I start dating recently and I realize how toxic it is in this Modern Dating world. There are toxic advices on TikTok targeting how to be manipulative, how to play games and how to be hot and cold etc to make other people confused so they fall for you.🙁🙁🙁 I believe being toxic and playing games only attract toxic people.

Anyway, I joined RPW recently and I love all the posts on this forum. It is really refreshing and I learned so much from you guys! I want to share my personal experience. I start seeing this guy and something was bothering me. So instead of being passive aggressive or angry or ghost him(like what I would do in the past, or like I am a modern woman and you should respect me blah blah), I decided to follow what I learned from this group which is to be vulnerable and be feminine. It works out really well and he opens up to me too and told me how he felt about me(it's so sweet). He told me that me being vulnerable makes him want to protect me and it is very refreshing to have someone like me😋😋 I am so happy!!! BTW, I live in a liberal city with tons of highly educated women and feminist movement etc.