Hey guys I’m in need of some guidance. My wife has been threatening me with divorce this year more than enough to the point where anything she does or do to make me happy, it doesn’t phase me anymore. She turns every little things to big issues.

I’ve have been working on my self to stay fit and healthy for my son and her. I’ve gone from 162 to 145 in a span of 6 months. But I’ve been gaslighted in every way. “You’re starving yourself”, “you’re nothing, but meat and bones”, “ you most be cheating” etc

If I decide to take a rest day or two. I’m called “useless and lazy”. I cook, clean, pay all the bills, and pack food for the family.

We both work, but each time I buy something for my son or for me hobby wise, she always burst out “ why are you using my money or stop using my money”

She just got back from a trip visiting her friend, and I was super cool about it. But when I told her I’m going to take a solo trip to visit my father she say “if you want a divorce, then go ahead.

Fellas this is some toxic behavior I’ve been noticing.