Today, the sexual assault allegations against that dude who played Mr. Big came out. I can’t say that I am surprised.

This is a character who in the original “Sex and the City” column was based on Ron Galotti- some Conde Nast executive who started a magazine with $50 mil from Weinstein 👀 and who started his career by launching a brothel. 🤔

But these are facts I just found out. What makes me not surprised that the character/ actor was probably a rapist (We all know that the audience will never look at the character the same way again) is how he treated women.

I just feel that this is karma. I never held the producers and writers of the show personally responsible for my bad sex life in my 20’s… until I joined FDS a couple years ago and looked back at why I started having casual sex and where this “great idea” came from. I don’t think I’m the only one who feels some type of way about this show.

As we all wonder how many people knew who this person really was, and the things he probably did on set- which we all know he likely did- let us never forget to hold the writers responsible.

And anyways… this is a lesson for all of us on what being a pickme and chasing a Mr. Big gets you… a stupid prize- an emotionally abusive man who is likely a rapist.