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A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’

baseballman18

December 27, 2021
139 upvotes
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https://www.wsj.com/articles/college-university-fall-higher-education-men-women-enrollment-admissions-back-to-school-11630948233?mod=e2fb
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Title A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost’
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baseballman18

Upvotes 139
Comments 27
Date December 27, 2021 12:27 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/rp9y5g/a_generation_of_american_men_give_up_on_college_i/
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https://theredarchive.com/post/1090518
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Can anyone else not stand when people (most often women) speak so loud and with heavy vocal intonations? It’s so obnoxious and such an obvious attempt at projecting power and dominance. I CAN’T STAND IT

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December 16, 2021
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[–]TheSnesLord 73 points74 points75 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Why is feminism not fixing this problem? I thought feminism was about equality? I thought feminism helped men too?

[–]wildrook 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It never was.

[–]TheSnesLord 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know, I was being sarcastic.

[+]EnvironmentalWar4627 -60 points-59 points-58 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Wait... do you think for feminism to be about equality and be beneficial to men...they need to be addressing every single problem men have on a global scale?

There's no need to desperately try to make every article about feminism.

[–]TheSnesLord 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Poor effort again.

[–]Man_of_culture_112 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She is just quoting what feminists say

[–]az226 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A man of culture, I see

[–]Jepekula 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Has feminism ever addressed a single problem men face?

Of course not, the whole ideology is founded on hating men.

[–]Bara-enthusiast 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. Yes. If they want to claim a monopoly over gender equality, yes

[–]LorainneSin 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why won't feminists address the bare minimum? Women are beating and raping men at RECORD NUMBERS and you don't even give a fuck

[–]sgt_oddball_17 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The new generation of College women are going to have to either give up Hypergamy (I crack me up!) or be one of several "sister wives" to the few remaining college guys left . .

[–]Man_of_culture_112 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The student debt really gets in the way

[–]mikesteane 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The problem with university is that the people awarding the degrees are also the people providing the tuition. Assessment and training should be completely separate. Imagine if driving schools could issue driving licences. If assessment were separated from training, the cost of a university education would fall through the floor. It's an abusive monopoly.

[–]Man_of_culture_112 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

good point. So government regulation?

[–]mikesteane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Degrees should be awarded under government mandate and those doing the assessment should have no connection with the candidates. Those providing the training should have no special privileges i.e. the requirements to get the qualification should be published for all to see and anyone should be allowed to provide training as required by those who need it.

[–]nooneinteresting-1 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Open University ftw! Plenty of certification you can do for free and put on Resume/CV

[–]mikesteane 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And in my opinion, it carries more weight than a regular university: it shows the ability to organise yourself and follow through on a long-term plan without oversight. I strongly recommend the OU.

[–]Matthew351111 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

men are sick of being told that we're evil and women get extra help and are constantly encouraged...This doesn't happen for our young men.

I am afraid we're about to take a massive fucking shit when it comes to our leadership in science and tech.

[–]elebrin 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We already are.

When you have a situation where men can work hard on themselves and at their profession, then gain the favor of a woman and the opportunity to build a family, then men WILL work hard to build themselves up to be that sort.

If that opportunity for men doesn't exist, you'll have some minority of men who build wealth for themselves at the expense of everything else from morals to family, and other men who will do a bare minimum to get by and live a very simple, cheap life possibly off the backs of others.

[–]Flashy_Glove6208 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly this, no family/ children = no motivation = bare minimum effort or 100% focus on holding wealth for men alone.

The social contract is broken. It took 40-50 years to break the social contract (1960-2000/2010). Men's reaction to the change started en mass since 2000/2010.

[–]silvrado 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

China is laughing it's ass off... "this too easy."

[–]baseballman18[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact that there is nearly zero media coverage of this tells you how much society cares about boys and young men. They rather worry about girls/women being merely looked at the wrong way. Pathetic

[–]RunawayGrain 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reminds me of the days when in college and when I was a college admin. Back in the 80's, most of the guys I was in college were already proficient in their chosen field by the time they entered college. Probably at least on par with the professors supposedly teaching them. Most were just there doing the busy work to get a piece of paper to wave in front of an HR shill.

So forward to the 90's. At that point I was a college dean, as in head of a department. In something we saw happen frequently, a girl had graduated with an English degree while mom and dad were 'under the impression' she was getting a pre-med degree. Anyways she's up at our front desk, and moms having a complete meltdown at our staff about it. Mom leaves screaming something about suing and owning the school when she's done. We never heard from either of them again.

Fast forward to now. The daughters looking at schools. We have several name brand schools close by. Due to her being a minor she has to go with my tax returns, and due to that she can expect almost no financial aid. The name brand schools all came up with a close figure of $480,000 for a four year degree. The local tech school school figured it at around $8,000 up front for a two year degree, which would be guaranteed to transfer to the four year schools. She stated it's a no brainer, especially since she'd prefer to do it all online.

But that's the contrast. In the 80's guys were already being pushed to explore prior to college, and just saw the degree as a means to an end. Then somehow it got into folks heads that everyone needs a college degree. Then there's an influx of easy loan money and thus an influx of kids who are just in a program to please mom and dad. In turn the schools created all these idiotic fluff degrees and courses to cope with students who really would have been better off elsewhere.

[–]Glum-One816 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll go for online schooling because it's flexible and better for me.

[–]besmircherz 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Any free host

[–]JayMeadows 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Earning a Degree is almost pointless these days.

Almost.

[–]mikesteane 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The problem with university is that the people awarding the degrees are also the people providing the tuition. Assessment and training should be completely separate. Imagine if driving schools could issue driving licences. If assessment were separated from training, the cost of a university education would fall through the floor. It's an abusive monopoly.

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