23 - in LTR with F23 for a year. She's great - very submissive, pleasant, obedient. I hold all the authority, and she does exactly what I say, happily usually, no matter what it is.
We go to college together, and over the last month or so we've had to go back to our family homes for summer. Since then, she's been going crazy. Usually this does happen when she misses me. What accelerated this was that she did something that pissed me off and wasn't willing to discuss it civilly, so I STFU for a couple days and completely ignored her. She sent me apology messages in that time and after that I let her back in. However, it upset her quite a lot and since then she's been telling me that she feels alone.
She's been acting out every 5 minutes, bringing up issues such as my past with women. When I fog, or pressure change, or STFU, she tells me I'm ignoring her, I don't take her seriously and I don't care about her feelings. I have tried to provide her with comfort but it doesn't seem to be getting through. I can sense this in her demeanor because she's becoming quite cold over the last day or so.
Usually I can handle these outbursts very easily. She seeks comfort tests a lot because of my harsh nature. But this time it seems to be never ending. How the fuck do I handle this??
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