So, I am one month into not dealing with or thinking about men. That looks like not doing anything to actively meet or connect with guys. (Reddit is the only time I allow myself to think about the topic.) I do not read about it, watch videos or discuss dating with my single friends. I will listen if they have a (usually frustrating) story, but not bring it up myself or continue the conversation. No more pity parties or trash talk! No more focus on the scrotus. I also did avoid an outing with a couple of friends "on the prowl" as I didn't want to be around that energy or maybe get caught up in some pickup f*ckery. I am in therapy, looking at better jobs (while I have a good job I don't hate), reading a lot and getting back into exercise (can't wait to do it outside in spring). My life is AMAZING. I feel so much more confident, look better and have 1000X more energy. I read that a woman's chance of marrying goes down by 40% with each 16-point rise in IQ. Well, I was married once, and I certainly feel like I have wised up a lot since then! Peace, you all! Never compromise. Be 100% yourselves.