Ive been trying to get into feminism lately as a man... and it seems kind of impossible.

Here on reddit I get constantly told im "sexist" and thats why im lonely and so on.

Ive been on a few feminist communities and try to have genuine discussion, yesterday I got into it over a post about porn. I expressed how ive on one hand had women tell me their ability to do porn is empowering, and on the other porn itself is sexist and objectifying. I told them im very confused about that.

"scrote. women dont owe you anything!" like.... ok.

"oh youre stalking my profile downvoting my comments now!"

"yeah this scrote is following me downvoting my comments!!!!!!!"

I swear I wasnt lol, other women start joining in.... "your post history explains why youre single, and just for funsies BLOCKED !!!!! HAHA!"

then they say "We just want men to leave us alone!"

I just really dont get it, my comment wasnt directed at anyone particular it was just a question, oh yeah the post was also crossposted from a sub that dehumanizes men "femaledatingstrategy" they said its ok to dehumanize men because men think women "owe them sex" i dont think ive ever in my life said women owe me sex lol.

Also, ive heard the "we just want men to leave us alone" thing pretty often, so I assumed maybe women are just asexual, well.... I got shamed for that to! cause its sexist apparently to think they dont like men, when they keep saying they dont want men around...

So I started feeling guilty for being attracted to women, which they said I should feel guilty. That women dont want me around and so on... but idk; its starting to seem women that into feminism just hate men.

Its just like how they complain about mens rights just being about hating women, they use the excuse "well patriarchy" and that men oppress them, and if you point out oppression of men its "made up".

idk, just something I noticed.