Are you a feminist man considering "dating" a woman? Conform to this impenetrable wall of jargon and get it drilled into your head.

femdelusion · 2013-09-28T15:50:10+00:00

Emotion and intuition are legitimate sources of information.

That's good news. Because I had a strong intuition of self-hatred and shame seeping out from every pore of that piece.

It's good to know that my having this feeling is, by their lights, a legitimate criticism. It saves me the effort of actually having to quote bits and explain why I disagree. I never realised just how much of a time-saver feminism was until now.

EvilPundit · 2013-09-28T15:27:16+00:00

Kindness and treating people well are valuable, but politeness can be violent if it masks normalized oppression.

I see more and more feminists equating totally non-violent things with actual violence.

They drift further away from reality every day.

AgentCircle · 2013-09-28T19:19:09+00:00

I would love to see a feminist man work up the chutzpah to make a "dating tips for the feminist woman" list. That would be equality, right?

angryman22 · 2013-09-28T19:36:34+00:00

im not reading that wall of shit.

guywithaccount · 2013-09-28T22:20:39+00:00

The first half of that was... not completely and utterly bullshit.

Writer should have stopped while she was ahead.

ProjectVivify · 2013-09-28T20:24:01+00:00

Poison. Offloading responsibility for her emotions onto the man. Typical abuse of hyperagency by stealth.

I'm hypersensitive to crap like this now because I internalised this shit when I was younger. Its exhausting and ultimately unattractive to treat women this way. It also eventually destroys any motivation on the man's part to get involved with women because of the unreasonable burdens taken up by doing so.

guywithaccount · 2013-09-28T15:10:40+00:00

Any problem that happens will be your fault because penis. Be vigilant to prevent problems before they happen. Discuss your feelings about the shame and wrongness of masculinity. If that doesn't prevent problems it's because you weren't sensitive enough to telepathically divine her feelings. Bad male.

Title	Are you a feminist man considering "dating" a woman? Conform to this impenetrable wall of jargon and get it drilled into your head.
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Date	September 28, 2013 2:59 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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