Why do I get bored of girls too often?

TheRiseAndFall · 2017-10-04T15:29:39+00:00

Welcome to the problem of today's culture. Anything you overendulge in loses novelty. Now you understand why modern women are unmarriable. This is how they all feel with the abundance of easy dick around.

I don't know if there is a solution to this. Maybe quitting cold turkey for a long while. I stopped dating a few years back. Now I am starting to feel bored with women in general. I concentrate on my own interests, goals and hobbies.

Work on your own goals and passions. Let women come and go as a side thing. If you come across a woman you enjoy spending time with then great. If not, let her go and go on as if nothing happened. Chasing women gets boring just like chasing anything else.

NiceTryDisaster · 2017-10-04T16:43:17+00:00

Like the top comment said, monogamy isn't natural. Biology wants us to fuck and move on. It is the modern culture bs of love and emotions that pushes the idea of long term relationships. Getting bored and wanting to move on is natural.
For me personally a bigger reason is that most women have absolutely nothing for personality. They lack hobbies. They can't hold a meaningful conversation. Have zero logic and rationale. Most women I have been with have had nothing to offer besides sex. Don't get me wrong, most my exs were really nice and kind despite me being a loser back then. But after the first two weeks, I just hit a dead-end and can't wait to get out of a relationship

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-10-04T18:09:28+00:00

You're not taking emotional risks.

AstuteBlackMan · 2017-10-04T17:21:42+00:00

a woman today can realistically offer

Sex
Baby
Companionship/Loyalty

Number 2 is out the question because of the way this society sets it up. Number 3 is difficult in today's age too because of how women are. So realistically she can only offer sex.

And it's not like she can offer you money(men should be focused on their own careers and money)

So really there's nothing. Worthwhile after the first nut bust.

McVaghunter · 2017-10-04T14:27:08+00:00

Same boat, except it's easy for me to ghost girls because I don't see females as humans.
I enjoy hunting more than I enjoy being with females, I love the reward of getting that pussy for the first time but once I get it, for me the challenge has been accomplished, and now I need another one.
I mean the thrill of cold approaching a random stranger and gaming her right so she would willingly give you her body for free with a smile on her face is just amazing. Relashionshits/LTRs are boring and females have nothing to offer but their bodies; no interesting ideologies, no fun activities, nothing but sex (Which I love and fucking enjoy especially if it's a new girl).

But that's just me, I enjoy what I enjoy.

[deleted] · 2017-10-04T16:24:28+00:00

I honestly can't date girls either.

When I used to have LTR's before discovering TRP I couldn't hold a relationship longer than a month or two simply because I would get so bored with her.

huge_gap · 2017-10-04T18:27:59+00:00

Cause hos be dumb.

But more seriously, you're just hitting stride with your game and realizing that the fun comes from the thrill of the hunt and not comfort/companionship.

You're evolved. You feel weird about it because blue pill land tells us to be monogomous and that every woman is a beautiful snowflake. It's all horseshit and you've taken off the blue goggles.

Also could be you just haven't been with a high enough value girl that you really jive with.

Bear-With-Bit · 2017-10-04T19:35:36+00:00

Bored

Sex is like food. There are no long lasting effects from just one night of banging, no matter how mind blowing it was.

They are really good people

Put yourself first. If they bore you, move on. It's not right or wrong, it's amoral. In a way putting yourself first may sound selfish to most but it is moral. If you can't help yourself, you can't help others. Put it another way, continuing some form of relationship just because you would feel bad to ending it is an act of dishonesty and selfishness. Check out No More Mr Nice Guy.

itsjustsimon- · 2017-10-04T14:40:47+00:00

Because monogamy is not natural.

DadOnDabs · 2017-10-05T04:43:10+00:00

I'm in the same boat. I try finding quality women (I laughed writing that) that I enjoy being around. Typically have to mix it up every few months and get new ones. Sad truth is most women aren't worthy of a relationship and are fairly boring. Try to limit your time with each one. Also read sex god method. Changes sex completely for you.

BewareTheOldMan · 2017-10-04T16:36:00+00:00

I just can't stay longer than a couple of months with a girl because I get bored. I start to see the bad things on those girls and start looking for the next one.

Bro...the answer you seek is in the SECOND part of your own statement [See above].

Modern women don't feel the NEED to work hard to prove themselves or EARN their position in your life. They screw themselves over without realizing it, and are left scratching their heads saying over and over to themselves and their friends..."What happened?"

Be a great man, but they ALSO have to be great women. Make them EARN your time, love, attention, devotion, and resources.

That is all for now...

Title	Why do I get bored of girls too often?
Author	judacedi
Upvotes	19
Comments	23
Date	October 4, 2017 2:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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