How can women feel so little empathy for these guys? Women talk at length about the aging process and the sadness of becoming sexually invisible. It is accepted as something to talk about and take very seriously as it has a big impact on people (people who experienced a life of being desired).

That same experience but exponentially worse is the lot of many guys at the bottom. But society doesnt care or talk about them. The hope they are given is to be a good worker and 'buy' 'love'. But they will never be desired. And the havoc that this is known to wreak on post-wall women, being dwarfed by what those guys experience, is ignored.

What does this say about how society views men and women? I genuinely want to be proven wrong. Not told I'm wrong, but proven. I want proof that society cares about these guys but I don't expect to hear that.