Marry or get cancelled by the media. Men who don’t want to marry or turn themselves into financial services product are toxic.

whtsnk · 2022-10-09T17:52:55+00:00

Tell a woman she’s a “strong independent woman who don’t need no man” and you get lauded for your feminist perspective.

Tell a man the equivalent, and you are a rabid misogynist.

ExMuzzy · 2022-10-09T19:14:31+00:00

So men opt out because relationships are often one sided when it comes to who does the traditional stuff (providing, romancing, etc.) and plus the law favours women when it comes to child custody and the vast majority of divorces. What’s wrong with opting out? Is it the rejection that annoys them?

They claim entitlement when men complain about not getting sex but are ignorant to the fact that they aren’t owed a relationship or marriage either.

63daddy · 2022-10-09T18:04:26+00:00

The article reflects the social norm that men are expected to provide for women. It says much that men are shamed for seeking equality.

Given the gynocentric nature of society, such criticism and shaming isn’t at all surprising however.

randomgivenname · 2022-10-09T17:08:34+00:00

Ahhh yes, everything is men's fault

shit-zen-giggles · 2022-10-09T22:16:12+00:00

This is an advertisement for a book from 2 years ago. Said book has been debunked and taken apart at the time.

just for the record.

rabel111 · 2022-10-10T00:41:19+00:00

Freedom, my body my choice, bodily integrity and independence. All basic rights feminists are fighting for. Unless you are male.

Feminists are insisting that men must remain within strict traditional gender roles that support women and provide both protection and financial security. As soon as any man steps outside that traditional gender role, feminists freak out. Just shows how shallow feminists really are when it comes to understanding men and masculinity.

g1455ofwater · 2022-10-09T23:06:18+00:00

Anyone wanting fair treatment for men will be attacked by feminists. Feminists expect something like 80/20 split for women of resources and anything less than that they will condemn as toxic.

Cybralisk · 2022-10-10T00:24:46+00:00

Gotta be a damn moron as a man to get married these days. Not to mention everyone I know who got married are either now divorced or is unhappy in the marriage.

xRockest · 2022-10-09T21:21:44+00:00

Marriage is misogyny, but not getting married is misogyny as well

aknabi · 2022-10-10T07:42:20+00:00

Any threat to a grift will be met with gaslighting and harsh attacks… articles like this should be used to further highlight that women who think like this are simply looking to continue to grift off of men resources and are the opposite of a “strong independent woman”… they’re a “weak dependent man-grifter”

aerial_coitus · 2022-10-09T22:14:57+00:00

i know.

MGTOW

Angryasfk · 2022-10-10T07:58:12+00:00

And, of course, the 'Red-Piller' in the graphic is a scowling male with a huge nose, just to make the ladies feel better that they're not missing anything, anyways. 'The Guardian' is a feminist rag, full of lady issues, and is forever publishing the views of one Laura Bates, who wrote the quite awful book 'Men Who Hate Women', with its completely uninformed Chapter on MGTOW. Don't waste your time reading it. I wish I could have those hours of my life returned! Basically, the girls are getting nervous and twitchy that we might not wish to sign up to a life of peonage any longer. Tough.

PonderingMan33 · 2022-10-10T08:04:49+00:00

The facts have no source, seems like blatant misandry that is acceptable and now even demanded by society.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-10-10T05:48:03+00:00

They can't seem to get their mind around the fact that MGTOW is about men being assertive and interacting with women on their terms, as opposed to being submissive and interacting with women on women's terms

rahsoft · 2022-10-10T07:58:06+00:00

that is a very poor article/hit piuece attempting to sell grifter laura bates and to dismiss genuine concerns with the usual "oh we found someone- age 22 who left the movement because they only joined for fun".

the mental gymnastics they attempt to justify their position and refusing to address the unequal one sided rights they want. They who decry patriarchy and gender roles, want these roles when it suits them but then complain about them when the bill for their responsibilities turns up. They have been infantilized like spoilt children.

Ask any smart businessman and/or lawyer if they would get into a one-sided contract in which they stood to lose out heavily regardless of whether they stayed in, left or made it to the end, they would probably offer you a pistol with 5 empty chambers and tell you the odds are better with that. Would a feminist enter an employment contract whereby their employer can take back half of what they earned and then demand the other half over the next 10-20 years?

The state( along with feminist) turned marriage/ltr into a one-sided contract and then can't accept it when people choose not to engage. the only choice left to men is to not play this loaded game. its not as if men ride off into the sunset happy forever, they would have to give up children, relationships, some social interaction and participation in society. there are NO winners in this for anyone....

It's time for these people( feminists and their enablers) to grow up and live their own lives on their terms and live with the mess they created. They can come back to the grown ups when they've decided to apply genuine equality and responsibilities.

2022-10-09T21:49:38+00:00

I love how they bring Mike Pence into it like he said “yes men go be MGTOW”.

CommissarSteel56 · 2022-10-10T13:57:24+00:00

And then there are men, like myself, who want to get married and settle down who are ridiculed for it. Or passed over for men who don't have any way of providing for either the woman or the child.

I know I am complaining here but it hurts... I accept any ridicule this group may have against me for saying this.

owlsore · 2022-10-10T20:56:28+00:00

Lol.

The only thing I see here is an overweight, post-wall woman screeching because she's drying up into irrelevance and has no man that wants to stick around for longer than a week.

hawkeyepitts · 2022-10-10T23:54:15+00:00

“You won’t let me use and abuse you so you’re toxic and hateful towards me!”

It’s the ultimate narcissistic way of thinking.

EvidencePlz · 2022-10-09T22:22:41+00:00

I got a virus or malicious something alert while trying to visit this site?

Jukingku22 · 2022-10-10T00:39:45+00:00

I look at feminist/blatant misogyny subreddit. Then i look at MRA and antifeminist subreddit. Its just constant bashing on both sides. Theres no solution or end in site. Will this battle ever end? I feel like this war is whats causing the suicide rates for women and especially men to skyrocket. No one knows there purpose anymore and young boys and girls aren’t receiving guidance. This battle will never end if one side see’s itself as the victim and the other as the oppressor because no matter what the “oppressor” does to the oppressed to show them they arent oppressed, they will pull out certain cards or statistics that are out of context or look like they mean something until you look deeper. Theres never gonna be a dam end

2022-10-10T14:51:13+00:00

Lmao, what a nonsense take on the article. It sounds like you didn't actually read it.

The_Banana_Monk · 2022-10-10T00:38:07+00:00

Reading what mgtow is about from this article makes it sound like the male version of the extreme feminist

Lanky-Bank-320 · 2022-10-10T16:05:03+00:00

They know the reason they just need a coping mechanism

Title	Marry or get cancelled by the media. Men who don’t want to marry or turn themselves into financial services product are toxic.
Author	NeoNotNeo
Upvotes	175
Comments	52
Date	October 9, 2022 5:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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