Toronto Cop in Hot Water for Trying to Speak the Truth About Rape

inkathebadger · 2011-02-18T15:02:27+00:00

Soooo choir boys just happen to look too damn sexy in their long robes? Let's face it, rapists will rape whoever they want to rape, it don't matter if you dress in a burqa or in a bikini. Blaming a victim is not the way to go.

Foop · 2011-02-18T15:30:13+00:00

Yes, and when you get jumped and beat up in the streets, it is your fault for walking around looking so weak.

CremasterGuy · 2011-02-18T15:23:42+00:00

"NCVS data reveal that rape victims tend to be young and that rapists prefer younger, presumably more attractive victims.”

That's a very large presumption. I can presume a lot of things too, but generally we require evidence, not presumption alone, in order to show facts to be true.

". . . the correlation between age distribution of rape victims and the age of peak female sexual attractiveness is powerful evidence" of a sexual motivation for rape.

Correlation does not equal causation, no matter how much some folks would like it to.

There is absolutely nothing in this article that gives any evidence that rape victims are, as a group, more attractive than the general population.

~~Unrelated to my other comments, that cop is a pig.~~

Edit: struck through my comment about the cop. It was not helpful to the conversation and served to detract from the primary message of my comment. Sorry if I offended anyone.

thetrollking · 2011-02-18T16:29:26+00:00

Looking at feminist responses you would almost be tempted to think these ugly women are jealous of the sexual attention rapists pay to women....

I actually think there is validity to both points of view. I saw a article awhile back about a 70 something grandma being raped by a 18 year old thug....not is not sexual attraction.

Infact if you look at some criminology studies you see that rapists are often abuse victims acting out their abuse. I remember one I read where they took guys who admitted to committing horrible forced and violent rapes, even bragged about it, and were imprisoned. The study found that something like 70-ish% had been abused and raped as a child, often times in juvenile facilities by female staff and guards.

I have said it before and will again. Misandry creates misogyny. Men aren't born hating women or wanting to harm or rape them. We are born loving women. Women, however, seem to be born despising males. One link posted here awhile back showed that by 3rd grade girls thought boys were stupid and despised them. I think this has to do with female hypergamy and them despising anything seen below them.

Now on the sexual side of the rape coin, it is obvious to me that most date-rapes are not about power but about girls getting drunk and horny boys being drunk and the girl feeliing bad about it. Just look at the 2x post I posted earlier about rape. Most of the stories were about girls submitting and not saying no but not saying yes while the guys were horny...not all mind you.

There are actually a lot of autistic and disabled boys in prison for rape and how can you make the claim that a boy with the mental capacity of a 5 yr old is doing it out of dominance and patriarchal oppression?

There are all sorts of fucked up stories about castrating or medicating boys with mental disorders to stop them from doing things like rape and sexual assault or public masturbation and so on.

One thing to consider is that we are routine based creatures. People often re act out their first sexual experiences and there is good reason for this. Consider muscle memory and how it can reshape the brain circuitry. I think someting similiar happens with our first handful of sexual experiences.

I don't know how many girls I have been with that said something like, "well, my boyfriend would always get me off like x." found it somewhat insulting but if you think about it she only knew one way to get off because she didn't have much experience and had already associated certain actions with pleasure. I have heard it said that you have to practice something like 10x more than the number of times it took you to make that something a habit.

But look, I have met a guy or two who thought it natural to get someone passed out drunk to have sex with and I found out that he thought it was natural because the first five sex partners he had had from 11-16 had done it to him...this was a poor trailer trash dude I worked stock with....just think about that for a moment. He said, no bragged, about losing his virginity at 11 after a baby sitter had gotten him drunk and said he didn't really remember it. Then a older woman did he same and the same and at 25 he is bragging to my 18 yr old self about how to really get pussy. Maybe he was lying but when me and a few other guys corrected him, and he through out the men can't be raped canard, he was visibly pissed and I seriously wondered if I had just escalated this guy to a real predator like mentality; taking his rage out on women instead of his sexual desire.

ConfirmedCynic · 2011-02-18T17:03:55+00:00

Feminism in full flight. Demanding to do whatever they want, no matter how stupid, and not have any consequences.

Do I think a woman that has dressed to provoke and reveal as much as possible deserves to be raped? No.

Do I think she's an idiot for putting herself, by her own choices, into a situation where rape is an increased possibility? Yes. That's not blaming the victim, it's just common sense, something modern feminism seems increasingly short of.

Title	Toronto Cop in Hot Water for Trying to Speak the Truth About Rape
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Date	February 18, 2011 1:54 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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