TL;DR - Women's shelter implies that women are always the victim of DV, and I want to do something about that, but I'm not sure the most effective way.

So a local shelter is "for women with children who have experienced family violence." The shelter offers women's groups, individual counselling, child and youth care/programs and provides outreach/public education services.

On the "facts and links" page, they make statements that imply that women are always the victim of DV. I feel that many of links provided to external websites also frame the issue in this way.

So there are two things I'd like to do:

a) Verify that the outreach programs are not spreading misandry, and other myths about women always being the victims of DV, or that males are always the aggressors (and other such things that this subreddit knows about).

b) Find out about services open to men (either by a partner organization, or their organization in another location), and imply that there should be programs and services for men (because I suspect that they don't have any services for men).

But the potential problems are:

I've never done any sort of activism before, so I don't know the best ways to do this, or know what I'm getting myself into - legally or otherwise.

Based on the first impressions, my views - which are not extreme by any measure - (and probably just the fact that I am a male) will not be acceptable to them, to the point where my safety may be at risk.

So what are your thoughts? Should I leave well-enough alone, and find another way to address the issue (like writing to politicians), or should I engage with them head-on? Other options? I feel like any sort of engagement will be like striking a hornets nest, and I'm going to end up getting stung.