Girl might be bringing her friend along on our date

DadOnDabs · 2018-07-16T16:37:51+00:00

ask her, has she always needed a chaperone? Whether she says yes or no, tell her you're not looking for someone to babysit.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-07-16T16:40:56+00:00

"Only bring a friend if you want a threesome."

Filmguy000 · 2018-07-16T16:14:53+00:00

Tread lightly. If you don't feel like hiking then don't go. If you do go with her, just realize she is taking her friend for safety/cock block and/or approval of you. Which bear in mind is not ideal for a first date as you already seem to know. So if you do go and its a fun time, make it clear that the next time it will just be you two.

FeralRed · 2018-07-16T19:17:22+00:00

Don't agree to get cockblocked out of the gate.

Cancel. You forgot you had other plans. Set up another time.... thursday. 9am. Just you and me. Mike's lake trailhead.

She'll get the picture.

Musicgoon · 2018-07-16T17:02:59+00:00

"2 of you huh? This day just gets better".

If your game is tight, game them both. If not, just cancel.

boy_named_su · 2018-07-16T16:12:04+00:00

If I wanted to murder someone, I'd definitely suggest a hike...

She's probably feeling a little unsafe, so wants to bring a friend. Don't suggest first date hikes in the future

All_fixed_again · 2018-07-16T19:23:03+00:00

If you feel like hiking then go hiking.

If you do go hiking, give her friend more attention than you give her...get her number after the hike because she is so cool and you should definitely hang out

Then sit back and watch her hamster go into overdrive the next few days. She will be hitting you up shortly after...

-Mavs · 2018-07-17T00:17:35+00:00

Here's the fucking truth:

Girls who want your dick want you to rape them, not take them on hikes with their best friend Bertha.

Elitevaz · 2018-07-16T16:45:43+00:00

Not paying her much attention and flirting with the friend sounds fun to me.

ardu- · 2018-07-16T16:03:28+00:00

You should have completely ignored it

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2018-07-16T16:37:31+00:00

She's putting up a roadblock. She might be hoping it'll dissuade you enough to call it off. If she flakes on you tomorrow know that this is exactly what she was doing. Otherwise go through with it if you want but the hiking isn't the only thing that's going to be uphill.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-07-16T16:38:30+00:00

Hiking is for LTR's bro, dont go taking random chicks on hikes.

[deleted] · 2018-07-16T16:51:26+00:00

Act as you normally would. If the friend is hot game her as well, be low key about it though.

Ask her a lot of questions about herself and project your value. Win the friend, win the day.

If you show interest in the friend the “date” will naturally compete for your attention and validation.

[deleted] · 2018-07-16T16:18:29+00:00

Threesome or no date

resnine · 2018-07-16T16:32:04+00:00

Yeah I've read about this "move" before on here. This isn't a real date. She is trying to betatize you. Escalation is more difficult with a friend. Also friend might a dude. I wouldn't be happy with this situation. But there isn't much you can do. If you say "No friend" it will make you look creepy and she'll be turned-off, but if you say "Yes that's fine", then you'll be stuck having not a date but like a group meet-up.

Cloudsurf89 · 2018-07-17T00:06:45+00:00

"Tell your carer not to worry - I'll have you in bed by 8:30"

friendandadvisor · 2018-07-17T03:15:56+00:00

I'd cancel.

She didn't ask if her friend could come along, she told you. This means "If you want to fuck, call your mother."

TRPKiddo · 2018-07-17T04:40:45+00:00

Next. She doesn't want to be with you.

Title	Girl might be bringing her friend along on our date
Author	ShineLOL
Upvotes	5
Comments	31
Date	July 16, 2018 3:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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