Okay so here's the situation. I'm 21 and my ltr is 19. We've been together for 2.5 years. I moved in her dorm in university 5 weeks ago. I then moved out because she was super stressed and took it out on me. Before college started she was submissive.

So I threatened to break up with her today because she wasn't submissive and afffectionate anymore(I didn't tell her that). I told her things changed. Later on I tell her I still want to be together but she turns things on me. She says she doesn't know if she wants to be together anymore because I'm not more thoughtful of her. And that I only think of myself.

She said she wants to be more active and going out. That she wants to go to college parties with me.

I told her if she doesn't want to be together than to break it off and we'll call it at that. I said it sounds like she wants to break it off so I'll end it and she said she doesn't want that.

So I'm fairly new and have read some of the sidebar. What advice would you give me on how to handle this?