Misandry by faux-mra Ozymandias on her faux-masculism site

Demonspawn · 2011-08-17T19:14:03+00:00

I think the best comment (and ultimate dismissal of the entire idea) is:

What the fuck is up with most of these comments? You shouldn’t be offended… Please just have respect for other people, no matter their gender.

This comment is the whole “Schredinger’s Rapist” thing in a nutshell: feminists demanding men treat womens feelings and reactions as absolute, while simultaneously telling us what feelings and reactions we’re permitted to have. I will not take lectures on respect from others from people who demand it but don’t show it.

girlwriteswhat · 2011-08-18T03:17:59+00:00

Yeah. Just wow. From my blog, where I rewrote part of her "advice":

That Thug makes up only a tiny percentage of black people. However, he has poisoned the well for everyone else.

I think a lot of black people underestimate the fear most white people have around violent crime. For instance, I have lots of black friends. However, I would never associate with with a black person whom a friend, or a friend of a friend, didn’t vouch for, because they might assault, rob and murder me. On a rational level, I know the chance of me getting beaten up because I talked to a black person at the bus stop is about as likely as me getting hit by lightning. However, on the emotional level, my brain associates “being around black people I don’t know” with “getting assaulted.”

In other words, "Please understand that I'm bigoted against people like you, simply because of your biology and my own inability to judge people as individuals, understand that I have cause to be this way, and you're just going to have to accept the fact that this is YOUR problem, not mine. I acknowledge that my fears are essentially groundless, since I know, as I stated in my first paragraph, that other groups of people commit crimes, and only a small percentage of people in your group commit crimes, but it is up to YOU to prove to ME that you are not a criminal before I will treat you as a human being worthy of interaction with me."

Eogan · 2011-08-17T16:37:13+00:00

Link?

thetrollking · 2011-08-18T00:40:05+00:00

I like how in the post she claims she wouldn't have sexual relations with anybody that wasn't vouched for by a friend or a friend of a friend.

This is called social proof guys. I noticed this long before I ever read about it on PUA blogs and it is true. This is just one behavior that women have that men don't have and it is do to the herd mentality of women. Women are more group oriented.

mellowgreen · 2011-08-17T17:02:38+00:00

These are the people that are setting up /r/masculism ...

2011-08-17T16:56:47+00:00

link

So she writes "That means you have to distinguish yourself from those people. The feminists are trying to give you pickup advice here! If a woman is suspicious that you’re going to rape her, she is not going to want to sleep with you."

Does this really need saying? Respect boundries, I get it, but are people who would actually rape a women be reading this in the first place?

But boundries go both ways. Stalkers come in both male and female flavors, and personally I've had experince with two women in my prior dating life who I would consider participated in stalker like activities, in fact most guys I know have had at least one. And so she asks us to develop our own new fear of women?? "In fact, men should also develop their own gifts of fear. True, very few men have to deal with street harassment, but abuse and rape are not female-only things, and That Assholes often come in female guise."

Fear grows into anger, anger into hate. So our culture teaches women to fear men? Being vigilante, skeptical and cautious I get.....but fear?

ManThoughts · 2011-08-17T18:57:31+00:00

I'm getting so sick of this shit. This comes down to another example of Feminism refusing to have a rational conversation about rape. Nobody deserves to be raped, but that doesn't mean it's not possible to manage risk. Women are the ones who reject nice guys and chase thugs. Women are the ones who label gentlemen "boring" and get the wet squishies for psychos. They even admit "most rapes occur with someone she knows." But god forbid anyone suggest she evaluate her associates better. If you lie down with dogs, you're bound to wake up with fleas eventually.

Title	Misandry by faux-mra Ozymandias on her faux-masculism site
Author	Eogan
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	August 17, 2011 4:23 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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