And are respectful, empathetic and consensual with women, you can easily get it. Possibly even tonight in some cases.

In fact, there are many communities in the alternate/open sex life where you can easily be invited to partake in having fun with women. Yes even beautiful women.

I have personally joined some of them.

My life partner has as well.

It’s actually are best spot where we find potential unicorn applicants.

Unicorn meaning a partner whom we both view as a second partner, in our case female as she is bi and I am not.

The alternate open sex lifestyle is very fun, especially when you find securely attached but highly sexually open people.

There are people from all walks of life there.

Married; single, relationships, multi relationships, subs, doms, etc.

Anything and everything can be found here.

The key to being a regular in these communities is good communication; bedroom etiquette, bedroom skill, hygiene and the prior traits I mentioned above relating to women.

It’s kind of like the mafia in terms of your rep.

When you are in, you are in.

But when you f up and are out.

That’s pretty much it.