Im a girlfriend to a wonderful guy. He just said that he loved me after knowing me for 3 years and dating for Almost a year. The problem is that he often spends a lot of time at work. He works with people all over the world so he’s up at odd hours. or caring for his sick friend ( which i met). And he’s divorced which makes him shy when it comes to certain romantic things. I see him as husband maternal but i don’t think he’s ready for that again. Im almost 30 and he’s 32. My mom says i should not be waistin time if i want to find someone serious. He is serious, he’s told me multiple times he is about me. So Is it me that’s taking things a little too fast? I do love him, so i don’t know if i can pull though breaking up with him.