Advise

ReWildingOfMen · 2023-02-23T07:36:22+00:00

Recognise that there are good women just as there are good men.

It's just difficult to find them, especially if you live in a western country.

But there are good ones out there, don't slip into a form of 'all women are bad'

That's what feminists do 'all men/white people bad' it's bigoted and hateful and retarded.

Let go of romantic love for this time. Focus on your own healing and becoming as a man. Become a man of honour and of duty and of wildness and of purpose.

Shine so bright so that the woman made for you is drawn to you.

Sure be cautious around women in this current climate. And/Or move to an area less heavily populated and thus less infected with the woke mind virus.

But don't slip into seeing every woman as bad, nor seeing EVERYTHING through the lens of gender and victimhood, as unfortunately many here seem to be doing, just like their feminazist counterpart's.

Also as a man, you must come to understand the true state of the world, which includes understanding how the social engineers use feminism as part of the strategy for dividing and conquering us as a people, and thus making us easier to rule. Which includes coming to see that left and right are wings of the same bird. That no solution lies within the system which is working exactly as it is meant to work. That fundamentally EVERYTHING you believe about the world is a lie.

Also, study up on narcisism and covert narcisism until you are an EXPERT on these matters. There's many good channels on YouTube as a good start.

Good men and women, are most at risk from predators. Understand such predators and so protect yourself and those that you love.

Good luck 🤜🤛

Fun-Hedgehog-8962 · 2023-02-23T15:36:38+00:00

You know when you’re reading anecdotal comments about men, how men do this and that, and how bad they are? You know that feeling you get like “that’s not true, not all men are like that. I’m not like that.” It’s the same for women.

Don’t get caught in an echo chamber. We share anecdotal experiences and it can be easy to fall into the trap of slapping labels on people when you read more and more horror stories. But realize it’s just a label and people are so much more complex than that.

Get out more and talk to more women. They’re human just like you.

Character_Pirate_618 · 2023-02-23T09:16:32+00:00

Yes. Don't. You're fine as you are.

solar-garlic1776 · 2023-02-23T13:15:50+00:00

Why are you afraid to be around women?

Best advice I can give is be professional in any and all encounters. It's hard to not interact with women on a daily basis so you need to over come whatever fear you have.

If you do engage with a woman or women keep it short simple and to the point. Don't engage in small talk or inane chit chat. If you are at work, only discuss relevant work issues, if out and about conduct any interactions the same.

Don't let women affect you and your life. Focus on accomplishing your goals. In your every day life just ignore them if possible if you can't, again short professional interactions.

Cranium_Internum · 2023-02-23T08:06:35+00:00

Spending time excessively on a woman-hating subreddit has made you dislike women? Color me surprised!

equalRights111 · 2023-02-23T17:25:42+00:00

I feel like this question is a trap, somehow. Just a gut feeling.

cl1p5 · 2023-02-23T22:30:59+00:00

Why?

Digger_is_taken · 2023-02-24T01:40:42+00:00

Why is it that you dislike women?

OwnerAndMaster · 2023-02-23T21:12:06+00:00

Sounds like a personal issue

Maybe you're just bad at life? Or a head-case? Or both?

You don't need to hate or be terrified of half the population when they're 30 lbs lighter than you on avg and generally you're completely invisible to women unless you're in the top 20% of males anyway. Like literally, they don't even realize you exist unless you reach out to them

Make no mistake, the divorce laws ARE to be hated and feared, but women aren't snatching men up, throwing us into the trunk, and making us sign a marriage license at gunpoint

MEN ARE HAPPILY doing it to ourselves, the most a woman can do to make you marry her is browbeat you REALLY HARD with ultimatums and turn down a prenuptial agreement

Granted, the marriage strike has killed a lot of divorce so it's obvious that men are learning not to touch the stove

Don't wanna lose half your shit and pay an extra %age in alimony? Don't sign a marriage contract. "Palimony" exists but it's only like 1 state & Canada doing it

Don't wanna pay child support? Don't have kids. You literally do not have to nut in a chick. One of my buddies got a vasectomy (illegally) when he was 20. You're a man. Be resourceful & be the captain of your own destiny. There's chicks jumping states to get ab**tions, you're a grown-assed man, figure something out

Don't wanna get accused of DV? Tbh the only real solution is to never get involved in a sexual / romantic relationship. That's actually something difficult to solve because the most dedicated DV frauders will literally hurt themselves BADLY to create "proof". A good friend of mine had his ex slash herself with knives, and the only reason he isn't in jail is because he had an alibi and it was physically impossible for him to be at the address she said it happened. So basically, you're gonna have to be a strong judge of character. If she even has a little edge to her, probably wanna pump and ghost

Don't wanna get accused of sexual harassment at work? Follow the Mike Pence strategy. Only talk to women with multiple people of good character present, and only about the absolute minimum required of your professional duties. Never be alone with a woman who isn't your wife or blood relative, not even in a taxi or your own office. Never have a closed door discussion with a woman. Never drink with a woman co-worker present, no matter who else is there. Never ever ever give massages, shoulder pats, "Good Game" butt pats (if you're this stupid you deserve it), etc. Follow these rules, it'll be really, really, really hard to get caught up in sexual harassment. You can still be clipped by anon & "her word vs yours" but when you clearly do not interact with women alone and everyone can vouch for it, only the worst employers will fire you on an obviously false claim

Title	Advise
Author	Longjumping_Cry4002
Upvotes	2
Comments	44
Date	February 23, 2023 3:32 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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