Posted earlier in the week;

My ex wife and I split in sept 2022. Have a 4 year old daughter that stays with her in the bigger house while I camp out at my parents until i find my own place.

We are no longer on good terms. We cut each other off, axtually I did after catching her in a useless lie. Basically she abstained from mentioning she has been seeing a colleague since a xmas party in Nov.At first I was hurt and jsalousy within but I had a semi serious new relation going too. So basically little back info… we were on the rocks for a while and never actuallt addressed any issues. Just went with a un-ventful house and paying %90 time with work and our daughter.

My ex had beem purposely sleeping with my daughter’sroom as the little one wakes up in sweats often. While I sleep in the master king tomyself . Can she not miss sleepingwutg her husband even though it seemz we still had somewhat a conn extion. We always had a very healthy sex-life. It just went cold turkey in feb 2022 and since only had sex exactly 4 times. I made valid moves showed interest AND stayed committed and hopeful she will stop using the excuse thatshe “ wants to make sure our daughter sleeps all night”

More info, during this she got a new job. New law firm as paralegal. Now im getting blatant signs, new underwear, new outfits, more makup and extra phone amd text time. Also she added little comments and promises like “i think im falling for you all over again. But yet no sex yet, still sleeping in dUghters bed.

So now fast fwd to today after I moved out in sept. We talk daily mostly about How we miss the good times etc… but she has official moved on with another guy. Other day she txted me early in the day to randomly mention she was going to the bakery to get catering for her family xmas dinner. Once she was done she called me and started really over selling she was so busy and didnt get the chance tomget all she wamtdd. By insane fluke i go check our new shared phone bill to check make a paymnt. By a hunch i look at her call and msg history. Her phone was basically pinged to another town half hour away all morning. And about 20-30 msgs and calls to a number pinging in this town.

At this point no shit. She fucking another man. And clearly somewhat serious as i saw text and calls daily to same number all month. Now i implode. As from the revelation and anger of such a un needed lie . Could of save face by just not calling me all day.

I confront her like a posesive osycho and ahe flat out denies it until. I show her the bill and call the number blocked with my phone and once the dude picked up i put it on mute and asked her who is this new text addict friend