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Men Suffer From Body Dysmorphia As Much As Women, Receive Less Support - Woke Father

Oncefa2

May 22, 2021
236 upvotes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
https://www.wokefather.com/body/men-suffer-from-body-dysmorphia-as-much-as-women-receive-less-support/
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Title Men Suffer From Body Dysmorphia As Much As Women, Receive Less Support - Woke Father
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Oncefa2

Upvotes 236
Comments 13
Date May 22, 2021 6:02 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/niob8b/men_suffer_from_body_dysmorphia_as_much_as_women/
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[–]Oncefa2left-wing male advocate[S] 63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Research about this actually goes back pretty far. And if you stop to think about it, it is pretty obvious. What people don't usually realize is that body standards for men and women are different, so men and women go about reaching those standards differently.

Instead of going on diets or, in extreme cases, becoming bulimic or anorexic, men lift weights and "bulk up". Or in extreme cases they resort to steroid use, or even height augmentation surgeries.

And all those Hollywood movie stars? Most of the men are supermodels, just like the women. There's very little difference in the pressures that men feel compared to women. And the rate that men suffer from body image issues is actually just as high, if not higher, than it is for women.

However there is very little acknowledgement of this. So a lot of men are left to fend for themselves. Men receive much less help and support and there is much less body positivity for them and things like that. As a society we still scorn and shame men who suffer from these problems, while simultaneously denying that it is a widespread issue.

Men just choose hide it. Because they don't want to be attacked or called an incel for "coming out".

A pattern which you can find for quite a few things. Including many things that are traditionally seen as "women's issues".

[+]NjalUlf43 points 5 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

I remember when there was this huge controversy over these ads saying "Are you beach body ready" in the UK a few years ago. It was all centered around how the woman was supermodel hot and had an "unobtainable" body shape, fitness level, etc. it was body shaming, and misogynistic. The government actually stepped in and took all of the ads featuring that woman down.

You know what nobody mentioned or even seemed to care about? Ads for the same product existed while that ad existed, only appealing to men and had a supermodel body builder type guy in it instead of the woman. Even after the government stepped in and took the one of the woman down, the one with the guy stayed up and still nobody complained or thought for one second that there might be a double standard or bit of hypocrisy going on.

https://i0.wp.com/therationalmale.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/protein\_world\_3.jpg?ssl=1

[–]Kingreaper 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

The link doesn't work - you're probably seeing it because you have it cached.

[+]NjalUlf12 points 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh darn sorry, if you just look up "Protein world, male and female ad" in google images you should eventually come across the comparison or see both ads separately

I actually just found a link to an article via google images that compares the two. I have not read this article, but it seems to basically be addressing similar sentiments about the double standards from the little I skimmed just now. Scroll down a bit and you will see a picture with yellow background. One female, one male. One saying sexist, the other saying Not sexist. Those are the ads I was talking about.

https://therationalmale.com/2015/04/27/obesity-culture/comment-page-2/

[–]Kingreaper 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, yeah, I remember that campaign - and the reaction was definitely unjustifiedly one-sided.

Reading through that blog post it honestly makes me cringe at the way the author thinks of women though "Women’s innate solipsism" stands out as a... worrying statement.

So while it's a good source for the image, not the best source for discussion :p

[–]sno_cone_thehomeloan 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The government took the ads down? wtf, UK?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep in mind, this is the same country that arrests people for offensive social media content.

[–]throwawayincelacc 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For years the joke was that when a woman found a guy "creepy" it was just because he wasn't hot enough for her. That is to say, that society being incredibly superficial, there's no reason to believe men wouldn't face the same pressures to have a supermodel body.

And I would even go as far to say that meeting the beauty standard for men is more difficult than for women given that it's socially acceptable to wear makeup for women (cover flaws in skin) as well as simply eating less is far less time consuming and costly than needing to bulk up and be well toned throughout.

[–]Anonymous2401 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Interesting you mention the Hollywood star supermodels. Just look up their dehydration diets for shirtless scenes, and you'll see both how dangerous their precident is and how sexist the industry is.

[–]sakura_drop 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This doesn't count, you see, because Jack Black and Seth Rogen have successful careers.

This is an actual argument I've seen in regards to the entertainment industry, on more than one occasion.

[–]ScottFreestheway2B 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The high school I went to was famous for its wrestling program and I heard some many stories of guys who developed bulimia from the focus on weight classes.

[–]TheRabbitTunnel 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is more common than you'd think. Its just that nobody gives a shit about men.

[–]superzepto 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Body dysmorphia is hell. If you don't have it, be glad that you don't.

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