea how much OP earns She said both her and her partner earn around 50k in her post history for reference. Might be out of date though. Plenty of fish in the sea. The odds are good, but the goods are odd. Finding a man that makes their cumulative income right now (~135k) puts him near the 9th percentile mark of income (meaning 9% of men make that much or more.) Now take out the men that are gay, married, uninterested in a LTR, don't want children etc and that percentage s…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 06:47 PM
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and have a child with a man responsible enough to be trusted with raising a family. Good advice if she is capable of finding another partner - and a valuable question she needs to ask herself. Boyfriend might be the one who needs to worry if she leaves him. Men are significantly less susceptible to being taken advantage of and are capable of dealing with lower standards of living on average. If they are both making roughly 50k, she may only be able to afford a bad apartment in a good neighborhoo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 06:31 PM
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The alternative may be that she is with no man then, which is even harder financially.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 06:13 PM
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You mean like TRP or MRP? Traditionalism is counter cultural, so you'll have to look for it. Maybe Kevin Samuels has a group dedicated to it, though that will probably be a predominantly black community if you are not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 01:38 PM
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So part of the issue of handling the word respect is because there is mostly no consensus on which definition of respect women are using. Scriptures definition (which I am using because a majority of people seem to fall into the trope of "Wives, respect your husbands." use of the word) is closely related to the word weight or heavy. A simpler way to understand it may be like this: "Respect means to be mindful of the fact this thing can make your life absolutely miserable through bearing down on …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 01:13 PM
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We are on a trip right now to visit his family, and I am the one who wrote the list of everything we had to pack, packed everything, unpacked everything. If you wanted a man to be dominant in every arena of your life, you should have found a man who was controlling or abusive - the expectation for leadership in the minutia is misguided. That said, I am going to assume what is actually going on is that he struggles leading towards mission in a general sense and because of that, you picked somethi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 07:02 PM
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Late 20's - early 30's is not when men reach their peak, it's much later. Interested to hear where you got this information. Men's youthfulness is not valued the same way women's youthfulness is valued. Productivity, stability and community respect is weighted more valuably in men. Youth and beauty, cooperativeness, and gentleness is weighted more valuably in women.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 06:45 PM
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So I’m a truly submissive woman and find myself wanting to serve men. Arbitrarily serving men is a good way to get taken advantage of. If you truly desire that, a good first start is to make sure you have a man in your life that has your back without any chance of sexual interaction between you two (ie. family) He’s everything I want except for one fundamental thing… he’s quite submissive. Not just in bed, in life. Does anyone have any books to just give him some literature on how to be more dom…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 06:41 PM
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But seriously, if you're a 20ish year old guy married to a woman who is >60yo. please post that, very interesting. Lots of questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/21 05:34 AM
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I would appreciate any advice, besides therapy. I would love to see a therapist but I absolutely can’t afford one. Maybe start using your boyfriends metrics of success instead of your own societally-influenced one. If he's says x is sufficient, take him at his word, and his word as law. (Unless he has given you significant reason to believe otherwise.) You have to begin making the deliberate decision to avoid or stop categorizing yourself within the parameters of "us vs them". The reason so many…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 05:31 AM
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Talk and be interested about him, his thoughts ideas and opinions? Same way you make connections with clientelle. Show interest in their life. I don't wanna a flirt , (don't wanna look slutty or creepy) You don't get to have your cake and to eat it as well. Either you save your ego and risk the opportunity, or risk your ego for the opportunity.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/21 11:18 PM
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I mean he wants this kinda relationship so ig I don't see what he can do instead of tell me. Clarify? Idk tbh as idk what 'compliance' is like fully atm need to figure it out Are you willing to act the way he wants, or do you want autonomy more?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 09:18 PM
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•The maid •The whore •The secretary •The hypeman •The comforter •The house manager •The specialist •The distraction •The trophy •The opportunity finder •The hostess •The chef Your significant other may want some but not others, you'll have to try stuff out.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 07:45 PM
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He also says that he has been thinking and he found the red pill online and he feels like he likes this and wants our relationship to be more like that. So not only did he break rule 1 "Don't talk about fightclub" he also told his wife about it. and I can't imagine doing all of the things he wants and just 'submitting to his leadership on everything. This is what happens when a guy sees what he wants in his wife, but isn't doing the work to get there. The reason you're having trouble here is bec…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 07:29 PM
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will end in disaster in a true D/s relationship. And it sounds like this relationship may if he doesn't start behaving congruently.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 07:22 PM
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And you thought you had too many alpha traits?
/r/RPChristians19/10/21 03:11 PM
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It comes down to initiations and reciprocity. Always assumed that being present (showing up) was just enough. For guys that don't get attention, it is. But if you are pursuing a man who has a lot of options, just enough isn't just enough. This stems from my fear of coming off as desperate. One of the most profound RP posts I've ever read was an HOA post called "Initiations: You're Not That Funny" (and maybe some other stuff in the title, IDR) Objectively, the post may not seem very applicable, b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 03:09 PM
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What do you mean by "high value"? I'm not asking rhetorically. The conversation surrounding this term between the YT manosphere, reddit, 4chan and etc has obfuscated it's initial definition. Are you looking to be defined as High Value regarding providing your own level of lifestyle? Defined by factors like Career, Income, Influence, Power, and Respect? Or are you looking to be defined as High Value regarding your desirability on the sexual and romantic marketplace? Defined by men's objective des…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 03:01 PM
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Alpha stuff Most guys don't understand the qualities of a fully self deployed man, so I'm going to assume you're not super familiar with it as well. What may be valuable to understand is that a lot of guys who watch F&F are LARPing. What they are doing is equivalent to some type of fetish play where they can behave as if they are high quality, revered, and hyper desireable men - but as you stated with your household situation, most don't actually meet the criteria for a HVM (especially consideri…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 02:39 PM
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My #1 priority has been to get a promotion so that my wife could quit her job. What a lame priority
/r/RPChristians19/10/21 02:19 PM
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Spiritual leadership is not why he is getting divorced
/r/RPChristians19/10/21 12:09 PM
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My youth created a very hardened man; I am emotionally shutoff. Not. If you were emotionally shut off you would not respond emotionally to things within your realm of influence - you even show here: so I emotionally shut her off. For several years I would have short anger-filled outbursts during her naggy spells, So what you mean to say is that you're a man child who's emotions run his life and have done so into the ground. I was shocked. I never thought in a million years she would divorce me W…
/r/RPChristians19/10/21 05:49 AM
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Sounds like that could be a huge contributing factor? Contributing factor to what? Regular Church attendance is in no way a viable metric for the health of a marriage.
/r/RPChristians19/10/21 05:35 AM
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If I tell you how to live your life, that means I get to have sex with your wife when you're married. Be your own man, quit asking internet strangers how to live your day to day life.
/r/RPChristians18/10/21 01:31 PM
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Practice STFU. Can't micromanage if you don't talk. feel the need Your feelings are in control of you. Get a grip. but now I’m left with globs of paint to scrape off the new tile. Only if you decide you cannot deal with globs of paint on the tile. Your field of view regarding acceptable behavior is so narrow it is probably grating to other people and will make it much harder to be a solid leader. she does things so inefficient and stupid imo. You're socially awkward and stupid. Sounds like a sta…
/r/askMRP18/10/21 04:37 AM
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Aragorn sucks. Nerd.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 06:24 PM
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Outside of your other post about holding her in contempt, this is more or less one of the least bad victim pukes I've read. Been a needy little bitch and basically made her my mission. I need to sort myself out regardless if it's with her or not. As soon as there are shit tests or conflict I get bent over and fucked in the ass. My problem is I'm dependent on a feeling of resolution, I need to dedicate my life to becoming a better man, regardless of the price I have to pay. So I'm just going to p…
/r/askMRP13/10/21 01:13 PM
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Oftentimes people raise the prevention and avoidance of human suffering over the grand narrative we were put on earth for - that is to say, the exhaltation and elevation of the Lord. Man was not made for man, but for God. If the foundational block of christian truth are poorly settled or mismanaged then it is easy to interpret scripture wrong.
/r/RPChristians09/10/21 04:55 AM
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You're looking for her to kill the puppy. Why would you go out of your way for like 80% of this conversation? "You should just say no, so I can say I predicted you'd say no and it won't hurt my feelings." Edit: Just reread it, looks like she may have even been open to going out on a date and you wussed out so quickly she couldn't respond.
/r/askMRP07/10/21 04:51 PM
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I'm afraid she would block me Why?
/r/askRPC06/10/21 05:36 PM
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I wrote a post on text game you would greatly benefit from reading it. The chat was cringey enough I can only assume you are foreign, or the girl you were messaging was ugly as sin for her to respond. Edit: Oh yikes, you're also sending these Filipino girls money over the internet? "I have frame." Heh... about that.
/r/askRPC06/10/21 05:31 PM
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i know if i ask her out, they will know and fucking laugh. Are you not doing it because they will laugh or because you don't think it's a good idea? You lack frame, as with all 17 year olds. Diagnosis: You're 17 with a weak control over his emotions and behavior.
/r/askMRP06/10/21 01:15 PM
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I am trying to decide if I want to go the marriage route or celibate. Nobody here can tell you what is best. Scripture through Paul tells us there will be frustration with marriage, but so there is with singleness. Yet I don't know my terms/frame. What? Are you saying you don't know what frame is, or that you don't know what your frame is, or .... what? I don't know what career/family I want to build or spiritual mission. Start from the bottom, read the end of Matthew 28 - that is the unanimous …
/r/RPChristians06/10/21 01:10 PM
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like how with long distance running a thinner toned body rather than muscle mass is ideal Rarely if ever do women prefer this guy.
/r/RPChristians02/10/21 05:17 PM
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"Lifting is not a suggestion" is usually argued against by people trying to justify replacing it with a lesser variant. is lifting specifically still mandatory or is it ok if we use other methods that'll get results This is just your autism coming out. I think most guys here will relent when it comes to physical lifting to a degree providing you are actually struggling against your own muscle. Thing is, most people making the counter arguement are doing 15 minutes of light jogging and then compl…
/r/RPChristians02/10/21 05:15 PM
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Taking a dump at work. Here are a few gems I found if you're lazy. •President of nursing class You're the leader of a girls club and still don't have abundance. •Never pass judgment on anyone " We all have personal battles" Covert contract with society. You will still be judged even if you don't judge others. •Most responsibility falls to wife, finances/retirement/bills/going thru the mail, etc Do you ever ask your wife if you can lead 🤣🤣🤣 •Well-liked by peers/colleagues She's probably pushing h…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 06:29 PM
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Any other thoughts on how to play this scenario given all these facts? This question sucks, and you suck for asking it. Based on the other replies you gave in this thread it also appears you don't have the frame to handle the fallout from this assuming it goes poorly - which it will, because you suck. You are asking internet strangers to weigh in on how they would handle this, but you're presupposing we have the same motivations. What are yours? Normally, answering the "other girls" question is …
/r/askMRP29/09/21 07:16 PM
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Just be evil 🤷‍♂️
/r/askMRP29/09/21 04:21 PM
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Is he the chosen one we've been asking for?
/r/askMRP29/09/21 04:11 PM
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Motivated career beta looking for a safe person to guide me Motivated... Hit me Up. So you aren't even willing to do the leg work to find the guy you want to work with you? There is no wonder these guys are laughing at you. You epitomize the very things that are causing the destruction of masculinity. • Laziness and the inability to do the work yourself. • Fragile egotism and butthurt baby energy. • Fear of sacrifice and the possibility you suck.
/r/askMRP28/09/21 08:33 PM
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when I kicked the attacking dog, it flew around 1m through the ground. laughs in dog trainer
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 12:25 PM
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If you put as much work in the rest of your life as you do in OYS, it makes sense as why your marriage life sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 09:49 PM
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There’s a weird dynamic with the sexual progress you experience at MRP. When I got here, having morning sex and fingering my wife was my end goal. . . . you just keep participating and hopefully balance your desire for better result with appreciating how fun it is. Turns out sex isn't the metric we should use to determine our "arrival" to the ideals we hold in place of masculinity. It's hard not to when you lack sex, but when you have an abundance of sex it's much easier to realize it doesn't me…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 09:36 PM
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So until I complete my no rage streak I will abstain from initiating. Why? To prevent yourself from losing the streak? You're just replacing your wife's pussy on the pedistal with a sign that says "Big Boy didn't lose his temper in 5 whole days!" “sex for validation” No, it wont. Because the second you get sex again, you'll feed your ego monkey with all the "progress you've made" because your wife is currently your only marker of satisfaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 09:30 PM
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Seriously, what the fuck am I doing here? My entire MRP journey or whatever the fuck you want to call this quest has been an effort to convince my wife to try a little, show a little passion or interest You stepped into your own covert contract. Good job. If you are doing stuff in order to get her to have sex with you, then your playing by rules she doesn't know exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 09:26 PM
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we fell into a dynamic where I would lead. If you are "falling" into a dynamic of leading, then you are by definition not leading. As I internalize abundance and cut the need for validation Have you been cold approaching? If not, how have you been developing abundance to evem internalize it?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 09:23 PM
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I can’t just say no you are not going. Why not? So in amongst the incoming insults, can any of you fuckers suggest a way of approaching this? I find the trend of "guys who have no business using insults as a tool for comradery in a round about way of lessening the ego hit from being insulted" funny. You're doing this because you know mrp will dog on you justifiably. And whats your retort for that? "Well they think I'm a fucker, but they're a fucker, so it doesn't matter what that fucker says." N…
/r/askMRP21/09/21 09:11 PM
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I hate you.
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 01:14 PM
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Some parts of this history lesson are not entirely correct but I also don't care enough to fully do the research. You're welcome to correct me, and I may or may not add it. Maybe this is actually deserving of it's own post. I'm going to assume you are new. So here goes a short history lesson. The Red Pill as we know it is a term coined by the movie "The Matrix" as basically "seeing the ugly truth" versus the blue pill which is "deliberate ignorance". It was co-opted by Pick Up Artists (from here…
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 01:07 PM
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It is an attempt at pushing toward the other extreme: ignore your wife, and worry about you. It is an attempt to make the new guys stop shooting themselves in the dick. Instead of being sanctimonious, why not spend time in the OYS thread replying to these ding dongs and seeing that trying to give them long winded advice results in a downvote from them, ego defending, and complaining that their wife needs to lift more so they can hoist their husbands fupa up for sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/21 12:23 PM
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Her: I don't think she gets that you can be an asshole some times. See, here's where you messed up. You should be an asshole all the time, then this problem never comes up. 🤷‍♂️
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 02:03 PM
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It isn't. Thinking privately, or without the need of validation for the thoughts is.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 02:01 PM
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So, what exactly is a woman to do (I'm a guy) Okay, what? Why post this stream of conscious crap? It's like you're trying to use our hands to jerk yourself off with.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 01:16 PM
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Your bench is too low, and you've read too few sidebar books to be complaining about your wife. Mission: Raising a Godly family and getting to heaven along with my wife and kids. I want a good woman who will give me kids. Your mission sucks and so do you. Verdict: SUPER WEENIE HUT JR.'S
/r/RPChristians15/09/21 12:58 AM
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Quick whining you big baby.
/r/RPChristians14/09/21 10:17 PM
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PM me and we can get her last name changed to mine. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
/r/askMRP14/09/21 06:48 PM
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Her actions can inform yours, but shouldn't force them. You might comply with a woman with a gun, but she can't force you to value your life more than the thing you're willing to lose it for - that's your decision.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 06:35 PM
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Do you know what the purpose of STFU is? I was questioned on where I was going and with who, I said "out with friend x". Where to? "out". Unplanned but I ended up staying out very late, 4am. she doesn't get to know my whereabouts when she's being unpleasant. You are operating in her antiframe (or whatever you want to call Oppositional Defiant Disorder in adults.) rather than your own. Your reaction reeks of butthurt, and she can tell.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 06:14 PM
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Do you know what the purpose of STFU is? It isn't to literally talk less, or to not upset people. STFU is to prevent the new guys (and the old guys, honestly) from saying something that either 1) Gets them into a situation they don't want to be in. Or 2) To prevent them from word vomiting to the point of betraying their frame, and/or D.E.E.Ring. Are you scared of fitness tests? Why do you want to prevent the new guys the opportunity to pass the first fitness tests they may ever pass. It's CBT. I…
/r/askMRP07/09/21 05:29 PM
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You wrote a lot to write nothing. Talking about Qi like frame is some kind of energy. Frame is the ego control you develop to advocate for an internally defined mission.
/r/askMRP06/09/21 12:04 PM
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I value a strong family, and although it is a sub-optimal method, I am open to marriage in the future. Sub optimal compared to what? Marriage is for kids and religious people. The stats are pretty clearly "in" on that. What is your mission?
/r/askMRP01/09/21 06:51 AM
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Oh sorry. Outsourced* Typo, my bad.
/r/askMRP31/08/21 02:00 AM
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Could you not hear me, or didn't you understand? Happy to repost what I wrote again if you missed it.
/r/askMRP31/08/21 01:59 AM
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If all marriage is is just some constant, brutal game between two people where she will drop you the moment you slip up why even engage at all? Even if someone offered an answer that sufficiently answered your question, you wouldn't be able to understand it as you are coming from a mindset of scarcity and outsources mental point of origin.
/r/askMRP31/08/21 01:54 AM
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Did you try kino? What about caveman?
/r/askMRP28/08/21 06:55 AM
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Too lazy to actually reply + I'm a cidar and a half deep and I still don't have a tolerance. Here are some fun observations. stays at home mostly and studies she’s had 20+ sexual partners ... I lost frame but quickly fixed that as soon as I realized. So to the actual context. she’s measuring me against other prospects and it makes me feel like I’m not good enough. ... I notice her flexing her hypergamy, I was her only true and serious relationship ... In the morning i was bothered because she re…
/r/askMRP27/08/21 02:03 AM
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6'0 185lbs Fitness Been out of the gym for about a 3 weeks but have been practicing both BJJ and Dance. Restarting weight training in the fall. ORMs BP 190lbs OHP 140lbs (But I injured myself doing this) SQ 205lbs DL 265lbs Mission and Goals I want to restart teaching dance while practicing BJJ so I can eventually teach that as well. Out of a 40hr work week my goals spread is DT 25hrs/wk Dance 10hrs/wk and BJJ 5hrs/wk. This ties in to my ability to influence people the way I see fit, I want to l…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 05:52 PM
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I am curious about what is the best praexology I am. As far as step 1 and 2 are concerned: 1) Be Attractive I would consider this to be a social skills thing, and not really a physical thing, though I can't say everyone here would agree with that. Being attractive is behaving in a way that draws people to you - you have to practice this. (Unless you are like 350lbs, then IDK, thats huge.) 2) Don't Be Unattractive This is a physical and social. Basically, once you are an average looking guy, most…
/r/askMRP26/08/21 12:26 PM
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In your current situation, what type of man have you met that sincerely made you envious of their life?
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 04:52 AM
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Sexy is worldly Super Weenie Hut jrs!
/r/RPChristians26/08/21 04:48 AM
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TLDR; What do you want in life within 3 sentences.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 01:45 PM
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Any suggestions for heading off / arguing less about her feelings? Just STFU about it. Not in the "silent treatment" way, tell her you're done with the conversation and be done. Also, outsource her job in the home. Get a maid. If she doesn't want to be a wife, demote her to a girlfriend. Any suggestions about getting her to own her own shit and diet and make friends and shit You have a lot of other stuff wrong before you can expect to lead her yet. I've been really insecure during arguments abou…
/r/askMRP24/08/21 01:31 PM
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Lol wat
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 01:17 AM
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Welcome? Yeah - but if you are practicing pms or baggage along that gay marriage can be biblically ordained, then we will address the incongruence.
/r/RPChristians23/08/21 06:12 PM
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Step 1. Practice not giving petty responses when people called me out on my blatant bs - as you could have in this thread. Step 2. Extending that practice to your home.
/r/askMRP21/08/21 06:11 PM
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Fair enough but telling me I complain more than a chick on pms is valueless and doesn’t deserve a response more than I wrote If it doesn't deserve a response DON'T GIVE ONE. Stop listening to that little hamster telling you "You should reply just to show him how much you don't care." You're jerking yourself off and it's pathetic. So you’re telling me to just deal with it. And stfu anyway. Is what I’m getting from This Clearly.
/r/askMRP21/08/21 05:54 PM
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Yeesh, looking at the other comments your weak and frameless personality really shines through. If you stick around MRP or AMRP for long enough you'll see tons of posts by other guys like you. Mad that they can't just tell their wife off because they need the validation of being right - we get it, you're mister brain. You know it all. Issue is: nobody cares. And it's clear the fact that you're not the sparkling center of the universe bothers you. K Thanks for the insight. What weak things to rep…
/r/askMRP21/08/21 05:47 PM
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Yikes, read your update. Your girlfriend might not want to procreate with a weapons-trained man that is as emotionally volatile as you. Maybe I should kill myself. I bought a glock last year and I know where to aim it to avoid a survival shot. This would be a good reason not to bear your children. Maybe you're a bunny boiler, can't blame her for her hesitancy. My thoughts are too clouded by my own bias. Wrong, they are clouded by your entitlement and ego. All I wanted was one classy motherfucker…
/r/askMRP18/08/21 04:52 AM
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Respect can't be earned through dominate and passionate sex. It is earned through his ability to pass fitness tests, his orientation and pursuit of mission, and his willingness to get rid of the woman if she becomes an obstacle to that mission. Honestly, once a man becomes worthy of her respect, he won't care if he has it.
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 04:37 AM
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Prolly not.
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 03:30 AM
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Do BJJ as well. Obviously don't do anything that betrays your conscience, but I seriously wonder why you would think showing respect to a coach or teacher is worship.
/r/askRPC13/08/21 02:47 PM
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Male public school teachers can be alpha but my guess is that you have weak frame because IDK how you could maintain a job in the current system and not be behaving in a way that doesn't betray your conscience.
/r/RPChristians13/08/21 10:00 AM
1

Username matches the degenerste with the opinion
/r/RPChristians09/08/21 02:04 PM
6

Its discord.
/r/RPChristians07/08/21 07:29 PM
1

🤌🤌🤌
/r/RPChristians06/08/21 11:29 PM
5

The red pill is an amoral philosophical device used to help (men specifically, but not exclusively) achieve a desired outcome - in the secular environment that usually means sex. In the Christian context it also usually means sex, but more accurately satisfying sex long term with ones wife. (Though not exclusively sex, which is why any of the "arrived" guys here, or on MRP for example are no longer impressed with sex but seek something greater.) There were a lot of comments in that thread that m…
/r/RPChristians06/08/21 09:41 PM
3

Just simply not react.
/r/RPChristians06/08/21 03:42 PM
7

This is a good exercise in STFU. Leave it to them.
/r/RPChristians06/08/21 03:28 PM
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Not your personal army. Edit: also, CM is a cesspool, most guys here are banned.
/r/RPChristians06/08/21 03:23 PM
3

Discord. Most of the main guys here (Oz, Redirected, RC, RNRC, DS, TCA, Horizon, Aaaquad, RPCW etc) all more or less have ways of connecting with eachother outside of reddit. In the case of a total sub shutdown we are all still a community. (As a matter of fact, about a dozen++ of us are meeting up this weekend.) But if you actually want to be apart of the community join us on Discord.
/r/askRPC04/08/21 06:08 AM
5

What do you think frame is? Why do you want to have frame?
/r/askMRP03/08/21 02:19 PM
4

I really fucking should be that dude that is living his best life as a young, financially independent, successful man. Only a man who has done the work to earn it "should be." What the actual fuck is wrong with me, what did I miss? Your mission was pussy. Congratulations, you got it. Now what?
/r/askMRP03/08/21 02:18 PM
1

You're not wrong! Good observation!
/r/RPChristians02/08/21 02:31 PM
8

It's become my mission and I'm sick of it... At least you know. You will be demystified the day sex gets in the way of what you really want.
/r/askMRP02/08/21 02:19 PM
5

If you're too picky with choosing your marital partner, you will spend the best year of your life alone As Paul recommends. And also risk not ever getting married. You've already set yourself up for failure. Are you a ninja from TRP or something? It's like you've never interacted with the side bar. She does look like a fine Christian, but don't know much about her. I did see her social web posts, and found she's bluepilled concerning corona – a potential red flag for me, since I'd in no way let …
/r/RPChristians02/08/21 02:06 PM
2

Then out of the blue she asks did you find a couples counselor. I say, No. She asked why not. I said I been working on myself. She asks how? I say, I think you know. She said I don’t tell me. I fuck up and DEER. and then say. What have you been doing? This turns into a fight. I stop it and say I’m not arguing about this. Was she asking because she wanted to know how to improve, or to suggest you were actually not improving? You may not understand what DEERing is. She says, so now all of a sudden…
/r/askMRP02/08/21 03:58 AM
6

Lets get some definitions out of the way first natural RP Nobody is naturally "RP". The Red Pill is a series of communally agreed upon theories that apply to relationships. He may have naturally had some Alpha tendencies, but you cannot be naturally RP anymore than you can be naturally a mid 1500's French Renaissance art historian. very successful at life And yet his wife is leaving him. Dad’s panicking and chopping his balls off to “win” her back. He’s done all the typical things you can think …
/r/askMRP02/08/21 03:49 AM
8

I train dogs period. Your dogs would mind their Ps and Qs the second I stepped in your house.
/r/askMRP31/07/21 02:22 AM
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Every problem you have is because you've spent your entire life capitulating to women in a parasitic attempt to get the type of sex you desperately want but don't deserve. Probably because you the only thing you value is pussy and women can smell the desperation on you. So instead of reading you post I'm going to complain about how you handle your dogs instead because I'm white girl wasted. The dogs still have little power struggles. Sounds like you and your wife. They love to play and chase eac…
/r/askMRP31/07/21 02:04 AM
4

A lot of Christian men get put into the boxes of the prince or the beast.
/r/RPChristians29/07/21 06:43 AM
3

It isn't for everyone. I will say though, the more hyper importance you put on single date interactions the more invested you are - likely reaching the point of overinvestment. Going out on dates is a discovery phase, and if you already have commitment during investigation it's like a detective having a perpetrator in mind before looking at all the clues - it may make it harder to objectively observe the evidence to come to a most informed decision.
/r/RPChristians29/07/21 04:09 AM
5

I am fighting the urge to type "No" with as many O's as reddit will let me type.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 08:22 PM
2

😉😉😉
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:29 PM
1

Mi
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 06:26 PM
3

A lot of the guys on discord have met me IRL.
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 05:55 PM
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Although your flirtatious relationships may seem fine and create dread. You’re actually treading on thin ice. You reap what you sow. ⛸⛸⛸ Guy who literally just regaled a recent story about almost having premarital sex telling a guy who waited until he was married to kiss his wife. Why are you giving me advice again? Women can be trusted to be women. What are you asking me? "Can a woman be trusted to not be a woman?" Are you dating men?
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 05:33 PM
0

Do you spin plates yourself? I'm married, but I still have appropriate yet flirtatious relationships with other women. My buddies do and their lives are all over the place trying to keep up with the pace of having plates. Because plating is their mission and the pursuit of a relationship with a woman is a fundamentally chaotic thing. Trust as in not being back stabbed once you’re in a relationship or something equivalent. Trust isn’t a blockchain... I mean, there definitely are women that won't.…
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 05:21 PM
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Did she cheat or no? Nobody here is a psychic. There's a higher than normal chance, but does it matter? How can I trust another female again? What do you mean by "trust"? Are there any decent women left worthy of marriage? Yes. I may be destined for singleness. 🎻🎻🎻 Pity Party, table for one. 🎊🎉🎊 This is why it is still valuable spin plates as a Christian, even though you shouldn't have sex w/ them.
/r/RPChristians28/07/21 05:11 PM
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No. Simple as that.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 12:35 PM
1

If he loses weight his squat will be high af lol.
/r/RPChristians26/07/21 08:18 PM
1

You think I should just ignore it? By no means! Have fun with it. If you want practice HMU on discord and I'll bully you free of charge.
/r/RPChristians26/07/21 03:16 PM
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It's called being the heel and it is an incredibly valuable skill to develope. Fortunately, for those that aren't crushed by it, most guys in your situation will natually have some degree of frame because the whole "jokers only joke" bit gets old. It’s really starting to get to a point where there teasing me but also giving me crap with backhand compliments , not respecting me, leaving me out, etc They're teasing you - well yeah, teasing is fun. Do you give it back? If you do can they take it? W…
/r/RPChristians26/07/21 03:35 AM
1

Why?
/r/RPChristians24/07/21 06:39 PM
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My gut tells me that I should absolutely STFU about it unless I can stick unmistakable proof in her face, but on the other hand I'd feel like an absolute cuck if I let this suspicion go. You don't need her permission to enforce a boundary. Otherwise, why even bring it up if not for jerking off your emotions on her? Closure isn't real.
/r/askMRP23/07/21 05:44 PM
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i froze cause she was kinda right. Honestly, if you're gonna be butthurt, just go the whole way to asshole. "Yes." The wishy washy limp wristed DEER-in-the-headlights act doesn't benefit you. Often when i try to internalize this I get called out on it What do you think internalize means? This isn't a rhetorical question, actually define it. Beyond this, when you are actually doing behavior modification you don't punish or reward behavior, you punish and reward intent. Otherwise you're doing a pa…
/r/askMRP23/07/21 01:14 AM
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Its only manipulation if you're doing it to change her behavior.
/r/askMRP23/07/21 01:00 AM
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Plus I know his parents, and where he lives. He has sex with your daughter, what are you going to do, kill him? Don't be an idiot. Throwing around your macho is a surefire way to get her to avoid "only a phone call or text away." unless she is actually scared ala r*pe or murder. but if she has a failing it's overthinking More like, you are so overbearing she doubts everything she does. To a degree it's good that you're protective, but based on the vague threats, I doubt it's having the effect yo…
/r/RPChristians22/07/21 11:51 PM
1

Anyone here who is/was on the same situation as me? Don't date someone younger than you. Date someone established and someone serious about marriage. If the guy hasn't proposed or has had serious talks about engagement by like 9 months, then kick him out. If you aren't working out, then start. If you aren't focusing on your diet, then start. If you have a lot of debt, get rid of it. Don't live together.
/r/RPChristians22/07/21 02:28 PM
3

I'm going to cue you into why you aren't getting the answers and results you're looking for here. 1) You are failing the fitness tests that random internet strangers are giving you. You're asking for advice then being a crybaby when someone says something you don't like. At this point it doesn't matter if we give you perfect advice or not: you couldn't utilize with your wife anyway because your frame sucks. 2) You think by merit of having a penis you've earned the right to lead the house. You we…
/r/askMRP22/07/21 03:03 AM
1

living under my roof. She'll get half of that roof in the divorce. Dummy.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 02:49 AM
0

You can laugh at me now, as long as you offer some sort of advice with it. First off, you don't get to decide this. You're the one looking for help and if people want to spit on you, they will and you just take it or you stfu and leave. This turned things around and sex has at least become more regular. Despite two young kids, we manage to do it usually twice a week. It's not terribly enthusiastic sex, yet, but I'm working on it. We call this pity sex. Halfway decent band, but not definitely not…
/r/askMRP22/07/21 02:46 AM
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Calling out only works when she both; doesn't realize what she is doing that is making you disengage from her AND that she is frustrated/anxious with your distance. If I insist, she gets more and more defensive: "Don't touch me!", etc. This has been happening for years. "All unhappy wives are sexual assault victims." So basically she changes me for her phone. I'm sick of it. Unfortunately you can't just whine and moan like a child to get her to love you again - she isn't your mother. NMMNG says …
/r/askMRP19/07/21 09:43 PM
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My wife has honestly been treating me like shit For example, she comes home from work and gets directly on her phone. The worlds smallest violin plays Get over yourself. Let her do her own thing, the whole purpose of MRP is to learn how to be desirable in a marriage, compile experiences and anecdotal evidence so that men can make a more informed decision regarding how to get what they want out of an LTR. Instead you are looking for us to morally support you into just strongarming her into playin…
/r/askMRP17/07/21 05:51 AM
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Within the strokes of another man's mental masturbation, gems are found. If you think it could be done better, do it yourself and make a bunch of money. You said it yourself; it would be simple.
/r/askMRP16/07/21 04:41 AM
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Does your wife actually enjoy being around you? You might be attractive, you might be handy, you might be any number of excellent qualities but are you enjoyable? As it seems, your wife values not having sex with you more than her time spent with you - which is why she leverages her pussy against you. Not tooting my horn but I worked my ass off to look good based on feedback I've gotten here. Step 1, Be attractive. Check Step 2, Don't be unattractive. ???.
/r/askMRP10/07/21 12:12 PM
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OP, I have an entire 70-Rule notebook dedicated to my oneitis that I made a copy of. You sound like that version of me, but worse. Get on discord, get in the gym, get away from the moistened bint.
/r/RPChristians09/07/21 01:55 AM
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trying to rid my brain of all the red pill . . . I've been reading on the internet over the last 7 years so bear with me. I dont see anything from RP philosophy that advocates for porn use, especially the type of use you seem to be going through. Don't reallocate your personal responsibility to a different community. You're what's wrong with you, not RP. sexually fulfilling marriage, with lots of sexual desire in long term monogamy? Yes? Why couldn't you. Right now my brain is so warped hopping …
/r/RPChristians03/07/21 05:04 PM
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I lived almost half a year following it religiously So you are operating in the frame of internet strangers and worried about crticism from redpill define "wrongthink". Who are you trying to convince with all of this? Us? Why do you require the affirmations of strangers to make major decisions? I'm posting this here instead of the regular Red Pill forum because I know you guys will have more insight, and not shit on me for having an unpopular opinion. No, MRP will shit on you because you clearly…
/r/askMRP03/07/21 04:06 PM
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You sound like an emotional girl. Don't marry. Work on frame and mpoi. You are 19, that should be a dealbreaker for a girl.
/r/RPChristians03/07/21 03:58 PM
5

Every hero dies.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 03:58 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣 Dude thats pathetic.
/r/askMRP24/06/21 06:32 PM
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Every attempt you've made at getting better has been half hearted whether from asking for support on RPC, on TC, MRP, heck even MGTOW. Stop doing drugs. Stop being an ASKhole. Clip your nails you troglodyte. Follow through on something. Post in OYS and don't be a pussy when you are criticized because at the moment you deserve it. Dont delete your posts when you feel shame. Own your shortcomings and improve on them. Quit being an autist, and if you are legitimately one go take the money you're tr…
/r/askMRP24/06/21 06:18 PM
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You need to get some help first and foremost for your mental stuff. If she doesn't leave you for your disability she will definitely leave you for your behavior/attitude/personality.
/r/askMRP24/06/21 05:52 PM
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Become a student for something interesting: Ballroom Dance Martial Arts Stand Up Comedy Start a Podcast Toast Masters Cooking Classes Boating Clubs Aviation Classes Dog, Cat or Large Animal Rescues Racing Robotics etc. Being boring is not an option for a driven and goal-oriented man. Boring people lose.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 05:20 PM
5

G-d?
/r/RPChristians20/06/21 08:16 PM
2

Shut up Dave.
/r/RPChristians18/06/21 03:17 PM
2

(and her huge tits) Wait, what did you say her name was? Link me her insta and I'll yell at her for you. If you are commenting on this thread seriously you got baited hard. Obvious troll.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 01:19 PM
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Sorry to hear this man, what did you say her Instagram handle was? For science, obviously. Here is a list of all the things wrong with your post: • You clearly have oneitis. • You tried to mate guard against the validation machine we call social media. • You tried to negotiate loyalty and desire. • Formatting • You know what you need to do, yet you posted here because your opinion is so valueless you needed it to be confirmed by a total stranger for you to be convinced it was a good idea. • You …
/r/RPChristians17/06/21 06:16 AM
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Treat your life as if she died and behave accordingly. Want to go do something fun? Get a babysitter, or bring the kids. This isn't leading, this is leaning. You are assuming she will be your first mate, when in reality she is trying to clean up your messes. Sounds like you just assume she wants to help you maintain your home, which clearly she doesn't want to.
/r/askMRP14/06/21 09:45 PM
1

6'2", 170 pounds. Had an MRI and f/up with ortho last week. Dx was lumbar disc bulge which is pressing on nerve radiating down my leg. . . .I am going to research lifts I can do around these restrictions over the next three weeks and then reevaluate. This is a lot of words to say "Hey guys, I know I'm supposed to be lifting, but I have a very good reason why I shouldn't, so don't even comment on this section." I am going to try and use my fitness app and meet with a diet/nutrition consultant. Tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:20 PM
1

I feel embarrassed posting my boring-ass life here and subjecting everyone to it, but that itself is a problem - I'm way too concerned with what other people think of me. . . . embarrassment or rejection. You literally recognized you were doing it and still posted it. I don't know what's gayer - the fact that you need validation from your wife, or random men on the internet. I can barely even stomach reading the rest of your post. It's summer time! Lead. Get the family out and do something fun a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 06:10 PM
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No.
/r/RPChristians08/06/21 01:20 AM
1

How do we know? You won't ever know with perfect knowledge if she has. Look at her past, get to know her friends, and come to a general conclusion about it - but at some point investing too much time into this one aspect seems to me tunnel visioned. Seems like most of you would prefer a 250lb troll that kicks puppies and hates birthday parties if you could guarantee nobody has ever gotten a shot at her. As some point your energy should be invested elsewhere.
/r/RPChristians30/05/21 11:00 PM
2

ATM I'm thinking about flyby posts and how they are usually a result of egotism and attention seeking.
/r/RPChristians26/05/21 05:30 PM
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She is a devout Catholic, goes to mass every Sunday, etc. - I am a nondenominational Protestant, Did she convert to devout catholicism recently? Her past behavior isn't representative of this if she is just now saying that - if she is vastly different now that could be a different story. She told me today that she wants to wait until marriage before we have sex. We have done other stuff (oral, hand stuff) before, but we haven’t had sex yet, despite the 3+ month dating. I was honestly OK with thi…
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 06:12 PM
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1. I was usually the kid in the group who got teased and picked on cause I had no idea how to stand up for myself . . . To this day I'm still that kid everyone seems to pick on, even if they aren't trying to be malicious. Being picked on in a friend group doesn't necessarily mean that you need to "stand up for yourself." There is jest and fun ribbing that you likely missed out on from having exclusively female companionship. To me, this isn't an indicator of a low self esteem, but rather a low l…
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 05:45 PM
2

Find someone who is both E+, and willing to tell you when you're being a bummer/sperg/E-. Practice having conversation that is specificially enjoyable to the other person. At the beginning you may not enjoy it, but it is easier to start by using the other person as the metric. If you can't find anyone, HMU on the RPC discord.
/r/RPChristians24/05/21 02:15 PM
2

What about Michigan?
/r/RPChristians21/05/21 01:48 PM
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It's incredible how if you drop a bunch of rats in a vat full of water they can't escape from, they'll all drown roughly the same time. Interestingly if you put your hand in the water near a drowning rat and let it scurry up your arm, then place it back in it will outlast the rest of the rats by several hours. More than 1 or 2 standard deviations longer as a matter of fact. Sometimes the only control you have is to keep your head above the water longer than the rest of the rats.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 06:24 AM
2

Formatting on this got all weird. Interested in practicing BS and SM?
/r/RPChristians17/05/21 01:47 PM
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Probably an egalitarian church that focuses on moralism rather than seeking kingdom growth. But your life will ultimately end up unevaluated and sad - I say this not because of egal. churchianity, but because of your blasė approach to faith. You're trying to use faith as a tool to achieve a worldly desire, which is a gross undervaluation of eternal consequences.
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 02:48 PM
7

You might suck at sales, how long have you been doing it?
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 04:34 PM
1

Is there a reason you're not making money?
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 01:33 PM
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Financial: have little money; debt and some pending medical bills. I was recently admitted to the hospital for mental health reasons (against my will) and now they are charging me for services. What do you do for work, how much money do you male (rough est.) Debt etc. If you aren't cool with posting it, then go to a financial advisor.
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 01:04 PM
2

You skipped your financials.
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 12:50 PM
4

First step is to post stats.
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 12:45 PM
3

No. I'm trying to draw you to the conclusion that worrying so heavily about your wife's fidelity is going to work oppositionally to pursuing your mission. That is to say, unless your mission is your wife in which case that sad and is an objectively bad mission.
/r/askRPC01/05/21 05:48 PM
3

she tells me if I am not nice to her she will just cheat on me. And? So she might, big deal. Does Christ compromise for the Church, so that they might feel happy enough to follow him? No.
/r/askRPC01/05/21 04:34 PM
2

The neighbor cares?
/r/askRPC01/05/21 04:23 PM
2

Who cares what she thinks?
/r/askRPC01/05/21 04:20 PM
9

Tell me for real am I being a beta by having my feelings hurt? Yep.
/r/askRPC01/05/21 01:38 AM
1

For sinning? Yes. Thankfully Christ sacrificed himself for you so you do not have to.
/r/askRPC27/04/21 05:06 PM
8

Let me get this straight, you read the Bible saw that how you behaved was specifically spoken against by Paul, then went to internet strangers to see if you could still behave the way the Bible said not to?
/r/askRPC26/04/21 01:19 PM
3

What is your desired outcome? To avoid sin?
/r/askRPC26/04/21 04:55 AM
1

The change in perspective that freed me from porn FOREVER for now. If it were this easy, the struggle wouldn't be in the flesh, but it is. The rest of the post sounds like a sales pitch. Cui bono?
/r/RPChristians15/04/21 08:02 PM
7

This is target fixation
/r/askRPC15/04/21 03:35 PM
2

I'm in my own frame except this one (glaringly obvious) thing. Guys, can you tell me what is right to do? Develop frame. /thread
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:38 PM
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4 percent is incredibly low. You very well may be, but I don't believe it. Not that I think you're lying, rather that you just don't know. What are your lifts? Bench, DL, Bent Row, OHP, Sq. Your mission should be far above just being a good husband. We were not charged with marriage, but with spiritual reproduction.
/r/RPChristians13/04/21 03:04 PM
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Your wife is your mission. Because you will likely not budge on this, there is not much people here can do to help. Until you raise your eyes above your marriage you will likely feel "depressed" and "sorrow" as you say yourself. You aren't 4% body fat. If you were that low at that weight you would know. You wouldn't have avoided answering the full stats.
/r/RPChristians13/04/21 01:29 PM
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Sounds like you are socially crippling your daughter and teaching her to be a nerdy guy instead of a desireable girl. 'he just wanted sex' This is all they ever want - anyone else is patently lying. Which to me is honestly more predatory. Either that or he didn't want to go on a date with a girl AND HER DAD. That's weird.
/r/RPChristians07/04/21 02:44 AM
1

I went from 20+ girls to my wife whom I waited until the wedding day to kiss if that is of benefit.
/r/askRPC06/04/21 03:26 AM
2

What exactly do you want perspective on? Find a team of guys and devote yourself to a purpose.
/r/askRPC06/04/21 12:54 AM
2

The wives of weak mean will probably be trying to give him something other than flak at that point.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 09:16 PM
3

Your answer seems a bit harsh man. Was there really cause to bite his head off? No worries man, its what praying mantises do when they mate. He just wants me to know he thinks I'm cute.
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 01:27 AM
1

Cop out answer. 👮‍♂️👮‍♂️👮‍♂️ call me officer praex. Youre not wrong though, I've been made and deleted like 4 or 5 posts in the last few months for RPC simply because I know the guys here who would get something out of it already don't need it, and the other spergs wouldnt understand it. The entire "grace vs law" Not arguing for grace vs law, simply that in all the marital advice I see in OT vs NT I never see any of the gospels/pauline letters promoting or advocating for multiple wives. the OT l…
/r/RPChristians24/03/21 01:26 AM
10

Biologically, we’re programmed to be hypergamous/polygamous to ensure more children and continuation of the species. Close. Biologically, women are programmed to give their children the best chance at success. Women only branch swing when they evaluate (usually emotionally) the risk of swinging to a new man. Different things play into how each woman come to that conclusion. Spirituality, the Bible had no problem with a man having multiple sexual partners/wives, That's OT Cor 7:2 Tells us to purs…
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 10:27 PM
0

There is already lidocaine gel for women with sensitivity issues. Are you a ob/gyn?
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 03:55 AM
1

Oh really? Whys that?
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 02:23 AM
-1

Also - lube is your friend. Also Also - If after your first attempt she experiences a LOT of pain, trojan has a brand of condoms that have (i think) novacaine in them. You can wear it inside out to help her if she has a lot of pain. (But dont nut in it, use a different condom, you can't wear them inside out or you risk breaking it.)
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 12:53 AM
1

What do I do? You post your stats. If you want advice from here - a place where impractical advice is not allowed - you will get results, but you have to give to get.
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 12:41 AM
4

If she is a virgin get the idea of first night consummation out of your head. It took about a week for my wife and I to get it in. Let the wild and freak-ay stuff happen a little later, first just focus on there not being pain (or at least not much of it.)
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 12:41 AM
-1

If someone isn't willing to talk with you about faith they definitely are not willing to watch a 35 minute video some random guy posted about something they philosophically don't believe in.
/r/askRPC22/03/21 11:02 PM
-5

Be good enough that you don't need a video.
/r/askRPC22/03/21 10:50 PM
10

Here's where you went wrong: You let some woman get under your skin about the television remote.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 10:30 PM
5

End the relationship you butthead.
/r/RPChristians19/03/21 03:15 AM
-1

Do you only believe someone based upon their stats or status? Close, rather on their proof of work. Would you believe a fat man about dieting or a 3x divorcee with relationship advice. Would you listen to the criticism of a newborn convert or the teachings of a man who doesn't live congruent to those beliefs?
/r/RPChristians17/03/21 12:05 PM
5

Temptations will still rise even if her faith doesn't. You're leading yourself down a potentially treacherous path.
/r/askRPC17/03/21 02:22 AM
3

Why are you dating someone you dont plan to marry?
/r/askRPC17/03/21 01:35 AM
2

You'd be surprised how much better results you get when you follow the golden rule (treat others as you wish to be treated). Presuming I'm not?
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 06:39 PM
3

Lol and what point is that?
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 06:20 PM
1

🤷‍♂️
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 04:10 PM
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Who are you?
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 03:51 PM
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Because you made a post about your return as if we should care. Something a lot of guys do in OYS. If you say we shouldn't care then you're exactly right. So either you're valuable enough to justify an introduction, which necessitates justification. Or you're dillusional enough to be reminded of this: "For if anyone thinks he is something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself." Galatians 6:3 ESV
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 02:00 PM
-4

You haven't posted stats in at least half a decade. Why should we believe you? If you're valuable, happy to have you back.
/r/RPChristians16/03/21 01:34 PM
3

If you are only looking to improve for her, then you will never improve. At best you'll be a dancing monkey - a joke. My question is - where do I go from here? I've diagnosed the issues and I'm taking my first steps toward improvement - getting the books, consuming tons of podcasts, and more importantly, making daily changes in every aspect of my life and implementing the advice I read. You haven't even scratched the surface until you recognize that it has nothing to do with the woman.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 06:30 PM
3

There is usually a reason older women who aren't married stay unmarried.
/r/RPChristians15/03/21 01:26 PM
1

Because we are long distance 🤮🤮🤮 I can't explain the exact vetting points If you can't explain them, you do not have them. You are letting emotions lead you and aren't critically evaluating the man you might be spending the rest of your life with. he would lead the household biblically. He says this, but is he actually capable of it? I don't know who to ask - I'm surrounded by not-serious Christians Get on discord.
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 08:07 PM
1

How are you vetting him? You need an outside opinion - we are all too close to our own problems to accurately see them all the time. And this is a problem too important to allow nearsightedness to potentially lead you astray.
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 07:47 PM
2

As a generalization, yes. Though, because I don't know your father or your situation, I think it'd be valuable to proceed with faith but also seek scripture to make sure what he advocates is congruent to Christian beliefs.
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 07:30 PM
4

Unfortunately ladies don't like to be told they aren't perfect judges of everyones character. I can tell when a guy is a predator or a parasite because I've been there. Women typically cannot.
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 04:35 PM
6

If you are looking for a man and are not including the input of an important man in your life, you're acting unwise.
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 03:17 PM
2

Low quality videos 1.2/10
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 01:51 PM
3

God gave us an intellect to discern his Word. Catholic tradition also relies heavily on scriptural interpretation by the Church These seem incompatible. At the end of the day, you will still be put on the stand in the heavenly courts. The Church didn't die for your sins, so it will behoove you to make sure you are fully confident in your understanding of scripture - even if it is opposition of a denominational congregations beliefs.
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 03:33 AM
2

Simple as to stop humoring thoughts antithetical to the scripture. Have you been working with anyone to grow in your faith?
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 03:10 AM
2

Do you read the Bible?
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 02:38 AM
5

Does anyone else ever worry that they're wrong/mistaken not to pursue the pleasures of this world without regard for what "God says", If you are not actively revelling in the flesh because scripture tells us not to, then you are regarding it. Feelings are oftentimes based on fleshly desires, and we know that above all things the heart is deceptive. Just because you have them doesn't mean you're doing something wrong.
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 01:56 AM
1

MGTOW is by definition too focused on the denial of women. Same way NOFAP is still about jerking off, just the inverse of it.
/r/askRPC06/03/21 11:32 PM
3

Totally novel idea.
/r/askMRP04/03/21 01:26 AM
2

What is the difference between the time you spend with other believers and time you spend sunday morning?
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 10:27 PM
1

No, it is normal as Christians to enjoy Church and to love Jesus. I would recommend pausing before asking questions like this, as it comes across like you are validation seeking or like internet strangers are the metric by which you decide what is good or bad.
/r/RPChristians01/03/21 10:17 PM
1

Reads post in FBI
/r/askRPC27/02/21 12:08 AM
2

Youre assuming people (or rather, your reply is taking the stance that) are born saved and become unsaved which is not true. You have to choose to be apart of the body of the bride of Christ.
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 08:30 PM
2

Is Jesus a husband to unbelievers?
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 08:26 PM
1

Obviously there are exceptions, spergs like to point out the 1/1000000 to defy the whole concept, meanwhile the 999999 would seriously benefit from the kick in the pants. If you want granular idiot-proof novellas, go read u/HornsofApathy 's posts on depressive and anxious wives and why it's all your fault. Or any of u/Red-Curious 's posts pertaining to why wives behave poorly. Expecting the bar to be so low that every idiot can understand and for naunce be done away with is short-sighted and ill…
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 08:07 PM
4

But occasionally, waves of piercing guilt overcome me, Probably because you were a drunk captain. Some guilt here is beneficial to have as activation energy to continue pursuing what is right. You shouldn't feel "okay" until the problem isn't affecting your household. wondering whether I did the right thing, or should have tried harder to disciple her through her anger. She is a reflection of you. A turd of a wife represents a toilet of a husband. You should have done a better job here. Moving f…
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 01:44 PM
1

That's like the opposite of the post i wrote lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 01:32 PM
8

"I went somewhere that is known for disagree with my views and gave my opinion. Then I was disagreed with. :SurprisedPikachu:"
/r/RPChristians23/02/21 05:31 AM
1

You're killing my joke man.🤣🤣🤣
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 07:38 PM
1

Plants are evil. Of course I do.
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 06:54 PM
2

Easiest way to lose weight: Eat less. Easiest way to lose weight and keep it off: Understand how much fuel your body needs, and eat an amount appropriate to that. Starving your body is unsustainable and will lead you to prioritizing the scale over how you actually look. Muscle is heavy. 🤷‍♂️ Work out, sure. But losing weight is an exercise in the kitchen, not the gym. CICO is, at it's most fundamental level, the answer. Be at a deficit until your desired weight, then eat for maintenance. If you …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/21 06:45 PM
2

His diet consists of animals that have a diet of plants. What kind of sicko eats poor defenseless plants? At least animals have a chance to fight.
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 06:39 PM
5

Good point. Guess you're stuck being a loser ;)
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 06:21 PM
0

This is an area of difficulty for me because she knows exactly what to say to make me butt hurt and she quotes scripture in the middle of it all. I definitely need to get my frame figured out. So you need to get bullied? HMU on discord. Ill help. Build up a thicker skin.
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 05:57 PM
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Your moral point of reference is you wife. What you said: I got annoyed because I’ve heard her complain about him a hundred times and asked her how she would know when she hasn’t talked to anyone in my family in 5 years. 3 days later she told me she never want to hear me ask that question again because it reminded her of how her dad would invalidate her as a kid. What you mean: "I posited a hard question to my wife that I thought was good, she was upset, so that means it was bad." What you said:…
/r/RPChristians22/02/21 02:09 PM
1

So, lets hypothetically say he were to get out of the bathroom and walk into the closet and close the door and go back onto his phone. Does that fix the issue of him being in the bathroom or do you have a different reason for wanting him out?
/r/RedPillWives21/02/21 03:15 PM
2

Haha, if I were reading it as a copypasta it would be funny, but to think someone could potentially be this way is what makes it not. 🤪
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 04:07 PM
3

How old are you actually? I read your reply in a valley girl voice.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 03:33 PM
6

That other post about the kid not lifting might have made my flu worse, but this one is giving me cancer. Yeah, I LOVE WOMEN, and neeeeeeeed one in my life. So much good about a righteous woman, and a righteous marriage. So why hasn't it happened yet? What is god setting up? Perhaps there is something I need to learn first? Essentially I have zero ways of meeting any woman and I'm exhausted. I have met a few women here and there, but they've all been pretty awful. Didnt care about family, or God…
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 03:20 PM
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I’m 19, I don’t lift, planning to lift after college, I'm actually sick rn and you might have just made it worse.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 02:07 AM
3

Sinning would prolly be a good one.
/r/askRPC17/02/21 04:38 AM
6

My main girl is losing interest in me because all we do is watch a movie in my place and $%&@ afterwards and pillow talk/cuddle. There’s absolutely nothing to do due to lockdowns. What do I do now? How do I make this exciting? You're not convinced of your own faith. You like to whip yourself in "self harm" way. You have a LOT of things to work first.
/r/RPChristians17/02/21 04:34 AM
0

Saving physical lives is not the name of the game. Saving spiritual lives is. I'm not recommending you go out of your way to kill people, but hyperfocusing on it is not the focus Christ gave us.
/r/RPChristians15/02/21 05:35 PM
2

Depends on why youre not wearing it. Is it because you're whining and uncomfortable or because you want to pose as a question to those around you. but to know that it might be turning away people from Jesus. This is a dangerous line of thinking in my opinion, and one that slowly degrades the convictions of the Church. The LGBT+ community uses this defense as a way to guilt Churches into accepting their lifestyle because they are scared "If I say homosexuality is a sin, it will turn people away f…
/r/RPChristians15/02/21 05:22 PM
1

T'was
/r/askRPC14/02/21 04:47 AM
2

If you live in a snowy state, try taking Vit D supplements. Seasonally I am challenged greatly with a lack of motivation, exhaustion, and complacency. But in the same way that we all have "willpower" days in the gym we have to move through it to a better time if we are confidently pursuing our goals.
/r/RPChristians14/02/21 04:45 AM
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This isn't a career help center. We aren't going to go onto indeed for you, or do your interview. Who cares if you settle on a job right now? It's like you don't even realize that rather than having any respectability in holding a lower paying job you've opted to "wait until something worth my time becomes available." For guys with that mental model they will never get the chance, and for good reason. But, I worry about finances. 🤮 Be congruent. Either say you don't want to work because you're l…
/r/RPChristians14/02/21 04:34 AM
1

Yeah he is always seeking to grow. I’m not sure how he would feel about that, he isn’t big on ‘mentors’ as he feels they can become idols to people. How does he feel about 1 Cor. 11:1? That's a model for mentorship or discipleship? What would someone from RPC working with him entail? Depends on him as an individual. Usually means trying to help him become a fully deployed as a man.
/r/RPChristians09/02/21 08:29 PM
1

We spend our time with other Christians mostly too. one of these things is not like the other. Is he interested in discipleship? Does he want to grow? Would he be receptive to someone from RPC working with him?
/r/RPChristians09/02/21 06:42 PM
4

Is faith important to your husband? If so, how do you know? What does he do it prove it? If it isn't, has he always been like this? You can't force a man to change, you can only control yourself.
/r/RPChristians09/02/21 02:22 PM
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Depends on what his fundamental values are. If his natural conclusion is machiavellian and self serving, meaning he may simply choose he wants more out of his life than just one broad, you could get tossed to the side. Remember that the Red Pill is amoral. If you husband has underlying desires to betray you having him embrace it means he embraces his desires and mission. Ive become a real bitch these days because I just want him to take charge and I feel disapointed all the time. Because why wou…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/21 10:49 PM
2

No is only the most important word if you've spent your entire life being a doormat. For someone who is lazy and has never done anything, there is a lot of value in "yes." Platitudes like this are pretty much only good for personal revelation, to everyone else it sounds stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/21 07:12 PM
2

I dont feel like other Christians cry like me or get upset and angry like I do. You arent some unique person that gets extra sad or excited about God. I don't know If I am doing the right thing and I don't feel like reading the Bible will help if I dont understand the important parts unless I only read the verses that are east to understand and ignore the ones I dont like. Don't ignore the hard verses, read Gospels -> Romans. Feelings are not the metrics by which you derive truth - scripture is.…
/r/RPChristians01/02/21 03:45 AM
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It seems like you made this post as a way to scratch your ego via "well technically not everywhere"isms. Because your wall of text was concluded with two useless questions. So, is there a society or sources that would be suitable for environment like this? What does this even mean? RP content applies to the world, not just the US. And there sources you can recommend or experiences that helped you improve/internalize or even let you help others to unplug? The sidebar. Clearly you have not "read i…
/r/askMRP31/01/21 01:56 PM
3

Blue Pill ideologies that I believe Blue Pill ideologies are inherently false. You're stupid if you believe them. That's the whole use for the analogy of the red vs blue pill. It's brutal truth vs placating lies. Even though I am Christian, I still think it's unrealistic and unwise to marry a person you've never had sex with. Recently Divorced Right now, you should be emptying your mind of your own relational opinions because they suck and you suck for having them. Sin is sin, premarital sex is …
/r/RPChristians28/01/21 06:32 AM
1

Your frame isn't a box that you're trying to stuff your wife into. Either she will enter it on her own, or she won't and either way you progress forward toward your own mission. Why are you trying to empathize with her? She's hitting you numbnuts. Maybe you should yell out "That's my purse, I don't know you." And kick your wife in the nuts.
/r/askMRP27/01/21 08:12 PM
3

"Hi Self Improvement forum that already has a discord, how would you like to join my Self Improvement discord? There are some hidden rules to joining we won't tell you about, and I have spent zero time here building a rapport to leverage against that trust, but I'm sure you'll join my masturbatory MLM. Thank you! Danel"
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 02:31 PM
1

1 Cor. 11:1 is sufficient in answering this. You're looking for something to be aghast about, try less.
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 07:28 AM
1

🤷‍♂️ Standard for Men is so low my job is easy.
/r/RPChristians23/01/21 03:50 AM
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GOTCHA: That wasn't the conclusion. DISCIPLESHIP actually is. You tricky tricky dog, you got me! Rule #1 Be Attractive Rule #2 Don't Be Unattractive Been hearing and seeing a lot of advice on discord recently from guys with no business giving said "advice." And I just pray the autists here have the mental wherewithall to ask "who is giving me this advice."
/r/RPChristians22/01/21 06:17 AM
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Girls are boring friends. Why have them?
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 01:09 AM
2

Why do you care how she feels or how she thinks? So what if she brags? Why is your emotional point of reference any one but yourself? Finally, because you're just polling random guys on the internet for a best choice of action for your money. I vote you actually give me the money you were going to use on your kids tuition. PM me and Ill send you my PayPal. I expect around 15k.
/r/askMRP18/01/21 06:00 AM
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"My teenage daughter is so disrespectful, I'm thinking about taking a break from her. Sometimes shes mad because I told her to stop disrespecting me so I apologize because she is the metric by which I derive what is right and wrong. Recently, she hurt my feelings so I suddenly decided to change my schedule and go to the gym. (Normally I like to sit at home and eat tendies, but she upset my tum tum.) I'm going to take a break from her as my daughter for a while. Has anyone else ever tried that be…
/r/askMRP14/01/21 06:42 PM
1

You forgot one: Develop your Mayor Game.
/r/RPChristians13/01/21 03:51 PM
1

Still getting some of the kinks out of the American version, most of which should be getting fixed sooner rather than later. I would start saving, I know RFS, Albo, Aaaquad and the like are open to helping finance it if you need help. I believe trips from Aus to US are around 1.4k if I remember correctly.
/r/RPChristians13/01/21 03:17 AM
2

Who cares what your wife thinks or feels? She's showing her special bits to some other guy on the internet. At least girls with onlyfans get paid, your wife is doing it for free. Why improve for a woman who sucks as bad as your wife does. Improve for yourself. Then once you're valuable, if youre still in a stasis of decision then you'll be better equipped to answer it. I led a small book study where we discussed a Christian book on manhood (Man Up by Jeff Hemmer) and I loved it. Ohh great, anoth…
/r/RPChristians13/01/21 01:27 AM
1

If you were more grounded I'd recommend going on a date, but you sound insecure so prolly shouldn't.
/r/askRPC06/01/21 07:37 AM
4

I would say to continually seek Jesus. What does this even mean? Do you think Jesus is hidden in scripture or is being evasive?
/r/RPChristians03/01/21 06:35 AM
3

I will spare you all the details. Details are quintessential to getting valuable advice. When you participate in OYS (which you are now doing) being honest about where you are at is the first step to unscrewing yourself. If you put up guards or try to ego defend, we can see it. What it comes down to is that I feel I did it all: I tried girls, dating, travelling, I have a job, I am in shape, I went through college, etc. Etc. But everything felt empty to me. Sounds like you lack a mission. Moreso …
/r/RPChristians03/01/21 06:33 AM
7

She's flirting with you. Simple answer: flirt back.
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 06:42 AM
1

Paul also says to Timothy TO be circumcised. So that begs the question "Why would someone circumcise their boys now" and that is a question everyone must answer for themselves. There is no longer a spiritual reason to circumcise, but there could definitely be others.
/r/RPChristians02/01/21 04:54 AM
1

Sidebar/MRP WISNIFG NMMNG Join the discord and I will give you $ tests and show you why you aren't passing them.
/r/RPChristians26/12/20 04:27 PM
1

How To Prevent Sexual Incompatibility: 1) Don't be fat. 2) Don't marry a women you are not attracted to because she's nice. Voila. Maybe take her dancing and see how her timing is. If a woman is insistent on focusing on her own instead of the music's she may not be able to keep a consistent 'rhythm' in bed. 🤷‍♂️
/r/askRPC26/12/20 04:23 PM
2

In my experience most women will not push past the furthest line your set before them if it is evident that you are pursuing a relationship with them. Can you touch her arm or mid back? What about her neck? More importantly, is she receptive to your touch? Indifferent? Anxious or averse to it? Fitness tests are a whole different animal.
/r/RPChristians26/12/20 04:19 PM
0

Creating desire is as simple as this: 1) Negging 2) Decision Making 3a) Being Attractive 3b) Not being Unattractive 4) Breaking the Touch barrier and escalating Kino 5) Handling Fitness Tests Bonus points: if your text game is A+ Bonus points: if you are a valuable man.
/r/RPChristians26/12/20 01:39 PM
1

Mebbe
/r/askRPC22/12/20 04:37 PM
1

u/redirectedfs how many more months until we start cycling tren? I'm trying to get a pump before we go hunting.
/r/askRPC22/12/20 03:23 AM
1

I'm like a solid 5/10 in looks and slayed before I got married. Looks matter yes, but black pilling is about the lamest thing you could possibly do.
/r/RPChristians22/12/20 03:22 AM
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Advice? Yeah, ignore your interest and move on.
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 03:24 PM
1

The RP answer is far too harsh for your weak frame. You'd blow it off because you lack agency over your actions and feel as if the world owes you something because what? "My fwiends said a girl should want to sleep with me." I only read about 25% of your post because at best it was laborious. Here are my thoughts on the fraction of a post I read: •Stop living in some random girls frame. •Stop leading your life with your penis. •You are NOT more spiritually mature than men your age. You are the s…
/r/RPChristians11/12/20 05:13 AM
2

You are three years younger than me. Edit: Yes u/redirectedfs this is a dopamine hit. Thanks for asking.
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 04:47 AM
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I was 19 and went from consistently getting it, to meeting my wife who wanted to remain not only celibate, but kissless until our wedding day. I just don't know how much longer I can stay on the right path. Longer than you think. Your penis is on overdrive because you're still basically a hormonal teen.
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 04:11 AM
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He needs to be taught by someone - not himself.
/r/RPChristians08/12/20 08:18 PM
2

🤮🤮🤮 Lol
/r/RPChristians07/12/20 03:24 PM
1

but cant most things fall under second guessing yourself What is "second guessing yourself"? I'm saying that as a joke. If youre going to do something, do it.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 04:50 PM
3

Understandable, unfortunately we see a lot of guys seeking grace for their laziness and peace in their complacency and self imposed bondage. This is where a lot of the value is located in OYS and Discord.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 03:40 PM
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Grace and peace should be extended to those in situations where they are either literally incapable of helping themselves OR are already helping themselves but the burden of self help is great. How often do you see Jesus tell someone who comes to him sinning "Wow, I can really tell you're trying. Good job!" Never. He says "Sin no more." He is giving the goal, not accepting where the person already is.
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 01:11 PM
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RPC struggles to toughen up its members that are not part of the 'in circle' because there are a LOT of spergs who miss the nuance and necessity of locker room hardship, which results in a lot of members (justifiably) worrying about their witness. It's the double edged sword of Christian groups. As such, my advice to you would be to get onto the discord, have a strong opinion, and get called an idiot or an autist into oblivion until you can both handle it and dish it out. Participate in OYS eith…
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:41 AM
0

Maybe. Does it matter? I'm asking this facetiously, I understand the desire of a man's heart to wed, however I would recommend rather than focusing on finding a physical mate, figuring out how to love Christ the way he has asked you to love him. (Following his commandments.)
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:12 AM
3

If you are around another woman post-divorce and knowing yourself and your own weaknesses intimately can admit that you will likely fall into sexual sin, it would probably be better to get married. Furthermore I would only recommend this if you can in earnest say "If this is sin, I can accept that I would have to atone for this if it weren't for the saving grace of Jesus Christ." I would apply what Paul says in Romans 14:5 to this; being 'fully convinced' of your decision. Because if you are NOT…
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 06:07 AM
1

Allow the Gentiles to rule themselves. Christians boycotting arbitrarily immoral things just seems pompous - Christ has expectations for how believers conduct themselves within the immoral world. Tiktok included.
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 07:44 AM
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Beautiful OP. OT Jews were given so many strict and seemingly arbitrary rules because they had yet to understand the Gospel of Jesus. All of these expectations were to observably set apart those righteously obeying the Lord. Once Christ came, his life death and resurrection tore the veil and uncovered the truth. Now it is not how others view our lives, but how God views it. By grace and the Holy Spirit some will be swayed by this unconventional living, casting away their sin, and accept the Chri…
/r/RPChristians25/11/20 03:04 AM
1

She says she wants to be close to God and such but she didn't really act like it before. We met partying so she isn't a saint. Everyone wants to be a novelist, but nobody wants to put in the work to write a novel. If you were totally deaf, what would her actions he saying about her? She is redeemable, sure. But that doesn't mean you tether yourself to them. When you are swimming rock is still a rock whether it is tied to your foot (an unsaved person), or you are holding onto it (a saved person.)…
/r/askRPC13/11/20 06:09 PM
2

If they are succumbed to the sin (meaning don't acknowledge it.) Yes. As long as you recognize you yourself are and they have yet to, you are one step ahead!
/r/RPChristians11/11/20 05:43 PM
3

That anger is your survival pressure. Every dog I work with that has it too easy is a neurotic basket case, I've tried to articulate this concept before, but this does it better. Thanks, I'm stealing it. Anger and stress are good for humans, if everything in your life is wrapped in a little bow, no wonder you're frantic. You are the human version of rat paradise.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 12:42 PM
5

Good one.
/r/RPChristians10/11/20 01:33 AM
7

Lol, that's some brown pill autism. Sure am glad you figured out how to turn on your computer today.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 06:01 PM
9

Maybe he just needed more abundance in his frame so that he could alpha widow the usa. What is this post even?
/r/askMRP09/11/20 04:59 PM
1

Is it fair? You have no concept for how to even evaluate fairness. Your whole worldview is screwed up. Which leads me to: Would it be better to just next her now and be more true to my principals I am very beta but I have taken small steps to improve: You also don't have principals. Your wife and mom are at odds and you are simply hiding in the closet waiting for it to be blown over. Fix yourself and pray your wife doesn't justifiably divorcerape you for being a useless husband in the meantime.
/r/askMRP07/11/20 02:14 AM
4

Has she ever said something she'd regret? Yes. Just be conscientious, draw out an accidental confession, and save it.
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 12:47 PM
27

You need a recorder on you 24/7 man. Find out what the recording laws for your state are and start getting it all. Try to convince her to admit to lying - and just keep it on the DL.
/r/RPChristians03/11/20 03:56 AM
2

First off, you can't "Lead Blindly." You don't have a mission and as a result, are just treading water. I wanted to quickly move on, so I blamed it on the room being hot (it was) You are scared of her. I stopped beating myself up so hard after realizing that she could also be getting bad sex pointers from her girlfriends, who she likes to talk about our sex with. If so, I’m fucking them by proxy and it will feel inauthentic. That realization also means that my wife is fucking all of you by proxy…
/r/askMRP01/11/20 07:22 PM
2

Toxic masculinity is not what is plaguing the modern world. The toxic feminaization of men is. Quit being a ding dong.
/r/RPChristians01/11/20 05:29 PM
1

My wife won't have sex with me. But I do calisthenics like Jillian Michaels. My body fat is probably only like 28%. Lol. Okay guy.
/r/RPChristians29/10/20 12:30 AM
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Your woman controls your entire life man, you are a chump. Own it, get a little mad, and use that anger to drive you to success. I will reply more thoroughly to the other post a little later. As for the discord: discord is a messaging app. A LOT of the guys here use it daily. If you are looking to get more involved that is a good way to go.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 06:51 PM
3

OP hasn't even begun to fix his life. Amicably seperating is a good way to lead into the sin of an unbiblical divorce and should be recommended as a last resort.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 06:49 PM
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>I've tried to lead well. I have failed in many respects. I've recently been delving into it again and have been on a road to bettering myself for quite some time. First off, how long *actually* have you been seriously trying to get your life in order? Women do not follow men they are not confident can lead the way. Think of it like this: If your job is to be a tour guide, it would first benefit you to go the path several times first without trying to make her follow your lead. Only then are you…
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 04:39 PM
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Because you are clearly autistic, I'm going to explain it in simple terms for you. Ever heard of the adage "Be attractive, dont be unattractive."? It isn't hyperbole or repetitive humor. Being attractive and not being unattractive are two very different things, and as a result can be worked on individually. 1) "Being Attractive" is broken down into two ways; game and physical attractiveness. Guys with high "attraction" can pull a girl easy. But when it comes to LTRs if his "don't be unattractive…
/r/askMRP27/10/20 06:00 PM
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What state do you live in that you could get a bar and weights for 60? Everything I have found is 2.5 - 3.2 $/lb.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 04:06 AM
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Wife expects me to be responsible for her entertainment. And? Clearly because you think you have to satisfy anyones expectations for you, I expect you to give me $40,000.00 PM me and I'll give you my venmo. I expect it by Thursday, faggot. How do I get her to stop expecting me to handle her entertainment and prevent her boredom when she won't do anything about it herself? You don't. Focus on yourself and move forward. She'll follow or she won't. Yeesh you suck. Leading does not mean you "lead" a…
/r/askMRP27/10/20 12:08 AM
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Low Quality Post. What are your views on those 12 week transformations that some people do? They sure exist. I bet 13 week transformations exist too. Go lift. Do it for a month then start (or dont) asking questions like this.
/r/RPChristians25/10/20 01:09 AM
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Issue n.1: You have put your wife into the seat of authority of choosing what is morally right or wrong for you. Proof: I can’t count how many times I’ve been wrongly accused of looking at women. It’s gotten to the point that I feel guilty when a woman walks into the room. I can’t have friends anymore due to her insecurities. I’d like to join a gym or get into a hobby but I know the outcome wouldn’t be good. How to fix it: Get over your wife being mad at you. If you didn't look lustfully at a wo…
/r/RPChristians22/10/20 08:07 PM
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Get over it.
/r/RPChristians22/10/20 02:07 PM
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I'd say that if OP is even just barely passing his classes, the 50-90 hours required per week to do this means he HAS a worthwhile mission purely from hours invested. If the metric for a worthwhile mission is time spent on it, then the spergs in r/ChristianMarriage wasting their entire nights playing LoL or jerking off into oblivion have a worthwhile mission. Because we know this isn't true, there is a flaw in that reasoning. Even further, arguing that getting a medical degree is your mission is…
/r/RPChristians21/10/20 11:16 PM
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All RP subs are, by nature, going to be populated by retards. The likelihood of a naturally "alpha"/socially capable guy finding himself in a situation that he needs to seek out content like this is slim to none. I've joked before that most of the guys here have daddy issues, and though I say it in humour there is a large kernel of truth there. If an RP'd/Alpha/Socially and Physically competent man raises his son properly, his son won't need to be here. If you are here your Dad is also a retard,…
/r/askMRP20/10/20 03:29 PM
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Her: Then why don't you show it? Why do you keep trying to hurt me? Missed your chance to turn it into sexy time friend.
/r/askRPC19/10/20 04:47 AM
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To all the guys here: this is a good example of when to advocate on a womans sister in Christ's behalf. OP is missionless and is keeping his poor GF in a statis while time is dragging her closer to the wall. OP has the luxury of time, 10 - 15 years even. His gf? 6 at best. OP you clearly don't feel ready now as well school is your idol and as a result your goals are all skewed inappropriately. Cut her loose. Let her try to find a different ship to stay dry on.
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 04:40 AM
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We need to get you on the discord man. Men grow best when being sharpened by one another. I 100% doubt you are 5% bf. That said, if you are then you have an excellent testimony to other guys concerning bf% and still having a weak frame. I'm somewhat worried that it has become part of her personality. Let me tell you the story of Snowball, a pomeranian, and her owners that I am currently working with. Snowball was adopted into a family that was run by the (w)ife. She owned the primary money makin…
/r/RPChristians17/10/20 04:58 AM
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A husband is to love his wife no matter what. Does Christ love us no matter what? Is love a feeling? An action? In love there is discipline, where does that fit into this? That means if I meet all her needs and expectations. What are her actual needs? Did Jesus love Simon-Peter? If he loved Simon Peter and also met his needs, yet he was martyred what does that say about meeting needs for our wives? If my wife is happy that it’s all out of love . . . Is Christ's goal to make us happy? Let me tell…
/r/RPChristians17/10/20 04:07 AM
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That article is sus at best.
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 12:32 PM
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No. You cannot make your body capable of lifting beyond BW weights without lifting beyond BW weights. /thread
/r/RPChristians14/10/20 05:16 PM
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Can you tell me your experience. Yep, married a kissless virgin, waited until our wedding day to kiss. Been good. Do you like that your wife is submissive or would you prefer she not be? I prefer it. Does having a submissive wife take away a lot of the prevailing issues in modern day secular marriages? There aren't problems. She either submits, or is steamrolled in the pursuit of my mission. Fortunately, in her submission I make my frame comfortable to be in (generally) and she is happy. Do you …
/r/RPChristians09/10/20 03:47 AM
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Stats: Age 24 Height 6ft Wgt ~ 190.2bs BF est. 20% Married as of 10/26 Fitness Currently on the SL 5x5 Program SQ: 5x5 @ 155lbs BP: 5x5 @ 125lbs Row: 5x5 @ 100lbs DL 1x5 @ 205lbs OHP: 5x5 @ 85lbs 50 Assisted Pullups Goals and Struggles: •Continue up and to the right •Been having some rolling/slipping tendon issues in my wrist during my row and bench press. •Need to get more plates and a curl weight. •Clean up my diet. Avg a 15:1 Calorie : g of Protein ratio. Mission, Faith, and 7 Basics To bring…
/r/RPChristians07/10/20 05:49 PM
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I hate to break it to you, and I pray that you personally have stopped - but MANY men have tried and failed through this approach. There is a way to do it, but history suggests the pray and profess strategy doesn't work very well for this sin. (Don't get me confused, prayer 100% could get rid of this like a snap of the fingers, but that is the exception to the rule.)
/r/RPChristians04/10/20 08:08 PM
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How long has it been since you stopped?
/r/RPChristians04/10/20 12:50 AM
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"Much less of a sin" Breaking the law is breaking the law. "Most likely getting divorced." OP, this poster is one to be wary of.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:20 AM
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If youre scared of marriage then stay away from sex. If you want sex then stay away from sin with marriage.
/r/RPChristians02/10/20 02:18 AM
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Id be curious. Post a pic. Have you ever heard the phrase "methinks the lady doth protest too much?" Its what you're doing. You're still projecting your inadequacies on me, my friend. No, I definitely need to worry more about my body ATM. My frame is solid 96% of the time. My body is... getting there. To quote u/redirectedfs."You look like a used beige sock." And I agree. So I'm fixing it. I don't believe you. I am going to show you how a guy with frame should handle this type of response. Eithe…
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 01:16 PM
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Yikes, you okay? Worry less about your body and more about your frame. This is the second time in RP history (at least that I'm aware of) that you've had what appears to be a dillusional meltdown about fitness and muscleheads vs leanbros. Go do a 5k ocean swim without drowning, then come back and tell me you're not lazy. For reference, I use to swim 3 miles 3 - 4 times a week. And at a different point I average 30 miles a week running (10 miles/3 days) My body has never been spectacular like the…
/r/RPChristians27/09/20 12:52 PM
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Is this the line of self dillusion you use to keep yourself from having to work hard? Edit: just realized youre only fishing for non native asain women based on the fact that you quoted askquora almost verbatim. Most of us here are seeking out american women.
/r/RPChristians25/09/20 03:42 AM
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Stats: Age 24 Height 6ft Wgt ~ 192bs BF est. 20% Have weighed myself several times and finally came to 192lbs. Goal is 215lbs 18%BF. Married as of 10/26 Mission: Become a pillar of peace and stability to those around me. To offer mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional guidance to those around me in need, and to tether them to Christ during their turmoil. My mission will be carried out through 1) Bringing balance to households through correction and encouragement. 2) By helping others see the…
/r/RPChristians24/09/20 01:04 PM
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Great questions, lets talk about them on discord.
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 06:49 PM
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Why do you think I don’t have a frame? Because "My whole psychological schema has been in question" This actually made me LOL. Get on the discord.
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 03:07 PM
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Can someone caveman TLDR this for me? Why use many word if few word do trick.
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 01:58 PM
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"What pillars of RPChristianity might I be missing out on?" Mental Point of Origin. Reading scripture. Frame. Lifting. (Likely) STFU. Discipling. Wisdom. Abundance. Mission. MISSION. Spiritual: mature Mature-ish. She is in my frame, she is submissive, and I am the leader. She also helped me reconnect to Christianity in addition to being a positive influence in my life. She isn't in your frame, you don't have one yet. This is indicated by: "I recently talked with her about her sexual past and I a…
/r/RPChristians17/09/20 03:36 AM
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I don't know if this is my faith . . . What would you all recommend/how did you married men find your wives for sorting out this area of life? How socially competent are you? Your lifts are great, but if you fail socially there will be great advantage to you practicing your social skills. Cold approaching women is the step below cold approaching people for the Gospel. u/BrotherChad could probably tell you how nerve wracking that can be. (not that you should wait for one over the other, but in te…
/r/RPChristians07/09/20 12:17 PM
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The person with the stronger frame is the person who can lose more and be less affected. Who has the button to the nuke? Who is actually willing to press it. Most importantly who has the wisdom to know when to and when not to? "If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings, And never breathe a word about your loss:" These are a few poignant lines from the poem "If" by Rudyard Kipling. This section illustrates…
/r/askRPC06/09/20 12:22 AM
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I've gone the route of sexual hedonism, and I've done extreme abstinence. I learned that sexual activity was not the basis for a joyful life - constantly seeking the high that cumming gave me. What happens when you can no longer act at the level you're acting? This life is a cold machine when it comes to taking away from us, it would be naiveté to believe you'll escape it. Time is relentless. I ask because I know people intuitively, and I'll give you a hint to the answer: your identity, that whi…
/r/RPChristians05/09/20 12:36 PM
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Are you happy with your current lifestyle? It would seem odd if you're trying to reconcile this aspect of your life if your faith isn't important to you and you were happy.
/r/RPChristians05/09/20 05:18 AM
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What's awful about it? What do you think God's purpose for your life is?
/r/RPChristians05/09/20 05:13 AM
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If you are looking for a justification, you're already off on the wrong foot. Are you looking for real Biblical advice, or advice that will allow you to live in spiritual complacency? Mind you, Biblical advice will likely require you to make major changes in your lifestyle.
/r/RPChristians05/09/20 04:57 AM
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Stats: Age 24 Height 6ft Wgt ~ 172 - 178bs BF est. 18% Finally weighed myself per u/betatest_in_progress 's suggestion. Two times in an hour, first weigh was 172lbs, second was 176lbs. Married as of 10/26 Mission: Become a pillar of peace and stability to those around me. To offer mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional guidance to those around me in need, and to tether them to Christ during their turmoil. My mission will be carried out through 1) Bringing balance to households through correc…
/r/RPChristians02/09/20 09:46 PM
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• I don't know what to do about sleeping in constantly, sleeping 9.5-10 hours a day can't be normal. Do you feel exhausted? Are you eating enough? What is your sleep schedule like? Could you be sick? What's your vitamin C intake? Riboflavin? Maybe even get bloodwork, maybe you're anemic. • Tried reaching out to my little sister, she ignored my texts. She's ignored my messages the last 2 times I've tried. I do feel lead to get into contact with her, going to try again this week. I think part of t…
/r/RPChristians02/09/20 03:24 PM
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How's your fellowship in real life? Fellowship irl is okay. Met with my Grandpa this week, and my brother and I are connecting more following his breakup. I'm just quickly outgrowing people and though am still maintaining the relationship, am becoming more and more the teacher and less and less the friend. you have to be OK with it being done "good enough". I'm a perfectionist and have to learn to let that go. I fully agree, I just get very jittery when my immediate paycheck is on the line with …
/r/RPChristians31/08/20 11:56 PM
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Did you not read my post on your other thread? Stop being a whiney baby about it. Be the villian. Be okay with being perceived as the bad guy.
/r/askMRP28/08/20 03:47 PM
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Nah fam, chocolate peanut butter milkshake.
/r/RPChristians27/08/20 03:04 PM
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Whats wrong with being a villian? They get the lair, henchmen, and cool eyebrow scar. In reality, why are you so focused on her being upset. Just keep doing what you're going to do, so long as your take care of your own responsibilities. MIL: You need to help building things up and decorate. You also need to help with the cleanup (they never help me when I need their help) "No thanks, not interested." MIL: Great, your (GF's) brother is getting married and you are not even lending him a hand! Wha…
/r/askMRP27/08/20 02:42 PM
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Where is the right place for a man's emotions? Personally, I've been leaning toward "a man depends on God, a wife depends on her husband" sort of thing, but I'm not quite sure that's right. What do you mean by "over exposed"? To be handled stoicly, or presented to his peers, so he can handle it with the appearance of gracefulness. Pride? Or standards? Or both? Both, likely. What is your plan (if any) to prevent this in the future? None, dietary cheating will happen. As long as I'm not doing it c…
/r/RPChristians27/08/20 01:38 AM
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Stats: Age 24 Height 6ft Wgt ~ 178 - 185lbs BF est. 18% (I said 20% - 22% last week but a few people have suggested its probably a bit lower.) Married as of 10/26 Mission: Become a pillar of peace and stability to those around me. To offer mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional guidance to those around me in need, and to tether them to Christ during their turmoil. My mission will be carried out through 1) Bringing balance to households through correction and encouragement. 2) By helping othe…
/r/RPChristians26/08/20 04:24 PM
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YOU, YOU, YOU. The best dread comes from being your own point of origin. Then you change from being a boy with a bomb, to a man with a gun. The boy will blow her and himself up - because he is immature. The man will walk in, no monologs, get what he wants, and leaves.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 10:00 PM
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You breezed through the Mental section. What book are you reading/listening to other than the Word? I am going through WISNIFG with some of my coworkers. Bible. I'm also going through some docs on manipulation and how to prevent yourself from being manipulated without your knowledge. What's your fitness goal - lose weight, gain mass or get stronger? Get stronger. Admittedly, I don't really care if I get fatter if it means I can lift an extra 250lbs. I am basing it off of the pics from Built Lean…
/r/RPChristians19/08/20 11:18 PM
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Stats: Age 24 Height 6ft Wgt 178 BF est. 20% - 22% Married as of 10/26 Mission: Become a pillar of peace and stability to those around me. To offer mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional guidance to those around me in need, and to tether them to Christ during their turmoil. My mission will be carried out through 1) Bringing balance to households through correction and encouragement. 2) By helping others see the failures in their worldview, and to then guide them to Christ. 3) Teaching others…
/r/RPChristians19/08/20 04:20 PM
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I don't see what the situation is? She said something. She probably says things regularly. So she moves out. Grass is green, water is wet, the sun will rise and fall. Nothing is new.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 05:54 PM
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Let's talk about context. Why was RPC created? What is it's focus audience? What is the demographic of those creating the content? Who are our readers, and where do they come from? Have you considered any of this? It might answer your question much better than your two driveby posts that did nothing but jade you from scriptural truth, and turn you away from a Biblically sound marriage. For reference, your post on complementarianism always hurting women - if you feel this way, you might need to g…
/r/RPChristians15/08/20 01:37 AM
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It's never about controlling her. No godly man here would use force or abuse to make their wives behave a certain way. If a woman changes her attitude towards a man because he starts to value himself enough to let the relationship die because it is unhealthy and spiritually toxic, and her changing is the thing that makes him revisit it, then so be it. At that point, she is the one controlling herself, and Lord willing, she does.
/r/RPChristians15/08/20 01:19 AM
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What is your mission? What are your stats? Where are you in your scripture reading? Memorization? How often are you cold approaching? What about # closing? How's STFU going? (Clearly not great according to all of your posts.) If you weren't prepared for this response, are you actually been looking for results? Hard work is just that - hard. Not that it's bad, but it's uncomfortable, if you arent willing to start taking the basic advice why would anyone give you more challenging steps? Those step…
/r/askRPC12/08/20 04:51 AM
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This is a timely post, and something I needed to hear so I can bring it to someone else.
/r/askRPC10/08/20 03:29 PM
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Very interesting insight, let me think on it for a while.
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 12:23 PM
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Hmm. Interested to hear some counterpoints. I'm not unfamiliar with jumping gaps mentally, so if I am I will clear it up.
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 05:35 AM
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Stats? /s At best this should be x-posted to askrpc, but I'm going to be honest with you, after going through your post history these are not the questions you should be asking. Are you okay? The more I go through your post history the more erratic and scattered your posts are. Rarely do I see users with thread specs like yours and most of them need help. I'm not trying to be facetious, you are welcome to message me if you'd like, I expect to keep the conversation grounded but might be able to d…
/r/RPChristians08/08/20 04:58 AM
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At 30:00 you talk about Paul's response to the Roman government, his jailing and abuse at the hands of the Roman Courts etc. and is utter non-plussed feelings about it. (Well sure, he probably didn't enjoy it, but he didn't allow it to change his outlook on his own life or God.) To those of you I've talked about Christian Nihilism to, this is what I mean. It takes that stark black pill concept of "Nothing matters so you may as well die." But adds an addendum. "Nothing matters, except for the exh…
/r/RPChristians06/08/20 02:48 PM
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Im a truly sorry to hear this. I'm glad youre able to find peace about it.
/r/RPChristians06/08/20 05:34 AM
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Are his expectations actually reasonable? Am I totally in the wrong here? My post was to answer your question. Read this from your boyfriends perspective rather than a strangers on the internet. Edit: Btw I do need help with objectivity atm. I feel very hurt. I can’t judge my fiancé’s motivations, I can’t look into his heart, the facts I can present is that he hasn’t worked in a year. I don’t know what he does with his day, aside from playing video games and spending time with his friends. He ha…
/r/RPChristians05/08/20 03:14 AM
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Praex, if you were insecure that your fiancée was going to leave you homeless after you got kicked out of your moms and without a job, what would you do? Idiot, it wouldn't even get to that point. I'm too smart, plus my fiancee is lacks boundaries. Heck, I got her to have sex with me just by saying "It's her duty." AND SHE FELL FOR IT! Classic! We aren't even married and I twisted scripture enough that she just succumbed. 'Well you use to be such a strong Biblical leader.' Yeah... I taught 13 ye…
/r/RPChristians05/08/20 01:47 AM
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Don't just blindly follow what they say though, I think that should go without mentioning. RC for example will almost always use verse to give authority to his statements - you have an obligation to read them. The Bible even mentions this in (Galatians 5 : 12), sometimes people will gain insight that isn't accurate - you need to be responsible for yourself. The mods will not stand trial for your sins when you die, you will. And they theirs.
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 12:25 PM
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I don't believe people should actually be paid to attend gatherings of the Ekklesia. If it come off as if I was suggesting some sort of strange reverse-tithe I didn't explain my point well enough, as that is not my intention. The question I was trying to get at was "What would it look like nationally if Christians, rather than going to secular sources, conducted their financial doings internally." Not to suggest that they dont interact externally - but that in matters of money it is cycled inter…
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 04:24 AM
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• It would financially provide to the attendees rather than be a financial drain on them. Oh you coy little minx, you thought you could just slip this one in underneath all the rest and get away with it. In the macro, this has some very interesting implications. I'd love to talk about this more. u/OperationVeritas and I were discussing this recently - what would it look like if the body of Christ was self sustaining? No need for outside insurance companies as the body can financially provide. Lo…
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 02:00 AM
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and waiting for a girl that shares this view is almost mission impossible. Straight from the horses mouth. If your mission is a woman you will always be unsatisfied. Happiness is an emotion we are blessed to feel, but as Christians we understand it's ephemeral nature. Happiness is contingent on so many things: other people, your health, your financial wellbeing, cumming, etc. Why root your life in something that could be taken from you? use to be very religious And? Religiosity is a tool for obt…
/r/RPChristians31/07/20 02:02 PM
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Lol heathy dose of reminder that the lay-MRPers lack levity and think this whole 'red pill' thing is about being a robo-dick. OPs post is ultimately sad, a man who has been misguided his entire life is facing further disaster because he holds onto a lie that, despite what a lot of the guys here don't want to admit due to their fear thag a little bit of emotion will collapse their whole frame structure, is hard to let go of. That lie being: "Love alone is sufficient". Unfortunately, the world is …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/20 05:48 AM
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Obviously you just haven't studied the blade, if you're gonna go - it's one heck of a way to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 01:21 AM
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Why do your emotions dictate your actions? Do you have no willpower?
/r/askMRP26/07/20 05:45 AM
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The marriage is great, she's still wanting to have sex even right when we got home. Mad little baby boy gets the bottie-wottie? Is this all you want out of your marriage? Sex? I mean, I get it but c'mon! How is it that sex is your only qualifier for a 'good marriage'. (I'm not suggesting this but) You could just marry a prostitute, at least then the transactional sex is above the table so you know exactly whose playing who. Your marriage isn't great, she undermines your (admittedly very beta) fr…
/r/askMRP26/07/20 05:42 AM
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Here ya go boys, anyone working with RC better be jumping on this.
/r/askRPC26/07/20 01:16 AM
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Looks like you spend some time in TRP, something the guys there do that doesn't translate well into MRP is this idea of "making her the chaser with textplay". In trp they heavily focus on being perceived as valuable. Being hard to get ahold of is an easy was to manufacture this. In MRP, the focus changes from the perception of value to the actualization of value. Women will want you, not because you've spent so much energy building the facade of value, but because you actually are a valuable man…
/r/askMRP25/07/20 05:01 PM
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Figure out what your plan for the day is, then if you want to invite her, do it. If you don't, then don't. If she comes, great. If she doesn't, great. You are doing what you want, regardless of her. Your next step is developing agency and your DNGAF attitude. If you're so worried that she'll think you're needy because you texted three times and she only texted twice, she has pulled you into her frame. If I want to text my wife 50 times today, I will. I don't want to because texting is boring; "H…
/r/askMRP25/07/20 04:28 PM
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I guess that comes down to what op actually did. Why would he move a fwb into dating status if he wasnt going to periodically speak with her.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 04:11 PM
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Or European.
/r/RPChristians25/07/20 04:06 PM
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Telling that you consider not texting for 5 days ignoring.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 04:02 PM
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Many people built their frame on lies. They even have extremely strong frames built on lies. Look at North Korea. They've persuaded everyone in their country that their leader is a god and the rest of the world is destitute compared to their glory. When I said 'foundational truth' I didn't mean THE TRUTH, the benevolent and holy Word of God. What I mean by foundational truth is "what do you believe at the very core of your person." To the N.Korea example, I would say that their foundational trut…
/r/RPChristians22/07/20 04:14 PM
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To me, frame is like this: Foundational Truth is the material you build your frame out of. If it is truth that collapses under the weight of heavy scrutiny your frame will be weak. The material is the #1 thing a newcomer needs to develope. Everything else is secondary at best. Without fundamental truth at the core . . . Well I think the play Hamilton says it very well - "If you don't stand for anything Burr, what will you fall for?" Your boundaries, and by proxy your enforcement of those boundar…
/r/RPChristians21/07/20 03:02 PM
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You got told by other fat women that you looked too skinny because crabs in a bucket can't stand others getting positive attention. At 5'6 140lbs you are definitely not edging on 'anorexic'.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 09:49 PM
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Pretty much. From the outside it almost seems like youre getting some kind of 'flagellating high' off saying "he deserves more than me." That kind of self denegration is not serving to your husband, and an unhealthy way to view marriage. The bride of Christ cannot tell him "go produce spiritual children with someone else because I'm not good enough."
/r/askRPC19/07/20 09:38 PM
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You're being defeatist. Quit. Continue being a good God serving wife, have attentive and intimate sex. Be a blessing to him, rather than a fearful Our mission as God's people is not to have sex. Though it is a perk. But trying to cuckqueen him out is just simply not scripturally accurate.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 08:33 PM
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Does God make promises in regards to your purpose? Yes. Strangely he doesn't focus too heavily on the money making part. You have lots of freedom here to do what not only makes you rich, but makes you happy. Go read my post on hobbies. Do you have any that make you money? Why not? Competency is expensive and people are willing to spend a lot of money for it. My going rate rn for training is $100.00/hr. And honestly I'm lowballing at this point. I could easily charge $160.00 - $180.00/session and…
/r/RPChristians18/07/20 01:31 PM
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Ahh, understood. It would appear to me the most foundational way to see the source would be to ask these questions: Does the incident give you insight that is inline with Scripture? If you feel fear, is it a God glorifying fear? Does it compell you to repent? Or does it instead drive you to hide and mistrust God? Is it causing you to question Biblical truth? Is it attempting to justify individual sin, or to make concession for individual sin? "God said it's okay for me to sleep with a married wo…
/r/RPChristians18/07/20 03:47 AM
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1) Repentance is an integral part of Deliverance. You cannot be full of both light, and darkness. A person who has not gone through repentance can still achieve being "delivered" but they will have gone through repentance by the time they are done. I can further clarify this if need be. I would equate it like this: Can a dollarless man be given a dollar? Yes, but then he is no longer dollarless. Furthermore he cannot be in superposition of being both dollarless and having a dollar. 1 John 1:5 - …
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 04:22 PM
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If anyone wants clarity on anything I said here, let me know and I can take a minute to reply to it.
/r/RPChristians16/07/20 08:36 PM
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Stats: Age 24 Height 6ft Wgt 178 BF est. 20% - 22% Married as of 10/26 Mission: I finally settled on a mission that makes sense with the blessings God has given me my entire life: With Christ at the core, to reach congruence throughout my character. And to use the clarity and sturdiness of a secure identity in my faith to point to Christ with my actions and words to those in need. Work Dog training has been very busy, I was working 13.00/14.00hr days between my 9-5 + training + drive time. I dec…
/r/RPChristians15/07/20 04:55 PM
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You haven't figured out a secret way to do what has already been done more effectively. And if you have, you're not suddenly smart enough to do it effectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 02:40 PM
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To answer your question "Is this the opportunity of a lifetime or a disaster waiting to happen?" The answer is yes. "Which one." Depends on you.
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 02:25 PM
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Here is an example of stats from the most recent oys: Basic info: 18 years old, 6'3", 170 lbs, 9% bf by Navy Method, and single. I think the inch I grew is mostly from improved posture, though I could’ve grown a bit.
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 07:17 PM
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The answers you get on the sin of porn from this sub likely will not align with the hyper importance you put on it. Also: Stats
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 06:36 PM
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Are you suggesting that sex out of wedlock is kosher?
/r/RPChristians12/07/20 03:12 PM
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-any sex between two unmarried people
/r/RPChristians12/07/20 03:11 PM
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I'm going to post after just reading the title because my hunch is the meat of your post is just as beta. "Hey, MRPers, can you help me lead my wife? What about decisions? Should I make those?" He who leads is he who lays, do you really want the guys here having input into how you're leading your wife? Because the step after that is getting cucked. Sounds to me like you haven't read WISNIFG yet. Get on it.
/r/askMRP11/07/20 06:29 PM
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Sad that the most you want from your life is "ok."
/r/askMRP10/07/20 01:57 PM
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Start the sidebar. (If you are using the RIF app, the i in the circle on the top right.) Until you begin that, any of the advice you get here is useless. Because without self starting YOU are useless.
/r/askMRP09/07/20 05:21 PM
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Humbleness =/= Self deprecation Humbleness =/= Low self confidence Humbleness, in part, is having a razor sharp understanding of your skills and recognizing them appropriately. If you are bad at something - don't think yourself great. And if you're great at something - don't think yourself bad. Be accurate in your analysis of self. Finally, just because you are great or are bad, neither impact your redeemability or the love God has for you. Or anyone else for that matter.
/r/askRPC09/07/20 01:24 PM
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I grew the most mentally through probably two ways. The first was through my Grandpa who groomed me to be the spiritual succesor of his best friend after he died of a brain infection because I showed the most immediate promise to satisfy that role despite being the youngest in my family. Ever been psychoanalyzed by a professional until you cried, then told your crying was a form of manipulation, not as a criticism, but merely as an observation? Makes your brain weird. Oh well. This has made me i…
/r/askRPC07/07/20 02:13 AM
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No need to ghost her or be overly obvious about your intentions. "Thank you for letting me know, I appreciate the honesty!" Then let the onus of setting up "Hanging out as friends" on her. Let the relationship fade if it fades. If she does message you, maybe you say yes to her invitation if it sounds fun, maybe you say no because you have something else to do. There isn't a reason to come off as shooting her invitation down though.
/r/askRPC06/07/20 04:24 PM
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For the sake of this thread, I won't recommend this as a majority of those who have internalized poverty mindsets fail at even investing $100.00. Despite the fact that I made rent for several months off bitcoin. Crypto is for people who have the luxury of loss. Lol.
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 01:33 PM
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"Adam gave Eve a bone, wanna live like they did in Genesis?" Thread is over boys I answered it.
/r/askRPC06/07/20 04:10 AM
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I haven't read a lot of the intercessory books in a minute and am not sure offhand I would be able to confidently recommend them with a clear conscious. Any passage that talks about authority structures on earth or in heaven are a good place to start. Maybe 1 John 5 off the bat to establish a starting vocabulary.
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 03:29 AM
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Crypto feels so volatile though, you think it's going to give stable turnout?
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 01:39 AM
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I would be interested in it. Spiritual intercession is something I've had to do now several times and there is a lot of really bad information about there and it'd be nice to address some of the misconceptions. How do the walk and talks work? This one of the ones you'd want recorded?
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 01:13 AM
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That first video is nearly two hours long. Pretty big time commitment when your trying to find just a few seconds of clippings. Just a little joke about it is all. Am quiet interested in this Val guy though.
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 01:02 AM
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I'm curious to have a conversation about this with you at some point, after the other 3 I want to have. ;)
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 12:59 AM
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See one 100 minute video and I started sweating pretty bad haha
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 12:57 AM
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You see Christ (Mark 5:8-9), his disciples (Acts 16:18), and people disconnected from their group (Luke 9:49) addressing demons and driving them out. They aren't conversing with them, and maybe it's a matter of semantics, but in order to drive them out the enemy had to be addressed. You may have misunderstood my post, I am definitely NOT suggesting to consort with them. But they do need to be acknowledged and addressed to remove them, because they can exist in the light of God. Satan does it in …
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 12:43 AM
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A lot of the stuff I've learned and put together has been influenced heavily by Ramsey.
/r/RPChristians05/07/20 11:34 PM
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Mmm. I wouldn't agree with this. Biblically speaking you do not see any of the apostles shy away from addressing the enemy or exising people that need them to help. It isn't spoken about a ton simply because the purpose of the gospels isn't about alleviating problems in this lifetime - but in creating a roadmap for growing spiritual offspring, glorifying God through Christ, and proving Christ was who he says he was.
/r/RPChristians05/07/20 06:09 PM
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Demonic intervention isn't something I necessarily speak super openly about as the poster below you discusses. Not that it needs to be done in the shadows, but that it gets peoples thoughts into a dark space that isnt conducive with growing spiritual maturity. My family has done intercessory stuff for atleast 4 generations so its not a taboo or fearful topic in my childhood home, but on the internet it's not a great place to openly talk about. How did it stop? For me I had to learn more about th…
/r/RPChristians05/07/20 05:56 PM
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Very tangential to this, but when I was younger (preteen to mid teens) I had a lot of episodes of very obvious demonic attacks. During that time I would experience very high levels of both fear, and because I was a teenage boy - arousal. If I PMO'd, the attack (anxiety, fear, sleeplessness, nightmares, more overt attacks I won't get into here.) would subside for a while. Want to talk about demons leading you into the lions den, negative reinforcement is one heck of a way to do it.
/r/RPChristians05/07/20 03:57 PM
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First off: POST YOUR STATS If you are asking us whether you should be in monk mode or not, stop. These are decisions you make on your own. Even better, start addressing your insecure character traits so that you don't get in a relationship then start asking us "should I take my gf on a date, or have her take me on a date." This is the most apparent beta behavior you have right now, and one that is more important to address then the smart dating decision you could make.
/r/askRPC04/07/20 02:27 AM
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So here's the crux, if you are looking for spiritual advice to improve your relationship with some girl the response from valuable RPC members will be pretty hard on you for your stupidity and pedistalization. If you are looking for advice on your relationship to improve your connection to the heart of Christ and for the sanctification of your soul those same members will pick apart your sin for the betterment of you. Either way, sex is the stumbling block you're facing. Celibacy is the answer r…
/r/RPChristians03/07/20 06:20 AM
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