How to feel more feminine and sensual as a very petite woman (4'11, 90lbs)

girlwithasidecar · 2021-09-16T13:55:26+00:00

5'4 and 115 here (105 before the babies). Sunshinesundress covered all the big stuff but I just wanted to chime in that you aren't alone and your size will not prevent men from being attracted to you.

Accentuate what is feminine. For me, I have long legs and a small waist. I could wear tighter tops (that showed off a narrow waist) without looking trashy because I had no boobs to speak of.

Small and dainty is a definite way to be feminine. I once had a girl complain to me that "men want girls they can throw around". It's true and you can use it to play to his protective instinct. Notice outloud how big and strong he is, or how he makes you feel so safe.

I started to watch the ingenue video that Sunshine linked you and I think it's a solid place for you to start. If you don't feel sensual that's ok. Don't force that. Cute and endearing is a solid strategy.

SunshineSundress · 2021-09-16T06:42:58+00:00

I have quite a similar body type to yours. And I never had an issue with men thinking I’m unfeminine or that I wasn’t sensual enough for them. Even before RPW, when I was a mean b*tch with an edgy, unflattering sense of style, there were still men who liked me or who were attracted to me - it just wasn’t the men I wanted.

When I fixed my style, my grooming, and my looks, I got a little more attention. But do you know what really changed the game for me, what got me from feeling like a wallflower to being able to capture and keep the attention of the vast majority of men I actually wanted? I had to fix my attitude. I did a lot of work on my personality and addressed my social anxiety issues. I talked about how I did the latter in detail here. I also stopped being mean, masculine, and entitled and learned to be warm, feminine, and friendly. Once I took care of both those things, men showed A LOT of attraction for me, small tiddies and petite booty and all.

Guess what: men like variety. Kim Kardashian is not the only type of woman that men are physically attracted to. As long as you look healthy and fit, and you aren’t severely underweight with your ribcage sticking out, a lot of men still like women who are built like Ariana Grande and Sarah Hyland. Are there some men who don’t, who need their woman to be curvy a la Marilyn Monroe? Sure, but your goal isn’t to appeal to ALL men, but to find ONE that is absolutely crazy over you. And in my experience, there are plenty of men who couldn’t care less either way and even some who prefer petite women.

So stop blaming your lack of success in your love life on your looks and your body. If you haven’t even attempted The Art of the Bad Excuse yet, and if you haven’t fixed your personality issues, you’d be much better off working on that than worrying if your boobs are too small. If you truly feel like it’s holding you back, hit the gym for your butt and get breast implants and eat at a caloric surplus and wear 6-inch heels. But I didn’t need to do any procedures to see success, and you probably don’t need to either.

LateralThinker13 · 2021-09-16T13:45:58+00:00

A tiny little lady, properly presented, is VERY attractive to many men. Your attitude/demeanor/personality is what's holding you back.

sometimes I feel like the main reason why I have a hard time attracting men is because I am inherently lacking femininity because my body lacks sensuality.

It's in your head. It's in your lack of confidence. Google Marilyn Monroe Burlap Sack. Or look here if you just want to address physical beauty:

http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html

Read sidebar materials like Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood. Learn to be childlike, positive, supportive, and fun. You come across as unsure, nervous, unconfident, and withdrawn, and that isn't attractive regardless of what you look like... well, except to predators, that behavior looks delicious to them.

Sea_Bookkeeper_1533 · 2021-09-16T06:11:31+00:00

Hey, fellow flat girl here. 🤣 I exaggerate my curves through high waisted skirts / linen trousers ie high waisted but not tight, otherwise they would flatten my butt. A hint of cleavage helps (as does a good push up bra!) and I find small (but not kitten!) heels help.

Also if I am blessed with babies, I will be getting a boob job after breast feeding...

Inside_Ad_7292 · 2021-09-19T02:52:31+00:00

I am also 4'11, and trust me, your size is not a downside. Have confidence in your body because that is so much more attractive than any type of clothing, makeup, whatever. Total comfort inside your own skin will make you glow and will draw people to you like you wouldn't believe. My husband ADORES how I look on every level, even when I'm wearing PJ's and my hair is all crazy, because I'm totally comfortable with my body, and I take great care of it.

If I were to give advice other than confidence, it would be to ensure that you are doing whatever you can to make sure that you look as good as you can naked. I don't mean that sexually, but like, if you look at yourself in the mirror without any makeup, any clothes, etc... its as good as you can make it naturally. Work out, adopt a good skincare routine, make sure you're on top of hair removal, etc. Natural beauty is the best beauty.

Ameyfz · 2021-09-17T10:52:27+00:00

I think your physique will help you look more feminine rather than the opposite

anonyree · 2021-09-20T05:53:53+00:00

You could at least do butt building exercises like squats. Also I think you are two lean at that height. You probably need to gain weight and tone. Post a headless body showing pic for feedback.

Diamond-Breath · 2021-09-23T01:49:21+00:00

Being tiny and cute is feminine, I suggest you check out kibbe types. It’ll help you a lot.

Title	How to feel more feminine and sensual as a very petite woman (4'11, 90lbs)
Author	southoffrance13
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	September 15, 2021 4:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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