I’m surprised to find mostly women here. And frankly some hateful posts

Mari_Mari_Mariana · 2022-05-01T13:58:52+00:00

When I try to interact here, I do my best to be empathetic while still speaking the truth. I'm sorry your experience with women here have been negative and I apologize if I ever was a part of them.

One thing I try to show here is how women's standards aren't as uniform as some guys think. I want an attractive partner, but the things I find attractive don't always match the masculine stereotype TRP tries to sell and I am not the only woman who think that.

mammajess · 2022-05-01T09:36:13+00:00

Really? I hate the grifters and I think people are mostly harsh about that? I think the women like myself are here to provide support and alternative perspectives. I'm sorry this is your experience 😔

vcreativ · 2022-05-01T12:18:06+00:00

Dunno about hateful posts, I am sure there are some. It's a contentious topic and not everyone on reddit is, say, content with their lives (sorry?). So yeah, absolutely expect the odd triggering.

PUA stuff won't improve your social skills. At best, it shows you how you can manipulate some women into sleeping with you.

Improving your social skills is both easier and considerably more meaningful. Find an activity you like, then a corresponding club, there'll be people that you can interact with. That will improve your social skills, being around people without having an objective of trying to sleep with them.

And you know what, you might actually have some fun.

uuuggghhhhhh9 · 2022-05-01T22:11:51+00:00

My personal two cents: I’m not looking to shame guys who are struggling to find a sense of community, or are desperate for answers that aren’t the generic ones they’ve been hearing all their lives. I’m shaming the guys who try to “recruit“ those lonely guys by convincing them that the truth has been deliberately hidden from them all their lives, that “truth“ being ideas that women are nothing but a vapid hivemind of semi-conscious animals who’s pre-programmed biology you can manipulate to your advantage.

-Faoladh- · 2022-05-01T14:46:07+00:00

But red pill isn’t improving social skills, it’s using manipulation tactics on the assumption that all women are stupid, shallow and formulaic methods are going to bag them before they catch on to your shit. And for the last fucking time stop telling women what they actually think is nonsense then wondering why we think you think we’re brainless and all liars. We are not. Yes many of us would actually prefer to fuck someone overweight, broke, not congenitally attractive etc if they don’t treat us like trash because what’s the point of being with someone with lots of money and looks if they make you feel horrible inside. Women are in this sub because no one coming out of red;I;l knows how to fucking listen to women and what they actually want. You’re in this mess because you guys constructed this idea in your heads. YOU value wealth and status, told women that’s what they should want as well because we’re just arm ornaments without our own shit going on then, act upset when you think that’s all women want from you. Meanwhile there’s women with 10/10 bodies throwing themselves at losers, gross morbidly obese men even, because they’re so emotionally abused and manipulated that standards go out the window. You clearly still think you know better so stop acting like you want to know what women think. You’ve already made up you’re kind that you know and therein lies the problem

absolutebeginners · 2022-05-02T22:24:18+00:00

If you see hateful posts, report it. Nobody does, hard to moderate something if nobody is reporting it.

bk9900 · 2022-05-01T15:29:15+00:00

Hi, I really feel you are projecting on me a lot of your anger. I’m sure you have your reasons and I don’t want to judge. I don’t think anything about all women, I really don’t. I do think that in general women are attracted to to good looking guys with good personalities. I also am saying that the RP is encouraging working on yourself and to stop be a victim, which is positive, along other destructive ideas.

Believe me stating these simple obvious facts can go a long way if someone is deep inside.

The RP by the way is not saying that women are attracted to money to my knowledge. That’s why I think judging the judgmental tone towards people that you don’t really know doesn’t really help.

bk9900 · 2022-05-01T13:45:06+00:00

Going out and chatting with random girls does improve your social skills and it’s fun. You don’t have to be manipulative to do that. There’s a balance.

I’m not saying it’s the only way, though it is tough to find a situation when you are constantly talking to new people. Traveling alone is great for that as well, when you are in an activity it’s just another group of friends.

It does get toxic I know that. But that what I meant for ex red pill, another one dimensional view of the world isn’t better than the former, it’s not all or nothing. Some ideas are great and some aren’t. Being fanatic is the source of the deep issues. If you think looks doesn’t matter and that all women are attracted to duches you need help.

Knave_of_Opossums · 2022-05-05T02:13:13+00:00

Most comments are about how pathetic the guys are? Where????

imagine_its_original · 2022-05-05T15:33:14+00:00

Honestly... reading this sub makes TRP look more interesting. The underlying philosophy of TRP is that men should be true to themselves and not define their personality around women. Some of their strategies are a tad stupid like the shit tests which just seems like a mental trick to stop guys from automatically catering to women while thinking that will make them "better people".

In another thread about "the cringiest thing the red pill made someone say"... some woman stated that she visited a male friends house and he got up to get a soda and she asked him to get one as welland his roommates told him to make her get it as it was a shit test... he ignored them, got the soda, and apologized later to her after they left.

This story here is the perfect example of why TRP attracts men and she doesnt even see it in her story. First... the guy remained her "friend" (i wonder why). He apologized for his roommates as though he needs to apologize for other people's behavior. His blue pill moment was not standing up to his roommates and telling them to not disrespect him or his friends. His roommates being the idiot people they are don't get "it" because they think they can break down being a self aware man in to a script... I am sure she thought the guy was "nice" but he had NO philosophy... it was "oh. I don't want my roommates mad at me. I don't want this girl mad at me". Apologize to everyone and stand up for nothing and hope that everyone likes me. The TRP attracts the guy who apologized to the girl who sees his lack of a backbone gets him nowhere. He probably saw his asshole roommates achieve more success than him (even as jerks, at least they adhered to a philosophy and stood by it with conviction). Of course TRP will be enticing to him if it crosses his path.

This entire sub tries to replace a philosophy for men trying to escape a life catering to other peoples emotions.... with male bashing. This sub is doomed if you think you can deprogram them by offering them only what they were trying to escape.

You guys need a more male affirming philosophy if you want this sub to be any more than just another feminist circle jerk.

Just my 2 cents...

Gaddammitkyle · 2022-05-09T22:37:55+00:00

Yeah it's a slight bummer. Not all of em are bad though. Lot of em here do wanna see us freed of the pessimistic loops we get trapped in due to our relationships with the girls we want and the guys we are.

Title	I’m surprised to find mostly women here. And frankly some hateful posts
Author	bk9900
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Date	May 1, 2022 6:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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