SMV up but can’t pull 7’s

LogicalWinner · 2018-07-09T03:20:43+00:00

Treat the 7's like they're 5's.

GhostYourself4IDo · 2018-07-09T02:20:01+00:00

Lift everyday does not equal fit/jacked/lean.

What is your game like? Personality?

Got a lot of friends?

It comes down to 3 simple things that people overly complicate; (1) Game (2)Status (3) Looks

Something is lacking. Think about it and fix it.

Chad1738 · 2018-07-09T05:40:58+00:00

Approach the hottest girls when you see them or when you go out. That’s the only way. You are pedestalizing these hotter women as if they were something special. They aren’t. Go after them, doesn’t matter, 7-9s, 10s don’t really exist imo. You are failing because you are desperate as if there was a lack of hot girls in this world, and because you are limiting yourself in your mind. If you have your shit together the only problem I see is that you aren’t approaching the hotties enough and are therefore not getting the results you want. Stop pussying around and approach the 7-9s...I always approach the hottest girls when i go out, sometimes the bf will come up behind me and I’m shocked to realized what simple guys they are, short, chubby, normal looking guys. So it irks me when guys on this subreddit make excuses as to why they aren’t getting what they want. Go and approach them. You have no legitamite excuse.

abudun79 · 2018-07-09T07:12:18+00:00

if it’s maybe my character or something I can change I’m willing to do anything here, getting kind of desperate.

Maybe the reason is somewhere along that attitude...

3d_truth · 2018-07-09T06:03:53+00:00

It has nothing to do with your looking your height, your money etc. It comes down to how you act. How alpha she thinks you are. Don't be the type of person who frets because he can't get 7s. By doing that you are coming from the beta paradigm and have already lost.

wifeisbiorgay · 2018-07-09T06:30:18+00:00

A more attractive attitude, body, and lifestyle is the key. You know that. That takes time. Keep working. If you don't like banging your plates than stop doing it and spend more time bettering yourself.

You are also putting more attractive women on a pedestal, which is poisoning your interaction with them. Do things to improve your self-esteem so you are not so validation-seeking.

For what it's worth, in terms of quick fixes, get stylish new clothes and a fresh, expensive haircut. You can do that in a day and it can make a huge difference.

wobbleelbbow · 2018-07-09T08:19:38+00:00

Desperation. Aim higher. Above and beyond.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-07-09T12:15:39+00:00

If you’re getting a hard stop at 7’s then it’s all game/frame. You are sabotaging yourself. If you act the same for all women then you should have something like 6-6-7-5-9-8-6-7 etc. women have different preferences, so there are definitely 7-8s that like your looks but you’re fucking it up because you feel you’re not worthy and put them on the pedestal.

Like u/logicalwinner said :treat 7’s like they’re 5’s. It perfectly sums up how to fix it.

master_beta89 · 2018-07-09T12:16:23+00:00

Hmmm...is this post about self-improvement or how do I get validation from sleeping with a girl that is a 7?

“7”

Work on yourself. A “7” is not the goal here. You’ve strayed. Get back on track.

[deleted] · 2018-07-09T05:48:21+00:00

Please be brutally fucking honest

It's your height.

Nothing you can do about it just the cards you've been dealt. You're going to have to compensate for this by having unbreakable frame. You're also going to have to work on cold approaching. Girls won't be throwing their pussy at you sub 6'0".

whoareyou31 · 2018-07-09T05:57:07+00:00

How old are you? And can you give pictures to reference this scale you're using to rate women.

Casd12 · 2018-07-09T21:28:48+00:00

Is your abs visible? Tryout some new clothing. I also think you're making this way too big of a deal which is negatively impacting your performance.

Bhunnah · 2018-07-09T12:45:09+00:00

I’m currently in S. Korea, young girls: 55% (out of a 100%) are 7’s and above, 35% are 8’s and above, and 15% are 9’s and above. Even biker girl 9’s auto-reject me because I’m good looking and aloof. Red pillers don’t realize girls set the bar remarkably low in terms of looks. So many of Korean guys are not pushovers and are moderately alpha (80% of them have girlfriends.) also I find the good looking ones are almost always single.

Abundance + outcome independence

cl3537 · 2018-07-09T03:44:19+00:00

You are 5'8 and only make 125k/year. What status do you have?

How many 7s have you been rejected by? In what context?

Title	SMV up but can’t pull 7’s
Author	voxiqs
Upvotes	9
Comments	32
Date	July 9, 2018 2:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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