A lot of people want a well written out documentation on what you should want. And while FDS provides a clear understanding of things you should seek, boundaries you should have, and red flags you should see; it is your job to find out what you want. Your preferences, requirements, and standards are key to your process of becoming the best you you can be. It doesn't matter if those things are not common amongst other, it matter that it brings joy to you in your selection. If you like men with tattoos okay that's your preference have it. If you don't want men who work in STEM fields okay that's your requirement. If you want a man who is 6+ okay that is your standard.

Allow yourself to explore the options you have. Ask yourself what stimulates me mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually, and intellectually. This is the time for you to decide what, who, and whom you want. Remember not every HVW will be your HVM. It is perfectly fine to exclude men from your dating pool based upon what you want. Good luck ladies. Keep high valuing.