What would be anyone's advice on communicating with women?

Tttten_ · 2022-07-25T05:28:52+00:00

Don’t see it as a conquest of some sort. Take your time with each and every person you deal with.

vcreativ · 2022-07-25T08:00:24+00:00

So you're interested in picking up social skills, makes sense. One should note, these will differ between people since characters are quite different. Some people are quick to get to know, others slow.

Personally, I'd steer clear of substances (including alcohol) altogether.

Bars are a no-go? Hmm, I quite like bars tbh. Even on my own. Though I'd bring a book, I like the soft buzz of people in the background.

But enough about me. If you're looking for basic social skills you need to spend time with people. And regularly. I wouldn't be going to bars/clubs for that. Instead figure out some hobbies you might like to try and do those, in a group. Just remember that when you're there, you still need to talk to someone at some point. But this is the least pressure environment you'll find.

Pick your hobby wisely, though, certain sports/activities don't lend themselves to chatting, swimming for example. It's very easy to go there, swim for a bit, maybe have a conversation in the changing room and be gone.

Sailing, by contrast, you're basically always communicating. Unless you're sailing on your own. Also have a look at the social atmosphere of the club, do they do events, say? Or is it just "all we do here is swim".

My experience is, and the same might not be true for everyone, the more you get in touch with yourself on a deeper level, the more interesting of a conversational partner you'll become to basically everyone. Hobbies or travel experiences may make you see interesting, but who you are underneath actually is interesting.

Incidentally, journalling will help, because you're getting used to putting out your stream of consciousness. Same goes for talking to yourself.

A conversation depends on two parties, focus on beginning an interaction, that should be your success criterion. If it's dead in the water, no worries. If a conversation feels forced, politely take your leave. Just don't prematurely misread the signs, other people may well not be used to talking to people, either. Not everyone is a chatbox underneath, lol.

sernamedeleted · 2022-07-25T03:12:27+00:00

Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.

Do that.

Idk445people · 2022-07-25T14:19:47+00:00

Honestly. I’m an awkward dude and can’t just walk up to someone be like “hey how are you!” The best thing I would suggest is volunteer or local groups that on MeetUp. This puts you in a setting where you have to talk to folks. This can help you build a small friend group or even find someone you like.

Also, do not take an edible. Especially Delta 8. You won’t be as social as you think.

5MinuteMentalFitness · 2022-07-26T03:13:20+00:00

It depends on what types of communication styles you are dealing with

A direct person tends to want direct no bs communication.

A covert person tends to want the opposite.

Also communication is contextual on what you are communicating.

And lastly it’s not so much about what you say but how you say it.

I highly recommend anyone struggling with how communication works take an acting class as we communicate only 30% through words, rest is tonality and body language

Shot-Cellist9635 · 2022-07-26T05:41:22+00:00

BE KIND TO HER. BE VERY GENTLE TO HER FROM THE FIRST INTERACTION. THE WORLD IS HARSH. WOMEN NEED A SAFE PLACE AND SECRETLY HOPE THAT IS IN A LOVING MANS ARMS. FROM THE BEGINNING TELL HER THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HER AND TELL HER WHY YOU ARE. BE STRAIGHTFORWARD AND ASK IF YOU CAN GET TO KNOW HER BETTER AND ASK IF SHE WOULD MEET YOU FOR COFFEE SOMETIME. ASK LOTS OF QUESTIONS ABOUT HER LIFE. MAKE HER SEE THAT YOU GENUINLY CARE ABOUT HER WELL BEING AND WHAT MAKES HER TICK. USUALLY, NOTHING WILL PAN OUT, IT DOESNT MEAN EITHER OF YOU IS BAD, IT JUST MEANS YOU ARENT COMPATIBLE. KEEP TRYING AND YOU WILL SOMEDAY BE SOME GIRLS PRINCE CHARMING. PLEASE NEVER STOP BEING GENTLE AND KIND WITH HER. NOT EVER

Title	What would be anyone's advice on communicating with women?
Author	Pomeranian111
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Date	July 25, 2022 1:18 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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