Tldr: we shame male virgins like we shame women who sleep around a lot, and with the rate of men not getting laid now a days it's causing the incel crisis.

So I'm very new here and I'm not sure how to phrase this and all but men are Virgin shamed as much as woman are slut shamed.

So I'm 18 and I was so fucked up by the same and emptiness of being virgin, like sex was massive and huge part of my personality even though I was virgin. And long story short when I finally lost it a month ago I felt so lied to and betrayed by everyone who said is was so special and to have so much pressure put on me because of it . Turns out it's cause of my ADHD and the fact I have low sexual satisfaction and fun fact I tracked it and I went through the five stages of grief over losing my v card

Now that's funny looking back on it but it taught me so much about myself and my culture taught me to look at myself. Like I believed my worth was zero cause my body count was zero , it ruined my friendships because how jealous I was over my friends getting partners.

I think this feeling is the rout of the incel epidemic, they're invisible and believe they're worthless and because they are men some of them lash out because as a whole we are not taught to do anything else

And with all the men loosing direction from the left tearing down what it is to be a man and not providing an alternative men get lost, they don't know what to do but regress and try to find the the communities that accept them and the incels hate men and themselves but they'll take anyone into the fold