I just got home by a subway train after an evening downtown and I'm sure feminists would be up in arms if what just happened to me was done to a woman by a man.
I stood in the corner of the subway train minding my own business when 3 tipsy party girls stood next to me. They weren't anywhere near black-out drunk but they definitely had quite a bit to drink. These 3 women were the typical party girls that you'd expect to see at any club on a weekend night. They had a ton of make up on, were wearing extremely revealing clothing, and were stumbling around while talking loudly and texting on their telephones.
As the subway train began to move, the girl closest to me fell right into me. I had my hands in my pocket at the time but I wouldn't have helped her anyways as I'm not a white knight and helping drunk girls could get yourself into some trouble. Her body basically fell into my groin and my chest. She apologized and I said: "Seems like you guys have had a bit too much to drink." They said something asinine and I went back to minding my own business because I wanted no part of their sloppy, embarrassing behavior. I didn't want to tell them off because we all know what can happen when drunk girls are "slighted."
A few stops later, she fell into me once more. I had my arms crossed this time but I basically didn't flinch or attempt to help her. I didn't want to lay my hands on her just in case things would go sideways on me. When she fell into me again, her backside basically rubbed my whole frontside. She then grabbed/rubbed my arms to regain her balance, apologized and said "I'm so sorry. We're really bad and we're trouble" or something stupid like that. I said: "Duly noted." She and her friend made a small attempt to start a conversation with me but I wanted no part of it. After this, I walked to another part of the train because I decided it'd be best to not be near these girls.
This actually really annoyed me especially because of the "Don't be that Guy!" campaigns you hear about all the time. So let's flip the situation and reverse genders. Imagine 3 drunk guys standing on a train beside a young woman. One of the drunk guys then falls into the woman and ends up touching her breasts while doing so. He not only does this once, but soon after, he falls into her again having his whole body violate her personal space and personal area. He then uses her body to regain balance, rubs her arm and "apologizes." What would happen to this guy? I'm pretty sure he'd get in a lot of trouble and if the girl were to scream out, white knights would give the 3 guys a beating.
How is the behavior of these 3 women acceptable? Why is it that they can completely violate my personal space, touch my body without consent and get away with it? Why is it that women do this stuff all the time but it's men who are completely vilified as sexual predators who need to be reminded not to sexually assault women?
To be honest, I don't believe what happened to me is that big of a deal but I wanted no part of it because I have a girlfriend and because I found those women trashy and sickening. That kind of behavior happens all the time and when I used to go clubbing, I'd get groped even more than by women but that's not my point. My point is that feminists and society need to realize that inappropriate behavior happens all the time and men AND women both engage in it. It's an injustice that men are constantly demonized for things that women also do. It's an even worse injustice to only have men punished for the same actions that women do. Feminists and white knighters need to either push to punish both sexes for these types of actions equally, or they need to STFU and accept that it's common behavior among both sexes.
So I want to know, what do feminists and white knights say about women who violate a man and "sexually assault" him?
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