One of my closest friends for like 15ish years has recently started going out with a new guy. The whole relationship has been rather mind-blowing to me but it’s apparently super serious now and I’m legit afraid for her.

She just recently ended her 11-12 year long relationship and started going out with this new guy. They’ve been going out a little less than 2 months. Since then she’s been basically non-communicative with me, even though I’ve reached out like we always have. She rarely answers now. From the tiny bits I’d gathered along the way I’d been suspicious of this new guy but never let on anything to her.

I’ve now found out they’ve already moved in together (they did after about 2-3 weeks) and she’s planning on marrying him. However, I see so many red flags, and after things I’ve recently heard I’m honestly afraid for her safety.

This entire time I’ve been a bit hurt that we never talk anymore. Now looking closer I feel like he’s cutting her off from her friends. She has never been this way about a guy and I don’t know how to approach it. I’ve seen her response to others that make her mad and she cuts them out. I don’t want her to do that to me as I’m afraid she needs a friend now more than ever. But I also feel like I need to ask if she’s honestly sure of all of this.