Looking for dating app bio feedback

Flat_Shower · 2023-03-07T11:40:13+00:00

My only actionable feedback is to drop the Tate sentence. Reason being; the “don’t wants” in dating profiles are inherently pessimistic. Also; the “yucky-in-love” sentence. Perhaps avoid mentioning marriage on your dating profile.

I’m also not sure how I feel about the “extremely loyal” part. Totally wonderful trait. Taylor Tomlinson (comedian) has a great joke about her boyfriend telling her that a girl flirted with him and he turned her down. “Wow babe, thank you for honoring the most basic term of our relationship.” This is all to say; loyalty is the most basic term of a relationship, and of course it’s an important and admirable trait, but perhaps give me distant vibes that there’s some underlying trust issues?

SecretFeminine · 2023-03-07T11:11:21+00:00

I came to rpw for the purpose of making my marriage the best it could be so I was off the dating scene. That being said, many of us would never marry someone who identifies as rp. As such, I would never have added that to my dating profile. Also, when I read so many declared hobbies and interests, it sounds like someone trying to be generically appealing without having any real interests.

Ok-Plate92069 · 2023-03-07T16:15:23+00:00

None of this shows any personality at all and it’s a bit boring. Try portray who you are at your core in your responses!

Example, If I had to write a dating profile with your answers. It would be something like:

About me section: I’m a caring, loving and loyal girl who looks to see the bright side to every situation 🌈. I think my optimism is one of my best qualities!

hobbies/interests: I love to listen to (name favorite artists) and paint because it stimulates my creativity. I cook too, nothing taste as good fresh home-made meal ☺️.

^ Youtube doesn’t matter here, everyone watches youtube but maybe if you want you can add your favorite youtubers.

What I’m looking for: A man who is confident and grounded. Allow me to embrace my femininity and family oriented. I dream to fall in love and find something meaningful that leads to a beautiful marriage that lets us come together as a team!

Depending on what app you’re using all of this might be too wordy, you’ll have to create shorter responses that still give a glimpse of who you are. If you put effort into your profile and make your responses fun with high quality photos, you will attract the right kind of people.

butWeWereOnBreak · 2023-03-07T15:24:05+00:00

Here’s my feed back as a guy: you have shared very important personality details on yourself. I’d appreciate that while I was reading your profile. At the same time, I’d say your references to “thriving in male led relationship” can be an open invitation for manipulative men as well as those who aren’t capable of driving the relationship but will put up a front of doing so for the first few months of your relationship. Remove the reference to Andrew Tate too.

You don’t want to speak out the fact that you want the man to be confident and capable of leading the relationship - once you talk to somebody or meet them, you will get an idea on whether the man is capable of driving the relationship. However, stating that youre looking for a “male Driven relationship” will draw impostors pretending to be “alpha” and/or manipulative people.

GmanRaz · 2023-03-07T22:20:30+00:00

Dudes POV: A lot of the redpill bros are into pick up, spinning plates and getting laid as easily as possible. A traditional "red pill aware" man is what is ideal for what you are looking for. Red pill aware means he isnt using PUA tactics or trying to game and spin plates and doesnt have a chip on his shoulder for how women have treated him in the past or how his parents/society raised him to be a push over. However he is aware of male and female dynamics and the masculinity crisis and openly works against the common feminized modern male.

I'd say the most attractive qualities on a dating bio would be being very blunt and clear about what you are looking for (short and sweet) what your hobbies are and what you enjoy and dont list basic bitch things like "tacos, foodie, just ask" etc. I'd also avoid saying shit like "adventures and fur babies". Even if you like those things it all comes off so copy and paste basic. Also find pics that show off your femininity and beauty without looking provocative.

The reason I say a red pill aware dude is the best is because a traditional blue pilled guy may start off that way, but easily (because of society) can fall into simpy, beta push over tendencies. Just my 2 cents.

itburnsss45 · 2023-03-07T11:58:50+00:00

I think what you've wrote is awesome. However I would entirely get rid of some sentances and leave it like this.

I’m a humble and goofy gal who outside of work, study and gym, spends a lot of free time with family and friends. I also appreciate time to myself to listen to music, paint, cook or watch some YouTube. My favourite qualities of myself are that I’m caring, loving and extremely loyal. I’d also consider myself an optimist. Important qualities I look for in a potential partner is family devotion, high work/life drive, and being down to earth. A love for the outdoors and adventure is a great bonus!

I feel like if you write that you're looking for a male lead relationship it might attract very controlling men. As another poster said, it's not about specifically seeking out rp men who are aware of rp concepts. Rather, its about guiding your guy to have leadership qualities via the way you conduct yourself.

And as for the marriage part, that could be said in a discussion where you talk about what you're looking for, which usually will naturally come up in conversation early on (or should come up).

This newer version is shorter and straight to the point. Which is much more ideal :)

Unusual_Marzipan887 · 2023-03-07T16:23:52+00:00

You’ve all given me such great advice! Thank you so much for your detailed responses and especially your reasonings behind opinions!! And for taking the time to read it in general. I feel like I learn something new every time I’m on this sub 😁 I’ll get to work on my bio 😁

AutoModerator · 2023-03-07T10:35:13+00:00

Title: Looking for dating app bio feedback

Full text: Hey ladies (and lurking men too please lol) I’m getting back on the dating scene and need feedback/advice for my dating profile bio. Only in the last 6 months I’ve discovered and embraced my RP self so I’m not sure if I’m being too forward with anything. I haven’t posted this in other subs as I’m scared I’ll get eaten alive 😂

I’m a humble and goofy gal who outside of work, study and gym, spends a lot of free time with family and friends. I also appreciate time to myself to listen to music, paint, cook or watch some YouTube. My favourite qualities of myself are that I’m caring, loving and extremely loyal. I’d also consider myself an optimist 😇 Beyond those qualities, I’d say I’m pretty traditional. I’d thrive in a male-lead relationship, so someone confident with an inclination to lead is essential 😌 In saying this controversial(ish) statement, Andrew Tate is definitely not what I’m after haha. It’s definitely some yucky-in-love wholesome marriage between two great teammates 😎

Important qualities I look for in a potential partner is family devotion, high work/life drive, and being down to earth. A love for the outdoors and adventure is a great bonus 😁

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ThrowltAw4y · 2023-03-07T12:07:06+00:00

Im not really sure what a high work/life drive is, but the rest is fine. A man will not care too much about what you write in detail. He will get the messege that you want a traditional man. If he fits and he likes how you look than he will give you a like.

Title	Looking for dating app bio feedback
Author	Unusual_Marzipan887
Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	March 7, 2023 10:35 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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