When I got out of the elevator saw him in the middle of the hallway, she had the door half open but was still inside, he was folded in a weird position, half kneeling half crouching a little bit out of her arms reach. I gave him a side glance and stepped around him to get inside, was going to lean in to greet her but sensed her pulling away, so I just stroked her arm instead and gave another glance at the guy from above, he was straitening out now, tear streaked face, snot, had a half crazed look about him, he must have been around my weight but almost a foot shorter, I tensed up but he didn't budge so I relaxed immediately.

She wasn't very vocal about the issue but I tactfully pried her a little bit to get a better feel of the situation but not enough to ruin the mood she didn't want to admit it, but the guy has been harassing her, through friends and family, calls, texts and the like, she has no social media, not sure if deleted because of him.

He is trying to guilt trap her by playing with her emotions, apparently he is bipolar, some other stuff too, and according to her messed himself further with roids, not that I could tell, all he has to show for it is a huge gut and a mostly bald head.

As of late, has been trowing around the good old “I will kill myself if you don't take me back”, apparently dudes play this card too, have seen it a couple times by now.

To prove it, she tried to give me some grief because when he asked who I was I shouted over that I was just the plumber and to not mind me, she told him I was a friend's son, added something else but I didn't get the last part over his crying. She dropped it almost immediately when she saw my expression and actually chuckled with me.

Anyway, I'm not very invested, our relationship is recent and I'm seeing other girls, so I'm not losing sleep over it but is bothersome nonetheless. Can't shake out the feeling that my previous evening was somewhat spoiled. She was visibly stressed and it was affecting her performance.

Was mulling this over so decided to make this thread to bounce some ideas off and maybe get another perspective about this.

Have any of you been in a similar situation? How did you react? What to expect?

This was just a quick overview, I'm new to this sub so I'm not sure if my views are 'blue pill aligned' or not, but I appreciate the input.