Is it manipulative if you try to get to know her better? She's passably attractive among most people's eyes, I see her get looked at alot, she's pretty. But I just find her sexually incompatible, she feels something but I do not. She's pretty but she's not completely my type. And it really hurts my conscience, at the same time, it just feels nice to finally have someone care for me.

Moving back to relatives away from the city for a couple of months, she would drive hours just to get to me. I didn't think much of this until I realized that her over affection might just be harmful to her and me. She even did things such as paid for my past auto accident, and those were confusing and stressful times. I'd gladly pay her back (working on it right now) but I feel messed up. She knows I'm not committed, yet I feel like I owe her. Am I confused, she trying to husband me up? What's the best approach for this scenario?