Here's the companion piece to the one on women's forums advising men 'How not to rape someone'. It's a guide for women called 'How to know if you were raped'.

fishwish · 2010-10-10T17:45:36+00:00

Lovely. I think we should start an education program called "Women Can STOP Fake Rape." It's all about redefining femininity as being someone who doesn't make false rape allegations.

(If anyone does not get my outrageous joke, take a look at this and see how much of a joke it isn't. http://www.mencanstoprape.org/ )

thetrollking · 2010-10-10T18:32:56+00:00

Ahahahahaha....this is great. What's bad is that I have seen all of these as excuses given by women.

2010-10-10T17:20:18+00:00

do you have a link to the "how not to rape someone" piece?

samarye · 2010-10-10T20:03:34+00:00

The "How not to rape people" guide is misandrous and disgusting, and it doesn't even cover many of the ways men can "rape," let alone women (e.g., statutory rape). The list of reasons women give for falsifying rape claims turns my stomach.

This guide is also flawed. I believe your point is that, despite actually having been used as 'justifications' for making false rape allegations, none of the items on your list is sufficient to mean that rape has happened. That's true, and it's good and useful to raise awareness. However, none of them is sufficient to show that rape hasn't happened, either, so the "That's NOT rape" after most is invalid. Number 15 is a good example that doesn't have this flaw.

Some could be easily revised to take away the ambiguity: "Did your parents find out you had consensual sex and ground you? That's NOT rape."

Edit: I'd be happy to discuss this comment. Please feel free to leave a response with your vote.

samarye · 2010-10-10T19:34:21+00:00

Is he famous or rich? That's NOT rape.

so famous/rich people never rape other people? Damn I coulda sworn there was this one director who drugged a 13 year old girl and had anal sex with her. Gosh, I must be wrong.

ninjin_ninja · 2010-10-10T20:17:53+00:00

People will always find new ways to be stupid. The best way to avoid getting mixed up with it is to avoid the stupid people.

It's just too bad that its not always an option.

esulcer · 2010-10-10T19:49:51+00:00

The misandrist hit piece is commented upon in 2xhere
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/dovy5/how_not_to_rape_people_repost_from_rmelbourne/

The rad-fems just love beating that old wornout raype drum

The under reporting fiction is their best weapon
an unprovable negative imaginary 'fact'

Women are short on logic and long on emotion/entitlement

Godspiral · 2010-10-11T02:50:31+00:00

The main point in educating women on not being raped is to say "get the fuck off me" and "I want to leave". Most men don't want to rape you, and there is never a reason to imagine it will be worse if you make those statements. The advice will save you from imagining being raped. Instead of feminist claims that everything is rape, which lets you imagine and interpret rape as most convenient for you, feminists should be teaching women to avoid rape with this simple method, or at least help clarify rape has occurred for women's own conscience and peace of mind if it does occur.

2010-10-11T20:07:49+00:00

Did you plan to drink and have sex and said yes? That's NOT rape.

If you're drunk, you can't consent to that specific person, and general "I wanted to get drunk and have sex" consent doesn't work. It is rape.

Did you find out he has a girlfriend or wife? That's NOT rape.

It can be rape by fraud.

The other ones aren't rape, I agree.

But, the fact that some woman out there have falsely accused a man doesn't make it at all common. You're assuming that women frequently bring false accusations, but there's conflicting evidence to that end. I, honestly, don't believe the Potiphar's Wife narrative is true.

Title	Here's the companion piece to the one on women's forums advising men 'How not to rape someone'. It's a guide for women called 'How to know if you were raped'.
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Date	October 10, 2010 2:35 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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