My girlfriend never wants to get to a prenup but wants me constantly pay for everything and act wifey. Sorry, can’t have it both ways darling!

Specific-Gate-1191 · 2023-02-18T01:22:37+00:00

Girls like her are the reason men need Pre Nups

IceCorrect · 2023-02-17T22:42:39+00:00

So wife in eyes of modern women is maid and cook who work 3-4h a day top?

Ok-Translator2294 · 2023-02-17T21:37:14+00:00

She's just chasing the title "married".

Guy said what he wants, if she expected something different but still decided to stick with him then it's her fault.

A lot of women get into situationships/relationships thinking the guy would end up dating/marrying them even though the guy has clearly stated that he doesn't want that. They then are resentful as to why he hasn't changed his mind.

Extra-Strike2276 · 2023-02-17T23:42:26+00:00

In my experience most only want marriage so they can stop putting in any effort. I'm sure that's not all because I've seen one women who didn't change after marriage and my friend knows how lucky he is. However every marriage besides that one, everything changes shortly after. I've seen several where they just refuse to work anymore, and start laying about expecting to be taken care of since they got you hooked. I've seen some men change too, but not to that extent. The worst part is it's rewarded by the government if you had enough and get a divorce.

My ex wife changed completely a week after marriage. She keep working but started a fight anytime I did anything besides work. Go fishing with a mutual friend, and I must've been at a strip club. Refused to let me visit my kid because I obviously wanted to cheat with their mom. It was a constant thing and I got out quickly. Problem was If I could've stayed I'd be set for life, but I couldn't deal with it. Her family offered me a multimillion dollar business to stay, but I couldn't deal with her shit anymore. The refusal on letting me visit my kid was ultimately the bottom line I couldn't deal with. Everything was great until a week after marriage.

Uncle_Touchy1987 · 2023-02-18T01:07:30+00:00

Aww poor thing hasn’t realized that men have sex with who they can and women marry who they can.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-02-18T11:47:12+00:00

She's trying to pressure him for marriage thru feminist shaming language.

But her attitude is not supportive or wife material.

She is for the streets.

Chompys_backup · 2023-02-18T12:32:16+00:00

I recently read a twoX post where a woman was complaining about how all 3 of her last boyfriends wanted to get her to go 50/50 on rent. Apparently its "gross" because it "reduces her to a cost saving benefit."

Lets put that into perspective. Paying an equal amount is deemed to be unfair to the typical TwoXer. They literally arent even hiding their entitled supremacy any more.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1130jlf/im_not_half_your_rent/

Crypt_Ghast · 2023-02-18T10:37:23+00:00

Don't co-habitate. Best and easiest advice in the whole world. This goes for both genders.

jacare_o · 2023-02-18T15:15:55+00:00

Legal marriage is a pretty bad deal for men. Don't sign that contract. Move to a equal custody state like KY or WV, and have a non-legal marriage if she wants to be 'wifey'. If you can't find a woman who will agree to a non-legal marriage, wait. Women's fertility runs out, so they have to agree if they want to have kids. The wall is undefeated.

yaazeeboi · 2023-02-17T21:22:01+00:00

Easy, just catch a lass that’s wayyy richer than you are. Sweet sweet monies

Fantastic_Box3257 · 2023-02-18T08:32:35+00:00

I went through the link and read her posts as well as comments,that sub is a fake feminist sub where people commenting on why to do this for a man and stuff like you should have fun with more dudes before marriage,saying anything with just a women's half baked story ,if she wants validation from such whre and slts ,then she is same as them as she is looking up to them

Cut your losses when you can,otherwise you will be posting about not being able to see your offspring or how to deal with infidelity

AManWithBinoculars · 2023-02-18T12:53:37+00:00

I'm sorry, but the title on this post is a garbage take on what is happening in the other post. The relationship between the two people is fucked, for many reasons. Prenup isn't even discussed by the OP, except in one comment that I can find. These posts are garbage, and don't help the mens rights movements.

Handle-me-timber · 2023-02-18T16:12:00+00:00

Lol this girl literally sees his as an atm only. 😂

EviessVeralan · 2023-02-18T00:12:43+00:00

As long as you split housework and childrearing 50/50 prenups are reasonable.

justmemeingaround · 2023-02-18T18:45:57+00:00

Sign that prenup my man, if she leaves over that then she was gonna leave you after taking all you have

sunzi23 · 2023-02-19T00:11:39+00:00

Their use of word 'darling' is cringe. Like they just said something mind blowing.

mrlittleoldmanboy · 2023-02-18T12:29:36+00:00

Jesus, if that’s how you feel why doesn’t she just idk.. not clean his house??? I really doubt the guy would even notice, seems like he just doesn’t want to be married but wants to hangout with her whenever he gets the chance, what’s wrong here?

Squint_Squint · 2023-02-19T15:25:43+00:00

I personally don't see any benefit to marriage and I feel like most men are the same nowadays. What is the difference between being married and simply being together? The title? The ring? Like I'll get you a ring you can call yourself my wife but i will not risk losing all my shit so you can simply have a title.

autechr3 · 2023-02-17T21:33:03+00:00

While the post is pretty ridiculous, there is sanity in the comments calling her op as being a drama lover according to her post history.

It doesn’t say anywhere in her post she wants him to pay for everything though, so the prenup thing might be a bit unfair. Nothing mentioned anything like that, only that she would sell her own house if they got married.

Cranium_Internum · 2023-02-18T10:52:33+00:00

There's 100% nothing wrong with that reddit post and it has nothing to do with prenup.

Some people just want to get married and also prefer to take care of one home, instead of two. I split up with a girl just last week because she wanted to get married no matter what. It's normal for people to have their own preferences.

Moaning every single time a woman expresses a preference is just pathetic.

Title	My girlfriend never wants to get to a prenup but wants me constantly pay for everything and act wifey. Sorry, can’t have it both ways darling!
Author	NeoNotNeo
Upvotes	206
Comments	79
Date	February 17, 2023 8:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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