How do feminists who insist that (for guys) "sex is about power/dominance, not pleasure" get around the plethora of guys who are into being kinkily dominated in various ways?

I'm constantly seeing posts from radfems equating sex with power, as if for guys, it's the simple fact of being in power which is a turn on instead of anything like the woman being attractive, the situation, being touched erotically, whatever.

How do these feminists get around the fact that there are a lot of guys out there who are into fetish stuff which a lot of the time involves femdom type scenarios, even when outside of sexual activity they're not submissive? How does that square with the "sex is about power" bullshit? Has anyone ever seen an attempt to justify that or do they simply ignore the fact that a lot of guys like being dominated in the bedroom and hope nobody bothers bringing it up in the debate?