Gym date - good idea?

SirKolbath · 2017-09-13T18:23:41+00:00

So, is it a good idea and how can I pull off kino there?

No, it isn't. The gym is sacred. It's your place to improve yourself. I would never invite a woman to my gym. There are too damn many of them there as it is, texting furiously and Tindering frantically while they check their makeup in the lifting mirrors and walk half a mile on the fucking treadmill.

There are two women at my gym who sweat. One is a decathlon competitor and one is the fucking owner. Everyone else is either a college girl pretending to work out (Why did you put on full makeup to sweat, princess?) or a goddamn dirigible who won't make it two weeks before she stops coming.

If you want to work out with her, take her flabby ass to Planet Fatness for pizza. Stay away from gyms where people are trying to get serious work done.

MattyAnon · 2017-09-13T18:41:18+00:00

Gym date is a fucking terrible idea.

1 - the gym is your temple.

2 - women are very shy about how they look without makeup, and full makeup at the gym is also terrible, and she'll sweat and hate it

Counterpoint: it's good for touching.

ScottDurden · 2017-09-13T19:58:19+00:00

Story time.

Yesterday I was crushing shoulders when a couple with a significant SMV imbalance walked in the gym. The girl was a petite blonde, early 20's, HB8. The guy was skinny, pale & not much hair left.

Within 10 minutes of being there the girl was being chatted up by 4 guys (not necessarily Chad's but much higher SMV than the boyfriend). The boyfriend looked like a helpless animal.

Unless you're a top 5 Chad in your gym it's not a good idea.

NavyBlueCrow · 2017-09-13T18:51:38+00:00

Temple like guys above said. Once I met a girl from my gym who wanted to fuck but you know what? I didn't wanted that, I mean she was hot but you don't shit where you pray.
Gym? You mean the place where a lot guys are top5% Chads? Yea, looks like great place to impress her.

Eating-mushrooms · 2017-09-13T20:06:37+00:00

Not a first date. Terrible idea. However my LTR and I have separate gyms and occasionally we will go together.

-HeartOfDark- · 2017-09-13T18:20:58+00:00

Help her with some exercises. "Correct" her form with your hands and make sure she squeezes her chest. Tell her she looks good. Etc.

GayLubeOil · 2017-09-13T18:20:08+00:00

You don't even lift which means that you are not a member of the Red Pill Community, which means that we shouldn't answer your questions or even look in your general direction.

Westernhagen · 2017-09-13T21:10:20+00:00

Anecdotally, the gym I go to now is very "male oriented" (i.e., mostly squat racks and bench stations, literally NO aerobics machines). Girls who use it are pretty serious; they do squat, bench, snatch, etc. There are two couples that come regularly; one couple is married, other just an LTR. Don't think they met at the gym. The guys in these couples are pretty strong but not super-Chad. Nevertheless I haven't seen anyone trying to chat up those girls. Personally, I'm not planning on hitting on any of the single girls; I am there to get my lifting done, not to socialize. I doubt I'd bring a date to the gym, for the exact same reason.

That said, back in the day when I belonged to a Big Franchise Gym, I had no problem (philosophical or practical) getting dates there that resulted in a bang. (Got the number in the gym; the date itself was always outside the gym.) Lots of women come and go in those places. And I do recall a number of LTR couples who always came to the gym together, too.

As for kino, it depends on what she's doing. If she spends the whole time on aerobics machines, doesn't seem like there'd be much opportunity there. But if she's lifting, you can always spot her while she's doing it in a way that leads to kino.

atticusfinch1973 · 2017-09-13T22:03:32+00:00

Better idea - take her to the track and run some sprints/do calisthenics, etc. Private and afterwards it's easy to tell her to come to your place and shower off.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-09-13T23:59:45+00:00

Meh it depends. It's a good opportunity for you to lead her and be confident in the dominant role because you know wtf you're doing (hopefully).

I took a girl who was into me to the gym. I'm not really into her so i didn't care about how it would play out. She would look at my arms when we were doing weights and then giggle so that was good. She was very submissive and did everything I told her to do and followed me everywhere. I was getting a lot of looks from guys so that was a little weird but I was also getting looks from other girls so that was cool. Only downside was that I did make us go through a hard workout of shoulders and legs (we finished with deadlifts) and it was like 100 degrees outside plus I was coming down from a cold so I did feel weak / shitty at the end of the workout so that didn't really help my frame.

GregorioTRP · 2017-09-14T04:27:42+00:00

I actually took a girl on a "gym date" last week. Not worth it. Not in the slightest. She made it sound like she was seriously into lifting but once we got there it became clear that she was like 99% of all the other women who spend time in the gym; doing a bunch of useless bullshit with little to no weight and a severe fear of sweating. So while I was working my ass off she was jumping around to different random shit and talking to people. Barely interacted with her at all as I was focused on getting a good workout. Never again.

TrenGod37 · 2017-09-13T20:01:29+00:00

I mean everyone is saying it's a bad idea. I say do whatever you want. Why not try it out. After all this sub is about reclaiming your freedom and doing what You want to do when people tell you otherwise. Give it a try and you'll learn yourself whether it's a good idea or not.

Title	Gym date - good idea?
Author	Andefind
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Date	September 13, 2017 6:11 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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