Hey all,

Just curious for those that are in the process..but living in the house still. My STBXW isn't cooking for me anymore (which is fine.. didnt expect it). But we have our daughters still in the house.. who she does cook for.

I am thinking of joining Hello Fresh again.. I really liked their quality of food. I am NOT a cook, and before anyone replies with "just buy stuff and make it yourself".. I HATE cooking. I do just about everything else in the house.. clean when I need to, laundry, fix things, work my ass off, etc. I just don't like cooking. I found that these new box food deliveries are not horrible. Mostly about 30 minutes or so of prep, put it in oven and done.

I am a bit torn because I am unclear how this is going to work out yet. If I move out eventually (hoping to in the next two months.. waiting on lawyer responses, etc).. and my girls stay here.. she'll be responsible for them. I know she will.. she's good about that. But for the time being.. I feel like if I buy just enough food for me.. and cook for me.. that is OK.

I am going to pay for mortgage.. which is 4/5 of all our costs, and my own food. I think it's OK that she pays for PGE/water/etc and food for her and the kids, yah? Cars are paid off, insurance if a couple hundred. I am switching my cell service off of our family plan to my own account as well.