If a guy told you that he is not close to his family, would you consider it a red flag.

I’ll give some background info on myself. I have realized that I am not a family oriented person. My cousins are either too young or complete trash. I’ve only met most of my cousins once so we are not close at all. I have a older brother but we are not close either, we don’t tell each other about personal life stuff. Same with my parents, I am south Asian so they repressed me a lot and missed out of my youth bc my parents so I resent them to this day. So I don’t have many friends either which is why I have attracted many lvm in the past bc I had such poor boundaries and wanted some social inclusion. Now I’m just depressed and sad all the time.

Pardon if this turned into bit of a rant but I wanted to get some thoughts I guess

Edit: my extended family weren’t abusive per say, but we aren’t close and we don’t keep in contact