Men drawn to red pill typically have an anxious attachment style. They are eager to please and raised by functionally single moms with either absent or weak fathers. They try to please women by earning good boy points and making them happy. And when they get burned badly, either by an avoidant woman who mistreats them or by women who don’t like anxious attachment men trying to earn approval, they find red pill.

Red pill at its core is an ideology designed to teach avoidant attachment style. In fact, it encourages men to embrace avoidant attachment style and tells them that every woman on earth will have the same avoidant attachment style unless these men learn to manipulate them successfully. The goal is to turn all women into anxious attachment style through manipulation. It absolutely destroys the insecure women that fall for red pill men. And red pill men feel temporary powerful while they use these manipulation strategies, but they are ultimately unfulfilling and destructive to every relationship he’s been built.

This right here is why red pill is often only the first step for men looking to get healthy. They start off with attachment issues and use red pill as one possible answer to fix their attachment problems. Many men come out the other side, as is happening on this subReddit. There needs to be a second answer to catch the men who move on from manipulation games.

The next step is to fix attachment so that you are completely out of the game and can find healthy partners to love and bond with in the way you’ve always wanted.