Straight woman once had a lesbian encounter? Hot! Straight man once had a gay encounter? Too much baggage!

Gemini4t · 2011-03-05T00:52:21+00:00

Point of interest 1: one woman told another before the show that his secret was big enough to make him unpickable. WTF?

Point of interest 2: another woman thought that he would find her attractive based on her cleaning, interior designer skills and her ability to bake food. I'm not that shallow, and I don't know any man who feels that love is based on baking skills and being able to sweep. As a male, that kind of hurt.

Point of interest 3: a different woman considered herself a good partner because she was into sports and drinks beer. Honestly, that's a pretty bold male stereotype as well.

Point of interest 4: Before a commercial break when there were two remaining women, Jerry reiterated the three potential secrets the man had to share. When it came to the gay secret the woman who would later not be picked had her mouth wide open in a disgusted manner. Does this really mean that both finalists are disgusted by male sexuality?

After the secret, he asks "Can I at least defend myself?" and her response to it is "NO!" Ouch...

What the hell is wrong with that woman? She says she has a lot of gay friends and that's why she's against Steve, but that's suspect, because she wasn't even willing to accept him even after stating that it happened one time 20 years prior. So wtf?

If her 'gay friends' are indeed real, they wont be her friends much longer if that's how homophobic she is.

dregle · 2011-03-05T00:40:24+00:00

Now hold on, I think its hot. (Straight female) Also I know a looot of other women who think that way too.

meninist · 2011-03-04T22:37:06+00:00

The worst part is, she said that she said this was worse than being a former polygamist or having a tattoo of his ex-wife.

rantgrrl · 2011-03-05T01:56:20+00:00

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DomesticApe · 2011-03-05T03:48:43+00:00

More to the point than any of these, however, is a widespread revulsion, found in both genders, all times and all places and cultures, towards the man who plays the part of a woman. There is a fundamental human contempt towards a man who permits himself to be penetrated — sufficiently fundamental, I should have thought, to deserve a place in anthropologist Donald E. Brown's list of "human universals" along with fear of snakes, envy, love of gossip and so on. The Anatomy of Disgust again: "Even those penetrations consented to and not forced lower the status of the person so penetrated … The penetrator is engaging in an act of domination, desecration and humiliation of another …" As soon as you start to dig into the literature on homosexuality and attitudes towards it, this fact pops up all over the place.

http://www.johnderbyshire.com/Opinions/Culture/disgusting.html

SenorSpicyBeans · 2011-03-05T06:54:07+00:00

Being offended by gay people is one thing. It's not acceptable at all, BUT....

....how is being gay SO reprehensible that it even trumps (possible behind-the-back) polygamy? lolwut?

Seriously, the "sex with a man" thing was past-tense. I had sex with a man. NOT, I have sex with men.

But if he married two women at once? Assuming he's not Mormon, that means he's willing and able to not only cheat on you, but to take it to such an extreme level that he'll have an entire other life outside of you.

Then again, she made her assumption that "because he's a man, he's going to cheat" clear already when she said her "girlfriends [were] already competition".

And we all know how lewd and promiscuous those gays are. They can't help but to give in to every single urge they ever have. Right? RIGHT?

If these were real people and not paid actors (which is a stretch), dude seriously dodged a bullet.

BinaryShadow · 2011-03-05T03:46:16+00:00

There's a reason that the majority of positive stories about gay marriage seem to show lesbians and when it's viewed in a negative light it shows gay men.

assomass · 2011-03-05T03:46:25+00:00

This is such a fake and distasteful show. Who can buy a guy whose problem is a one-time silly sex he had in college, presenting it on tv?

alanpugh · 2011-03-05T06:23:23+00:00

I personally find it hot to consider a straight woman being seduced by a lesbian. My girlfriend personally finds it repulsive to consider a straight man being seduced by a gay man.

That isn't homophobia, that's a difference in personal sexual interests. This isn't a MR issue, this is trying to force someone to find something sexually attractive or within their sexual limitations, which isn't going to happen.

2011-03-06T00:18:26+00:00

I don't think it's necessarily "bigotry." She's not saying he shouldn't be legally allowed to have had the gay encounter... simply that it's a turn-off, which is out of her control.

logJamUrethra · 2011-03-05T01:35:59+00:00

Who gives a shit you whiny fuck? Get a life.

Title	Straight woman once had a lesbian encounter? Hot! Straight man once had a gay encounter? Too much baggage!
Author	meninist
Upvotes	48
Comments	64
Date	March 4, 2011 10:33 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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