I feel like I have a pretty good sex life with my husband. It is nothing over the top or theatrical but it is good. I am turned on by what turns him on and I know he looks up strippers and lap dances when I am away. At first I was annoyed because I would have sex with him the night before and he would still find the need to look it up. What annoyed me about this was that it is pretty rare that he needs sex two nights in a row...I could go every night I'm pretty sure. So to summarize...He doesn't need sex two nights in a row but if we have sex and I go away the next night or even the same day there is YouTube strippers/lapdance videos involved in his solo evening. I figured I would try and figure out what it is he desires so, since I know it is strippers, I mentioned about taking a pole dancing class because I think it would be fun and enjoyable for the both of us. He told me that I am perfectly sexy to him and that he does not need or want me to do that for him. Naturally I feel offended because I feel like if he's looking up, not porn (like I and most people do), but girls on youTube shaking their asses and dancing on a pole then that is what would turn him on. But it sounds like this is something I cannot satisfy for him. Why?