Regarding the earlier post about contacting your ex’s ex, this is a story about a woman who was able to gather enough evidence to have authorities investigate into their abusive ex

creamtart_ · 2021-10-15T09:18:58+00:00

Women have to go to such insane lengths to get an iota of justice for the abuse they go through.

I am so SO tired of how much men get away with abuse.

MadamePotpourri · 2021-10-15T15:00:39+00:00

This is such a depressing story, who knows how many women this guy traumatized!

A lesson to be learned from this story is that when a guy talks very badly of his ex, RUN. He will usually start with some sob story about how she cheated, she's horrible, she was abusive, blah blah blah. And he will usually overshare about his "evil" ex very early on in your relationship with the intention of getting you to hate her too.

It's an attempt to manipulate you into seeing him as a poor victim and feel sorry for him, plus it also deters you from reaching out to the "evil" ex to get her side of the story once the abuse inevitably begins.

This is a red flag and was discussed as a warning sign for abuse in the book "Why Does He Do That".

Educational_Pool_635 · 2021-10-15T05:43:43+00:00

Now, that's something

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