Hey Guys!

I have been talking to this girl that I met on Matrimony sites, we both live in different cities and states. We talk on a somewhat daily basis at the night for like 3-4 hours. I like talking to her, she's a good conversationalist. WE text less and call more. We talk a lot about the NSFW topics. a couple of days back we had phone sex, we roleplayed a scenario over the call and I kinda made her masturbate....so yeah. things are getting really hot. She's not complaining about anything. She doesn't send me any NSFW photos of her. I did ask her for those, it's ok if she doesn't. Here is some stuff you guys need to keep in mind - as per what she told me, I don't think I believe all of this

  1. She's not active on any social media - there are profiles but not really active -ex 0 posts on Instagram
  2. She has never used Tinder or any dating app
  3. She has had 5 relationships 2 serious and 3 casual (she's had sex before - that's ok for me)
  4. She is single for the past 6 years
  5. She said she still talks to one of the guys(who is married now) she had a serious relationship - she said "I don't initiate talks with him, it's very rare, only when he messages me I reply"
  6. I asked why she broke up with him, she said it was very mutual and that they both had various aspirations
  7. She is smart when it comes to people.
  8. I've only known her for 4 weeks.
  9. She only sends me old photos of hers like 2019 2020 and some 2021, most prolly she's become fat, and cuz most of the 2021 pics are just of her face and shoulders
  10. I video called her yesterday and she agreed though, I think she's a bit fat.
  11. She's not close to her father, her father was away for most of her childhood
  12. She is the single sole earner for her family - which I appreciate
  13. She tells me her parents don't get along and they always keep fighting, and that there is no love in between them, she's close to her mom more than her dad.

So yeah, Am i ignoring obvious red flags, we don't have many hobbies in common. I feel I'll not know her completely until I have met her in real life, what do you guys propose I do?