Be Confident

xvszero · 2022-05-11T22:03:35+00:00

The only next step is to have her chase your validation

Or you could not be a psycho and just treat her like a human being.

Signed, someone who also "gets pussy" (ie has sex with my wife) AND knows how to obtain and maintain a longterm mutually loving relationship.

The rest is probably fine though. Having a plan is ideal. Don't ask someone out then ask her what she wants to do, that's just putting the burden of setting up a date on her. Tell her your plan and let her give input on it if she doesn't like one or another part of it.

Setting up dates in the future is good too. I don't get how anyone does same day anything.

Nurse_inside_out · 2022-05-12T01:29:29+00:00

I'm not sure if you sound like an ex-redpiller but you definitely sound like a twat

Technusgirl · 2022-05-12T03:13:59+00:00

Having a woman chase your validation will eventually lead you to losing that woman. I've had guys do this too me, it makes feel like they are just not into me and I'm not in any way a priority to them so I break things off.

Male_Inkling · 2022-05-12T06:33:28+00:00

Sorry but you sound like a dehumanising psycho and your post is full of red flags, starting for "get pussy"

Women are not objects, the build of a relationship is not a persecución, pussy is not a price.

Grow the fuck up.

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PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2022-05-12T02:24:49+00:00

Good for you. But can I ask what the point of all this is? Sounds like a lot of time and effort for a few minutes of pleasure. Is it validation? I am not mocking. This is a honest question. I am not a westerner and I have no experience with dating. So I try to figure out what westerners' motivations are from their actions.

WhoDoomsTheDoomer · 2022-05-12T07:24:31+00:00

Don't confuse this with thinking confidence is inherently attractive. Being confident is an expectation. Meeting expectations isn't all that attractive

Title	Be Confident
Author	UrALittleBitch69
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	May 11, 2022 9:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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