Are we allowed to ask for relationship advice here? You guys seem to be the most knowledgable in this type of thing.

drallcom3 · 2014-02-05T18:39:07+00:00

Try /r/askTRP

Piroko · 2014-02-05T18:26:59+00:00

"LANAAAA!!!!"

"WHAT?!"

"Danger zone."

But no, seriously you're being used.

logically_ · 2014-02-05T18:31:05+00:00

Forget about her. There's so many girls out there. I can assure you she is nothing special at all.

If you aren't getting what you want out of a relationship, then what's the point?

Invalidity · 2014-02-05T19:15:23+00:00

There is no relationship advice for you because you aren't in a relationship. It's a give and take: you give she takes. Instead of giving into what she wants, use her for your wants.

Some would call it manipulation, the right mindset would consider it using the situation to your advantage. See other girls. Talk about those other girls. Take the focus off her and place it on to you. If she leaves, you're better off without the headache. If she complains, ignore it and continue your own agenda.

Pull a girl into your reality. The only thing that matters is you and what you want, and if someone is giving you what you want, they don't get your time and attention.

robesta · 2014-02-05T18:38:23+00:00

Yeah, stop seeing her. Stop giving her attention. Start setting other women.

thedarkerside · 2014-02-05T18:52:37+00:00

Yep, Next.

enticingasthatmaybe · 2014-02-05T19:00:24+00:00

Next her; spin plates

FortunateBum · 2014-02-05T20:14:37+00:00

She's turned you into an orbiter. Now you know.

ioncehadsexinapool · 2014-02-05T21:48:16+00:00

Thanks for the support and advice guys i really appreciate it

themoor · 2014-02-06T01:05:30+00:00

Next her HARD. No contact. Delete numbers, etc. No texts or emails. Respond to nothing. Hit on other girls.

.... funny thing is, within "no time" - month, change of seasons, her being dropped by some tool after their fling, a year - she'll be back wanting to ride your dick easy if and a BIG IF you do that whole "shut it all down" thing above and go find other women. She'll make it easy for you too.

Report back.

FemtoG · 2014-02-05T20:17:04+00:00

You're a chump. She knows exactly how you feel.

Seriously move on, don't even think about her again.

Abbrevi8 · 2014-02-06T02:12:50+00:00

Move on to the next one mate, she's dragging you like a fish on a line.

NakedAndBehindYou · 2014-02-06T09:15:59+00:00

/r/asktrp

someboringdude · 2014-02-06T00:56:21+00:00

From what i gather she is stringing you along. Just cancel that bitch like Nino. I suggest cutting ties with her. For all you know shes keeping you on standby in case she has another dude she is feeling and it doesn't work out with him. Also by hanging out with her your'e putting her on a pedestal. She is aware of whats happening, she is aware you've tried to sleep with her. She knows you want the poon and she is aware that she is denying it to you.

My immediate suggestion is cut ties with her. In the event that you don't want to cut ties with her, then remove her from the pedestal. Start seeing other girls. Make sure she knows you're seeing other women as well. Talk about them, show her pics of other girls on your phone. Focus on letting this bird brain that she isn't the only monkey in the jungle.

Another thing id like to tell you is , make sure that next time she says 'I love you" to you, stop her dead in her tracks. Let her know that love is not a one way avenue. It takes two to love and that unless it becomes mutual she shouldn't say that to you anymore. And that at the present moment love is not something that you want to engage in. My two cents.

Title	Are we allowed to ask for relationship advice here? You guys seem to be the most knowledgable in this type of thing.
Author	ioncehadsexinapool
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	February 5, 2014 6:20 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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