Lovebombing is a facade ego boost because the men try to prove that they are needed and desirable.

They try to prove this to the women who rejected them and have been living rent-free on their head, these women were no longer existed in their lives because they were no longer in contact with them. It was like these men were making up all of the reactions and scenarios about the women who rejected them when they get to lovebomb a woman.

Lovebombing is a starting point and one of the root for causing abusive relationships.

There is no love in lovebombing because it's all about power in controlling the woman's feelings towards the men. There is no respect in lovebombing because it's all about crossing any boundaries the women have, these men try to cut everything short until the women no longer have any choices but to fall for them.

These men love the idea of women falling for them, but they also hate the women for falling into their lovebombing tactics. These are also the same men who hate the women for leaving their abusive stances, hence the cycle continues as the women who leave will live rent-free on their heads.

Please don't hate yourself if you ever get lovebombed. Lovebombing can be so subtle and normalized. Maybe you got lovebombed when you weren't equipped with the knowledge about it nor you were on the best version of yourself. I have to fall twice before I understand and realized just how the lovebombing worked.