Shit test becoming boring

boy_named_su · 2018-07-20T15:06:25+00:00

You've freed your mind like Neo. There is no poon

AlexDD2 · 2018-07-20T14:54:37+00:00

Can you find enjoyment in the process of ignoring her shit test? I personally do. Her voice becomes background noise. Then I focus on something physical and I look amused. Most of the time, she won't even notice that I'm not listening :-D

JordanRedfort · 2018-07-20T10:34:55+00:00

Unfortunately, we live in a world where attractive women who can have good conversations are far and few between. There are unattractive women who have good conversations (to compensate for their lacklustre looks) and attractive women who have boring conversations (because their body does all the talking).

Attractive women who are interesting aren’t the types of girls you’ll meet at nightclubs. If you’re in college, join clubs and societies to get exposure to these hotties. They’ll usually be passionate about a few things, well-educated since they’re at college and know how to party, well, because they’re at college.

If you’re out of college, you’ll have to look a bit harder. I’ve picked up girls on public transport, at music festivals, at shopping centres, at the beach, at parks and at cafes and restaurants. These girls are less likely to shit test you during the day because you’re just a fun and cool guy who’s made their days just a bit more interesting. Adding them on social media or getting their phone numbers at the end of the conversation has a very high success rate. You’re much less likely to get shit tested during the day than at night from my experience.

mabden · 2018-07-20T18:31:27+00:00

> I usually agree and amplify shit test ... I just ignore them all.

Ok

> 'I want to have a good and fun conversation and not waste time on bs

Lead the conversation. If they can't keep up, then bail or bounce them to another location and escalate to fuck.

> Does it harm your game habing this mentality and ignoring shit test?

you tell us, what is your hit rate on ignoring?

[deleted] · 2018-07-20T11:08:55+00:00

Being unphased is one of the ways of getting through shit tests. Good for you.

Ruby_Red_Pill_Maker · 2018-07-20T14:20:37+00:00

My XP: I used to AA all the fucking time, and used it too much. As time passes I find that AA takes a whole level of energy that I just don't have anymore. Typically AA is good for initial contact. After this, it doesn't appear to work as effectively.

Amused mastery and/or dead stare gets much more mileage (bang for buck) energy wise. Reactions that are low energy and emphasize non-verbal communication work much better and makes your words more valuable.

When it is a super shitty shit test, one word answers are boss. Things like "No", "Stop that", and "That was rude" with drawn out silence are hamster overdrive engaging. While stuff that leaks more into the pressure flip "apologize for that", "you answer", or my personal favorite "such hate!" all tend to be hamster warp drive fuel.

Typically RP beginners learn AA and forget the rest of the shit test reactions. The other tactics are much more effective, and take less effort.

That being said a dead stare with no reaction is the best advice for a beginner that I can think of.

edit: forgot to mention fogging that only works if you've known her for a while.

cholomite · 2018-07-20T14:29:16+00:00

Shit tests are flirtation and foreplay. They wouldn't be so boring if you knew how to use them to escalate and get results.

CalvinRichland · 2018-07-20T15:42:34+00:00

I won't spend eneegy on never ending shit test girls. Some do it to a level you have to be such an asshole to pass. Mostly they are hot and often times have a wealthy family. They have had guys giving them everything they want since puberty. They have so many orbiters its like the rings of Saturn.

If looks are the only factor you consider and you meet girls where dumb bitches congregate this is an expected result.

poochman · 2018-07-20T16:01:58+00:00

You need more Amused Mastery.

Chad1738 · 2018-07-20T16:22:02+00:00

It happens man, but they won’t stop, you just have to learn to pick and choose your fights. Be more selective of the women you talk to. Depending on the level of attractiveness/quality that a girl possesses is the level that I’ll tolerate based of my own smv (very high) I won’t tolerate much if any from lower quality girls, but similar or higher than mine I’ll let them get away with more. Shit test will always be there, part of the female psychology, just make sure you are getting a good return for your time.

redvelvet_oreo · 2018-07-20T21:24:50+00:00

I agree most these girls are stupid now at days. Not only do they sound like 4th graders who need supplemental learning but what urks me the most is a womans idea of having fun is taking pictures and the amount of time they take to get a perfect picture. Its so fake and annoying. Ruins everything about a picture and capturing a moment. Sometimes modern day female behavior makes it more clear to me why women need men to lead now more then ever.

I would say check your self also. Sometimes you trap your mind in logic and everything starts to annoy or urk you or seem uninteresting because its not logical. I notice this happens to me when I work to much, overstudy, or am on TRP to much also.

When you go out try to separate your self from your logical mind space. You find your self having more fun and the things that once annoyed your just amuses you.

TehJimmyy · 2018-07-20T12:21:50+00:00

Seems to me you talking to the stupid ones.

cptgoatsack · 2018-07-20T13:37:43+00:00

Yeah it gets annoying. Sometimes the best thing is to take a break from women for a bit.

morescoobysnacks · 2018-07-20T11:08:09+00:00

You can just ignore them. Amplifying doesn't do any better than ignoring.

Title	Shit test becoming boring
Author	Hellsteelz
Upvotes	25
Comments	26
Date	July 20, 2018 10:12 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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